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Politics › Re: Joe Igbokwe Berates APC For Not Zoning The Party Chairmanship To The Southeast. by idonhammer: 10:01am On Jul 18, 2023
Apc don show this one shege. He been think say Dem go make am senate president.

No one will trust anyone who betrayed his own family.
Politics › Re: Yoruba Don’t Play Politics Of Bitterness – Atiku’s Aide Bwala by idonhammer: 8:44am On Jul 18, 2023
This one don dey look for appointment.

If you think Nigerian politician is there for your interest then you are the biggest fool of all time
Politics › Re: Asari Dokubo’s Flaunting Of Weapons Highlights Inequality Before Nigeria’s Law by idonhammer:
This one never know how brutal and deadly the unknown gunmen are.

Biafra war still dey confuse the fat idiot
Politics › Re: Tinubu To PEPT: Nullifying The Election Over 25% FCT Could Cause Anarchy, Chaos by idonhammer: 12:31am On Jul 17, 2023
Let everything scatter,no country become free without some sort of violence.




obayendo1010:
From your write up can deduce you still a baby with little or no life experience...maybe when you grow up you will understand some situation can never be force just like power, is either you negotiate you way in or you play along to be selected.....My stupidity is light year ahead of your bag of wisdom.
Politics › Re: Tinubu To PEPT: Nullifying The Election Over 25% FCT Could Cause Anarchy, Chaos by idonhammer: 11:28pm On Jul 16, 2023
Keep jumping from section to section to defend a known criminal/ bandit.


favor914:
Na you oblivious Obidients We suppose ask?
Politics › Re: Tinubu To PEPT: Nullifying The Election Over 25% FCT Could Cause Anarchy, Chaos by idonhammer: 11:23pm On Jul 16, 2023
This one never wake up from sleep.


favor914:
Same Lagos State that Eye 👁 Neck claimed Gringory Obi won?

Jokers, election was rigged, but Gringory Peter won in Lagos State?

The sooner you desist from self deceit, the better for you.
Politics › Re: Tinubu To PEPT: Nullifying The Election Over 25% FCT Could Cause Anarchy, Chaos by idonhammer: 11:16pm On Jul 16, 2023
So he should withdraw the case and go home right?

You are so stupid.



obayendo1010:
Leave Tinubu abeg, there is no guarantee Obi will win the re-run...my fear is having another Northerner in power, we have not recovery from the last one..Obi we love you but rest first or better still strike a deal with Tinubu for 2027 that will be win win for all southerners...
Politics › Re: Tinubu To PEPT: Nullifying The Election Over 25% FCT Could Cause Anarchy, Chaos by idonhammer: 11:09pm On Jul 16, 2023
Only MC oluomo and his motto park touts in lagos will bring the anarchy there in Lagos.

The rest of the country will be in celebration mood
Romance › Re: Your Partner Confessed To Cheating... by idonhammer: 10:27am On Jul 16, 2023
Dear Seen Osewa

Happy birthday to you in advance.

May God keep on blessing you with success until you bench Mark Zuckerberg and Elon Musk

I wish you all the best (ODOGWU)
Christianity Etc › Re: You Can Be Fasting And Be Prayerful & Still Die Of Hunger - Rev. Mike Okoh by idonhammer: 9:40am On Jul 16, 2023
Nti Odikwa
Christianity Etc › Re: You Can Be Fasting And Be Prayerful & Still Die Of Hunger - Rev. Mike Okoh by idonhammer: 9:39am On Jul 16, 2023
You must be commenting from Bet9ja shop.


jesusjnr2020:
You be hardworking and still die of hunger.

Being hard-working doesn't guarantee the lack of hunger.

Peter and Andrew toiled all night in the sea but caught no single fish. Luke 5:5
Crime › Re: Ebonyi Boy Murders His Master In Anambra State (Photos) by idonhammer: 11:52pm On Jul 15, 2023
Weak men everywhere. Some men will just look rugged outside but weak inside.

Imagine 17 years old boy killed such a rugged face.
Health › Re: Ex-Governor Ikpeazu's Newly-Built Hospital Is Unfit For Human Use - Commissioner by idonhammer: 12:36pm On Jul 14, 2023
That new Governor has the same attitude with Ihedioha. Very unprepared and clueless Governor.

He will be there blaming ikpeazu now until supreme Court fall on him.

