₦airaland Forum

proclinician:
Chai okwute ndi Igbo. You are the only way out of this situation but unfortunately, the majority are idiots. Like always, the idiots will look for dullards to enthrone, then go home and weep, suffer and die.

Chest beating nonsense!

When Igbo do it in their 5 tiny region states, then let us know!

clairebode:
For enlargement gel is good for every commandos on bed...

Foolish hungry people, we don’t need commandos in bed it’s useless!

We stupid Nigerian men need commandos in food production, industrial production, technologies, international business, economic growth, wealth creation etc etc etc!!!!!

Stop being Oloriburuku poverty capital of the world people

anonimi:
If there is any chance of the Fulani Republic of Naijeriya, FRN surviving as is beyond 2023, it will be because a reliable Igbo is made president.
Anything else is the death of this contraption. Sure, certain death.

Dead in arrival, omo Igbo you forgot to add your anti Tinubu cartoons to your post!

Oloripelebe.......go back to your poto poto state!

daddymummy:
Is it not obvious. A woman will walk on the road and all men will be gazing at her but she doesn't look at any body but herself.

So who is superior?

Is it not the one whom people are losing focus while gazing at her?

A woman have wide range of enjoyment including eating, traveling, watching nature,sex, relationship with men etc. But a man's enjoyment centers around women and sex.

Even to travel to a special location and enjoy the scene is nothing to a man except it also involve meeting a woman and doing sexual things.

Whereas,a woman can go to such a place and enjoy it without wanting to bring a man into it.

So who is superior in that area?

Women of course.

A man believes he must be the one to first desire a woman and then approach her but a woman believes that she must be desired by a man.

Who is superior. He who must first desire or she who is desired?

Of course you know that there is nothing better than you being desired by someone.

It shows you are greater than the one desiring you.

So women are greater.

Due to space and time constraints,. I would have shown you many proofs that women are greater.

So men have to rise up and stop their self deceiving mentality that they are the superior gender.

That mentality was planted in men's mind by women so that as men are living in this self deception, they will not see that they are slaves to women.

See this one oooo, by the time you get dumped after 2 kids you will realise your superiority na for mouth.

In addition many men indoctrinated with the look after your family mantra (slavery) are now waking up. In most advanced countries men are losing interest in marriage and refusing to marry!

kowalsky:
Stopped being a man's world long time ago

Says who?

ensamy:
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ABI oo, especially when the man's financial muscle goes down hmmmm

Go down ke! Until the financial muscle die patapata!

lefulefu:
i am in my 30s and nope i can never invite any nigerian girl to come over with me.I no get serious babe wen i comot so it will be very stupid of me to now invite a girl i saw on facebook or someone linked me up to her .I dont see anything wrong dating a foreign woman or a naija lady based in a foreign land.Na men wey dey restrict themselves to say they must only marry nigerian woman na im go get into issues.why will u invite someone to join u that know nothing about..just because they told u she comes from a good family .But having said this if u already based overseas and u had a wife before u left and u are capable to bring her over i believe its unfair just to leave her back in naija with the kids.Haba the kids need to see their dad and feel his presence [b]nau.

You are right, it is the right thing to do but it is not mandatory. Abroad is a completely different environment and unless you are a top doctor, surgeon, physiotherapist or the likes.......abeg leave that madam in Nigeria Biko...it is more pain than it is worth. Alternatively bring her when your last born is over 18.
Many men have done it and lived in regrets and serious agony for that decision, and many with fragile health have died early.
Foreign women too, no dey easy because your children will never be yours...

steeltrust:
for daughters I can vouch for but for sons I ain't expecting anything from dem

Smart man but take note - women are changing and becoming masculine and reasoning like men. Just ensure you keep something back to maintain and look after yourself in later years.

