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This man is pathetic.Not fit to be a husband and father.He records the fight and threatened to post it on their village site and it looks like he did.Who does that?
Such a loser
Now it is on nairaland

FlipModeSquade:
SEMANTICS,don't try to detract from the point of the message..

The drug is for the SICK,who needs it and may benefit from it..

Would you rather they die than try something which may cure them?

What do they stand to lose?

It is a trial my dear.
It may work,it may not
It could maim or even kill, nobody knows
They are trying it out so dont hold you breath yet.
Why would the companies come to Nigeria, a country they know has no regard for human life to try out an experimental treatment.
Ask yourself that question

FlipModeSquade:
These trials are going on all over the world..

Am sure if you are in the Isolation Center and at the point of death you would be thankful for the drugs..

People in isolation are not at the point of death. Those at the point of death are in hospitals

I dont believe anything out of Nigeria and it's agencies until we see Bubu in a live conference answering questions from the press.

wisdomiskey:
Well, we are about to see a repeat incident. These new trials will have devastating consequences that we cant even imagine!

They have collected money to use our people as experiment. Why are they not doing the trial where people are dying in thousands?They know we dont care about human rights

wisdomiskey:
In fact, this is the first time I'm seeing a mass clinical trial study being organised in Nigeria. Just makes you question why.

Big pharmas like Phizer, J&J, AstraZeneca, Merck etc.. have been running trials for years all over the globe (with the exclusion of African countries like Nigeria) making scientific breakthroughs and healing all sorts of diseases. We've never been good enough for thoroughly researched and well developed treatments.

But now all of a sudden, Nigerians are now viable lab rats to be used to test a rushed vaccine for a non-existent virus?

Hilarious!

The big pfizer trial killed children in Kano in the 90s

Undilutedme:
Hello nairaland family.
I trust you guys are doing fine.
I have a little problem and I need a piece of advise on how to handle it.

I have a very wonderful mother. She's caring, sweet, compassionate, name all the good characteristics of a good woman, she's got all but there's this problem I'm still having with her. SHE NEVER APPRECIATES ME, NO MATTER HOW HARD I TRY. My mom will never appreciate me for anything I do, even if she does, she does it nonchalantly like it doesn't matter. She compares me with friends at every slight opportunity she gets.

There was something that happened. Momsy travelled sometime around this year and stayed for close to two months and she has a shop that she manages. The shop's generator has been bad for sometime and it's really stressful for her selling with dim lights but she refused repairing it again because according to her, the generator is consuming her money because of too much repairs every time. So I wanted to surprise her, I called a friend that fixes generator to come help me fix it so when she comes she'll see that it has been fixed. My friend came and fixed it. When momsy came back and I told her that I fixed the generator for her, she told me that, she didn't send me to fix generator for her and that she is not going to use it. According to her "I send you make you fix gen?. I say I nor wan use the gen again". I swear I was really hurt.

On another occasion was during the just concluded UTME exam. My friends wrote before me, a friend of mine had 330 so I told her, she was very happy. She was like, I pray you get something like this. Fast forward, 3 days later, I wrote mine and result came out. I scored 314, when she came, just happily told her, instead of being happy, she just hissed and said "You nor fit get reach 330?". My spirit just died immediately. She likes comparing me with my friends.

There are many occasions things have happened but I'll not bore you with unnecessary talks. It's really eating me up emotionally and psychologically. How well can I make my mom appreciate me more?. How can I please her?.

Ps: Please nobody should throw insults at her. I beg you in the name of whoever you serve. Thanks.

It's obvious you love your mom despite her flaws.Moms are humans. They are not perfect .Maybe she grew up not being acknowledged and appreciated so she didn't learn that.Did she lose her mom early, was she raised by a stepmom?
Since you've spoken to her and it didnt help do you have an older aunty that mom respects a lot that could help you pass on the message.Tell the aunt how you feel and what you would like mom to know,stressing how much you love her and the aunt may relay that to mom in a way to make her listen.
Continue to do the right thing by mom.From your post it's obvious she has raised a good son

MizJaY,

DO NOT DESPAIR
Let me share from my personal experience.Men measure their self worth by the size of their pocket and position they occupy.If they are unable to provide or provide adequately they feel worthless and very irritable.
The anger and moodswings they feel is not really to you but to everything it's just that you are the one mostly around.
That's why I advised you initially to quit looking at his face or reacting to his moods.
If you understand what's going on you can then handle it better.

Dont go asking what is bothering him,I already told you.
My initial advice earlier on is for you to find things that will take your mind off him.Get a life doing things that make you happy even if its reconnecting with close friends from secondary school you can chat and laugh with.
Many people have told you to get some savings that is non negotiable.Even if you will buy ice fish instead of beef you must have your savings.
You said you used to be beautiful you still are beautiful.Take care of your looks.Get some make up and 2 good wigs for your hair.
Be careful what you say to him in this trying moment because things may change and how you handled this moment will matter a lot.


