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^lol. That's quite some story!

@topic, maternal side great, great grand parents. Paternal side great grand parents. I have heard stories on both sides though

OP, make it easier by offering an English translation.
I think its "onye mgbaputa" in igbo. Onye nzoputa is savior.

Booshman why did you delete some of your posts?I find your thread interesting, stop deleting.
And what's "ahiku"? Something different from Abiku or ogbanje/

God poolish Seun.lol
Which ones be gadget and rooster.
Abeg a very special v1brat0r and sending corky Joe over with a huge C0cK.

@ Odunnu,Our wife,sister and in-law.
Happpppppy Birthday sweets.Wishing you many more nights,days and years in the arms of Oga.May your residential koboko never go public,may the oil well keep flowing and above all,you be granted a healthy,peaceful,kpekus filled life.

I saw Oga,with his big head battling with the gifts. . .
I'm sending corky Joe over with a special Gadget and a very big rooster.LOL

Much love,nwunye m.

I called Chioma now and she said "it's all sorted out,someone has volunteered to help keep the baby"

I know "this sudden" help she said she's got is as illegal as they come but she's an adult and capable of making her own decisions.

And just for the records,I'm not privy to any "bethrothed or not" twist to this whole drama.I have never even asked her about the father of the child,she never told me either.

We pray and hope the baby would be and remain safe wherever she's been taken to now.Amin

The whole thing got messed up when Chioma decided to chase her school fees(?) as opposed to sorting out the childs welfare first. . .which is why some of us got involved in the first instance.

Mutter's lawyer friend established that the welfare can't attend to her without involving atleast an adult member of her family,not necessarily the parents,Rev George said same thing and both parties were willing to go all the way with her before things got . . .

For the sake of the baby,OP,the option of helping you deal with welfare,an adult member of your family and getting a reputable home for your child is still open however,I won't want to have anything to do with "school fees".I am an sms away.

Jenny, I can be anything but most definitely not silly. Chioma did not tell me those donors are"secret" or anything of that nature. Come on!if she did I would not have any problem with that, what is my concern?Chioma said verbatim "I did not know how Aunty kemi got my contact, I just woke up and saw her sms on my phone" tell me, what could be more ridiculous and confusing?I asked not once or twice and she kept repeating same thing.
That to me is deliberate act of deciet and confusion.''

Chioma, thanks for coming back. According to you, you told me "those things" which included persistent lies that you don't know how Aunty kemi got your contact etc instead of just telling me that she wrote you earlier ? And all the time I was asking if you had your email or contact in nld you were saying no just COS you were advised not to tell me? Even when I almost cried COS I was highly confused, begged you to simply tell me the truth?
If you could tell me such lies persistently then I really had no biz meeting you.

As for the annonymous donors and crew. Its rather strange, considering the beautiful relationship "we" enjoy that anyone would think of using my account to send money to Chioma and at same time claim they are doing so COS they don't want "the right hand to see the left hand". You guys don't have relatives in naija?wu, money gram, money system and all other money transfer system nko? Sent with Chioma friend name or the doctors name?why are you guys trying so hard to make me "notice you " ? Is there any competition anywhere?

I'm glad things turned out the way it did.
Chioma, goodluck in your quest.

@thread. I have called and spoken to Chioma now and she said she would come on here when she finds the time to state exactly what she wants or needs.

Till then, its goodbye thread! Not in the least interested in discussions bordering on boring folks and their hung over life.

Lool !
Issues. . . Loads and baggages. Ouch!

Oh my days. Out comes the victim placards and the pity party train.

Rofl!
Anyhow, its either a case of reading without understanding or a consistent effort to be mischievous. Or n

Uju, ajo anu. Iwe a dighi n'obim.

I only became worried when someone asks me for my account for funds transfer from people I don't know.

I don't know what the funds are meant for too(private adoption, pay off, school fees, up keep)

She could not tell me how she contacted the funds donor or vice versa.

@topic, I so agree with R231, the OP has to come in herself and say clearly what she really wants.

freecocoa:
The story gan get many twists,I think suggesting that anyone willing to help should go through NL charity org is a good idea atleast to avoid things like this.

CC and Ify didn't know there was an "Aunty kemi" involved,it is only natural for them to get suspicious when asked to be given account details which would be forwarded to an invisible"Aunty kemi",any right thinking human would be skeptical about the arrangement.

. . .add this to the fact the Chioma told me that she dont know how aunty Kemi got her contacts.

Who would not be sceptical and wary should fall in the line,please.

Iduwuogbo,May your days be long!
If anyone was in my shoes and would not feel confused and the need to back out first. . .oh well.

