₦airaland Forum

OP,the more you post about the past,the more u come across as stvpid(im sorry oh).Why wud u take a quarter of what u claimed she did?is her kini scent curry or what?

You are a man,act and be the man in your marriage always.Nobody should tolerate poo all in the name of 'staying maried'.There are mistakes and those ones can be easily forgiven or ignored but when your partner begins to disrespect you,starts dumping shyte on ya head with no iota of fear or respect,you would be highly sillly if u don't "treat and cure" the fvck up once and for all.Come on now! I can't begin to imagine the kraze or whatever that wud make me call an ex "dear or darlyn" by 2 am,not to talk of dates after work and vice versa.

Kpele oh.take all the good advies you've been offered here,do some soul searching and reflect on ya mistakes.There are still good women out there,get your priorities right and don't be carried away by superficial stuffs.

Better luck next time.

[quote author=Chyz* link=topic=844974.msg9964555#msg9964555 date=1326563782]Feb 3., lay off.Simple.[/quote]Come make me !
Onye ka i na-agwa simple?N'ebe isi puta mmadu a naghi atunyere gi alo?Okacha mara.
ikuku buru gi dia.

According to Channels news,as at 7:10pm,the meeting is yet to start as NLC and TUC leaders are yet to arrive.

I hope files,important files wont "burn" with this mystery fire?

Anywayz,its still bad news for the masses.FGN would build a new complex with our collective money no matter how fast and furiously we hit our keyboards.lol

Oba Negro go kill pesin oh.I have been laughing to the point of almost forgetting what the thread was all about.

@Topic,stay off posting but reading/viewing as a guest?Is that not hypocrisy and beats the purpose?
I'm gently as a woman voting for creating a thread with live updates from the funeral and a condolence register if possible.just saying.

Eze Eziokwu,a nam ekele.

^Nwoke ike.

Nwa darfur ga eji nti gi agwo ugba.and i'd be laughing mgbe o ga e-seti.

Umuigbo elenu Relax?

^Ezeagu,no we are not giving up now.Chekasia uburu gi,afterall you devote much more enery and time chasing Ileke idi.lol

Btw,ChinenyeM is yet to contribute.

@Odumchi,Ikuputa sounds more of "to bringf forth/to showcase/to unveil" etc
A gam ekuputa nwa ohurum n'izu uka n'abia nu.=I would be christening my new baby next week.

@Nri priest,Nnwale ule=examination.Nnwale=Test/try

Nice try guys but we can do better.

Zayhal,Salams.
For a child,I believe water,breastmilk and burping works.But our mothers used pieces of thread.

For me as an adult,when i can't get water instantly i use thread and it works for me.or maybe its just my mindset,dunno.

Our society and especially mothers have lost it.The other day I went to some school end of year get together and what the kids were wearing were . . .

How can we explain 7 year old girls fixing weave ons,wearing lipstick eyeliner marykay etal?Reason is Not far fetched though:a reflection of the mother's dress/fashion sense.Check out the so-called married women's dressing,You'd think they are showing all that flesh in a last desperate attempt to hook a man.

@OP,you've got to be cruel to be kind.Let the child pick clothes during shopping,go through her choice,pick out every item and explain to her why its appropriate or not for her.Your explanations should include our weather,the disadvantages of showing too much flesh,comfort and fitting etc.

Dependsing on your relationship with the mom,you can also discuss this with her laterz.

[quote author=Missy_B link=topic=845240.msg9959624#msg9959624 date=1326495986]*Put a short string of thread on the head* [/quote]Hahaha
Proper home babe!

You know i still do that to myself even as an adult.and it works.Rofl

This argument has lots of twists and can take on a whole lot of dimensions. . .
Does it make any sense banning toy guns for our sons but having a real gun and perharps with our sons knowledge?
Do our sons play gun battle games,watch lots of action movies?
Is there any statistics to prove that a % of armed thieves,assasins had toy guns as toddlers?

As a mother of boys,I was of the opinion that Toy guns were Not acceptable but guess what?my husband made me understand that it does not stop there.Just like the girls need sex talk,the boys need to be told the pros and cons of having,touching or facing a gun.They need to be told ! And once they are of age,they'd be going hunting with hunting rifles with their dad.

So OP,back to ur question,Toy guns as a gift is NOT accepted in my house.

OK.Cool

OP,long story short,you've just joined the seperated but bitter clubs;uh?

I wanted to take you serious till i read you asking if you should spill the name of your ex-wife's boyfriend who according to you is a london based nlder.OK,what was that suppossed to add to your 'breaking news' ?how wud that help restore(if ever possible) your marriage?

Ngwanu go ahead and spill.Here's been kinda boring.You wanna spice up NLd yet u couldnt spice up ya marriage?Gimme tori.

Seriously,if all u typed here is true then you guys have no biz staying together.and just to know,since the seperation,have ur (ex) wife made any moves for reconcilation or she's somewhere breathing "Phew! Fresh air at long last" ?

@Perx,we are still waiting and expecting a mail from "YOU".

Commendable.

So Igbo corpers still went to serve in the North?hmmn,some people really have no value for life and living.wt?

^Ezeagu,you've tried but hmm first.lolz

The floor is still open.

