₦airaland Forum

teeste:
You are still young , you can't drag me along as you pay back your debt.

U are u just spreading ur stupidity every where.
Any talk about women,u will stretch ur tiny neck talking as if u created women.

U talk and responds like a frustrated man. Ur hate over women will surely keep u in regretful mood except u change ur barbaric thinking.

teeste:
Let her go back to her teaching job. The more you invested in a woman, the more the regrets. That money could have been used for a life insurance for your children. Women don't deserve this treatment you guys are giving them. That gender wasn't created to give, so putting so much in their custody is a wrong move!

The way and manner u slander women is abhoring and totally unacceptable. There are so many good women out there who are both beautiful in mind.

Stop this slander and extreme criticisms as it would do u no good. I remember how many times my wife contributed to my business without me asking her a dime and she never collected all those millions back till this day until my work and business got back to where it is today. And as a pay back for her good intentions,I had to gift her a car.

Pls,I hate it when it seems as though women are our problems in marriage and in our work places. Every woman deserves to be respected.

Stop this hate.

kestolove95:
Ndi dot miscreant, they should both be given life sentence.
By 2030 95% of ndi dot will be in several prison all over the world...

Brainless comments.
Same will certainly befall ur family in 5years time.
Mark every word I say here.

I don't use swear words on people because of the potency but be rest assured that,what will happen to u will be indescribable.

Humanity must live.
Not even Hitler or a hater like u can stop humanity from existing.
I curse u.

Same heart attacked that nearly killed Buhari after Jonathan called him to congratulate him.

The joy that came with such contract might have affected his health badly.

May his soul rest in peace.

Edo people sabi make friends...too much of anything is bad.

See as friends kill this one now.

U too like suffer.

Wait make Buhari use ur head to complete 2023.
U had better be fast.

teeste:
Seriously, women doesn't deserve this treatment. Let her work and buy her own car. You remember this advice one day! Use the money for something else.

U don't just know what u are saying.

As I bought my wife a 2005 matrix I should regret later. A woman that has been there for me when I had nothing and who had birthed my 3 children through CS. Guy,are u a mysogynist?seriously u need to change this wicked mentality.

My wife contributes to the family beyond my asking.
Well,all I am saying is for u to change this ur thoughts.

During the 90's,one income used to be enough,but today two incomes aren't enough. And with two incomes,u still need a side hustle,therefore,marry a working class and leave that under graduate alone.
Her reality is still that of a student and that is hugely different from urs.

Look around u and search for a responsible working class lady and build ur life with her. Leave students for now.
Think about this too.

Ibkhaleel001:
LET US VOMIT OUT THE SOUTHERN HOOK, LINE AND SINKER


Northern Nigeria has more graduates and Professors than South Africa. The real problem is not as Southerners paint it and you echo it like empty halls. 


Practically, millions of Northerners are either unemployed, misemployed, or underemployed. Our problem is our chances are blocked and our resources dominated by Southerners who paint the wrong picture for fools to believe them.


75% of  government spending is connered by Southerners via the domination of salary earning, contracts, projects, bail outs and other interventions. Trade and industries are dominated by Southerners who have easy access to multi billion credit facilities courtesy their domination of state financial structure and instruments and institutions. 


Every ministry is dominated by them. All our markets are monopolized by them due to their control of capital that enable them to finance business and take more risk due to ease of acces to money. They conrol their markets by regular disruptuons of our businesses officially and by direct frequent violence unofficially. Their control of and easy access to liquidity enable them to be more enerprising business wise. They buy our goods cheap and sell theirs exorbitantly.


To preserve the exploitative status quo they spread false verson of the reality. They centralize oil as the main source of wealth so that our attention will be far away from other sources of wealth they dominate.

Oil is less than 10% of  Nigeria's GDP. They tell us we are the parasite and we are lazy and we are uneducated to instil a sense of guilt, self hate and inadequacy in us. We swallow all these falsehood uncritcally because we made our source of daily information their media and books. They over concentrate on our weaknesses and ignore almost completely their own weaknesses. An average Southerner having mild cold will almost by default blame it on Northerners and will not lack northerners who "speak the truth" to agree with him.


How can uneducated people have multitude of unemployed graduates? How can lazy people be producig the food of the nation? Why do millions of Southerners troop to the poor parasitic North and refuse leave? The south said so and it is?