Send me an email at igbowoman44@ yahoo.com.I will be willing to chat more privately, plus help get you a good wig for your hair and some make up to help boost your looks and self esteem.
Cheer up
This too shall pass
Please tag me when you send the email so I know to check
Dont give up.Put your faith in the Lord.

veave:
Hian.

Wetin I go talk go pain you o. But na the truth I go tell you. Madam, right now I can't tell you to start with 50% so I will say 20%.

Thank God there is covid and I pray your job doesn't get affected. As soon as you resume, the second day you get to work tell him there has been a 40% reduction from your salary due to low inflow of cash. You need to save at least 20% of your salary. This money no Matter if the roof is falling down you're not to touch it. Na your back up money be that. The other 20% is for your upkeep. You and your kids should survive on the remaining 50% because you'd definitely pay tithe[color=#
. It's because he knows you always have a back up plan that is why he is relaxed and allowing you foot all the bills.
No this kain thing make me say I no go marry "brother" when I dey small. Most of them are lazy and are dreamers. They expect manner to fall from heaven after their praying and fasting forgetting Paul had a handiwork that sustained him all through his life hence he didn't have to beg and depend on anyone. I no dey like this kind jist. He's not even appreciative of his supportive wife. I know women who use all their money to buy shoes, clothes and the latest asoebi, their husbands dare not say pim because they'd even take his own and join.

Lying and paying tithes
No to those 2 actions @ poster
Why should she lie
.If rapture happens in her lying state will you comfort her in hell?
Poster do you and dont lie about it.
Dont pay any tithes either you dont owe God any tithes.
Give as u are able

MizJaY:
Sorry for the long message but this lockdown period might favour reading long msgs.

I'm the quiet type so I have never opened mouth to insult my husband during any misunderstanding. Just arguments and my voice may go up a bit trying to explain or clear myself but he will start saying im raising my voice and talking back at him and start saying all sorts of things.

Honestly sometimes I wished I could unleash the anger deep down and screammm but I always have self control. If u sit with him, he will give u a million reasons why I'm not a good wife and if u don't know me well, u will fall for it because he tells it so well. I will not say everything he says is false, but 80% is. Only those that really know me, will know he is d one that has problem. He's too difficult at times.

In an office, there's usually that one person that quarrels with everyone am I right? But I end up being d only person that dat person doesn't quarrel with cos I try as much as possible to avoid quarrels that's just d kind of person I am. Calm and quiet.

When I met my husband NYSC days, he was very close to God, organizing programs in church and handling them. That was the main reason I got close to him cos I wasnt so spiritual and needed someone to help me grow spiritually through life. He told me he was called to be a pastor and that excited me but I'm not seeing that now lol. He's spiritual life is almost zero. And back then, he had nothing, we would spend all my money even to reach his sick mother in the village I would buy all the foodstuff to send to her.

The way he talked he sounded promising that things will get better with him, but today, I still suffer, I have no savings, all my salary is on the house. He works too and earns but he's salary covers rent and the children's school fees finished. I do the rest but he doesn't appreciate the fact that I sacrifice everything I earn to feeding the house. We are family of 6. Everything provision, food, children school snack, fuel for car and gen, gas filing etc etc it's me. And that's how my whole salary will just go fiam.

if I ws getting a little appreciation I for no mind but rather I get insults o. It's my fault that
Money is finished, it's my fault that we have no savings, I don't know how to manage money, I'm hoarding my money etc etc those are d words that come out of his mouth o.

I used to be a beautiful woman but no more, I wear one shoe everyday to work, can't buy myself clothes shoes nothing I had to cut my hair to relieve myself from hair money lol. I'm stressed out thinking of where money will come for feeding when my salary gets finished before month end at times I have to beg my sister or my dad a pensioner or hussle one way or d other. I now developed high bp and today I'm living with hypertension taking drugs everyday. It was my parents that gave my husband d job he's doing today. He is not in talking terms with he's dad n siblings. Before he's mother died, things were not too good between them. My husband likes to always form man of d house and want me to apologise whenever there's a misunderstanding saying that I am d one wrong, I'm always wondering how am always the one wrong and he's not � every time.

Sometimes self I don't know what I did that mks him angry he will just start carrying face. Today makes it a week we are not talking cos he has been carrying face since 7days now, and went to post something on wassap yesterday that a woman that cannot apologise to her husband cannot stay in marriage.

My brothers and sisters if I know of anything I did that I have to apologise for yet I refused to apologise that is making him carry face, may God strike me. If u know I did anything wrong why not come to me and tell me u don't like what I did and tell me what i did rather than carry face up n down. He always does that. At times I do ask him and as usual am always d one at fault. Maybe it's cos I'm a quiet person he's taking me for mumu.

The national anthem now is that because he does not have money that's why I don't respect him the way I'm supposed to. I'm always careful with my word when gisting with him cos make I make mistake say Donald duke is d current governor of rivers state haaa problem don enter and it may spoil d sweet gisting we were having. He go almost insult me and become uninterested in gisting with me again cos i don talk mumu talk.