Amu
Fashion › Re: Cornrows! I Didn't Know Nigerian Men Love This Hairstyle So Much (Photos) by idonhammer: 8:56am On Jul 14, 2023
Only useless boys do
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Celebrates Prof. Wole Soyinka On His 89th Birthday by idonhammer: 8:38am On Jul 14, 2023
It will still not be enough.


Dude is high on ogbomosho weed and colos.


successmatters:
Lexotan.

Two tablets before sleeping.
Christianity Etc › Re: Religion Has Finished My Mother.. by idonhammer: 10:56pm On Jul 12, 2023
She has been hypnotized by those babalawo pastors.
Crime › Re: 29-Year-Old Man Kills His Friend In Imo, Sells Organs For ₦1.5M by idonhammer: 10:25pm On Jul 12, 2023
That is why you are on nairaland, evil soul .


Candidlady:
Men at work


Not my business

Let em kill exterminating each other until they are no more


Iwant a peaceful world with less men
Politics › Re: Germany And Nigeria Population In 1980 Compared To Now by idonhammer: 12:26pm On Jul 12, 2023
Too much yashing and pouring of akamu
Business › Re: I Want To Arrest My Father For Selling My Palm Oil by idonhammer: 12:07pm On Jul 12, 2023
Very good.

budaatum:
I am very delighted to see that you learnt and "CANCELLED THE THOUGHT OF ARRESTING MY FATHER OR TAKING ANY ACTION AGAINST HIM OR ANY OTHER PERSON". One more thing though. I am certain you must have said some very horrible words to your father. I would now therefore suggest you find a way to cancel those words so their effect does not live on.

Perhaps tell your dad you misspoke because of temporary insanity or heat stroke or struggle or something, and you are really so pleased he saved your brother and put a roof over the heads of your mother and siblings with your palm oil money.

Also explain how you struggle and how difficult it is, and since he seems to have had the same struggling experiences you are having he might tell you about some mistakes he made that you might learn not to.

And the best of luck to you.
Food › Re: Another Nigerian Lady Starts 200-Hour Snail-A-Thon In Style (Pix, Video) by idonhammer: 11:21pm On Jul 11, 2023
Idiots
Celebrities › Re: Bobrisky Learns To Walk Properly After Acquiring New Curvy Shape (Photos) by idonhammer: 10:00pm On Jul 11, 2023
Omo Yoruba from the South West.


Spits

Health › Re: Pls Help A Brother. by idonhammer: 6:26pm On Jul 11, 2023
Go buy ruzu bitter, take one shot after breakfast for 5 days and give me feedback.


Owa444:
It started last June when i woked up early morning, i was very weak and tired i couldn't able to eat, so i waited for almost a week whether i will be okay but no improvement.

So i went to the hospital i was asked to conduct a test and the test came out as h.pylori that i have ulcer and indigestion problem .

The doctor recommended some drugs to me like Omeprazole, amoxicillin and Clarithromycin. After taking all the drugs i still feel the symptoms.

I went back to the hospital the doctor told me to take another test, i told the doctor that i don't have any money so they told me to increase the dosage of all the drugs.

After that still same thing, i dont what to do again. what's bothering me now it is the way i'm losing a lot of weight, people are asking if i'm sick i will just lie to them that I'm keeping fitness thats why/

I have taken alot of blood tonics and fruit's still my weight didn't improve any bit. I noticed anytime i eat or finished eat that is when the symptoms will wake up like i want to throwing up, increased in belching, infact i dey pooping like woman about ot give birth.

I always have to forced the poop out, abeg make una help me check weda some foods wey i dey eat dey make d symptoms worst like apple, watermelon, banana, chin-chin, indo-mie, biscuits,rice ,sometimes like semovita.

i don't eat hard food if i do dat means I'm looking for problem, abeg my people make una help me again d matter don tire me, i would have liked to go back to the hospital but i don't have any money now to conduct another tests.

i need an advise what to do infact excess of drinking alot of water do make me belches, anything i eat will trigger the symptoms, sometimes the thing go dey be like say fire dey inside my belle dey dance.
Politics › Re: Gunmen Invade Ipetu Baba Ode, Ogun, Shoot Many by idonhammer: 1:39pm On Jul 11, 2023
Oya one Nigeria lovers bandits don take over your villages

Business › Re: I Want To Arrest My Father For Selling My Palm Oil by idonhammer: 1:23pm On Jul 11, 2023
will you do the same thing if your father happens to be your girlfriend. You should be happy that the money was well spent. What if he used the money to drink ogogoro and chop nwkwobi?


