VictoriaBee: I am sure a man wrote this but if that's a woman, could you please tell her things are fast evolving and no lady would be a doormat these days except dumb and leech ones that know not their right and wrong.
You're correct, just like those right and wrong knowing ladies wear plastic smiles in public but cry themselves to sleep in their empty large apartments. Not everything you see on TV is actually tenable in reality.
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Nigerians you guys can play smart eh. How can you be selling Man Utd 2015/16 jerseys that have not been even launched? That alone sends fraud signal wavelengths. I didn't say anything.
yorubadelta: Chai.. I've suffered Ok o.. you've won the debate are you happy now?
Side note: No one should really be surprised at this lady's desperate act.. she is in her 40s, time ain't on her side anymore.. I still feel sorry for her tho.
Baba T keep on running your mouth like a female you hear! what do you stand to gain by saying all this
He stands to gain same thing the lady who also ran her mouth stood to gain when she did. Men can talk too!
lucksonlight: The July 2015 Global communion service with Pastor chris has been a glorious experience of the wisdom section and power of God. The praise and worship section was led by Eben and the prayer section was led by pastor Deola.
By the inspiration of the Holy spirit, pastor Chris give answer to questions in the question and answer section. He also warned comedians never to joke with men of God.
'Don't joke with pastor they occupy a sacred office'. When God wants to destroy a man he sends him against a prophet(man of God). He said there are many things to joke or play with but not with a man called by God.
Hmmm, a word is enough for the wise
Thank God he said he used the right terms, "...called by God" hence we shall continue to poke those that called God cos they're causing more harm than good to over gullible Nigerians.
Islie: A very fatal accident was recorded at Ajibandele on Ijebu Ode - Ore Expressway after a bus fell off a bridge and plunged into a lagoon. The cause of the accident was not known at the time of writing but witnesses say no one died from the tragic accident as passengers only sustained minor injuries.
omogin: I leave you to the demons playing with your mind. Obviously you are lost.
Miss demon, liberate yourself from mental slavery. Nobody asked you not to believe what you want, but don't, like the Muslims try to force others in, instead, teach them, educate them and just like Jesus, they will follow you in love rather than in fear of your Armageddon.
ERODEDEAST: ISLAM the worst thing that befell HUMANITY
Very unlike Seun. I've been expecting him to close all Islam insulting threads, but I think even him in his utmost bias have realised that Islam doesn't actually preach peace.
[quote author=omogin post=35586240][/quote]It's no stupid quote. You didn't use your brain to answer it. Maybe you should ponder on the questions more before you tag it stupid. You're humans not fish that swallow hook, line and sinker. Reason, then give us objective answer. You will be better appreciated than running him down like you know any better.
jck1976: Sorry dude for your misconception. There are so many man made problems under independence from God. They go against God's will and never recognises that God exists until disaster strikes and they start calling on to the unknown god.
Thanks very much brother. This is the most concise answer I've ever seen of the fundamental questions begging for answers. Others, rather than answer it critically, appeal to threats and cajoling like man has no right to question the ills in the world he finds himself. Thanks once again.
gibson81: be careful not to bring calamity upon your self. don't question the ability of the Almighty Jehovah, for He is able and willing to do all things, if we ask in the name of Jesus Christ.
You should rather answer those fundamental questions than religionise it further.
Imanuelle: This is why the removal of military check points is a wrong move...
See them spreading.
What has military check points got to do with women bearing bombs in hijab? Will their religion allow them to search everybody properly? Or were there fewer attacks when the soldiers were manning the street? Yes, military should remain in restive areas not in more civil areas in the South like Agbor, in Delta state that Governor Okowa have planted since 4 years or more. Military have no place in civilian community at all. Read up the Jos case were they beat up a man at the ATM for not giving them his own money.
kennyman200: Naija... We shall get it right one day..
Do you guys ever have shame? Those things you proudly display as signature or picture, why don't you at least try and know the difference between 'Am' and 'I'm or I am'? It would go a long way to better your status.
