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I don't know how you can make a grown assss man change without his express consent or personal decision to change.

IMO,the family can help him by not bailing him out financially no more.Let him clean and deal with the shit he's thrown himself into.They can talk to him,encourage him in love,pray for him(if they are religious) but stop handing him hand outs.

If he's got a girlfriend or someone he admires/respects alot,the person can talk to him too.

@OP,have you tried talking with them?Not screaming or shouting in the face of a rebuke but a gentle heart to heart talk on a good day when the nerves are calm?

The importance of patience cannot be over emphaszied.You need loads of it.They are the only parents you have and the motive behind every of their action is "helping you to be a better you" while their driving force is "love" . . .always think about that.

A bum Onye Abia steeti a bughi m nwa Umuahia directly mana o nwere ka m siri nwee nmeko with Umuahia.

Chukwu gbahara m in advance mana gi na nwa ofe-nmanu gi e kewala? O ga-amasi m ma uziza gi buru "eeeh,n'ezie anyi e kewela" LOL.

Owu nani ndi agafu nwoke dika Ikomi,Toshman bu ihe di nma ilu ndi mba ozo;and thats punishment for all their iberibe.Nwoke oma dika gi bu omalicha ada Igbo ka ahu gi choro.

I'd put my eyes,nose and ear down.Plus i think I know your spec.A naghi agba aka alu nwanyi so i don't expect ihu gi ebe a often,man gotta do what he's gotta do.Pop in only when its convinent jare.

Oge adighi !

Biko,mgbe o ga-adabacha nke oma,mgbe unu ga na-ata ugba na amicha aka,unu chetakwa m.

Ka akuko oma puta from egwuregwu unu a.Isee

^Gross.

Why did she have to do all that and was it outdoors ?

Can't help but laugh,the twists,tales ati theories coming up.

Suddenly,the sillly santeria priestess have got no time?The one who could harbour an online 'sentence' in her dirty dark heart for 4 long miserable years have lost her typing prowess?Bleep me sideways!

The funniest part of the whole stinking drama is that this cowardly sluut of unknown heritage has NEVER,not even once attacked or asked me directly but wud rather bring this issue up when "it" has issues with another nlder.Dem swear for you abi dem use u complete sacrificial bowl ?

If "it" is still hurting cos i queried the mods for what I see as partiality,I wonder what "it's" wishing for Adam brody that cussed her?argh and want happens to folks that wud offend "it" offline,it wud pull the skies down?

Iya were Sabo.Yes ke,I queried the mods,so what?DIE !

4 long years of bitterness,bad market and e-inherited depression

Your ONLYway out is death.DIE oh,but before you do,print out "IFYALWAYS",hang it on ur neck and jump off da cliff.

Please bring it on right here. . .or create a new thread,I'd be your guest!

would be back to check you out in the evening,Oshi were.

Bipolar Foooool.

Busy body/Big bumper GO and die!!!
Yeah,I said so,die and save the world the shame and misery,you this filthy old demented hag!

Who told you I read your first post @ the other read?I have the time to read the long meaningless bullocks you type eekwa?May a million millipedes suck those fingers that typed my name on your last post dry,you this transgendered sluut!

My first response on that thread came about cos I read Perx's post,the singular statement "typical Nigerian/fOoolish=dummbass" got me,nothing to do with the boolsheet you typed.

You keep on bringing up Adam's case,like who da hell cares,huh?The last time,twas during Inspired/Plats case and u had issues with Agaba,next it was me.cyber slut me and you no dey do competition,geddit?Adam cussed you,you replied and next the mods rushed to clean out the thread.I noticed and asked why the mods wud play the "friends and foes" card whereby certain threads wud be cleaned out while others are left.

Its 4 years now and u're still hurting?DIE!!!

The decision is his to make,he needs no external influence whatsoever.
If he wants to forgive,please let it be geninue forgiveness and the matter trashed out and forgotton.Not the Naija style forgiveness whereby they claim to forgive but write it down,waiting for the next crime so they'd read the "offenders diary" for you.

BTW,why is she still keeping the ex's number.what's the attraction?I have never been a fan of keeping contact with an ex.Its over,move on already!

Have they gone for necessary tests? STD's and pregnancy to avoid bigger surprises down the line?

Did the ex really sedate her,raaape her or she made up that story?If it was raaape then the ex deserves some assss whooping.Sadly,there might not be enough evidence to rope him in.

Lastly,tell the affected guy to keep Okafor's law at heart. . .

I was in Owerri yesterday and think Easterners,as at yesterday are yet to join the protests cos most of them have gone back to their base(cities like lagos,abuja) while others are still stuck in the villas enjoying the holidays.

I hope you won't disappear again once you lay your hands on the Video ? The family is doing great,we are used to the 'aguru and uguru' in the land.

