Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 6:12pm On Jun 30, 2021 |
dustydee: Please read my comment again. I am only trying to understand how peeing in the open is a thing. It might be a fetish or gives him orgasm or maybe it is a ritual. I don't know. Eating with your (washed)fingers is not the same as peeing in the open. Else it's the same as defecating in the open too, going by your statement. It’s a thing for some. It’s okay to have a different lived experience. The same way you think peeing in the open is not a thing is the same way others would see eating with fingers as barbaric. It’s all about life experiences - and they vary. I was only saying you all should cut the poor man some slack. Peeing in the open was commonplace growing up in Nigeria - maybe not all parts, but it’s not unheard of like your reactions to his post suggested. Besides, he only misses his old life, which is acceptable. He however should not attempt it in this day, age, and environment. |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 6:05pm On Jun 30, 2021 |
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Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 5:35pm On Jun 30, 2021 |
dustydee: This is strange and weird. Haven't heard of this before. Why will a grown man with access to toilet choose to wee in public instead? Same reason a grown man with access to cutlery will choose to eat with his fingers. Human beings are a product of their upbringing/environment and old habits die hard. The poor man was just missing his old life, how should that be anyone’s headache. No crime has been committed here! |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 7:41pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
umarwy: Since the day of your first question 1 week would have elapsed.
now you have left doctor route and swapped to visiting visa? Lol my Yoruba folks would say “øna kan o wø øja”, loosely translated as there are more than 1 entrance into the market. All way na way  |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 11:26am On Jun 28, 2021 |
fatima04: Hmmn, imagine been slammed with a £10k debt from your car insurance company early on Monday morning.
Please any recommendation for a good insurance claim expert or lawyer? Person never make the £10k profit since getting here sef.
Advise to new migrants coming to the UK and planning on driving with int'l Licence, please think twice before getting that car oo, do you really need it?
Can you pass your driving test within a year of getting into the country and note that once you obtain a provisional licence it SUPERSEDES your international licence and according to the law, there must be a co-pilot with minimum of 3years validity beside you afterwards.
Any accident or dent that involves the insurance company can result into cancellation of your policy, increase in premium and unexpected debts by the 3rd party involved. Gbam! He/she who has ears to hear, let them hear what the spirit is telling the church. |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 6:29pm On Jun 27, 2021*. Modified: 6:45pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
lightest: Thank u, I will do that
And for those that want to do thiers Follow this advice
It was discussed that for quick return of BRP and provisional license,
1. Disregard or discard or shred the pre-addressed nvelope sent with your form 2. Address your post to
FAO Lee Jones Head of Vehicle input services DVLA Longview Rd Swansea SA6 7JL
3. Watch your BRP and PDL come back swiftly
Tried and trusted; still works
My person used it and collected in 10days See advice  I’d think twice before sending my international passport or BRP to an address other than the one advised by the government. Just imagine for a moment, that something goes wrong. I’m sure Mr/Ms Jones will deny ever asking you to send your original id document to them. Patience is a virtue, but trust Nigerians to always always look for a short cut and shunt the queue, even when it’s not ‘necestry’. We just love to do it our own way, yet we complain everyday about corruption  |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 6:57am On Jun 22, 2021 |
Ticha: When I screen potential tenants, I expect an income of 4 times rent as that's what my insurance requires (I have rent guarantee insurance) which means I have to ask for the monthly income and proof of it. So yes, expect to also send in payslips or bank statements to back up the amount you say you earn. You ask for all that prior to arranging a viewing appointment? Just to view the property? |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 5:26am On Jun 22, 2021*. Modified: 5:50am On Jun 22, 2021 |
Ilekokonit: I like your spirit and self belief and people like you succeed big time in Nigeria. This is exactly the mindset my brother in law had many years ago and he is now a Commissioner in one of the states as he told my sister when they were still very young that he was not prepared to come and wash plates, suffer, under achieve or play second fiddle in the UK even though she had a UK pali and his calling the bluff of that UK pali paid off for him BIG TIME.
