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Ivynwa:
Ivynwa laughs and laughs
Abeg-o-o no be only Dame Patience and Dame Stella and them sabi be first lady Ojare, Nne follow remember me in your Aso rocky Paradise when Brother Becomerich rises to power. You go fit let me visit Aso rock abi as I don carry foresight take style become your Oti mkpu now? Abeg Becomrich hurry up and make Ify the first lady joo.

lol
Can u speak Batu?
Is ur fathers compound on map?
Are you that lady that one aboki was playing with her thing?The one that said we should not go to Benin Republic because one aboki or Igbo man was playing with her thing?

Words of wisdom from Ma Musiwa . . .
Becomrich;President,electrical engineer,Mapologist and marriage counselor extraordinaire


[b]when i was young my mother use to sing a song.
omo ni gige , mo wo.
it means the child, is the mirror of life.

Children are more important then career. I do not want to say you have a silly woman for a wife.

If she say she want to go, let her go.  if you people live abroad .
do like what 100% most nigeria men do abroad if she want child support , relocate to nigeria.
let her go thru the pain of taken care of a child alone.
let her go to yar adua and complain. no child support in nigeria.

Dont worry the social worker and police who is trying to earn her 40 hrs to take care of thier own children  would not pick up her phone after you leave. she would discovery , she have been silly.
the government would ask her to go and get a JOB to take care of the child. welfare is not for a life time.

We have seen them over here. their lifes becomes useless they now become love-peddlers in the night.  black in, white go out, pink wait at the door. do google, you would find nigeria women caught on tape. And they become what they call ALL NATION over here. Yoruba call them orise rise men. it mean mens from different national. The children now know uncle itano, uncle britain, daddy Jamecia, Daddy Akata, daddy china,

And they now end up having children . what we call women of united nation over here.

the childre fathers

child 1   father Jamo
Child 2 father Paki
Child 3 father Italo
Child 4  father chiko
child 5  father UK
child 6 Unknow nation[ did not know who the father is]

Baby mother plenty for abroad

the yorubas says if one door do not close another one would not open.

Dont waste your own tomorrow because of an unserious woman. There are good women out there who would love you for you.

And if you are in nigeria . Let her go if she want, there is nothing you can do. Pray for her, if she refuse move on.  Women plenty who need husband. there are 70 million female in nigeria and 150 million in the USA.  Look see how President Yar adua gave his children to men who had 3 iyawo already. what does that tell you. In nigeria they say be Jankara. Even ni AME, plenty plenty.

Bobo, you are not ulgy,

Children are more important than career, to hell with career. Employer can sack you, your children can never sack.

If she want to stay , look for a Godly pastor. not all those 410 pastor . who want money and let them talk to her.


My brother if you have all the money in the world and all title , degree and  cars, if you have no children in lifes. Your life is worth nothing, career would not bury you, it is your children that would.

Even if you die a poor man, you are better than a rich man with no children. God would not make you oloshi. Oloshi is a person who does not have children. A poorman with children is worth more than a man with billion with no children. A child is worth more than ten billion dollar.


There are some women in this world who are praying to have child, your wife na says she does not want one because of career. Aku ku career ni hell. Dam the career.  Career my foot,  [/b]

Emi ati Musiwa/Becomricchn

igeluma:
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Chairman

emi234:
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Secretary

CRYPTIC101:
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Foot soilder.

Echtim:
l'll give it a trial.

Catcher.
Full house . . .

[quote author=~Lady~ link=topic=359506.msg7879184#msg7879184 date=1299687124]Hello all,

This message is for Olabowale, I know he'll be here to look at this, if he doesn't can someone please get the message to him.
Tell him to call ~Lady~, I changed phones and don't have his number on my sim card. Thank you

Sorry Ify to derail the thread a bit, I just don't know how to send messages on nairaland. and[b] congrats for the baby.[/b][/quote]Not a problem at all.You and indeed everyone is welcome here.
@Bolded,Thank you.
Your absence is felt at the health and Family sections.

koolchicco:
Etoo Ogiri ona esi!

LOL.
Im hungry

Is that real the real picture of Amadioha
Does the image of Amadioha not vary from place to place or its same in the whole Alaigbo?

Grooms Parents and Bride

Dad,Bride and Mum

Groom 

Shaida babyyyyy.
Notice the striking resemblance . . .She and Nadia's sister(Page 1);same dad,different mothers. 

kinjiggy:
My father is a pastor and he is the church founder and general overseer. After i finished secondary school i decided to start attending a different church due to reasons ranging from familiarity etc, but he threatened to kick me out of his house and stop funding my education so i decided to wait till i'm independent. Now that i'm on my own, I started attending a church of my choice. He reacted by saying that I'm an ungrateful child. My people, is there anything wrong in deciding to attend a different church?