lefulefu:
Sorry i am not using mtn or glo.i am on internet wifi in the place i am renting.Over where i am staying we dont have mtn or glo recharge cards .You just go to a shop if ur credit is finished and tell them to top it for u and u pay .And as for what i said pls pick out the evil thing i said.I said if a man is staying legally in europe and is still giving excuses why he cant bring his wife over then he is married or has a girlfriend where he is staying ..thats the obvious truth .At the time i was in a language school then in benin a number of the female students who joined had husbands overseas and the enrolled cos they wanted to join their husbands since it was one of the requirements.One of the young lady her husband was going to school in germany yet he wanted his wife to join him,Thats how u know a man who truely loves his wife.You cant be staying legally in a country and be saying u cant allow ur wife to join u..why?.Only time a man would be making such excuse is when he has a woman over there.As for ur own case i can understand..corona virus globally changed everything..it closed down schools,airports etc..i understand and everybody understands that.We are talking of the world b4 the covid 19.A man is already settled abroad but he still giving excuses of why he doesnt want his wife to come over ..what are his reasons? . one person here said he cant allow his wife to join him cos his wife will collect his properties using oyibo court system .so can we say that is the most reasons many married nigerian men overseas dont want their wives to join them?

110% reason mine is not joining. That has become the racket for Nigerian women here in the UK!
You will be a victim especially if she has aunties, cousins, sisters and the likes here. Alternatively you become her “wife” and she becomes a wicked “husband”.

Before you start judging nonsense, come and work for 30 years here and then invite a Naija hungry girl to come and join you so she can use domestic abuse laws to take everything you have laboured for. Ok! Women that will disown you within 5 mins if you run into poverty or health problems. How Old are you?

flyingpig:
If a man gets wedded in Nigeria, moves to the west and brings the wife over, things go south and divorce papers are filed, will he lose his assets despite not been a signatory to court marriage or even getting wedded in the west?

Capital YES!

steeltrust:
so u mean I'll I show my kids love and at d end de won't Ve my time wen de grow up

bro is unfair na

No Sir, they will definitely love you but they will get married to a spouse you didn’t raise, start their own family and have to face the challenges of raising their own children. They may travel far and wide to greener pastures far away from where you are.......
And please don’t raise any kids to look after you after retirement. You should take care of that.

steeltrust:
u re corect bro

any were I go my family follow me
I no de for story DAT touch d kidney

Hmmm hope you can deal with the disappointment when your kids grow up and don’t have your time, and madam ports over to stay with them.....

SUXXI:
My family comes first then work.When I just got married I was offered a six digit job abroad.My wife was pregnant with our first baby.I told my wife about the job and my decision to be with her and my yet to be born kid.I will not leave them or get a job that separates me from my family.I am still in Nigeria and we are managing.I and my wife and kid do things together,play together.
If i am to leave this country to abroad,if I can't take my family along, then it is a big no.My family is my world and I will do my best to provide what I can and be with them.
Today when I lock back,I have no regrets as I am always there for my family,spiritually,physically,emotionally,financially.

Well done SIR!

However make some allowances for disappointment from the kids or your wife but good luck sha!

I did the opposite, poor me but I am prepared for the consequences.

lefulefu:
did u not read about a slovenian footballer who was crying and was contemplating about leaving his profession cos another man shagged his wife are footballers broke?..every man cries weda rich or poor .Its only when u get ur heart hardened dat u do not cry

Foolish footballer guy! All men should get their heart hardened. A woman does not and will never be your property. In the western world you are nothing but partners!

favor2016:
I know one wey the husband normally come once on a year for Salah celebration from Qater..All the wife Exes don dey refuck her again

Ok, so the man abandon Qatar because of his wife’s pussy? Abi?

lefulefu:
pls didnt u read op"s story about his married neighbour with kids whose husband is overseas already disturbing him for sex? sadly thats how many marriages in naija with the husbands overseas tend to be.A number of their wives sleep around...except the very few who still try to keep the communication strong but then its not easy o.u are many kilometers away and ur wife is in nigeria all alone.the bedroom is cold and she is lonely.no man to hold and her friends laughing at her and urging her they have guys they can hook her up with..tell me why wont she fall.Except ur plan is to sujourn in ur adopted foreign country for a short time or u making plans to bring her over then she can still hold on..only then oo.But to be dere for donkey years with no sight in plan to bring her to join u she will become disillusioned and with what her friends are putting in her mind she will begin to doubt and suspect weda u have a new partner there with u then she will fall.Its not a new thing..it happens all the time.