Chioma was not able to tell me how aunty Kemi got her contact UP TILL NOW.She said she dont know !
Chioma could not tell or explain what the 150K was for.Her parents paid 150K tru e-tranzact,her parents paid the school fees since last year,the doctors fee was 20K.Different stories.
@Bornvita,I think u need to re-read my posts.i said she told me intially that the sch. fees have been paid,no figure attached.
Then yesterday,she said she needs 150K for her school fees again.

I dont know her sch. fees exact figure
I dont know if its been paid.
I don't know what she needs the 150K for either.

Iduwuogbo,May your days be long!
If anyone was in my shoes and would not feel confused and the need to back out first. . .oh well.

Chioma was not able to tell me how aunty Kemi got her contact UP TILL NOW.She said she dont know !
Chioma could not tell or explain what the 150K was for.Her parents paid 150K tru e-tranzact,her parents paid the school fees since last year,the doctors fee was 20K.Different stories.
@Bornvita,I think u need to re-read my posts.i said she told me intially that the sch. fees have been paid,no figure attached.
Then yesterday,she said she needs 150K for her school fees again.

I dont know her sch. fees exact figure
I dont know if its been paid.
I don't know what she needs the 150K for either.

Btw,I have never discussed Chioma with anyone online or offline aside:
CC
R231
Mutter and her friend
0AM4J(this morning)

The closet Chelseabmw got(and Perx probably) was when i called and spoke to her from Perx's place,she was beeping consistently.
I remember Chelsea asking if i actually met her,saw the child and i replied yes,she is for real.Anyone with anything contrary should let me know here.

I am NOT a coward,never been.I have not called Chioma or anyone a scam,offline or online.I dont know where that "scam" issue is coming from and would ignore that until its proved otherwise.

Btw,I'm hearing 300K for the first tme here.wow

JK,I know and use e-tranzant but I dont understand what she said about the school fees.
Did her parents pay into her account?She said on monday her parents have paid her school fees.

Just for the records,My major concerns and red alerts wwas raised cos"she said she wants to use my account for funds transfer"

I am NOT in any way opposed to helping Chioma.I just had to pull out when it seems I was NOT understanding her,or myself.

I would probably respond again in the event of Chioma coming out to say I have typed a lie here.

Btw,I told her that I'm still available to help her visit the welfare office or her parents .

I called the lawyer(Mutter's friend) that agreed to go to the welfare office ahead of us to be briefed about the trip.She said that she has talked to some of the top shots there and I should now go with her morrow BUT she said the welfare folks insisted that atleast one adult family(immediate) member would be involved but generally,we wont find anything stressful and she's anyway just a phonecall away.

I called Chioma to ask her when we'd be going to welfare but to my dismay,she has lost interest on that topic.She started asking me when we would be getting her the school fees(150K),she needs to go back to school asap,her exams are just by the corner,her absence might trigger suspicions in school etc.

She called and kept sms me and CC for sometime yesterday over the 150K issue.At a point(we dont know what else to say/do),i told her that me and CC wud try and raise that money.

I sat back and thought it over. . .yet I couldnt find the connecting dots.

I called the lawyer(Mutter's friend) that agreed to go to the welfare office ahead of us to be briefed about the trip.She said that she has talked to some of the top shots there and I should now go with her morrow BUT she said the welfare folks insisted that atleast one adult family(immediate) member would be involved but generally,we wont find anything stressful and she's anyway just a phonecall away.

I called Chioma to ask her when we'd be going to welfare but to my dismay,she has lost interest on that topic.She started asking me when we would be getting her the school fees(150K),she needs to go back to school asap,her exams are just by the corner,her absence might trigger suspicions in school etc.

She called and kept sms me and CC for sometime yesterday over the 150K issue.At a point(we dont know what else to say/do),i told her that me and CC wud try and raise that money.

I sat back and thought it over. . .yet I couldnt find the connecting dots.

At that point,I was confused.CC is privy to all the info as I shared with her(Chioma did anyway)

I asked her what she needs the 150K for and she said its for her school fees.
I reminded her that she told me on monday her parents already paid the fees and she said"aunty there is a way we pay our school fees,we use e-transact.My parents paid through e-tranzact so i still have access to the money through ATM"

I told her then that I dont understand some of her storied anymore and I cannot give out my account details to her or anyone.

She now suggessted i tell nldcharity so that channel can be used for fund raising for her.

At this junction,I contacted,NLDcharity cordinator(r231) and his advise was:
I should not give out my account details.
NLD charity cannot start fund raising for her cos she is YET to state that she needs funds on her thread.
I should tell her to come to her thread and update,including that she needs funds and what she needs it for.