Bia,when are you getting married?All these Igbo Youths meeting na get togethers should not be in vain.You never see a damsel that would not just sweep you off your feet but also kept your heart hanging in the air with love?.

Umu nwoke ndi Umuopara bu ndi ishi okpukpu though.Pesin no fit swallow una ears.

^Isee.

O hula nwanyi ya already.Aha ya bu wislet.Bia High Chief,no dulling.Mee ngwa ka anyi daba Owerri ga maburu Wislet.

Wislet,a mam na i naghi anwu Whiskey ma o bu gee egwu Wizzey.lol

Outside Nigeria where,Europe abi Africa

Last I checked there are Hausa speakers in:
Ghana
Burkina Faso
Niger
Senegal
Ivory Coast
Mali
Guinea Conakry etal

So,IMO,the most influential and widely spoken lingo in Nigeria and indeed W.Africa is Hausa.

@OP,you however are entitled to ya opinion.

^and also Dr/Prof Chukwu,the current minister of health.Hes also an Orthopadeic surgeon and pratices @ Ebonyi state teaching hospital.I think soliciting for help from either the ministry of health or to the Dr individually might be fruitful.

MTN foundation is another option.sending them an email wont be bad,who knows?

Nwa Ohuhu abi Umuopara.
Anya gi?

E nwere m nani foto's,have deleted my videos(they were'nt even full lenght anyway,prolly 4 or 5 mins)Dede Andrew should be able to help you.

Ujujoan enyi gi nwanyi alugokwa di.Nke a bu first matters arising.lolz

TVC is soooo right on point.I just love their news today.

@Topic,Yes its true,the boy was actually gunned down today.I heard the news LIVE from TVC.

Things are not looking good at all.

The bus fares have trippled.I have employers that earn 50K per month,Graduates! and I wonder how they'd survive.
Payrise is NOT even in the picture now cos overhead cost is killing me too.

Which way Nigeria?

I'm humbled.
Moderator of the millenuim trying to hook me up?This year's gonna be a good one!

Abeg,would he give me an EOD @ first date?Buy me choice properties @ VGC on recieveing the first kiss?If yes,jor nitori Olorun give me his house address,office address,YIM,BB,skype and phone numbers.No dulling!

Odunnu:
Hehehehehehehe.
É ma ajo akwukwo nwa.
Have you been to Dubai recently?

lol.Is mid last year "recent" enough?

Who wan carry me go Dubai?Dayo wey dey use ruler measure yam,Agaba that counts meat in the soup pot abi Pres-elect that gets me panties from garage sales

I'm upgrading dis year to loaded guys jare,no more dulling with chewing gum boys-2-men.

Left eko for Owerri this morning.Nothing seems to be happening here @ Owerri though i've been indoors.

@OP,Alhaji gave you the right and only valid response.There are no public washrooms . . .and even when they exist,are either quite expensive(Yeah,not everyone can afford to part with N20 just for urinating) or not-so-clean.

. . .Now that you know the reason behind our manners or lack of thereof,would you be kind and patriotic enough to invest in "clean and free public washrooms" ?

^Bia madam,been glancing at your siggy at every opportunity.Hope you know there's a range of perfume called "Class" and don't tell me you are doing paid advertising for them.LOL

@Topic,my mercedez is bigger than yours.

[quote author=~Sissy~ link=topic=835890.msg9883663#msg9883663 date=1325551214]"Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof."

Proverb 18:21


Happy New year Ify and to you all [/quote]Happy new year to you dear.
2012 shall be beautiful for us ALL.

Clean as "whistle" ke?

You sell am por "free" ?lolz

^Aggy kedu nke bu "akuku" n'afo ohuru a?Ihe akuku na-egbukwa egbu.lol

N'afo a,akuko oma ga-eso anyi nile.Isee.

Eze Nri,Nedu na Relax,a na m ekele oh.

Yes oh.I know Ngodus and you,Mr Emeka Anyasi too.Ngwa you sef check ya inbox.

I'd have no empathy for an non-northern that would be caught in this madness.I mean,wtf are they STILL doing up North

Congrats Ivynwa.

May the new year be beautiful and fruitful for you.

. . .all that have been said here would amount to nothing if either of the parents are bleaching their skin,the mom has dyed her hair blonde/wears wig/weaves always etc.

Little but very significant things like assuring your kids,saying it out to them daily that they are beautiful and wonderfully made goes a long way too.

Too much wahala for girl child jor.

^Oga,happy new year in arrears.lol

Its been calm and peaceful since then up until today when "it" barked.check ya inbox.

Wow @ Katsumoto.That was quite something!

Congrats OAM4girls.

Cry me an ocean,Jona.

Nigerians have been,in thousands weeping to their early graves.

He's been sleeping and now he wakes to cry? Oturugbeke