And so? That’s the end of the world?

lefulefu:
do sailors stay in the sea for ever? ..and talking of many of these guys who work in oil rigs for months hope u know the ones who are married their wives sleep around with reckless abandon .some of these men even know their wives sleep around but they have resigned themselves to fate.Most times if u have a profession that requires u travelling all the time its wise just getting a baby mama.Footballers who travel all the time to meet their games engagements if its a long trip some of them bring their wives with them.There are some medical doctors who do their jobs travelling to different regions..u have heard of doctors without border abi? some prefer marrying each other in the same profession and if the man has a passion for travelling so also will the woman.they will travel together and do their profession together.It sucks when u as a man travel for so long a time and u just live ur wife and kids for months.Sooner or later her will power will crack and men who specialise in sleeping with married women will swarm over ur wife like ants around sugar

And so? This marriage sef? I think it’s for weaklings.......what do men need marriage or children for in this modern era?
What is the use of a man accepting poverty and wretchedness just to stay and be around his wife?

erico2k2:
U know pig pikin aske him mama why she put nose 4 potor potor nah pig mama tell am say wen E old E go know why.
Sailors nor get wives abi? or U too want thier wives to go sea with them too abi??

You dey mind that idi.....t?

Jonathan39:
Only a poor man worries over a woman's pussy.

Thank you so much!!!!!

MrBrownJay1 (OP) here is your answer!

BKsoul:
i rather stay single than living a lie... me way love love and care like there's no tommorow... how will i cope

Better get ready for real adult life and if you want the above permanently........start planning how to impact your partner’s life in a big way and you can’t just be there as a financial burden on him.

lefulefu:
hmm long distance marriage no be marriage oo..except u doing it for a temporary phase of time due to some unpreventable issues but if na for permanent basis that is not marriage.I sometimes wonder how wives whose husbands are overseas and whose husbands come once in a blue moon are able to cope.Many of these men who are not that reluctant to bring their wives over to join them where they reside are mostly married where they reside or have girlfriends.You know many of these whites dont like comptetion.They are not like nigerian women who can tolerate a second wife or a side chic..their society no be like that..men who cheat in their society hide to do it.not like us who flaunt our own.If the man is not married over there and is single there he would be more than willing than willing to bring his wife over.There some nigerian men living in germany and france who enroll their wives in naija into language schools so as to have the certificate of language studies which is one of the requirements to have if u travelling to some non english speaking european countries.thats to tell u how serious they are.When a naija guy is giving excuses why he doesnt want to bring his wife over then my brother he is married or engaged to some lady over there ..we all know this nau .The other guy u were saying he is refusing to bring his wife cos she is troublesome did he not see the troublesome nature of hers when he married her? i am sure dat one na just his excuse.Anyway most long distance marriage the help of God e dey survive oo.There some men they will just abandon their wives and kids and cut off all communication and begin a new life.Thats why u see many of their wives in naija sometimes having numerous lovers.

You have never lived abroad obviously. Better stay away from matters you don’t understand. You think marriage abroad is the same as marriage in Nigeria? Abeg.....
In abroad currently legal marriage is unbalanced and puts a man into slavery. You owe your wife everything but she owes you nothing!

MrBrownJay1:
Who cares what people will say if he stayed?! He can take his family along OR find a job in Nigeria.... But leaving family behind while disappearing for YEARS is wrong, IMHO!

Before I respond to this your thread, how old are you?

BKsoul:
abeg am a female ooooh. See ehn in this life, whatever you do not the story please dont conclude or generalize, if the man stays back here without any tangible thing to do while he has an opportunity of travelling to make the money, na human being go still insult am say because of yansh, he no wan make am..

