₦airaland Forum

The evil that men do lives with them and leaves not until they are down,helpless and humble.

Who is this Politician,what office has he held in the past,his records anyone 

anishe:
Can somebody tell Jonathan Goodluck Ebele to please resign as the president. He has failed this country. nothing is working in this country. it has shown that GEJ is not capable to lead this country. he should just do the right thing and resign.

What a pathetic loss

The local government Chairman where this crime occurred, Oshimowole,The state Police Chief and CSO should all first resign before GEJ.

Very Funny Thread.

OP is busy engaging Corky Joe carefully avoiding talks relating to her so-called friends' dilemma.

ebonyvibe=Mr. . .Cork no offience 

^Why should you do that without consulting and getting express permission from us . . .The shareholders   

You'd get Punished for that.

@OP,so like seriously,you took note of your thread[i] views,no of replies et all [/i]?haha

cgift:
ol boy! you dey find trouble. Like someone said, dat one na child battery or child engine   i no dey house o.

You are very correct. Dey like feeling like big boys really, When my boy cries, i tell him you are not a big boy and you see him stop especially when i tell him big boys dont cry
ok. Will try that but you sure that can stop a serious habit ?

I'm blushing,  Thanks. God will help you achieve that spiritually, morally, financially, etc, etc,


OChief, you are not alone.

You guys know what, i am beginning to think this thing is hereditary. When indoors with my wife and we are discussing the children, she tells me they took after me but she does not say it in public o. I pull out my pubic hair for fun and  twirl he thing. Could my daugher have taken after me? But how ?
Thats why i dont bother to spank her i just shakre my head hinking within me, See M Life in he Open ;d

Back to your, please don try to change a lefty, it could create an imbalance in their brain or thinking system o. And i am talking from experience. Dont Do it.

Oturugbeke      

[quote author=Laura_fr link=topic=747319.msg9039169#msg9039169 date=1314690301]Miss_Ife yes u are right,i am leaving him, i have been thinking a lot,ad its not getting any easer with time,abd i know im going to be in pain,but i cause it to myself, so now i got to face it!thank u very much for your words are very helpful!and also ppl are telling me love use to go with time,but this difficuld situation will always be there,so even its hard now,i know in future ill be hapy took this desition!!!! [/quote]Wise decision.

Next time,don't get entangled or allow yourself to love a man with wife,no matter the story and circumstance,it wud always fetch you pains and end this way.The man only used you to de-stress(Marital and business)

Goodluck.

Ochendo Ndewo.

O nwere onye huru Ikomu?

M gide nwa amadi ahu a na akpo Ikomi,M ga atu ya n'ala were aja ocha fojuo ya onu.


NnnenneIgbo miss you lots.

UmuIgbo hi.

^That girl is pretty.I dikwa sure na obu onye Igbo,maka ndi uta

Barka da Sallah to everyone.May Allah accept all our acts of Ibadat and answer all our duas.

[quote author=Laura_fr link=topic=747319.msg9035106#msg9035106 date=1314633582]his papers are done,many ears ago, and finantial situation is ok for both families,he is christian,and yes polygamy is not ligal here in France,but it is in nigeria,or am i wrong?[/quote]Just saw this.

Polygamy is frowned at/ is illegal for Christians in Nigeria but can be arranged.  . .(ask Mercy Johnson) especially if the first marriage was done in a customary court.

Still,why all this stress,why not get another single un-attached guy?.

Do you think that after you,the guy would suddenly quit meeting and falling in love with single girls?He cheated on his wife with you,Karma and Polygamous nature of men has it that he wud do same with/to you.

[quote author=Laura_fr link=topic=747319.msg9035383#msg9035383 date=1314635749]how is it sillythe only thing i want is to be with the man i ove,but i also want to be[b] sure it will not hurt any one[/b]!if in nigeria is allowed (polygamy),that means is not a big deal, or it is?i just dont know,,because french and senegal culture is totally different![/quote]You would hurt the wife and kids.

The wife took a loan to pay his ticket to France.Now you know,can you leave him now,Please

Jenny,the wife might actually not mind  

She already knows she wud be fed fat from the OP's pocket after which both cow and milk wud be discarded so why bother her life.Some women are that understanding especially when it comes to papers and money.

Meanwhile,the bobo is in win-win situation.Using the OP to manage cold,hold belle,arrange stay and have a wife/family to call his own back at home. Woe betide the wife back at Nigeria If she as much as smile with a guy,It's a man's world afterall .

The OP appears desperate and wife goes with my empathy. . women are women's greatest enemies.

@OP,how old are you and how rich are you btw  

[quote author=Laura_fr link=topic=747319.msg9034818#msg9034818 date=1314631519]Well here is my story,when I first meet my man I knew he had family in Nigeria,but I also knew he is not going there oftenly,so I thought it is not going to be a problem!but now with time,things are getting complicated,he say he want to have family with me,and he wants to tolk to his wife,that she will understan,so we can make our family too,I am very confuse,because I do love him,but I don't want to hurt no ones feelings!!!!I know he can have 2wives but is it correct from me to accept it[/quote]To make a family and to marry ain't same.Baby momma/mistress and 2nd wife ain't same either.which are you planning/hoping on becoming

If he says his wife would understand then he simply means his wife back at home wud understand they are only using you to get himself stable financially then move back to his very understanding wife at home.