I guess Emmanuel Uduaghan & his stooges should clap for their selves. That airport gulped billions of money, he used Channels TV to carry out his propaganda & people thought he did something. Nothing. Uduaghan can not use that airstrip himself. He sold employment spots for between N250- N800k to Deltans. That bigot thief should rot in jail if we have any sense. He will never see good thing come his way again.
You will so wait for God to come and intervene. God said, "I will bless the WORK of your hands..." not "I will come and do the work for you". So those praying & hoping that that God will come down and make Nigeria good again, sorry to burst your bubble. Egypt, Algeria etc didn't wait for God to do their revolution for them. Make your demands & follow it up by actions. But then of course, sectionalism & nepotism will almost always set in. So let's fold our hands and wait for God to come and make Nigeria great again.
agarawu23: I would have hated myself if I was in love. Jesus! i would'av quit my work or take a sick leave for like 2 months
Nigeria ladies scamming us since 18bc. she never loved the guy
She tried to friendzone the guy but the guy wise up i am sure the guy is spending for her
Thing is, the guy already knew the girl never loved him, so why waste his lifetime with her anyway? He probably jumped the gun cos I feel that girl could have pulled same string as he did. Ladies should stop pretending to be the jilted, they more often than not have things planned out ab initio.
Why, how much money did they steal? Ones that stole up to $24m are still rocking private jets and appointments. If we talk about death, they maybe killed just a couple or so, lives and families have been wasted by denial of pension and salaries and bad roads and poor electricity and bad pipe borne water etc. There are evils and there are worse evils.
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NobleG1: If you engage in cheating, you should also accept its consequences. Cheating in a relationship is a terrible thing. Cheaters neither deserve to be in a relationship nor be loved.
I would rather end the relationship than cheat on my woman! That's what real men do!
Real men indeed. You should be sitting at the right hand side of God at this rate.
NobleG1: You indeed don't understand English. The OP wrote;
What do you not understand there? Why would his brother hide the woman's number on his phone with a male name? Is that not enough red flag that something is going on? Isn't it strange that whenever his brother calls a number saved as "Henry" , OP always hears a female voice?
Do you need to attend a relationship school to know that cheating is going on? How would you feel if you found out your woman hid a man's number with a female name?
Dude, in life, nothing is as it seems. Open a can of worms and you may live to regret it. There are more democratic ways of handling issues than ratting out your brother (or even not your brother). You may be thinking you're all holy and all that, but believe me, you won't be all smiles when your subordinates rat out on you for 'your own good'. I may not understand English, but from the much I do, it's mere premises and suspicion I deciphered from the text. Maybe that is indeed a crime in your vocabulary, yes?
NobleG1: Either you didn't understand what OP posted or you deliberately chose to ignore reality. The guy made it clear, he CAN'T discuss this with his cheating brother because of how their relationship is.
Your statement, "better marriages have survived worse infidelity crisis than mere phone call" is really an ignorant one. Nobody has to cheat and be forgiven in their marriage to 'make it better'! And no marriage needs to survive infidelity to be 'better'! Why cheat in the first place if you want a better marriage?
Cheating in a relationship can occur in various forms: Infidelity, Emotional affair and Adultery.
Infidelity is a violation of a couple’s assumed or stated contract regarding emotional and/or sexual exclusivity.
Emotional affair is an affair between two people that mimics the closeness and emotional intimacy of an affair while never being physically consummated.
Adultery is extramarital sex that is considered objectionable on social, religious, moral or legal grounds.
So when you have an emotional affair with someone outside you relationship, on phone or internet or via letters, even without physical contact, you're cheating!
Nigerian cheating definition is only when sex occurs, which is incorrect and unintelligent.
Either you didn't read the text or you're a relative of West Germany. I believe he said a call my brother made... So if you are that righteous to end your marriage based on 'oyibo man's' assertion of cheating, go ahead and be my guest. Probably, after your 11th marriage you may get it right.
