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@Basics,you raised valid points.According to the OP,he met her while she was still lactating so give or take the child is less than 3 years now.The average KG/playgroup is like 30 or 40K per term(3 months) so whats the biggie?

Same OP,from his opening lines implied he is a big boy or what does this statement which he typed mean?; "her friends said to my hearing,'how u take catch this one' "

@OP,have u tried suggesting to your babe to get a part time job?Infact,as a single mom living in naija with no super rich folks to fall on for hand outs,getting a job to support herself should appear first on her to-do list and not getting a BF.

Rofl.
Good work Odumchi.You are good with your pencil too.

Semidy, go chop fried sand. Lolz
Where have you been?me militant?hehe
Salams!

Lool@harakiri. Somehow there are some truths buried in that your very chauvinistic post.hehe.
Harakiri, with the cast knowledge you have about women, you'd most likely make a good husband.you even know us more than we know ourselves. Lol

@OP, then talk with her.its possible she talked to them because she needed a second opinion or sought for their counsel. Let her know how you feel, this doesn't qualify for divorce, biko.

No one else said anything?
Odikwa risky.

How did you make this "millennium discovery" and what secret did she leak to her family?

So you wanna divorce your wife because she talked to her family?why are you too secretive btw?why all the hush hush and why do you think your wife or her family might think of killing you?

What really is eating you up?the earlier you come out clean to your wife, the better for you. However, your wife too should know that some things are not meant for extended family ears.

Could it be the pregnancy, hormones?when she asked for a divorce what were her reasons?

Anyhow, have you talked with her?I suggest you take her out to a lovely dinner someday for a talk.reassure her of your love for her again, your firm resolution to make this marriage a success, then ask her what has been bugging her, something you are not doing right etc.

If she's still interested in you, she should be able to open up to you.

Marriage aint easy, that's the reality! A never ending school. Good luck.

Oh well! It sounds nice on paper but who's gonna bell the cat?

. . . And I hope the single ladies are ready to endure and marry the broke arse "stallions"?btw,would it be ok if we use same measure for the teen girls hanging on the arms of white(Indians, Lebanese, chinko included, lol)old wrinkled men for same purpose; money and green card?

Live and let live.the end justifies the means, no?lolz

free comedy!
AY show does not come close and i dont have to part with a dime either.

nkan mbe.Goodluck poster

^Does it matter?They both enjoyed the good times so its fair enough.lol

Ok,people for real get intimidated by online strangers?Folks that would probably not stand you one on one make one cry online?
Fvck me sideways!

OP,its a freaking internet.FEAR NO ONE!

Help the lady(the son indirectly) as much as you can but please erase the thoughts of "making the boy yours' off ya head.You cannot adopt him either.People with GFs without baggages spend for weave,clothes,shoes etc so you can as well see whatever you spend on the boy as money for his moms upkeep.

If you cant,you have the option of opting out.she would meet someone else . . .same for you

IMO,the sun has a relationship with spirituality,its the source of light and love.

^thank you sir!
Ignore my post next time especially when its not addressed to you.

Same to you efe oh.

You believe in going easy with the OP, I believe in hitting him hard. Tough luck.

Lol, odumchi its "imu amu". Amu with its other meaning diminishes its usage. Ichi ochi is better. . . For everyones sanity. Lol

Check out the following:
Amu atogbugom(I can't stop laughing)
Amu na atom/ asom(I am laughing)

Translate with the other meaning of amu and you'd end up embarrassed.

You go girlie!

Lol@ phat girls idea. Your African prince would locate you someday soon. . . One that deserves you!

I know ndume, a kindred in ohuhu umuahia.
I also have heard of "ndi ndume" a kindred in okpo, Ihechiowa, arochukwu lga.

You know your problem?you are enjoying free house with free food to booth, no worries for light, water and security bills.you don't have to jump buses as you most probably have a car refueled by momma at your service.there's a maid to boil your yes water and a washing machine just a room away.you don't care about toileteries either as you can always use your sweet sisters own.

When life slaps you, I mean slap you real hard, you won't need anyone to spell out discipline or hardwork for you.

