₦airaland Forum

Last I was in Benin,there were various road construction projects going on.Where did this happen and what was the cause ?

I see.
Ex boyfriends and co-wives were NOT invited to this party.Even the thread sef was hidden deep inside Agaba's bokos.NOT funny.

Belated buffday to you dearest Odunnu.You are indeed more than a treasure.May God in his mercies keep,bless and protect you.

LOL.
@OP,let me educate on NLD 419 course for dummies.

You keep viewing the thread each time you log on.200 views with 1 post is better surely.
Delete the thread title and replace with "deleted" and delete whatever u typed in the thread body and replace with ". or ," .This approach works like magic.The thread would assume a new life instanta as curious souls would click open the thread in a bid to know what was deleted.

Thank me.

^Whats the "naija factor" and how do we prevent it ?

Duplicate thread.
I replied at the other thread.

You found such a thing and all you could do was come to nld?I know you know that i know you are lying.

Just so i wont appear as a party crasher if i saw in my husbands car,im going with it in hand to demand for an explanation and no matter how convincing or clear his reply might be,we're going for fresh HIV soon.I might let it cool for a week or so(depending on his reply) but we'dbe going for tests for sure.

Eze Nri,Udo di.dalu
Tosh biko hapu m aka.Onye aghugho.I chuputa m na ulo Darfur,i ga-akpo m ala ulo gi?You want some milk?buy the darn cow! lol

Agaba owu Odumchi ka i na-agwa ya mechie onu?I na-acho okwu aka nri na aka ekpe.O nwere ihe merenu?Owu konji?lol

Konji na ewe different reactions.O jide Tosh,o daputa hoha acho onye o ga-azogbu.O jide Agaba o chowa okwu na ogu.O jide Darfur,o daba bathroom with ncha.O jide Presido1,ogho lecturer.lol

Happy weekend all.

IMO,its poverty.There is an exception sha,some people are born as ar.selickers.

The ones i see around me,i believe its poverty.A hungry man would say anything just to get a few pennies off you.

The funny thing is that the people that would follow you around,use their 'fila' to dust your car,scream 'jeun soke,file na chairman be dis' lol etc are same set of people that would heap curses on you if you fail to throw some naira notes their way.

2 relatives in my house and not for health reasons?Woman chop knuckle first,you try!!

@Topic,Why is she staying with you guys?how old is she?Anyhoos,she just got a job and hopefully she would leave for her own place soon.In the meantime,take a deep breath e and let your husband talk with her first BUT,do not make her food for her.Prepare the general food and if she wont have that and cant get her ass up either make she starve now.

Don't confrot her oh or tell her you wont make her food,just do what you are suppossed to do and ignore her.Btw,how old is the other relative living with you,s/he can help you with the chores.

Woman,don't over stress yourself with house chores,if u can afford,get an undergraduate or help that would come once or twice each week to help you.

Many African men are bisexuals.Keyword is "many".A research too.

Last week,my 3 years old boy had a research in my kitchen and at the end of the day,he could prove that beef is the younger brother of 'kpomo'

^You got both right.O kpoo ori.lolz

Ngwas use 'kpoo' too ?

Lagos state have made it easy,go to the office of the public defender,Alausa ikeja.

@OP,what else do u want to hear?

If you think the girl is a cheat and a liar,just help establish her(if she is not already),discuss and plan about the kids future and move on already or marry her and help her become a better person.

@Moremi,you are right about pathological liars but that does not mean the OP's girl might not change.Some women are horrible as singles but change for the better once married.

@OP,where is the child now?Have u been supporting her?

You lived with her when u were down,noticed she were not honest,she left her house for you,she bore a child for you and now this ? She DID not change,so whats new?

If you were able to live with her then why not now?she helped u then what stops you from helping her now become a better person?

Have u sat her down to tell her about her flaws,find out why she feels she needs to lie(whats she hiding,whats her fears,insecurities,fears),encourage her to be open,honest to you and don't judge her past.

