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Nonsoboy4life:
Not confronting her is non of the reasons u stated above...I just don't want drama in my house and I don't want to risk any violent act..I will send her everything when she reaches safely in her place

Can you tell us that for 3 years you've been together you've not seen any other girl?
Of course I know that's not true
What business do you have checking her phone sef

Dande55:
Girlfriend of 3years without proposing and you expect her not to seek for other options.
You time wasters are something else.

Thank you.3 whole years i.e.36 months and he is still planning to propose. Talking about intimacy like it's a right.
Nonsense

meeky007:
how can he wear Mask over a mask

Exactly.

Our president is fully protected from the crown of his head to the hole in his neck

A relative of mine made some money selling breast pumping machines to Lagos big girls.

Wow
It would look so beautiful as a purse with a silver latch and a pair of shoes when wearing a silver dress

Maybe he will use the head to prepare isi monkey while his mates eat isi ewu

Some of the ritualists we see in the news are nairaland members.The OP is one of them

olax02:
Ass hole rock

That was deliberate

I don't understand Yoruba but this brought tears to my eyes.so sad

This is a framed up set up made to divert attention and they know the average Nigerian is too hungry and too stupid to notice

While boko haram killers are on private jets with presidential welcome at arse hole rock.
This is a framed up set up made to divert attention and they know the average Nigerian is too hungry and too stupid to notice

Racoon:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2020/05/stop-asking-me-about-chinese-doctors-minister-of-health-tells-nigerians/amp/

Another confirmation that there is no president or VP
The right doesnt know what the left is doing

Because the leaders are too foolish to think of such things
Do they even have road signs?

contigiency:
And I am happy to announce that the one for Ebonyi state will be located in my village in Uburu Ohaozara.

Congrats.
You will soon have killers,cultists and criminals all over your village

Perpetua

Raeheemwayne:
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I think the issue here is - Understanding - You two don't understand each other lifestyle. He might have said that infront of his friends to showoff - yes - very common with guys; it's not pride, it's self-esteem.
My cousin do same to his babe almost every time but she have never for once complained rather she'll smile and apologize.
I can swear this two love eachother unconditional.
Nevertheless, I think you should have a pillow chat with him about the issue if you don't like it, then watch how he'll react to it.

NB: If you really value ya relationship with him. don't let this be an issue.
Thanks.

Your cousin is a narcissistic tyrant and you have a twisted definition of love.Love does not himiliate

Vikky1425:
It's not a fake story my sister I just got home now and cant stop thinking
I just dont want to share the chat we had before I went over to his place. He said him and his friend ate light food to sleep last night, I should have left my place earlier to come make them food

That man only needs a cook.Isnt this obvious to you yet?.I hope you havent been dickmatized yet.You dont need a face to face break up with this one before he wounds you .If you have your bathroom slippers or clothing there just go and collect it discreetly,go back to your place and send him a short text ,no long grammar.

" Hello Ofiafuluagu, this will not work out between us.It's been nice knowing you these 4 weeks.Take care and God bless".
Sincerely,
Vikky

Vikky1425:
Thank you
He smokes and drinks, he promised to stop. wants to bring his friends over so I can cook, because he likes people around him and he cannot buy food outside neither can he cook. I am just fed up. I'll call it quit. We are clearly not compatible. Toxicity is of different shades

It even gets worse.
He smokes and drinks.Dont mind him he wont stop.If his mother couldn't make him stop na you you go do am?.
Will drink and beat the hell out of you,vomit and pee everywhere and want to have sex.Liver cirrhosis and lung cancer about to happen.You don't want to be a widow this young do you?.
Please run away.The second hand smoking you are inhaling is bad enough.Give him back his keys inmediately if he gave you his keys
I say run far far away.Run Vikky run

People hold their pets for pictures.Why is this one inside a bowl?

One month relationship and you are already a maid being commanded up and down.Na wa o.
Isn't this the time when the man should still be all over you wining and dining you?
You are already pounding yam and cooking like say na mama put job dem put u with proposal of future cooking assignment for his mother.
My dear this one na bad market
3rd grade okirika na im u buy
Run away fast.This will get worse and 100X worse in marriage

Hopeless Uzodinjo

A useless place where the chief executive is only seen in photoshopped pictures

The woman of course.In my case we didnt plan or decide. I kept popping them out until they wanted to drive me nuts and I said enough is enough.
I didn't come to this world to have babies

From the picture e be like madness don start

When people are starving?
Hopeless Uzodinjo

This story is grossly incomplete.
Men become extremely difficult to deal with when they have no money.I bet she saw pepper in your poor days including no affection and then someone moved in emotionally.
I put it to you ,no woman goes out like that if the man in the house is performing his bedroom duties.
Usually a worried poor man cannot get an erection

Because he knows there is no president

After both men ended up bankrupt, evicted from their mansions and broke .
What foolish men.
How can people earn hundreds of millions and blow it in a few years.

Was it a boy or girl snake?
Did you check?

Thank God you found it.For it to swallow 2 rats who knows how long it had lived in your place.The swallows made it sluggish so it was a good thing .
Get someone to fumigate the house and then check your windows and doors and plumbing works for gaps and holes.

As I have grown older my ideas of life have also grown wider.
@ op despite my true feelings about this case as stated in my first post you must also define your needs.
I have come to understand that sometimes a woman especially at a certain age may have a need to be legally married and have her children within wedlock.
If this man is decent enough and that is what you desire,I wont fault you.
I actually came to this knowledge when a 39 year old lady cautioned me on a blog years ago about my stand on marriage and I had a rethink.
Marriage could mean different things .For some it could be financial stability others could be the ability to be legally married to bring forth kids and for some of us romantics at heart ,love and companionship.
As long as everyone is aware , getting what they want and none feels cheated I say go for it