OP,You lost it when u mixed up two entirely different notions.The ability to flow fluently in English or Pidgin should not and cannot hinder ones grasp of the other.
The trend today however especially for the youths is to use pidgin to hide their deficiencies in proper English.Then talk abt the sillly and highly annoying text/shorthand style of writing,I just cant understand that one.Go to the romance section,you can't make anything from what they are typing.

We all make mistakes,moreso when the language is s foreign one and for the radio presenters,it might be that the presenter is under stress,not well prepared or they just have no business working in the media industry.

Btw,OP,what is the way forward?Do you have a proposal ready?Do you think there's a need for everybody to be fluent in English lang.?

I don't understand your rants on WAZOBIA fm.They have a targeted audience and can't be faulted if everyone includin Harvard graduates decides on tuning in.

Nuclear family=Topmost priority,after God na dem.

Extended family(mine,in laws,uncles,aunts,cousins etc)=love them all equally.Would always be there for them and vice versa.

Close friends=Extension of extended family.sink or sail,boundaries exist but we are closely knit.

More promises. . . Mu he he.

Naija Film trick.
The more you look,the less you see.

@Chineyem,Both.

Challenge as in calling someone out,Chalenging an opionion and every other "Challenge " meanings out there.

I'm seeing this as a win-win situation for the govt.hmmn

Somehow,tomorrow,labour would agree on 'revert to N65' first and bla bla which we all know what it means for the common man. . .suffering continues.

I think the best we can get is to have the subsidy removal in phases and start off with say N80/100 and discard the "revert to N65" poo.

What happens to all the group ie SNG,Occupy Nigeria etc If and when NLC,TUC goes into ceasefire,calls of the strike?wud they continue the protest/strike?lolz

This should be a lesson for both parties.FG did not plan the subsidy removal well,the "sincere" protesters were also in a haste to jump to the streets without doing all the homework,making themselves unique and stating with 1 voice what they are agitating for.

As it stands now,NLC,TUC and FG are the Victors,the ordinary Nigerians who screamed themselves hoarse under the sun Victims.

Perx,while we wait for the Nationwide strike to be called off,can you send us a mail to nairalandcharity@gmail.com.The mail should contain:
Your location in Edo state ie City,not neccessarily address yet.and contact phone number.

A list of your little but important immediate needs.

If available,copies of your doctors reports,x-rays,photos,medical history etc.

We'd be needing the last items(medical reports etc) for the emails we'd be sending out pending when we'd visit you and agree on when and how to start the physical campaign.

Stay strong.

Last year,our own Dr. Segun Abudu was in Nigeria in collab. with Lagoon hospital,Apapa for a lunch and learn programme and he did performed subsisied surgeries on some of the patients that attended.
Dr Segun is a consultant Orthopedic Surgeon @ Royal Orthopedic hospital,Birminghan.He specialises in major joint reconstructive surgery and Orthopedic Oncology.
@Perx,have u been to the lagoon hospital?We can send a copy of your docs/case to them,one never can tell when next they'd be organising the next lunch and learn programme.

We are also trying to reach Dr. Kabir Abubakar of NOH,Kano,the health minister and Action health incorporated(An NGO that majors in Health issues)

Btw,I found you the Doctors without borders addres in Yenagoa.I just hope they are still there ? 4 imgbi road,Amarata.Yenagoa. email is msfh-yen@phca.linkserve.com.

You can start by sending them an email first till hopefully when we'd get someone to confirm if they are still existing.

Who would come out as Victor at the end?who wud be the victim and ofcourse the casualties of war ? hmmn.

This unedited drama is getting more intruiging by the moment.

Which kind of 6 bedroom house in Abuja is worth 1.6B sef

@Tpia,its Akunyili's daughter that married the white guy.

Challenge can be best translated as ?

So we go with akala/akara oke for gender till we get something else better or closer.Nwoke Igbo defender,take note.

^I clicked on the thread thinking you have an answer to my query.

I forgive you sha,cos u agree Ijo's make good music. . .and I prescribe "Barrister" for you.He's my favorite.

Btw,I'm wondering if they take offence with the way we write their name ie "Ijo" ? wish Ijaw girl,Ibime or someone else wud respond asap.

yamakuza:
actually, after my initial calculation, i was of the personal opinion that N100k from us would act as palliative even if we cannot subsidize the huge budget.

Since our able Nairalanders have refused to agree with my subtle suggestions to call things off, i guess we need to ask her what her immediate pressing needs are.

- someone initially mentioned internet access

- theres also N10k monthly for meds x 3 to 6 months while we organize

- she also needs immediate orthopedic treatment for a broken leg

- any other suggestions?

I'm cool with your suggestions,providing internet access plus the monthly meds but the question is,should we do that before or after visiting her ?

All the same,we have to wait for the other members to come on board.

Abeg oh,the attacking of kpekus is ten much.This man is just busy attacking me every and any how.He'd say eat and rest,you've been working too hard and lawd,his definition of rest is "Kpekus".

I can boldly stand head to head with Enyeama after the strike as they've turned me to the goalkeeper of the century.They do footie everyday and i have been manning the post.

Perfect time for site inspections,visiting and carefully examining lands we have interest on and exploring lagos,in the evenings.No traffic,few egunge police on the highway,just speed on!

Making and eating more amala.Visiting family,friends and neighbours.

Having and enjoying so much of "ME" time.

More and more Kpekus!