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^can I be your teacher? Let's go there. . .

Mbong, nomi efere= please gimme soup.

Is that even efik or ibibio @ jamace?

Interesting.I have never heard about the "achighara ya oji" phrase.Can anyone shed more light on this please,using kolanut as "summons",is it real ?

The gods are wise.I remain kpekus xyz of ilya d ehen ehen.My grandmother was a karid virgin.may we walk and never stumble

^Ah,ah. . .Chief Negro olori ust have over "indulged" you this weekend.All this male ego trip.lol

The male rascals on here must be very happy to hear that their male fluids qualify as . . .ROFL.

Purity,ndeewo.I bu nwoke ka i bu nwanyi.Ebe a ulo nmai/nmanya ndi Igbo,kwuo ihe masiri gi,mme ihe o bula.Usu enweghi onu.lolz

Blackpikin,kedu ebe i si eweta video ndia?Umuaka ndia amakacha.Ndi muru ha,o kacha ndi nna ha na-agbakwa mbo asuru ha igbo ma na akpolata ha ulo.

Odumchi,lolz.O di possible seekwa ebe Abagworo,Okija juju na Only truth na alu ogwu.hahaha

^Good to know.
I've got for me a few stuff but i think appreciating Arts goes beyond buying stuff.

I love the Yrouba talking drums.Would rather be found @ a talking drum festival than to go listen to 'em gangsta rap.

Bad news everyday,everywhere.Tufia!!!

@Mooretes,OK.

Odunnu,yep,shes there live.

There should be social service offices @ either Umuahia or Aba.To the best of my knowledge,you do NOT need the services of a lawyer for adoption in Nigeria.We never reach that levels.

Success failure ration of online dating nowadays,IMO is like 2:50.

It would be better if she goesout to meet new people.Is she in Lagos?she can join the lagos hash club,go to the beaches,cinemas often.Singles seminar.She should quit hanging out with married folks,be more open and less uptight.Never forget the power of a smile and humility.She should write out "realistic" qualities she wants in a man and once she gets a man that ticks positive to most,go for it.No one gets it all,already made.

Lastly,we all are NOT destined to marry.

^"gotten" the child from where exactly? No make amadioha vex and make your child available someday to be "gotten" for adoption someday.

OP, just in case you are lazy to search for those threads, here are quick tips:
Your friend should look for "registered" orphanages in the state where he wants to adopt. Keyword is registered, not just any orphanage.

He can visit, see the kids and might be lucky to bond with 1.

Find out from the home if the child is up for adoption and if yes.

Head to the state social service or welfare office. Tell them his mission ie adoption, the home he visited and outcome.

The social service takes it up from there. Your friend would be screened, asked a lot of questions, very private ones(he better answer honestly too). This step takes sometime. They want to know why s/he wants to adopt, his financial status etc.

If he passes all their tests and meets the criteria, they would give him or her a list of all the available kids up for adoption depending on his preference(sex and age) in all the registered orphanages within the state and ask him to try see all kids.

S/he goes around, decides on a child and the paper works starts. Note that some orphanges might demand money at this stage, money for all the expensis they've incurred whilst taking care of the child, a few won't too.

Paperwork completed, legal papers signed, processing fees paid, et voila, someone is a proud mom or dad.

Anything short of this, you are just aiding child kidnapping!
Beware of people that would claim they have links and can help you. . . It might be your lil' niece or nephew they intend stealing. Beware of child miracle churches and mushroom, unregistered orphange homes.

Goodluck!

Let's pretend that the white/ Arab man didn't come with their religions, were there really a point in history when we did appreciate our articrafts? Has it not always been linked with one god or the other, something to be revrenced?

My few visits to Nike art center and terra culture lagos have made me to sort of believe that our arts, heritage would continue to find its way to the western world where its appreciated cos our people, you and I don't give a damn. Black US evil. . . Self hate. Much.

O dighim ka owu oshi maka na o bughi na ime ezi ma o bu ulo nmadu.

Greateros, imela!

Andre Uweh: Eziokwu ka ikwuru.
Kedu kwanu maka nkpuru osisi ndi nke no na Ozara Okigwe-Enugwu express road?. Nkpuru osisi kashiu juputara ebeaha. Ndi madu na akwushi na aghora ya aracha. Odim ka onweghi ndi wee ya.
Amam na obughi ohi.

Nedu 2010, ngwanu bia m nso.okWa ina eweta full voltage? Ima otu esi akulite bandi Elu? Lolz

Happy Sunday, Nwoke oma.

Lol.
@odumchi,gba mbo sere anyi special one ebe a.
Presido1 and nnenneigbo n'elu akwa while Romeo no n'ezi with a bouquet of flower and ring for nnenne.

Ikomi ebe o na achughari babyO, nwanyi no na di.

Pres elect ebe o na esi na keyhole enyo Agaba na tosh mgbe ha na e discuss with felimbobo n'ime ulo.

Udo chia!
Igbo Amaka.

Quoted for future reference.
[quote author=Negro_Ntns]. . . in the reproduction of a child, the father is a marker, the mother is the child's nature and spirituality. In cosmolosophy, the sun is the father, a marker, and the earth is the mother, the nature.

Sun provides light, the marker, . . . earth provides love (rhythym), the nature!





Human enlightenment and knowledge of the solar system and its relationship with human nature was first formulated and taught by Africans. Other races learnt this knowledge from Africans. Art and Science in the African consciousness is one and the same and were regarded as a pair of essences expressing the nature of man and the environs in its polarized balance. Hence the teachings of physical and metaphysical sciences or physical and esoteric arts. . . .generally termed alchemy in ancient manuscripts. In the evolution of science and particularly under the stewardship of Western philosophers, the two - arts and sciences - were separated into distinct schools of thought and scholarship. By the time Western kingdoms started their Imperial wars round the globe, they had greatly maneuvered away from the arts and though it existed as a knowledge and principles, it was hardly the mainstream practice.

