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Why would u ever think of divorcing ur wife because of one old fool.

Are u owing him anything...if he really wants his own,he should threaten his sons in laws abi na by force?
Let him use his witchcraft to buy his chicken and rice. In fact,he can enter any market and use his witchcraft to carry one trailer of rice and beans together with aboki goat for himself...abi no be so e dey work?

Pls,do not divorce that innocent woman just because of one jealous uncle.

This is the only Islamic sect in the country that don't discriminate against Christians...ask anyone about this. Rather they hate the other version of Islam that is anti Christians and other religious group in the country.

I don't have anything to say to this man.

His utterances have destroyed this country and more is still coming from him.

The only thing I can say here is that,u will surely pay for the sorrows u have caused us as a country,and the people u have made to cry by collecting their monies just to live large.

May God forgive u.

T0T0fucker:
good day all,

I really do need your mature opinions on this issue, I'm a young man in my early 30s. due to my personality am the kind of guy that flex alot. night life parties, clubbing and the rest.sometime last year I happened to be at the club, just like any other day..I took a girl home. (one night stand) we had sex and in the morning she left after I sorted her out.

She took my number though and from there we started chatting, due to how we clicked easily.. just like every other guy..I decided turn her to a friend with benefits...from friend with benefits....she started acting all up like a girlfriend. (coming to my house to pass the night and she can decide to leave whenever she wants) during this period, we had consexual sex raw because I was beginning to trust her a little.... that she wasn't really that bad.

Fast forward to the ending March this year, one issue led to another...and she stopped coming to my house...though we still talked sometimes on phone... later I got to know she got hooked with one rich yahoo boy.( which I didn't Care, because me na block on my own)

Next thing I saw on her whatsapp status was her traditional introduction rights, inviting her friends and well wishers, I congratulated her and moved on. after some time I saw her upload a pics of her baby bump.

Na wa o, na so it dey quick, fast forward to yesterday evening she just put to birth... which she also sent on her whatsapp status. retweeting her friends who congratulated her on her status.

Now, I haven't congratulated her yet, this has got me worried.. thinking.... "WHAT IF THIS CHILD IS MINE" I have every reason to believe it's mine.

1) calculating the month we broke up and had sex last to this December she gave birth is like few days pass 9 months.

2) the way she acted on the issue that made her stop coming to my place again... showed she already had this planned out (picked the yahoo boy over me because she knows am not going wife her...due to how we met )


3) the baby she uploaded is quite fair, and I also am fair in complexion. (her man is black)

With this I have every reason to believe that child might be mine.... but am really confused don't know what to do... have been thinking ever since yesterday night.

Can I fight this now or I should wait till the baby is grown?


Moving on when I know I have a child somewhere, my offsprings is not an option.. because I feel scammed already.

Don't fight it now,children do change in complexion as time goes by...however,u are on point and ensure u keep her contacts and play along most especially now that u have been able to figure out what actually happened.

Time is the key here...find out her location and pay her a visit may be in two years time. Then,u will see all the qualities u expects of ur child.

Anyone who visited his farm in 2015 would have known what Nigerians were about to go through.

His cows were badly fed which was in his nature not to see people in healthy mood,hence the poverty in the land.

The former governor of Adamawa state corroborated similar statement, he is a chieftain of APC where he lambasted the President that he enjoyed seeing people go through hardships.

Which in reality,is what most people are passing through.

Amunaotutheory:
The man had the opportunity to write his name in gold but he chose to pursue a parochial and ethnoreligious agenda. Our darling daddy Buhari destroyed Nigeria, Nigeria hasn’t ever had it this bad. So much insecurity, you can’t even go out without being scared of what is next. You can’t even travel from one region to another without being worried about what could happen.

Ur darling daddy...
Not our darling daddy,pls take note.

The rich save into an investment....that is the more they spend,the more money they make because of their various investments.

However,if u must save...let it be in an investment such as mutual funds,FGN bonds,treasury bills and commercial papers. These kind of portfolios will increase ur money rather than dwindle it.