Thank you my sister, you be better woman. I am in the predicament but as a person who grew up in poverty, I am taking my chance with money!
Time is money and money is life.
My wife fucking somebody else while I am away is a big problem but not a catastrophe!
I’d rather have financial security and good health than a partner (wife is old fashioned, nonexistent and unrealistic in today’s world).

ednut1:
my uncle went to the uk in 1987. His wife joined him in 1999 after he divorced his arrangee wife. He came home every 3 years and hit the jackpot 3 times. Today all the kids are doing well abroad. He is enjoying his retirement there too. Money is very important in this life. No point staying in 9ja suffering with ur wife. She may still cheat on you.

He must be a very LUCKY man indeed. But I bet the man is not sharing his enormous PAINS with you! Nigerian wives are terror or slave masters in the UK.

solmus:
Common?!

The mother of my four kids, the woman I onced banged and enjoyed her company ...

Nothing in this world would make me sponsor embarrassing statement about her

Never!!!

Star comment!!!!

ensamy:
Two outcomes of every marriage. It Either blesses you or destroys you. Never marry out of pity because the life long agony no be here oo. Never marry because the man has plenty money and no fear of God hmmmm, no marry Yahoo boy etc . Marry a man that's hard working, visionary, with purpose and the foundation built on God's word.
God who is Love will make love to shine it's blessings everlasting and the marriage. Otherwise one will live in misery and agony the rest of his/her life. You will be living in LUXURY of HELL. In Wealth but in Prison.

75-80% of men gets destroyed in a marriage. Unless he suppresses his enormous pains. Imagine the life long ruthless exploitation by women?

Masterclass32:
The Ebonyi State Governor, David Umahi; and the President-General of Ohaneze Ndigbo Worldwide, Chief Nnia Nwodo, on Tuesday reiterated the need for Ndigbo in diaspora to return home and invest towards economic development of the region.

The two Igbo leaders, who spoke in Abakaliki on Tuesday, on the occasion of the Ebonyi Business Forum, which held at the Ecumenical Centre, said the way and manner Ndigbo continued to overlook the investment opportunities abound in the zone was partly responsible for the slow pace of economic development in the region.

The two leaders insisted that the situation must change if the region was ready to take its rightful place in the country.

Speaking on the business opportunities in Ebonyi State, Umahi noted that his administration had made efforts in repositioning the state to welcome and accommodate all kinds of investors in the state.

He said, “Ebonyians and Ndigbo in general should visit and invest in any sector of their interest. All the necessary environments that aided the growth of businesses have been provided in the state.”

Nwodo applauded the Igbo investors from Lagos State who were in the state for investment purposes, saying with the level of infrastructural development in Ebonyi, the state would soon become the economic hub of the entire South-East.


He said, “It is said a good wealth is the one that reaches home. I am aware that Igbo registered voters in Lagos are more than three million people.

“But during the elections, they are reminded that Lagos is not their father’s land. When things like that happen, it reminds you that you come from somewhere; and the need to go home. We have to develop Alaigbo, and turn it into what Catalonian is to t Spain, and what Berlin is to Germany,”


https://punchng.com/igbo-must-return-home-to-invest-umahi-ohanaeze/?amp=1

Lzaa Imhotep Racoon please LOUD this!!!!

una Don come again ooooo

Racoon:
Humn! A pilot having no license yet flew a plane & wreck lives.When will we have responsible leadership in this nation? The aviation ministry, NCAA, aircraft pilots/ engineers will all be doing the blame game.Nigeria! What a country.

Usual rubbish! The leadership of any country (Nigeria inclusive) normally constitutes around 0.1% of the population.

The Nigerian people and our criminal, lawless, dishonest, lying, cheating, disobedient, reckless, unpatriotic ways are 99% responsible for the horrible state of the country. Until we all sit down and acknowledge this FACT we will not begin to solve our many problems.

Go abroad and see!!!!

Igbo Amaka, thieves, criminals, illiterates,