It is only of recent as their own scientifically leaning societies is beginning to fail that they are returning to alchemy as a means of sustenance and explanations for human nature. However, as they discover the truth in alchemy they also realize past errors and the risk of admitting those errors. To formulate a balance and reconcile the two with minimal shifts to their social culture, they are using scientific terms and standards to express and demonstrate metaphysical and esoteric knowledge. They are attempting to return to alchemy without doing damage to Western philosophical thoughts and loosing out to current stewards of the knowledge - China, Brazil and India. So they use words like the ""effect of sun and melanin content to human spirituality"", instead of saying. . . ""the dark race is a spiritual nature and sustainer of mankind and we made an error 100yrs ago when we made contact and called them heathens"". They use terms like "Quantum Physics instead of admitting that the babalawo's divination board is a mirror into the cosmos"".




I agree the sun is a powerful influence, there is no dispute to that. However, it is not the source of life! It is scientific dogma to say the earth will freeze over without the sun. This idea supports the cause for the global warming advocates who insist that without their intervention humankind will be annihilated by the elements. That is playing god!

God is the one who designed it all. . .he made certain things grow out of the earth in Africa which is beneficial to the bodies and health of those whose nature is in harmony with the African soil. When someone out of an European continent comes and start to eat the African crop he gets sick. This is because his nature is not in harmony with the rythym of that soil. Even in tundra climates where the surface soil is frigid, there are plants that grow out of the earth and animals graze. In extreme of weather and climatic conditions, the earth will support and sustain those with whom it shares nature. In winter weather and sub-zero temperatures animals burrow into the soil and caves, why? Because it is warm and comfortable in the earth. It is only cold on earth's surface due to the sweeping effect of cold and temperate winds, the sub-terranean itself is ever comfortable and warm, with or without the sun.[/quote]

^nigerians are adopting please.the fact that its not yet a norm or publicly announced does not mean we aint into adopting.

OP, you aint getting any response because :
This topic has been over flogged to death here. A simple search and I'm sure you'd come up with more than 7 like threads.

The mods that ought to have helped you are busy hiding posts.

^madam, long time no anya na amu?Uju amugo!nwanyi.

@OP, your thread title is quite different from the body. Anyways, I won't blame the woman so much for her act ie not informing everyone about the pregnancy. One thing I've come to accept about life is this; when it comes to people taking their own destinies in their hands, ask no questions, don't probe for reasons or they wear the shoe and know where it "sweets or hurts" more.

If I'm in her shoes, desperate to have a child and all that, I might do worse. You never can tell till it hits you.

Scouting for wives for my sons.Uju you berrra raise ada anyi nke oma.Adanma that would compliment my son,onye na ekwusi okwu ike,agbara nwanyi that wont be intimidated by any man hediot.

Same for you Odunnu else i'd dump y'all and go for Jennys daughters.Me and Jenny as MIL'S hahahahaaa,those our children go fear fear.

Ezula ji,akwkwo nri ma obu ede na oba ma o bu oru/ugbo mmadu(don't steal yam,cassava,cocoyam,vegetables and the likes from anothers farmland or storeroom)

Tupu i gho oroma,unere,udara na ihe nracha ndi ozo no n'ulo mmadu,i ga ebu uzo mee ka onye aghu mara.(before plucking fruits from anothers compound,you must endeavour to get the owners consent.

Ura na atum sef.

andromida: They've done the traditional wedding.

Yeah so she got to be diplomatic now.IF she has some money to spare and depending on how much she asked,she can give her a quater of whatever she asked for and tell her that things are uptight for her now.

Btw,why is the daughter she intends visiting not footing the bills?is she going as an "uninvited" guest?

Haha.
Odumchi i makwa ese ihe.
ChinenyeM,Physics and eze Only Truth are mad funny.lolz

IMO,thats how it should be.Serving God does not mean one should forget his identity/roots.Lets see how the RCCG org. would handle this.

So,have your friend confirmed the "ndume" hes actually searching for?
I might be able to chip in abit if its Ndume of Aro lga.

Quite surprised that no one else said something

If I read correctly, he got into fire to rescue his boss daughter right?no mention was made of that boss again throughout the interview, did the boss not help then(ideally he or she should offset the hospital bill), can't help now or he just sacked him after the unfortunate incident?that bit of information is important.

I pray God locates him with grace and favour.

@OP, when you say mil to be what exactly do you mean?the guy already proposed but they are yet to see both families, they did introductions already, they've been living together for a donkey years(lagos marriage) or they are just madly in love(mere BF/gf) and hoping to tie the knots someday.

Whatever be the status, I won't give no "would be" mil money for such a need. What happened to her children?
Some people sha,no shame or decorum.

Harakiri, same to you. Lolz. You were pussyfooting na, a prince charming flew in and took your beau ujujoan right under your nose. She is a nursing mother as I type.
Welcome back to the "family" section of nld!
Mu he he

God bless you real good, olowotee!

This thread, lolz.
Its quite surprising that after all the "ohs,ahs" and the baby girl is almost 6 months old, baby and mom is yet to get a single promise on here fulfilled.

Nld Na house of comedy sha, take anyone(me included)serious at your own risk.

Saw this @ the homepage and thought my last nite boozing has taking over my brain.

OP,need to come to the shrine asap for cleansing the land.Aru ka aru,njo ka njo.