Nothing wrong in attending a different church.You only changed church and Not religion.
I know how you feel,been there too.My mum is a pastor and as a teen,going to same church with her,listening to her preaching always left me with this . .(for lack of better words I wud use )Cranky,odd and weird feelings. 

You feel ill at ease because all eyes are on you,from peers to mothers . . .mothers expects you to be well behaved while your peers who knows what you are up to wonder if your preacher mum/dad knows who you really are.Too much and unnecessary pressure on you.

God help you if anything happens btwn u and your friends,you discuss it at home and your preacher parent decides(or led by the spirit) to preach on something related to that  . . .u go explain tire to your pals.

Most pastors kids attend a different branch of their parents church.

omex12:
good day house,this my first post actually.really need your sincere help/advise asap.
am a muslim dating a christian gal.am in love wit my galfriend.we planning on getting married soon (mayb next yr most likely).i love her so much.cant do without her.she feels the same way about me too.that am very sure about.
recently the mum found out abt us.and d mum found out that am a muslim.she refused and told my galfriend to stay away from me with immediate effect.the pressure is so much right now she had to lie to d mum that she broke up wit me.
my galfriend called me 2 weeks ago dat she thot abt us and she was  breaking up wit me.i know its nt coming deep down from  her heart.she called me back later in the evening dat she was sorry.it was just d pressure getting to her.she currently in nigeria and am in london.the distance is no problem at all.just d religion issue.i told her whn we c we cld sit down and talk.since we not getting married soon there is plenty time to convince her folks.
although my folks not gonna agree but am willing to go ahead and marry her.not sure if my galfriend is  on the same page as me.shes kinda weak and nt string enough.she said she needs her mum support no matter what.
am worried cuz she calls all d time dat she wanna b wit me.
i love her so much and really confused.dnt knw wht to do as i really wanna marry her.

Your post was all abt the babes family bla bla but what  about YOU AND THE GIRL ?
Would that love you sing now be enough  to let the babe hold on to her religious beliefs forever or you wud along the line want or force her to join you?
Do you think that the girl in future won't beg or force you to join her?
What abt the kids?wud they go to mosque on friday and sunday school on sunday?
When this love grows cold,Is there another REAL thing in this relationship that can weather the storm of religious differences?
When religion matters alot to you,its always advised to stick to your own.
The girl has gathered enough courage and sense to suggest moving on,why don't you try it . . .it might not be easy but you Can or just change your faith and marry your "LOVE"

[quote author=pres-elect link=topic=620109.msg7879362#msg7879362 date=1299689272][/quote]
soweeee,It was a typo

^^
I gakwala the babe nso.

O nwekwara ike iji iwe ihe Tosh mere ya napu gi otu anya.
Nwanyi lechara Tosh anya kwere enyi ma ya forokwa olulu,o chokwara onwe ya ndu?

No way.
I don't belief that Id,words and everything are Patience's own . . .Common.How much does it cost to hire someone,What is beaf and co doing?
That Id must have been created by a mischief maker Madam knows her limitations with English,why wud she think of disgracing herself by attempting to tweet?Not just possible .

@My hubby,Musiwa . . .Na rally and crowd I go chop?Win the gaddem polls and make me a first lady o jare

Lagosboy:
Lady Hymen , long time

Reconstruction of whatever as far as i know would not be permitted in islam as it is plainly a fraudulent way of presenting yourself as what you are not. It is not mandatory in islam to marry a virgin aand a non virgin could well be married which leaves us to ask for the motive of reconstruction.

I am aware it is very common nowadays and may God protect us from such women who are out to claim what they are not, they are nothing but fraudsters who lack in self confidence and are plain hypocrites.+

And God knows best

I don't get the first question
@Bolded,May God also protect us from men who put pressures(directly or indirectly) on our women,Men who all their see in women is virginity and men who are not virgins themselves but wud have the effrontery to abuse a sister that is not a virgin.

Can the guy prove that he is the bonafide owner of that line?was it registered or/and did he purchase the line with his name and a receipt issued  

Ordinary weekend get-away sef,I leave my kids with someone not to talk of honeymoon
The man should have atleast discussed with his wife beforehand. . .The woman sef na one kain ogbologbo,she went and enjoyed or endured the whole trip then came back and dropped her own surprise . . .lol
sickey 1 V sickey 1 = draw game.

