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Bros you don enter one-chance.
A lot of this scammers abound.People must have to be wary.
But op,this is a good lesson for you-did you conduct a check on the foundation?Did you find out how authentic it was before parting with your money?How did you expect to get a loan just like that from a body you stumbled on via the internet?Na wah o.

Am happy for Pastor Law,their kids,congregation and the household of faith.Pastor Folake is a fulcrum of support for her husband's ministry and a model to a lot of women.I thank God for giving her a second chance.

Strange indeed.What really are people looking for that would make them victims of these fake 'men of God'?.

This sure hits home.Thanks op!

Was going to ask if you have a creche in your place of work,but I guess you wouldn't be here if you had one.
Op I dont know the kind of work you do,but have you considered taking your baby to work with you?If you h ave baby friendly boss(es),explain young plight to them and am sure they would allow you have the baby with you during office hours.
The only other option is to quit your job and start a small business,since all other suggestions seem impracticable.

If guilty,fireman should face the firing squad joor.
People throng his church looking for 'miracles'.See the agony he has caused the poor girl's family and possibly a lot of others that did not come to the open like this.
I always tell people-watch where you go in search of miracles!

Really?Thanks o.

Lord have mercy!
What would people not do because of money or is it power, as in the case of the pastor who gave this not so innocent 18year old this deadly assignment?

Politricks!Oshio.....why you play into their hands again nah?

Was he not aware of her high profile lifestyle before?What kind of silly excuses am I seeing here?When would people learn that marriage is a serious issue?
Na by force to marry?Shioor.

I loved that woman!Erelu Kuti sun re o.
The musical album waxed for her by King Sunny Ade is so evergreen.
But wait o-is she truly dead?

Men could be so annoying atimes;when you expect them to be understanding,they tend to be unnecessarily stubborn.
All the same,you have to keep trying.Your manner of approach is important too.Dont sound like you are demanding but let him see the need for your safety and comfort,considering that you have limited space.
If however he is not ready to move his brother out as yet,learn to make the best of the situation and pray that things will one day work out the way you want.

Some houseowners could be terrible.
They feel they own the world.
But NO poster-you dont have to worship your landlord and his family.Respect yourself,pay your rent as at when due and mind your own business and when they are stepping beyond their bounds,call them to order as politely as possible.
Beyond this,please work towards getting a place of your own,no matter how small.Yes, I know some people will say 'we all can't own houses now'.Yeah,that's true,but there is really no harm in trying.Your own na your own o.

What revenge is he talking about?
People go into relationships for many reasons.Thank God he was able to get the truth about her feelings this early.
The right thing to do is walk away.

How so?He isn't my dad.And am not his mum,so he shouldn't mummy me.

With a friend like this.......

Kini big deal?A friend once came crying that her hubby brings such films home for them to watch together and she gets into terrible fight with him over this.
So I asked her-would you rather he watched with you or with someone else?
Truth is,there is nothing to it,so long as it is not an addiction.

I agree with Akaraokus that women at times see beyond men.
Like the woman said,if she had told the husband,he wouldn't have allowed her to do the project.Maybe he is the type who believes 'money is for spending' instead of putting things in place for the future.
For goodness sake,they have been married for 23years and the woman just completed a house!
Another angle to it is,the woman no longer trusts the hubby.Maybe she feels he has been keeping secrets from her or is involved with another woman.Mind you,these are mere speculations o.
If none of the above excuses are not tenable,then the husband should just accept that she did it in good faith and for the good of all.
Telling her to auction it is not an option please.
The woman should have been more open though.Such solo efforts tend to send the wrong signals.

When it comes to unfaithfulness in marriage,have observed that the rules that apply to women do not apply to men;if your hubby cheats you have to forgive for the sake of the kids blah blah blah.But should the table turn,the woman would be labelled a LovePeddler and a killer.
Truth of the matter is cheating should be a no no in a man-woman relationship.It is a betrayal of trust and it hurts really bad.
Most times,it is not even because a partner had erred one way or the other,but because the straying partner just sees cheating as a way of life.
Yeah,even if I forgive,trust had been eroded and I sure can't forget.My opinion.

Some men are worse than dogs..they sleep with anybody-sis -inlaw,wife's friends, even housemaids.
But I think by keeping silent about it,you are tacitly encouraging him.
Let your sister know what's up.He must have been doing that with others close to your sis before now.The man is shameless.Please do not give in to him.

This is news to me o!Your own child?
I think the woman needs urgent medical attention before she starts blaming the 'devil' for committing an unpardonable act.
. It is a serious matter.

Very pretty gal,just like her mum;she also looks well catered for inspite of mum's seemingly busy life on account of her career.

Nigeria is the only country where this kind of poo happens;who is Al Mustapha to be challenging OBJ to a debate?We know his antecedents:That he is walking free now is no thanks to our Judicial system.
Imagine him saying he went to India to receive treatment for an injury he sustained while in detention.He is now in the league of 'big men'who travel abroad to treat common cold,abi?God dey.

That is the effect of taking all these so called energisers.Abi na madtness?
What is the adjournment about?The man should be put away for life joor.

@Op,is it the intelligent one that is of your tribe or the one who assists you financially?We have to be clear here.

Wunmi may not appear beautiful to many,but I can see she has some beautiful character if I may say.
I have always had one thing or the other to learn from their interviews.A wonderful couple.

You can't marry for your baby sake sister dear.You marry for love;you marry because you are happy in a relationship and feel like taking it to the next level.
I undestand your point about wanting to have all your kids by one man,but dont we all?
The only thing you can do for the boy is forgive and forget the hurt of the past.Sure you must have some fond memories of the past-bring these to the fore,see if you could bring back the feelings of old,and start loving your man again.Only then should you enter into a marriage contract with him.
If however you have tried these with no positive results,please look elsewhere.Am sure you will find someone who will give both you and your son love.
Wish you all the best.

I don't get it-one is intelligent and good looking while the other is not so intelligent but assists financially.
Are these all the qualities you look out for in a relationship that might be altar bound?How about compatibility and more importantly,love?How well do you relate as friends?Money or no money,who gives you happiness more?
I wouldn't want to go on and on but I think there are a lot of other things to think about before you say I do,aside good looks,intelligence and money.

Karen,I feel for you.Wish you a successful surgery.

Seriously,am beginning to suspect this man.What is he doing with or to these girls?Something is not right about this whole bullshit.

Wahala dey o!
'subsidy reinvestment and empowerment programme maternal and healthcare'.
How did they arrive at this tongue twisting project name?
How does peace come in?
Just wonder who her speech writers are.

Them force the woman attend the party ni?