One truth that I have come to realise in life is that money doesn’t solve problems. Ideas and the application of one’s creativity are the solutions to man’s problems. Why would I give my wife to another man to sleep with because of money? I cannot do it. No matter how poor I am, I cannot do it – even for N1bn. Those who can do such a thing can as well do anything evil to make money. As for me, it is better to die poor as an upright man than die rich as an unscrupulous one.
I’ll not allow it Nwachukwu Bella
My husband is like gold that I cherish so much and I won’t let a ‘baby mama’ somewhere do that to him. I believe it’s only when a woman does not make her husband feel loved that the man will go outside. When there is true love, money doesn’t dictate how couples react to situations. It’s an ungodly act. I can’t let my spouse sleep secretly with another woman for money not to talk of in my very presence. I will just commit suicide, or let’s say that’s an exaggeration, I will simply quit the marriage. Any man that chooses money over a woman’s love is not worthy of living with.
It’s slavery mentality Oyelade Eyitayo
That idea is sickening and it can never occur to me. That’s like selling my wife. It is a slavery mentality. Anything you sell and then get back again would have lost its value. To be sincere, I can never love my life like I used to if that should happen. Perhaps we need someone’s help and he asked for my wife to sleep with him, to hell with his money. I would rather die than subject my wife to such a thing. But if she wants to do it, she can, but she should know that that is the end of our marriage.
It’s shameful Timi Sumbiri
This is not only a disgusting act, but it tells of the loss of virtue among some people. Why should you ask another woman’s husband to sleep with you before you can offer any form of help? I will not let my husband do it; he dare not even think of it. But wait a minute, what if the woman is not asking to do it in my presence and my husband doesn’t even tell me? It’s a complicated issue, but I just pray one will not fall into that kind of temptation.
I can’t do it Taiwo Olufemi
No matter the situation I’m in, I cannot do it. Any man that wants to do such a thing to my wife is evil. It’s lack of moral values that would make a man request for such. Even for the wealth and riches of the whole world, I will never let my wife do such. I even trust her, she is not a cheap woman and I am also not a cheap man. You know it’s in situations like that that your brain starts booting of ideas. We are going to find out what to do to get out of that situation and hopefully, if we work hard, we are going to make it too. Only desperation and worthlessness will make people fall for that kind of money.
Money isn’t my lord Oloruntomi Adeleke
I don’t need such money. The things that men do to have money at times make me wonder whether they don’t have conscience. How could you want to sleep with my husband because we probably need a favour from you? That’s an insult on my husband and me. I’ll encourage my husband to let us keep working hard and think smartly so that we can make our own money without having to be insulted by one ‘sugar mummy’ out there. Moreover, anyone that wants such a thing from another person’s spouse is perhaps a ritualist.
I can’t sell my wife Tobi Goke
That’s like going into bondage with my eyes wide open. It is definitely not possible. I like money and I think everybody does, but to go to an extent of letting another man have sex with my wife in my presence is what I can never do. I will never sell my wife. Whatever we need the money for will have to wait until we find someone who will genuinely help us. If such help never comes, it’s all good. We cannot allow a mere man steal our home because of money.
It can never happen Oluwadara Akinbola
Even without my husband, I can make much more money than that if I put my potentials to use let alone when both of us put our heads together. Seriously, only lazy and desperate folks would fall for that kind of temptation. Men are tempted out of their own inordinate desires. Maybe that kind of request will propel me to think and work harder, who knows? But to let another woman sleep with my ‘own body’ (my husband) is something that can never happen.
Only if our marriage is money-oriented Biebele Kiakubu
I will do it if our marriage is only money-oriented in the first place. You know it happens. A couple could marry each other to further their career or business ambitions, not necessarily because they love each other. I have seen many cases like that. Likewise, if I have a wife who is interested in the deal, I will let her do it. We’ll both share the money. However, if I have a real wife, someone I truly love, I can kill a man who wants to sleep with her for money because that’s even a bigger sin than adultery.
Let him decide Rhodaline Mieseigha
The decision to sleep with another woman because of money is mainly that of my husband. Of course, I am not saying I am going to agree or disagree, but you can never predict or tell what a man should do. My husband has his own conscience; if it pleases him to do it, there is nothing I can do stop him. We’ve all heard about men that carry women to their matrimonial rooms, so what does that say? But one thing is, if it ever happens, it means I’ll kiss my husband goodbye.