He now visits the UK like going to Yaba. So, did you fail to make it BIG TIME in Nigeria because you did not have self belief? Seems you’ve only got negative things to say about the UK and ‘white people’, yet it is the same place you ran back to, after burning your fingers in Nigeria and fellow Nigerians did you ‘iskanci’. Quit the stereotyping, sir. There are good and bad people everywhere, and everything you’ve attempted to demonise the UK and ‘white people’ for also happens in Nigeria by black people to black people. You probably would know that if you ever worked as an employee in Nigeria at any time before your UK sojourn. |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 5:39pm On Jun 21, 2021 |
Bluetherapy: I understand you. But look at it this way, I tell them my salary, they store it in their database.
Few months later, I'm in the market to buy and they are the seller's agent. They already have all my information without me giving them. So, what happens then? At the bolded, you gave them the info as a prospective renter. What’s your point? |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 4:29pm On Jun 21, 2021 |
Bluetherapy: My naija people, is it normal an estate agent to ask you how much you make per annum just to book an appointment for viewing their listings.
Mind you I want to rent not buy the property. I was asked what I do which I perfectly understand. But my salary  Yes. It’s part of the screening process, and it’s so that you both don’t waste each other’s precious time. Look at it this way, why book someone in for viewing when they can’t afford to rent the property? Some people go for viewing like window shopping, just to kill boredom  . Only that for viewing, someone else’s time is involved. If you really need or want the property, disclosing your income should not be an issue. |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 9:08am On Jun 21, 2021 |
Lexusgs430: Where the big men & women........  Look in the mirror, sir. The answer to your question will stare you right in the face  |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 6:21am On Jun 21, 2021 |
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Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 10:49pm On Jun 20, 2021 |
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Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 1:56pm On Jun 20, 2021 |
Abba114: i wont go where people will be calling me mongo, paki, black fvck, chimp and other names like that just to get food Stop watching too many movies/wasting your time on the internet and start being productive. Has any ‘oyibo’ ever called you any of those names? |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 1:50pm On Jun 20, 2021 |
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Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 9:10pm On Jun 19, 2021*. Modified: 9:57pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
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Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 7:51pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Lexusgs430: Let's hope, he also did not forget his loans and credit cards.......  That would be termed “gobe” or “double wahala for dedi bodi”  |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 7:49pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
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Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 6:53pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
[quote author=lightest post=102885779][/quote]Baalę of Norwich  So, because your madam is the principal, you don’t have a say in the affairs of your home? In Falz’s voice, “is it a prison something”? |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 6:48pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
7barz: Hi @thegurus
I am lost on what to do...
My husband and I have both studied and lived in the UK some years back before moving back to Nigeria 4 years ago before our visa expired. However, we are both coming back to the UK in September for his PhD studies while I come on as a dependent.
I do not know how to say this but I have to. During my stay, i took an unsecured loan and credit card loan from a UK bank and I didn't pay it off before I left the UK and I totally forgot about it while in Nigeria. i recently logged into my UK bank account this week and I saw the deficits. There was no official mail from the bank during the years I was in Nigeria so I wasn't in the know. Although i should have remembered that I didn't complete the payment so it's all my fault.
I tried to access my credit score and as expected, it has been impacted and I observed that the money has been passed off to a collection agency.
I would like to know if
1. I can contact the collection agency and find a way to pay off the deficits or have some kind of a structured repayment plan.
2. As my husband and I are both coming to the UK this September, can this affect us from securing accommodation in the future, especially when they do a credit check on our documents?
I would really appreciate your response and I do hope to be able to clean up this mess I created. Whatever you do, avoid any financial connection with your husband, so as not to mess up his own credit rating as well. Like others have said, make the necessary arrangements to settle your debt when you return to the country, while you rely on your husband to apply for any credit products, rent, etc., until your own rating is back on track. |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 3:02pm On Jun 16, 2021 |
gabiomoesu: Thanks a lot. Yes, it is true that teaching is also on the Shortage Occupation list but I think that mostly applies to STEM fields, not English. That was my argument with her. I could be wrong though, whcich is why I came here in the first place.
I'll go back and do some research and also learn about this GTCS you mentioned while I wait on Stenon 's nuggets.