So how can I handle such man cos if no be say I be quiet person, I for don receive serious beating black and blue from this man cos he has done it earlier on in our marriage not serious beating sha but I had some bruises. If not that my parents are still alive and warned him. Tho he still attempts once in a blue moon I go jus arrange myself. But I'm kind of tired. I have no money cos trust me, if I had, Maybe i for don dey plan my move sef I no dey enjoy marriage life at all

Husband matter no easy.Please manage him.Get yourself some friends and gisting buddies. Join a good facebook or whatsapp group to use and distract yourself so you dont keep looking at his face.
Find your class alumni group and join them online.
Start an exercise routine to stay fit
Squeeze out money buy some shoes
Get your hair done or get 2 good wigs for your hair and make up for your face.You must do that
Take care of yourself
Dont allow him stress u out or you will get a stroke,you are already on BP medications.
Download some good music and dance
Get some good books or ebooks and read
Dont apologize if you've not done anything and I promise you he will have no choice but to change or adjust.
If you keep apologizing he will never learn.
You must find what makes you happy and do it.
If you spend your life looking at his face you will die young

Gkemz:
Odumeje don buy trouble of Arondiziogu. The battle line is drawn. The kingdom of devil always fight itself.



It's Arondiziogu, not Arochukwu

Aro is Aro
NdiIzuogu are Aro
Same people

Davash222:
Same Sanusi campaigning against excess breeding of children in the North has four wives and still birthing.
Same Sanusi campaigning against poverty rate in the North has 2 Rolls Royce with over 5 exotic cars worth millions of dollars.

The problems of the North is in the North.

Dont mind him
Bush man despite all his education

babajero:
He should learn from a politician.

So you dont know church politics is the worst of all

Oyedepo should learn

If he admitted to 150 multiply that by a factor of 4 or 5 to get closer to the real number

They preparing for post corona special shiloh

ayolanrewaju:
the things of the spirit is foolishness to a carnal person, please grow up and don't remain a fool. I carry his DNA. the same way he is blessed that is the same way am blessed. you don't know my worth.

Looks like you grew some commonsense overnight.
Good.
You have come a long way from threatening your ancestors with curses to now beating your chest of who you are.
Scammer

ayolanrewaju:
Save your head so you won't use it to carry curse

Babalawo child or criminal pastor which one are you?
Repent and be saved you deceived individual.You can access the bible free online yet refuse to read it and walking all over the place bleating like a sheep.
Curses curses wey no dey pass ceiling.
Foolish confused Africans
If your words mean a thing why dont you curse the ravaging unemployment and poverty in our land? Which papa is drinking garri with your head?
Curse your financial situation first and enrich yourself .
Comot for road

The things women deal with

ayolanrewaju:
fools like you will never be in short supply

The children of angry charlatan papas.Always angry and cursing indiscriminately

EternalTruth:
I did that when I told u its most especially for grandma in ikwuano in abia state.
The boy's name is Precious Nwachukwu.
My mom is even from here too but I thought it's inconsequential to spill her details and anyways my igbo name is Ebube anyway.
So would you kindly have a second thought?
Who have I insulted Quote it here pls

Goodbye

Lawyer ukwu mango

A man that killed other people's parents and children?

EternalTruth:
they just lifted lockdown in my city.
We're starting all over again.
Work has resumed and the money I have here is transport to and fro, feeding and miscellaneous. If u had given out that 2k I'd probably have added 1k to make it 3k so it'll assist him and his aged grandma.
Well you're a christian I guess, emulate from God as the Lord Jesus Christ said in Matthew 5 vs 45 and I quote :
"Be as your heavenly Father which is in heaven for he makes the sun to rise on the evil and on the good and sends rain to the just and the unjust "
And also in Luke 6 vs 35
Be as the children of the Highest for he is kind and merciful unto both the thankful and the unthankful, He is kind to the righteous and to the evil
So what I'm saying here is that there is no need for you to start checking and monitoring my comments to spot my imperfections and withold the kindness.
Just learn from the above verse and give freely and great will be your reward.

Shalom.

See my initial post on the thread.Clearly stated in no.2
No need to quote bible for intimidation like an african pastor

una no wan make e get invitations to shiloh and get his share of the loot

EternalTruth:
awon monitoring spirit
But that girl no try jhoor. Why would she be fuccking me and my HOD?
Sha i never really needed your money, I wanted giving it directly to a friend (precious in abia state cos he's in dire need of it) and he isn't on nairaland

You should be able to give your friend ordinary 2k

EternalTruth:
hello ma pls I just back on nairaland cos my phone was spoilt, just recently repaired it.
I meet up all your requirements can I drop my details please?
I'm from IMO state but current locked up in Ikwuano in Abia state with my grandma and things isn't rosy here.

You call Igbos foul names, speak ill of women, had the nerves to hack into a girl's phone and proud to start a thread on it and expect me to give you a dime?
Just kiss your grandma for me jare
You dont qualify

Are these numbers real or doing it for the money

Which Buhari?