Conversely, the poor invest in liabilities such as gambling,ponzi and living their cash un-invested in banks and other unregistered money collectors.

U see why poverty is not a quality to behold.

This man is hiding under the guise of tradition just to evade from his fatherly responsibility.

Ndi Ebonyi,make una talk to una in law.

I just want to commend ur father for the way he trained u guys,but my fear is this. He is gradually losing that boy.

He is already a spoilt brat...see we that our father no get oh we struggle,struggle and struggle till we became men and doing well today. Here is a boy with everything yet,he cant calm his head down.

Nawah for this life.
And for men who always treat their only girls like they will never amount to anything,u can see how these girls are well behaved.

U guys should arrange men to beat him like a thief before 2023,u will see the change in him.

Calm down jor.

In my house,anytime my brother in law Comes into town,we serve him food like a king. In fact,I see him as my father in law.

And it does not remove anything from us...learn not to pokenose into everything.

He is just 5 years my senior yet,we cherished him as our senior.

Learn to behave brother...u too love food.

As a family man,mine last for 1 month and some days or sometimes every 28days as the case may be.

Most times,it depends on how u cook but in ur case,i think ur vendor isn't honest.

Froshloaded:
Her beauty is overrated..
Happy Birthday to her sha



The judges are blind

U must still be a small boy,u think the contest is all about facial beauty alone...then,why do they interview them before they set the stage to eliminate contestants?

I don't know why it must be Corolla...na so them come thief my neighbours Corolla some months back...they were more than 10 that came.

Half of them had guns on them. They were mean,bold and cruel that very morning. My neighbours landlord who is an alhaji,Jumped fence to avoid being dealt with that day.

I was just watching the scene like it was scripted...May God help us in this country.

Ocholu:
I am a little bit curious Sir! What would you advise a young man seeking for financial freedom??

Start from where u are.
Save,save and invest...don't save,save and keep saving ,no!

I actually started very early knowing the direction the country was taking and my family background,I invested at first and lost most of my cash in shares about 17years ago as a second year student,then but I continued until I got to where I am today.

Another aspect is,do not be friend a liability as a girlfriend or marry such...it could drag u behind seriously and having said this,leave any environment that chokes u and find another area to start your life and become that which u have wished yourself.

No matter how Nigeria is today,there is so much money in this country,u can make only if u are determined to. So,as young man find ur niche and if it means serving someone who is ur junior,u better do and learn whatever it is under his tutelage and become ur own boss thereafter.

Wish u the best.

God really helped me.
Bought a land in Abuja worth 5million.

Bought in my villa worth 2.3million.

Bought my beautiful wife a car worth 2.5million 4 months ago.

Thank God for helping me come across some investments books in my year 1 at the university. Which has grossly shaped my mind today.

I made some dough close to 13million and still counting. I am still not done until the end of Dec 2021 to know if it will get to 14million.

The year has not been bad perse.

If u know are tired of this world,just notify your village people that u are on a mission of no return simple.

Sex is not food,as e dey sweet na so e dey kill like snake bite.

Be careful.

Even Lai Muhammed would be very surprised.

ahmedaturboy:
There is this girl at my work place i always liked and vice versa. The feeling grew to the extent that my line manager called me to ask what's in-between us both. But since I was yet to ask her out i said nothing...along the line she started given me attitude and i just immediately distant my self from her guessing someone else has come in between us.

The dating didn'tast and she came back trying to mend things. But i rejected her cos i was pained with what happened. She latter won my heart but whenever i request for hangout she do always give one excuses or the order..lately, she started having an affair with another guy in my work place..I've tried avoiding her but since she's under me she needs to report to me every evening....

The problem here is i can't control my feelings for her anymore and given the environment where i work am scared of being set up cos my work place is a devil's kingdom...