But ya'll wives were no virgins now and many still extend hands of fellowship to exes and bug money dudes. So does it really matter or its just the knowledge of whom? #justsaying
Dearth of intelligent girls. Many of them are so dumb.
How can a girl be discussing make up with her boyfriend ? This is no joke. Raise important issue like Buhari government, she cannot contribute one thing..
The only things they know are baseless gossip from LindaIkeji (or whatever is her name) and the latest hairdo. Girls should wake up to reality. Stop the fantasy living.
modath: God will bless your yet to be born generation..
Never seen such unprovoked &misplaced hate, if PMB killed a venomous snake that is about to strike him, the TANoids are likely to accuse him of animal abuse.. awon were gbogbo..
I dont know what will become of this nation if 90% of the "yoots" think through their anal cavity...
Unprovoked and misplaced hate? Jonathan must be laughing at your simplicity.
NobleG1: Those telling you to do nothing are nothing but hypocrites!
None of them here would want you to keep quiet if they were in the same shoes with your brother's wife! Cheating is a serious danger to any marriage/relationship, which could either destroy the marriage or cause serious damage to the kids or even cause death (the side chic could kill your bro's wife to takeover).
Your brother is a cheater, he's doing something terrible and if you keep quiet about it, then you're no different from him. Sit your bro's wife down privately and tell her what you observed and she'll be glad that you did. Tell her to investigate and confirm before confronting her husband. Don't fail to let her the name (Henry) to investigate on her husband's phone.
And advise her to not involve you. She will do everything in her power to protect you while she goes into action mode with her quest. Don't worry about causing any problem, you're doing the right thing. It will change your brother for good and strengthen their marriage when the side-chick is no more in the picture. But if it causes their divorce, don't blame yourself, your brother has himself to blame for being unfaithful, cheating and disrespecting his wife, his kids and his marriage.
Even if you don't tell her, she'll definitely find out soon because cheating can't be hidden for long. And if she also finds out you knew and kept quiet, you'll NEVER be in her good-book.
None hypocritical Mentalist that knows cheating from just phone calls. Don't form holier than thou here dude, better marriages have survived worse infidelity crisis than mere phone call. So before you yap up about your morality, why not advise him to ask the brother who he has been talking to instead of doing aproko to the wife?
YOURMAN: Hey people! I don't know if this is the right section for this ..but if its not maybe the mods can help move it to the right section
After my graduation from one of the nigerian universities, I have been staying with my elder brother.. He's the second born as a lady is my parents first born.. But he's the first son.. Age of about 42+.. Before I got admission in school I do stay with him and after my university education, I went back to his place, because his house is big and spacious to contain me .. After about two to three months, I have been going to work with him I noticed something..
There is this number he usually call wen we are going back home in the car.. The way he talks to the person on phone I doubt if its a guy he's talking to.. Because the number is saved with a guys name "henry" but I do hear a ladies voice at the back of the phone.. So I'm wondering..
After my final findings I do discover thats a lady.. Now the big question is my bro got 3 grown up kids.. And a wife.. What should I do? Should I just leave him to move on or tell the wife?? To me I feel that he's still a young flexing man! Maybe he should enjoy it while it last.. Or I should just tell the wife because the wife is cool to me and nice.. What should I do..
Also Note behind.. This my bro.. I do respect and fear him so much.. I can't even dare talk about a lady with him.. As his like a dad to me! So telling me to talk to my bro is out of the solution.. So my fellow people what should I do?
You must be The Mentalist if you could know your brother is cheating just from a phone call. You can go ahead and break a home based on suspicion, it's your cup of agbo. Some men flirts, but it often ends there. No strings attached. So I believe you now have other sources of income because what you're about doing is stopping this one. Sai gobe.
Family › Re: Words Of Advice From A Mother To Her Daughter by Ifebazz(m): 8:01am On Jul 10, 2015