Make God no give me pikin wey go use police arrest me because I sold his palm oil and use the money to solve family problem.

Christianity Etc › Re: Joseph Kariuki: Catholic Priest Dies After Spending Night With Woman In A Hotel by idonhammer: 9:30pm On Jul 10, 2023
grin grin grin

drizslim:
When I was small I used to revere Catholic priest as heroes of Christ.. I grew up and eavesdrops on my cousin call (A Rev. Father) calling a girl 'Baby" Shey you're still coming over'

I tire that day
Celebrities › Re: Nollywood Actor Sule Suebebe Apologises To People He Offended, Seeks Forgiveness by idonhammer: 10:29pm On Jul 09, 2023
Only brothers and afonjawood fans will know him.
Politics › Re: Tinubu: Obi, Adebanjo's Statements Treasonable - LP factional Publicity Sec by idonhammer: 10:26pm On Jul 09, 2023
Unknown gunmen this, IPob that.

Terrorists just slaughtered about 30 people in benue state yesterday and you idiots did not talk pimm.

The only thing that give you people sleepless nights is igboman.

Once any news comes from South East all of you will start to masturbate.

Cardozzo:
Yes I was about making a video about this particular issue it's a treasonable act that needs urgent solution .... This is Nigeria not Biafra you can only be a Nigerian or a Biafran in Exile ..... Peter obi was quick to react to the presidential convoy issue... But went mute since the Ugm issue... Thats what I call Hypocrisy of the highest Order .......

Politics › Re: Court Orders Obasanjo, Yaradua, Jonathan, Buhari To Account For $5bn Abacha Loot by idonhammer: 5:16pm On Jul 09, 2023
Mumu court

Instead of telling buhari to return the 5billion he stole they are beating around the bush like Cowards

On colos court

Family › Re: How To Cope When Your Spouse Doesn't Listen: Seeking Advice by idonhammer: 1:23pm On Jul 09, 2023
Thanks.

Offpointng:
Wish I can like and share this ah hundred times
Business › Re: Popular Power-line Market Aba Abia State Destroyed By Fire by idonhammer: 1:21pm On Jul 09, 2023
Too bad.

Meanwhile that man on red clothe go like juju well well
Family › Re: How To Cope When Your Spouse Doesn't Listen: Seeking Advice by idonhammer: 1:16pm On Jul 09, 2023
When a woman don't listen to you, it means she doesn't love you. If a woman doesn't love you she won't listen or respect your opinion.

When a woman loves a man, she will always listen and respect your opinion.

With my 21 years experience in marriage. The only way to make her start respecting and listening to you is to stop giving a Bleep about what she does, how she feels, where goes, what she wants.dont laugh much or play with her like before.pls don't make it look as if you are keeping malice.

Just be strange, withdraw your love and stop caring.

Remember, some people are not really important. It is your love and care that makes them special. Remove your love and attention and see how useless they are.






naice:
I find myself facing a difficult situation in my marriage and would greatly appreciate your insights and advice. The issue at hand revolves around my wife's unwillingness to listen to me. I'm at a loss as to why she behaves this way, and it's starting to take a toll on our relationship.

To provide some context, my wife has a strong-headed personality, which often leads to conflicts between us. No matter how gently I communicate my concerns or requests, she seems to disregard them and even does the opposite. This behavior frustrates me and leaves me questioning our compatibility.

One possible explanation I've considered is her background as an orphan. She lost her parents at a young age and had to take on the responsibility of caring for herself and her siblings. While I understand the challenges she faced, it seems like her self-reliance has translated into a resistance to accepting input or guidance from others, including me.

At this point, I have contemplated divorce, but there's a significant factor holding me back: our children. I love them deeply and cannot bear the thought of being separated from them. As much as her strong-headedness affects me, I firmly believe that domestic violence is never an option.

I'm reaching out to this community for reasonable opinions and advice on how to navigate this situation. Have any of you experienced a similar dynamic in your relationships? How did you cope with a spouse who doesn't listen? Are there effective strategies to foster better communication and understanding in such circumstances?

Thank you in advance for your support and guidance. Your insights will be invaluable in helping me make an informed decision about the future of my marriage."

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