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Isn't that the bouncer's job?

Plus aren't bouncers in Nigeria notorious for only acknowledging the guy? Men will create a system and then start whining about it later lol

femisplash:
Oya, swear..

Abeg go siddon and stop mentioning me every 3 market days

femisplash:
My ego doesn't mess around, I would have sent you a dm long ago. But I think your question suggests you do.

Yeah sure thing, I yearn for you deeply

habsydiamond:
na u cause am oo... must u term me rapist because of my comment even without knowing me... aunty u get problem gan ni ooo

I didn’t call you a rapist, I said your comment was rapey, which it was

femisplash:
Ain't moved by this shít, you may ask Ibkayee.

Do you have a crush on me or something, genuine question

habsydiamond:
God forbid bad thing.. in this present world where its very easy to fvck ladies like u with some change..why would I rape a lady not to talk of a preggy. U think everyone reason like u.

Go look at yourself in the mirror and say this again without laughing lool

Alawada kerikeri

If the lady in question gave OP the 1k he’s been begging for all around nairaland I have a hunch he won’t be concerned about her pictures

habsydiamond:
Must you go naked Na una dey add to una problem....if something happen now, she go dey shout say her village people don come where as na she invite them

Disgusting rapey comment

Bitchiamjay:
Ooh, let me know when next you show up. We have a lot of places to shut down.

Noted

Bitchiamjay:
Really? Chai! Why you no tell me?

Wasn’t really a leisurely visit, more for family obligations

Bitchiamjay:
When last you been to Nigeria?

Sept

tunapawizzy:
No I am not trying to make assumption and I am not privy to what went on in the relationship. We all are strangers on the internet talking about a matter brought to the public.
My point is that marriage requires much more sacrifice than love and its not by force to marry if one isn't ready. This is for both gender. Your views may be different so it's okay to disagree. Everyday people keep proving love is never going to be enough and that there's something much more important.
Marriage requires a lot of sacrifice doesn't mean people will suffer, it becomes suffering if it's one-side, making sacrifices is sweet if the energy is similar. Making sacrifices can be fulfilling if its appreciated and reciprocated.

Fair enough

UK isn’t without its flaws but compare the human development index of both countries and you may get a better picture of why some people would want to leave. From health, education, standard of living, income per capita etc.

Everyone seems to have an anecdote about someone they knew japa-ing and becoming a cleaner which is fair but some Nigerians also do well over here and are some of the most successful immigrants in the UK.

It can also depend on how prepared you are coming, who you know and just good ol’ luck.

Ugly where? You’re obviously an attractive girl, you just upgraded fashion and makeup wise which is normal

OvertheTop:
As if he will be saving the Entire Money without Expenses Monthly.
Monthly savings no fit pass 500-600 pounds. not much

Lol exactly

Pastoshizzy:
Let's assume abuse isn't involved (coz ain't like dat all the time), is there a way to ensure the offspring emotional stabillity and moral compass in the long run? (especially with kids).

Well staying together for the kids for the sake of their ‘stability’ sounds reasonable on paper, assuming the parents are able to show a ‘civil’ front for them but I dunno how practical this is in a genuinely toxic environment. Kids are more observant than people give them credit for so it may actually be healthier to split in some cases

But I’m not an expert sha so…

I’d say it was easy to say front end is easier when websites were less dynamic and literally only used HTML and CSS

As of now, the ‘debate’ isn’t as straightforward so I’m not sure. I guess it depends on the project and how the individual’s mind works

Thank God for his life.

Nigerian roads are death traps

Always feel like I’m at a theme park when riding through

What’s the point of an ‘opinion’ poll if there aren’t a range of opinions?

Doesn’t mean he agrees with the options, this is such an ignorant thread lol pele

Doubt anyone wants to marry just to get divorced later but sometimes it’s necessary

Better a divorce than a marriage where you’re unhappy, being abused etc. Not everything can be mended and in such cases, divorce is probably the better option

Relief from a toxic, miserable and or/unsafe partnership. Or just relief from a relationship that didn’t work out can be a happy ending

Amumaigwe:
In short ,they also kill their. Women are only victims. We agree.

Glad you’re aware of the type of wildebeests they are

limcar:
i think she polished her english. She wasn't sounding like that b4. No doubt, she's a wonderful actor. She and rita dominic are the two good actresses we have in nollywood in terms interpreting roles to the letter. The rest are just fame seekers.

It wasn’t the spoken English, some Nigerian actors put on this contrived accent that I think they think makes them sound like some sort of English aristocrat when they’re playing a ‘high society’ character, it’s kind of cringe

To be honest the movie was shit, from the plot to the music. I think I’ve seen her do better in other movies although she is a bit one dimensional to me

tunapawizzy:
What's the point of getting married if you are not ready to make the sacrifices that keep marriages. Marriage is 60% sacrifice, 30% discipline and 10% love.

Are you actually privy to the ‘sacrifices’ that were made in their relationship or you’re just another stranger on the internet making assumptions on what did or didn’t happen?

60% sacrifice? 10% love? Where did you draw your stats from?

What’s with all the marriage suffer porn some people want to engage in lol

limcar:
What do you think of Nse Ekpe Etim queen's accent; fake or authentic?

Found it contrived sounding, stiff acting too

Glamour Girls Remake: Nothing/10

Crock of shit, but what was I expecting

Kelechi009:
I read that you're look for an Anime to watch, you can checkout Invincible, It is an adult animated superhero television series on Netflix.

Although It is a very bloody series, It could be triggering for some people.

Thanks Kelechi

sukkot:
you are right. i was feeling tired is why i left. being there since 2 pm. so i had been there for 6. hours already. should have gone like 7 pm but then my cuzzin would have killed me . i had to be there for the ceremony itself and not just the party so i was there since 2 pm. you feel me ? thats why i was tired and left. but i should have just stuck it out

Don't mind me, we aren't much different, I would've been out of there earlier. No way I'm doing 2pm to 1am

sukkot:
maybe i should go back there. they did say the party ends at 1 am
thats like 4 hours to go.

I was thinking, which Lagos party ends at 9 and during Decemeber

sukkot:
yeah i dont know. truly the internet has made many people antisocial. not only the internet but mobile phones. at the place everyone was just staring at their mobile phones

you stand a better chance meeting someone online now. feel me ?

Yeah I completely agree

sukkot:
lolzzzz yeah i know i am letting the side down. also they do say never toast a woman during the festive season.

but ermmm yeah listen i dont go to parties to toast women ooo. thats teenage stuff. when i can meet them at the grocery store right ?

Na so

sukkot:
[b]well its not like i could do anything there. [/b]the place was crawling with my family members including my mom. its like a place where you have to be on best behavior lol

oh ok just saw the pics

Yoruba demon like you? Don't let your 'comrades' hear this o

A Nigerian man can toast a girl at her own father's funeral, don't let the team down lmao

sukkot:
it was aiitttt. i dont like crowd. the internet has turned me into an introvert

So you left a place with lots of fine girls and enjoyment to come and talk about astrology on nairaland?