What we need is a  political economic solution. We must take control of our local markets, our institutions and our businesses in their land must be given due attention and protection and any act of disruption by way of constant destruction must be paid back in due measure without listening to their victimship outcries. They fear separation more than us because their weak economic foundation, especially the west entirely dependent on controlling  government resources.


We must ask and take our fair share of every government employment at whatever cost. No people has ever prospered when their resources, oppurtunities and chances are blocked and dominated by others.  Our constant preachment of peace must stop: justice and and equity must be our new slagon. 


The real problem is believing in the propaganda of the enemies which saps our resourcefulness and infuse our senses with feelings of backwardness that really do not exist, or are caused by false perception. The greatest defeat one can suffer is to see oneself as projected by one's enemies. 


Almajiri is system suffocated by lack of finance. Poverty is a direct result of economic domination and exclusion. Degrees are not unavailable. Marrying four wives will not stop as it is never a problem but a great social system. Once we assert control on what is rightly ours, that self concious timidity will evaporate and be replaced by confidence and bold enterprise. Up to the Seventies we were the richest people in Africa. As the central government grows and  takes control of resources our wealth progressively dwindles. As the southerners intensify drums of hate and aggression we draw back to give peace, that is never forthcoming, a chance.


Try asking for propotionate representation in all government employment in all institutions and at all levels, they will cry out about mediocrity supplanting merit as if those half literates southerners dominating the place are Einstein incanates. Or they will blackmail you with Islamization.


Try treating their traders in our markets as they treat ours and they will cry xenophobia as if the regular denial of market space, heavy taxation, constant disruption of business and officially sanctioned harrassment of our traders in their land does not exist.


Try replacing Southern union leaders and foreign sponsored NGOs operating in the North with our own people and they will start wailing about marginalization.


Well, their era of dominance and false propaganda is coming to an end with the coming of age of young northerners who could no longer accept marginalization because of blackmail or threat. These new bold Northern youth have seen how southerners cowered when asked to leave the North two years ago. Their cries for secession are empty ruse. 


We will be better off without them and they will definitely be worse off without us. They know we lack nothing, while their millions selling substandard, fake good, drugs and inrdinately high interest bank loans fleecing the north and feeding on cheap food and services will have nothing on returning back home. Their franchise firms and industries will lose over 100 million costumers overnight which is more than their home market demand. 


Soon we will ask for equity or call it quit. We know who we are and we know our strength.

Whoever wrote this must be sick both in the head and body.
Give an igbo man money he finds a business to do.
Give a yoruba man money,he will want to go to school.
Give an Hausa man money,he will marry more women just to fulfill the sayings of his desert prophet.

The above scenario is just the reality today.
The most backward tribe on the surface of the earth is the Northern Nigerian men and women.

A visit will convince u.

Sonnobax15:
na man you be bro..

That is very moderate and affordable.

I wish u the best as u plan towards this.

Mccold:
As the only son in the family, my mom expects me to bear as more kids like 4 or 5Max, And am in my final 20's still single

Hope they will be there to help ur and wife.

Sonnobax15:

Honestly,I dey pity parents wey born plenty . How una tay dey survive for this Buhari regime?

Well, personally cha,I go like born only three children, two guymen,one banny

I have three and I so like it.
2girls and a boy.

Got a jeep from someone.

YorubarLord:
But it's the truth, na una dey make noise and talk crap about yoruba people the most yet your region is the most fvcked up in the south

We have contributed to the economy of every regions of this country especially Lagos and Kano without fear of even losing out. But let me ask u,what have u contributed to this country as an individual. I am igbo and I am very proud of my tribe same way others would claimed. But what have u added to boost the country's economy other than shouting Eko oni baje?

At 38,I have contributed soo much to Nigerian economy,I have infact,lifted families and businesses from its moribund states to its productive state by virtue of what I do, I have directly and indirectly paid enormous taxes to both Federal and state govts.
And that is why we are noise makers as u called us. We can't be paying ur Lagos and Kano states humongous taxes and u end up treating us like idiots. Without igbos,most states in Nigeria would have even collapse beyond redemption,yes because we are into service businesse in Nigeria and we pay more import and export taxes more than any tribe and region in this country. We have also provided more self employment jobs in Africa than any country in Africa. Go to Mozambique,Republic of Congo,Kenya,Cameroun,Zambia and Gabon,Ghana Liberia and Botswana u will see what our people are doing in motor and machine parts in those countries not to talk about hotel and super market businesses altogether.