[quote author=deal_ordea link=topic=619942.msg7877325#msg7877325 date=1299669364]Just read an article about a woman in Europe filing for divorce after two months of marriage, because her soon to be ex-husband thought it was a good idea to bring his mom on their honeymoon. She showed up at the airport with her husband and his mom was waiting there to go with them. So she was stuck with the mom on their honeymoon.

The husband said in a interview with the newspaper that his mom was way too ill to be left on her own, so he had no choice but to bring her.

When I read the article the first thing that popped into my head was the fact that she still went on the honeymoon, eventhought in the back of her head this guy was history. Why take the trip, then dump him? If him bringing his mom on their honeymoon was so offensive to her, why go? Why not just make your opinion known right then and there, and kick his butt to the curb?.

Is bringing a ill parent on your honeymoon a divorcable offence?. Did the guy do the right thing by bringing his mom with them? providing of course that there was no other option?.[/quote]IMO,NO.
Truth is it won't happen as I wud make sure mama does not go with us [s]even if it means chaining her to seat at the airport[/s]

Seun and Mukina should poste their before and after NLD pictures,bank statement and children[b]s[/b] for us  

Where are the people who were with him when the going was good,family,friends  
City people is a soft sell magazine,their news shld be taken with a pinch of salt.

Ehen . . .now you are talking.Please give him enough yams,orishirishi soups before u make urself available to him so he wud shoot straight to the goal post.
Nonso is doing just fine,enjoying the b.reasts all alone while Daddy stares on in frustration

So far,different posts,different replies . . . .who got it right?

miftaudeen:
apart 4rm these,d scholars had passed fatwa dat we should boycutt cocacola's product,dey support isreal on palestine.

Who are the scholars

Odunnu,u well so ?
I wonder where most of those peeps are now,good company and fun we had then.
That Niceuzor guy was like the present day 190 . . .though Nice had much better developed brain cells.
Odunnu,kedu maka Tkb sef

Dayo ati omoge . . .Una don dey shack since 1800,when wud u guys finally do it right,get married and invite us for Owambe?
@Topic,I can't help but ponder abt the OP's situation now . . .If her story is true . . .who knows what is passing through her now abi what she is passing through

oluite:
Dont nice things happen in marriages anymore?Most topics on this thread seem to be about one sort of abuse or the other either from the husband or wife??!!

Yes,marriage is still sweet.
The thing is this,First people ignore certain things during courtship,things that deep down they know it irks them and they can't tolerate it but because they don't want to loose their partner at that time,they wave it away,make excuses like . . .Oh its just this once and foolishly assume their partner would change after marriage.
Second,People marry for the wrong reasons,do not look and check very well before they jump into the marriage wagon.
Please before you marry especially for females . . .what and who are you?what have you done and achieved for yourself as an individual?If you are a failure when single how on earth would u make ur marriage work Assuming the man or woman starts misbehaving can u afford to give him space,stand alone without feeling hopeless,wasted and dejected?
My dear Good marriage simply means 2 adults that have decided to partner . . .and play LUDO _{gospel according to Blazay} lol .The load should not fall on one person to carry . . .It just wont work and even If one partner decides to carry all the marriage load,he/she wud break down and possibly die on top it.You tolerate me,I tolerate you,when i fall u lift me up,when i sulk or misbehave,u give me space to play out my stu.dipity then come back to show me that Im still ur partner . . you still want us to work together etc.
There are still good marriages out there.

chaircover:
Ok ify lets take this step by step and I am going to try and be as careful as I am so that I am not misunderstood. I personally think that we are saying the same thing but in different ways but I will soon find out  

1. Man beats wife
2. Wife runs away/leaves/whatever to save her life

This is where I think your advice ends; apologies if I have misunderstood you.

I however want to go one step further and say

3. Is man genuingly sober (yes or no)
4a. No - the woman stays put where she is and starts to consider building her life without the man
4b. yes - Then there is a possibility of dialogue and possible reconciliation if the man shows genuine remorse and both husband and wife are counseled on how to deal with conflict, communicate etc

The question is, does step 4b mean that I am making marriage a do or die affair and once a beater always a beater.

No,Chaircover . . .I think I said much more.
3.The woman should get a job,re-discover and re-arrange her self/life as an individual.
4.If she thinks that marriage to the same man is for whatever reasons best known to her,still worth working on(This is where either Police,Family,church,NGO comes in to guide her,talk with the man etc) she can give it a try again  . . .This decision is hers alone to make.

I was not there when they started their marriage and i definitely(God Forbid) would not be the one to tell anyone to get a DIVORCE,If you talk abt separation,Yes I preach that 24/7 . . .when the kitchen is too hot,even a baby knows the best thing to do is to step out first,get some fresh air,cool your head then decide if whatever u left on fire in that kitchen is worth going back to check on.