I called Chioma back.
She said aunty kemi is big bumper.I asked her to send me that information via sms which she did.
I asked her for her sch. friend username.
She said her friend said she is NOT a registered user of Nld.

I then asked,how then did aunty Kemi contact your friend?
She said NO,that aunty Kemi contacted her directly.
I asked her how?I thought its just me and CC that have your contacts?She said yes,thats what she thought too till aunty Kemi sent her an sms.

I asked if she knows any nlder prior her thread or offline,she said no.So how did aunty Kemi get your phone number and she replied and i quote "I don't know"

I left that and i asked,who are the nlders that wants to send you the 150K through my account?
She said busy body and ade.

I was now wondering,how could same person acccording to you want to send you money and same time still be the one that told you"people" wants to send you money.

I asked her to send an sms containing all her answers to the above questions and she did.

Naturally,I got worried so I reached CC and funny enough,she also sent almost same set of sms to CC.

I called Chioma and my first question was,"who are the nlders that want to send you money and how did they get your contact"?
Chioma said its "aunty Kemi" that told her friend(school mate).
I asked her again,who is aunty Kemi and how did she know/get your friends contact?
Chioma said aunty Kemi is a Nlder and her friend too is a nlder.
I asked for their nld usernames and she asked me to call back while she finds out.

Tuesday,I was in Benin when Chioma sent me an sms that she needs 150K.I called her(from Perx's place) and told her we would see morrow when I get back even though I dont understand where or what she wants 150K for.

Tuesday midnight(i came back late)Chioma sent me an sms that I should provide her my account details because some nlders want to send her the 150K but because she dont want no one but I and CC to have her real identity,she would prefer they send the money through me so i forward to her.

She also sent me an sms to say that because we(i and CC) got her some provisions and drugs,the doctor saw it and got on her neck to pay the 20k so she went to an ATM to withdraw money and pay the doctor.

Ooops,I forgot,on monday,she informed us that the her parents have paid her school fees too,and her final exams comes up in a couple of months.

^Chelsea that was quite some conclusion.Hoping Chioma would come online soon to provide answers to the ffg mysteries:

When Chiomao started her thread,she did NOT leave a contact,either in the form of email or number.I remember vividly cos CC was the one who left her own email address here and asked Chioma to contact her. . .which she did.

CC,forwarded Chioma's email to me.I wrote her,sent her Rev Georges number and asked for her own number.

I forwarded her number to CC.NOTE: Chioma's contacts(email and no) was just between me and CC. . .or so we assumed.

Monday evening on my visit to Chioma,i asked her how much she needs to settle the doctor she said 20K.I told her that i and CC wud get that within ourselves and i wud bring that on wednesday.My monday visit was at night cos she was crying she have had nothing all day so i just had to make the visit.

We agreed that we would go to welfare on wednesday as she said she is scared of going with mutters lawyer friend.

Thank you CC.
I wonder why Chioma cannot come online anymore?To atleast update NLDers and prove either I or CC as liars.

When stories begin to take on a brand new turn and one gets confused,its best to "stop and check your steps" to avoid getting burnt or lost in the middle of what u have no idea about.

Amarinze as a short form of "Arinze" ?
What happened to "Arinzechukwu" ?
I think if a name as Amarinze do exist,its completely different from ArinzeChukwu.1

@Chinenye,ga nojuo odu.Are those letters of words even Igbo?LOL

Wow!

The pooshie na diamond cos the face is just "there"
Anyhoo,i think this is more of political.

Chelsea,easy first.
I'm not saying Chioma is scam,atleast she did not scam me.
Is there a child?YES
Was she offered help?YES
. . .LIKE I said in my earlier post,we got to a stage when we are almost close to getting a home for the girl courtesy of Mutter's lawyer friend but "some other things came up,which i have struggled to understand " but sadly i could not.

That's the truth of the situation.

Ya buruwa.A gam amicha ihe nile!

El guo signature gi,guo nke m then were ire gi guo eze gi onu.Hapu ga anyi aka biko.

OP,suck it up please.Were u a virgin prior marriage or you think you are better cos she does not know how bad you've been?
On the bright side,you must be having the best of BJ's as your wife is an expert for that side. . .that's something.

^I stopped at "Amansea"!
Which village is Amasea eehkwa ?

Btw,do you happen to have any information on the Rev. Fr that was missing in Chad?Una don see am?

LOL.
You people are funny.

Means nothing to me.Have you thought of changing/moving your car park?lol

If it gets bad,sell your car and use your legs. . .perharps that's the message.lolz