And absolutely, I do not plan on forcing her at all, that's why I'm going to the trouble of seeking advice that would steer me in the right direction when I begin to carry out my research Above all, let her do her own research, to avoid stories that touch. It should be more of her research and decision than yours. I would understand if you were going through this trouble for a child. But for an adult with their own life decisions to make? PS: I’m not in any way criticising you. I’m just wondering why your girlfriend can’t do this by herself and decide what works best for her, and how it fits into your own plan (if it does), while you focus on your academics. Owo o gbødø w’ø’gbo o! |
Politics › Re: Twitter Needs India And Nigeria To Grow. It's Running Into Trouble In Both by icon8: 6:07pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
seunmsg: The danger is that foreign tech companies should not be in a position to determine what is good to say and what is not good to say. It even gets more complicated when the CEO of the company keeps mixing his political views with what users of the company’s platform can say or cannot say.
Another problem is the issue of regulation. A media space that is unregulated will sooner or later create chaos. The media contributed significantly to the Rwandan genocide. We all saw the role Twitter played in the destruction of Lagos last year and the Capitol Hill riot. It’s good for tech companies to promote freedom of speech but they must do so under a define regulatory framework.
Twitter is registered as a business entity in UK, EU, India and other advanced countries. They should also be made to register as a company in Nigeria under our laws. |
Travel › Re: Socializing Tips For Those Living Abroad. by icon8: 11:47am On Jun 09, 2021*. Modified: 1:46pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
ProphetJeroboam: DisGuy, lexusgs430 ekpotek, Brightingsus, claremont, UKmigrant, dupyshoo Folaosemen cutieb mamatukwas regex icon8 fatima04 wallg123 Ramafama Jordan55 Mayorr89 legitbachelor Mekusa10 airboy333 JIRENO1 Ge0grapher olenime subcbouy I suggest you change the topic to “Socialising” tips, rather than dating. Not sure any of those men and women you tagged up there is still in the dating game  |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 5:40pm On Jun 08, 2021 |
KOVIC19COVID20: Nobody bans the Oga. Now, that’s not fair! Not only can he ban others indiscriminately, he also cannot be held accountable for his own transgressions. At the end of the day, Nairaland is just an extension of the Nigerian society where some lords are above the law. |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 5:28pm On Jun 08, 2021 |
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Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 5:22pm On Jun 08, 2021 |
Regex: C'mon fellas. I watch Tv but not live. Whether or not to get an exemption is left for me. Also since I am sure that I do not watch live tv, then no need shutting the door at them. But one thing you guys fail to understand is that these guys (whites) are very diplomatic and can rope you into things just by visiting. Best to shut your door at them. Sorry, but you are a closet racist! Is this what you tell your children about their community, neighbours, school mates? Smh! |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 5:18pm On Jun 08, 2021 |
justwise: [/b]
You don't recall a lot Now, this is an insult. Are you implying that the gentleman is senile or has some form of memory loss? I thought you don’t insult others? Oh, you do; you just can’t take it! |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 3:58pm On Jun 08, 2021 |
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Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 3:50pm On Jun 08, 2021 |
Regex: The whites will not even open the door of its someone they do not know... So what gives? You still don’t get it, do you? It’s not about opening the door, it’s about not giving anyone a reason to knock at your door in the first place. Applying for an exemption - which is the right and legal thing to do - takes less than 2 minutes. Now, if you do the right thing, no one will show up at your door, and you will have no reason to hide/slam the door/tell them you are not home, like my uncle Lexus  |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 3:31pm On Jun 08, 2021 |
Regex: Watching live TV without licence is a crime.
You do not need license to watch TV. Semantics! The law requires you to apply for exemption if you do not watch live tv. That’s the law, but your friend insists on slamming the door when the authorities come for inspection, the law be dammed! That was the bone of contention, not whether or not it is criminal to watch tv. His preferred approach is bad behaviour at best, and criminal behaviour at its core. Yes, I said it! |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 11:31am On Jun 08, 2021 |
justwise: You don't know what dictatorship means,
if i'm a dictator you will not have the privilege to be arguing with me to this point Man said privilege  Says all about your mindset and mentality, really. |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by icon8: 11:26am On Jun 08, 2021 |
justwise: Why not? Because that’s the hallmark of a dictator? What that means is that if you had the power to kill or throw people in jail for just insulting you, you’d do it. What that further means is that you are no different from Generals Buhari and Abacha, Messrs Kim Jong-un, Adolf Hitler and Benito Mussolini, amongst other notorious human rights abusers living and dead! |