Goodluck mr I am lazy!

@sam, thanks.
Someone would call you and if possible come for inspection tomorrow. I'm out of town currently.

which one is gone?which one is still available?

Would direct a friend to you.she needs 3(I THINK) for her kids.Mr Osekele just messed her up today.do u have a shop ?I would give her your contact.

^Oga,i directeda friend to you who wanted to buy 3 pieces and she just called me to say:
She called you while she was @ Ikeja and u gave her directions.
she got there(the bus stop) and called u again and u started re-directing her to a 3 storey building.
she was wondering why u have no address and was leaving till u finally sent someone,a lady to her.
The lady took her to a seamstress shop and brought 1 tab. PC and gave her.
She asked why u ain't coming,considering its a seamstress shop,no tab PC on display,no tech. in sight to do a demo and all she got was the woman snatching the tab PC from her and going a step further to embarass her.

Tell that your woman she was very lucky i didnt come with my friend,we both would have taken the mkt womne display to another level.

BS!

Did you check your mirror before stepping out?fly in position,no red eye,no debris of agege ati ewa agoyin by the corner of lips,no funny raggamufin hair style?

I too wud not just ignore but wud also increase my pace when accosted by a erhm "semi crazie or not-such-a-pleasant-sight"kind of man.

Well,if any of the above does not apply to you sire,don't blame the gal,no one wants to get raped,abused,mugged or killed just for trying to be a Nigerian-Samarithan woman.Stories we hear are so discouraging.

Dear friend,when next you miss your way simply call your destination contact for directions. . .assuming you DO have a destination.

@Swiftcool,all but one (permits polygamy)what you posted are mere LIES and your personal opinion not FACTS!

Have you ever seen the Nigerian Customary laws?how can you just claim the law does not make provision for women during divorce?

And just getting real with you,how many of today's troubled marriages never had your over celebrated meaningless(my personal view) church wedding?

Paying of dowry makes a wife a "bought" item?oh really?

You love church weddings,your opinion and its all good but pulease sir don't start spreading funny and very baseless statements about traditional or customary marriages.

^Stop giving pastors your "tights",they need your pantyhose instead.

^He "met" you and he "changed" . . .according to your write up.Did you lie to him about your physical appearance?or he had a different picture in his head and seeing you physically killed the fantasies?i'm just wondering. . .loudly.

Good thing is that you were able to say NO to his fvckery and pussyfeeting and im happy for you.

@OP,too long a post.hope you've sorted out whatever it is though.

nedu210: Ada nwanyi, asi m no nani ogugu kam ga na abia nl igu mkpalita uka unu, mana mgbe m fulu akwukwo idegalu pozzy okpala m amu nke ukwuu, gbaa mu ghari, ma wezikwaa mu iwe na Ogori dika gi, Agbala nwanyi na adighi enyo onwe ya na enyo na acho pozzy ebe m no gha.

Biko,O mu bia gi nso ka i ga-abia m nso?O dim ngwa ngwa maka n'oge adighi.lolz

@Odumchi,siggy gi nke a atogbuolam.Ihe puru ime gi ichefu Aro bu "ukwu nwanyi Owerre ma o bu ara nawnyi Asaba".haha

Umu Igbo birikwenu.
A mam na onye obula gbara Isita nke oma.Ya gazie.

Ikomus,oyi na atum,darfur buru ya n'obi,Usurome di njikere,Presido1 mara amara.

I missed it,sadly.I was sleeping off AY's sunday nite gig.

Lovely pictures Naptu.

@Chante,no way would i call unless i know what u have to offer.Your service,my money.

@Damol,i learnt you called back and made another promise.hahahaaa,nlders eh.

Gabby,i share same sentiments with you and really pity anyone depending on NLD to get an accomodation.

This folks would post numbers,you'd call only to hear stories.They aint different from the very dubious agents scattered everywhere.I wonder why the mods lets such obviously meaningless,time and space wasting threads like this stay.

How difficult is it really to state what u have as opposed to filling the thread with useless emoticons.

long hisssssssss!