Advice on what to do pls

Be careful.
Getting a job out there is very hard. My neighbour paid 5million to secure jobs for his two sons yet no work and the man they paid the cash to has just returned it.

Control your feelings/penis and save your job. The day u loose your job,then u will know that early morning sun is no longer vitamin D as we were told.

Danremmy:
good afternoon


few weeks ago, i started seeing pus on my penis when i go to urinate, sometimes i feel pains when peeing and i pee frequently, but the pains stopped after using ampiclox beecham and anti biotic drugs prescribed to me at a pharmacy, but the pus hasnt stopped showing.

so this morning, while in toilet trying to pee, i noticed it was only blood coming out. i have peed four times today already but i am seeing just blood instead of the normal urine, even d pus is still not gone

please help me, i need advise. both herbal and medical medications. i guess its gonnorhea, or if u have an advise of what it is, please share with solution.

please no bashing, its just my girlfriend and i.
i don't do adultery

Adultery and fornication are the same.
Where in the Bible or Quran is girl or boy friend allow to have sex freely.
Just face what has just confronted u and leave adultery and fornication out of it for now.

I have never been a fan of travelling out especially when I had many opportunities which I turned down and I have never regretted it one bit.

Yes,back to the topic,Brazil is never a third world country nor a poverty stricken country. Brazil can not be compared with Portugal in terms of wealth. In fact,Brazil is richer than any Portuguese speaking country in the world and funny as it may sound,it is richer than Nigeria and the entire Africa nation.

What then makes it the third world nation?

A country that has free medical health care for her entire citizens and even foreigners alike.

If u can fight my mum or pull out knife to scare her...then,I don't think we should be considered husband and wife anymore.

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This singular act might help in creating more opportunities for Nigerians but next time let them know it's not the church that influenced his decision to return that money, after all,is Apostle Suleman a good man?

A thief is a thief any day.

See u,see prison...be careful.

ekenetheorg:
I bet that should be the next step. I've just trying to be patient

Since this guy is someone u transacted business with physical and u know him in person,just follow the traditional way and get ur money. Nigerians don't like to pay debts.
If u involve police,he will bribe them and before u know it,u would be left with nothing at the end of the day.
Go traditional,that is the way our ancestors dealt with people like this.
He feels he is untouchable because of his alliance with the association.
Forget police,forget army and forget Dss but go traditional,he come to beg u.

Thank God they mentioned where she hailed from,haters would have labelled her an igbo lady.

EkehPraise:
Like every well brought up young man, I'm in my early 30's and really doing fine at least I'm not begging for anything from anyone.

I set out this year to wife my girlfriend whom I had dated for 2 years but her character made me think twice so we broke up and I moved on. I have tried to make friends with matured ladies in the church I worship but it's been from one bad experience to another.

Ever since I started looking for a woman to call my wife I have been meeting different characteristics of women.
Within the space of 1 year I've met one who is a maniac, one I met at a hangout didn't hesitate to show her lazy attitude the day she came to my place to see I'm a bit comfortable, another one I met recently in church turned out to be a thief.

2021 is almost over and I'm yet to find a wife. Where do you advice I go in search for a good woman?

Wife material scarce oh!

If all these women u mentioned can't be good enough for u including ur girl friend of 2years....guy,to be candid with u,u have a problem.

U are looking for a faultless woman to marry as if u are faultless yourself. Change ur attitude towards women and get the best of them.

Pls,if ur rent gets due,pls leave that compound before they will start their juju.

If they can be this stingy with water,then expect more evil coming from this family henceforth.

thinkmoney:
You see nothing...liar. God-God of the bible doesn't judge that way. He judges you based on the knowledge you have and what you did with it, the capacity you have and what you did with it.
That man might not know better than the way he chose. He may have tried to do good with what he knows.
God is not Man. He judges differently. Imagine, people may lynch a mad man that kills a boy with a cutlass, but God will judge him based on his capacity. He will know fully that the mad man may not have known to do better.

This is exactly what I said to some people in my office about anyone who commits suicide?