So,I am saying what I know and not what I don't know.
And that is why we will keep shouting to fight for what belong to us in this country. During Christmas times in Lagos,can't u see the igbo effects in Lagos,that is to tell u that we are what we say.

YorubarLord:
Mehn na south west and south south get this country for real the day these two regions decide and get provoked to go to war with Nigeria its over. All others na just parasites including these noise making flatheadss. Even if you burn down the entire south east, and north Nigeria won't feel the effect. No wonder buhari send his goons to go appeal to Yoruba leaders, no matter what they do Nigeria will divide

I am igbo yes from the east,but I won't be surprised that u are one of the touts in the West wit this kind of statement. Fear fear tribe.

This goes to say that money is good but there many different ways of pursuing it which shouldn't be job alone.

Good one but edutaining.

cocolacec:
The North and some states in the East will oppose the new VAT Ruling.After Vat collection by state the next should be decentralization of the Army and the police.

There are three oil producing states in the east currently,one is the richest when it comes to business and entrepreneurship in Nigeria.
The picture does not explain the reality on ground.

cocolacec:
The North and some states in the East will oppose the new VAT Ruling.After Vat collection by state the next should be decentralization of the Army and the police.

See this one.
States in the east how?

U cant be busy breaking crates of beers and alcohol bottles and still want to be paid VAT.

That is stupidity.
Let religion put money in their pockets.

Start to think and don't ever stop thinking of a beautiful future.

Map out how u want to plan and live ur life. After this,start taking them one after the other until u are able to achieve ur dreams.

Save and invest ur money,no matter how small it could be at the moment.

U need to visit zuba fruits market in Abuja.

Kai,Nigeria.

People died just to see Jonathan removed from power,but now we can all see that politicians will use u and dump u at will.

Die not for any polician in Nigeria,it does not worth it one bit.

Learn from Jonathan and Buhari matter.

I am sure they might be fighting over land.

Like father like son.

U were watching or listening to music...lazy father born lazy son.

Na so curse dey start for family because of silly things like this.

But this Tinubu can lie for Africa.

Is this man 69 abi na political age be that?

BinamRex:
This is the opposite of what I'd do. I wouldn't ditch a lady because she is from a poor family and she has too many siblings. My business would always need an extra hand. I'll employ them in my businesses but they wont deal with money, just work work work work.

I won't give them free money. They must learn that there is dignity in labour.

Wait till u marry then.
Experience is the greatest teacher.

I have a friend in Abuja here that is really suffering just of this kind of situation.

He married this lady and all of sudden,the lady brought her three sisters and one of her brothers to his house till this day.
In fact,he is more distressed and worried like never before. He confided in me and he told me how the cost of running the house has made him empty and that he could no longer do what his mates are doing financially. He also explain to me how his wife used scissor to design all his clothes all because he asked one of them who had been very stubborn to him to leave his house,and his wife refused to call the said girl to order and that the fracas that ensued led his wife to burn some of his clothes, and that,this has happened on two occasions which has further rendered him helpless due to his good intentions.

My advice to young men intending to marry.
Pls,no matter how sweet the love may sound,avoid this kind of embarrassment. Marriage is sweet when there are no impediments such as the one I just painted above. His conclusion is that he was going to build his personal house without the wife,the day he is going to pack out,then he will instruct the wife to choose between her siblings and her immediate family.

I personally hate 90% of pentecostal pastors...most of them are arrogant,pompous and say what God never ask them to say. They twist the word of God badly just to enslave the poor among their folds.

I can't be surprised at all.
This is one out of many that we don't know about.

This is simply a murder case...similar to Pastor Kings.

I support them afterall,is Buhari not supporting Bandits and Bokoharam?

Keep up the good work.

If u like send the boy to the best school without his father's input,his step dad cannot lay claim to that child.

Even if he did not marry u nor pay ur bribe price,he is still the father of that child any time,any day.

It is only time that will tell.

Be careful,I can see u want to play smart.

nairavsdollars:
Why is APC hiding their own

Where in Abuja are u?