Btw,you need to get that DNA test done.

@OP,please after having your lols and lmao,can you kindly tell your friend to "stay put with her kids" in the UK.Her coming back wont bring back the man but it would certainly ruin her and jeopardize the kids future too.

Shyte happens.she could have sent her own family member to confirm the story as opposed to sending a friend who might have been settled with a couple of pounds note.The heart of men(and women),who can tell ?

^Eche jare,omo dada.
It's close to Akute now.Im there already.

Can we get a special canopy for "nairaland" ? or a table for 8 atleast?

Naija and innovations.Never knew people now do e-obituaries.We are getting there!

^What do you mean?Our respected 'happily' married neighbour in Belfast was fvucking the neighborhood tramp.It happens everywhere. . .not right though.

@OP,what was ur sister,husband,other lady reactions when she walked in on them?what are the husbands reaction now?Has he apologised?did he come up with any excuses or reasons(nothing justifies his action) ?

Divorce NOW might be a regret later.Depending on what the husband has said/done since the unfortunate incident,i think she might do well by taking a time out for herself to evaluate her situation.

Some women might forgive a repentant husband,some men would apologise sincerely,some women cant live with such and would file for divorce asap,some men might even ask you to leave themseleves,its all about the 2 individuals concerned.

Let your niece think through and make the decision HERSELF.and i hope she makes the best decision for herself and her kids.

@OP,how parade?
Have you finally married the single mom you said u were/are dating ?

I want come una wedding!

Oh choochi!
Ije di na ije uwa sef.
Biko unu mewe ngwa maka na Oge adughi.

Tosh de toshiba!

Kedu nke na eme?anything for babes this weekend?any show?

Odumchi, a dim aga ndi Aro na adi. Ogologo, nma, arsenal na Manchester.lolz

How did this thread suddenly shift to Agiboma and her personal life ?

This is a trick question but I would drop my 2 cents.

Depending largely on the type of family your man comes from, this your honest intentions can make or mar this relationship so watch it. In some quarters, this might be seen as a bribe, trying to hard to buy their love, acceptance while a few would see it as it is, a honest gift.a handful. Still would accept the gift now and accept you automatically but that means you'd have to keep giving to stay in their good books; the love or acceptance stops the day you stop giving.

Now, if you are not bothered about whatever the long term effect this gift would have on you, this relationship and must give, I suggest you keep it simple, low key but thoughtful. So my ideal list of gifts would be:
A simple scarf with her name knitted on it.
A cardigan with her initials.


Btw, I noticed you said you can't remember the name of your mans tribe. We are Africans and place more value on our loved ones committing to memory stuff like our favorite dish, our local market days, our village name as opposed to birthdays and gift sharing.

Goodluck girl!

People still were willing to help but some parts of your post were not very clear reason everyone is asking questions.If you really need help,you've got to ignore the comments that go down well with you and come up with a clearer picture of your situation.

If you give up or get irritated easily this way,the immigration papers might take forever to materialise.

Goodluck.

Wetin you find go Uratta,ma.
Your son in law is not smiling anymore,you are making us wait too long,menini ?

Pa was 92? Thats an over ripe age for death and so i believe you guys are organising an atleast 1 week party.Location and date please!!!

Im getting my cup,spoon,plates and food coolers out.Please i want the plantain amala and ewedu,i'd pass @ gbegiri.Ori eja,shaki and roundabout and man-know-man would do me just fine.

Fare thee well Dada(snr)

@OP,have you got one already?

I sat myself down today and went soul searching.I love my husband and family sooooo very much that i wonder if i would "really" walk away without a fight if ever things go awry.Hmmn,my honest answers to myself hit me so hard that i quickly went down on my knees to pray.No be mouth oh,na only God!

@Agiboma,I don't know all the whats or whys to your marriage but all i got to say is that "you are strong,woman",very strong!