Are you that ugly in and out to settle for another woman's left over?You can't attract a man without baggage for yourself?Are you ready to live and deal with the fact that for as much as this romance lasts,you wud be sharing this man with another woman?

Its your life to live,If you think you can accept to play  second best . . .way to go girlfriend!

They wud probably out-grow it.

I think your daughter might be be experiencing Trichotillomania . . .

Some children are just too restless ,get bored easily and they react to that in different and sometimes weird ways.

[quote author=fried-rice link=topic=746516.msg9033110#msg9033110 date=1314617266]at the end of the day Students would be surcharged for this,[/quote]My exact thoughts.

Would the end justify all this wahala  

When I lose it sometimes,I usually get a kiss or he gets his Ipod.The former keeps my mouth shut while the later hushes me and leaves me ashamed of myself.

Im interested . . .If the banning power wud be bestowed on moi.

Dragnet I know you are online now so Im addressing you now

I don't know whats wrong with my BB.Last night,the applications just stopped working,everything! When i tried opening any,what comes out is 7xxxx,even the applications on the home screen ain't working either.I woke up this morning and noticed it was ok.

After a couple of hours,its gone haywire again.Can't access mails,can't ping,access sites or anything,just able to make and receive calls.what could be wrong

@OP,what is your husband doing and how is it even remotely possible that he earns less than 17K per month

When you went away for service,did you ever contact him.call him?

Do you sincerely think you'd still love him,if suddenly he gets a better job/pay rise?

Have you helped him to be a better man,encouraged him to job/hunt,share money-making ideas with him?

Goodluck with whatever choices you make,you'd be the one to live and deal with the consequences so use your head as you follow your heart.

jennykadry:
Nigeria is corrupt. What happens in situations where one gets his Jamb result and "Absent" is recorded on it even though he sat for the exam?

Gbam.How do you rectify that?Go to court,due process or pay something and get your kid going?
Who does not offer bribe or collect Bribe in Nigeria ? The name might change(tips,kola,greeting,envelope,Ghana-must-go,airline ticket,landed property,car,etc) but the motive remains same . .  in exchange for something, to gain favor,to jump queue,to bypass due process,to avoid long tori and stress.

Na ghosts dey pay for Jamb/GCE special centers?

What about "desk/table fees" collected at every exam center?

Drinks for the external invigilator/examiner nko?

@Topic,Ideally I would not pay or offer anyone cash or kind bribe for my kids education but I won't cos of a desperate and hungry m.oron somewhere  gamble with my child's future.

cold:
The leadership of Christ Embassy Church, last Sunday, presented the couple before the congregation, and solicited their support to enure (sic) that the wedding is a success.
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2011/08/mercy-johnson-weds-today-amid-tight-security/
Na wa o!Orishirishi!See what churches have become all for the sake of money.God deliver us

Followed the link and some of the comments there are quite alarming.See

“She will be walking down the aisle on Saturday, August 27(Today). She however urges her fans and friends to pray for her and as she makes one of the most difficult decisions in life.

“Some may call it a trial of love while others may settle for a triumph of love, but for Mercy Johnson, it is simply a leap of faith.” the statement reads.

Her wedding day equals a leap of faith and most difficult decision in her life.Something is[b] NOT[/b] right then.I hope while taking her leap of faith,she has enough shock absorbers in place for eventualities.Who wrote that speech?Bad PR.

I wish her well still. 

@Osama,did they wed in an empty church,show us guests now or/and something different.

Nemesis comes across as a teen     Is she really married 

@Sunsshynn,Odeshi ko. Abegi show pictures of foods,drinks,guests etc.Where was the marriage contracted,CE or

Btw,her make-up did not flatter her much.

I have actually grabbed a thing or two from this whole saga:

Stoop to conquer.
Chose your battles wisely,don't start what you can't finish.


. . . .and the patient dog gets the best bone.Its not over till its over.

LOL

More pictures people

No guests,Nollywood?Show us[i] Pinshures[/i] now,haba  

Na "Chinko" phone una use snap the pictures as all of them dark come still get oshodi-oke-like-effect.

^Better Picture.

I must confess,the last picture is Lovely

MJ welcome to the married club!Its now official

Hahahaaa

Wetin Mercy eye never see,see grammar lessons

Can we have more wedding pictures please!

llade:
Av observed dat a couple of ma frds av their wife's mature younger sisters livin wit dem. Aldo one can b disciplined but they claim livin wit d temptation of seeing their beautiful and sexy inlaws cud b very distracting sometimes. They told me dey prefer their own relatives dat cud at least eliminate dose temptin impulses but their wives wud not want to hear dat and they are also finding it difficult to tell deir wives about d temptation dey are currently facin.

This is so frigging irritating.

Why write this way,highly rude.There is pidgin,native and English languages to use,why this rubbish 

Lovely Couple.See mercy shining.

I wish them whatever they wish themselves.

LOL

Welcome to the club and Congrats! however fasten your seat belt as the journey just began;its rough and smooth.

Its her thread,her marriage she's celebrating,she can announce it anyhow she deems fit,I did find some of her sentences distasteful but who am I to spoil her mood,day and thread?

Carry Go babez

@Last Page,eagle eye. 

An observation though,I think If you look closely,on the same row where you have Benin City under Odi/Graza's name,u'd notice Uromi.I neither speak nor understand Italiano but I guess that is their birth place or native home 

This is just too complicated.