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Buhari didn't say any of that
Audio president.
Bring him out live to say it with pressman asking questions

When there is no head

Sad.
What happened

potent5:
Are you saying he is a ghost wey leg nor de touch ground?

Na u talk am o lol

Where are his feet in that picture of him standing

The fulanis are already there and these losers are still at the meeting phase?

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PeachtreeReside:
You can't say it was bad from the beginning....

He said so himself.Go and read his.posts.

Foolish people.
The man should have freedom of speech except in a zoo state

CoolAmbience:
My man, find the best excuse for some kind visit to Nigeria as soon as you can.

Even if it means, faking that someone had died.

Bring her back and keep her here.

Take my advice!

That woman is likely to ruin you there.

I am sick of these stoopid lines of tricking her back home
How old are you people sef?

I have read up to page 7 and feel sorry for this guy.
All the people saying send her back or trick her to naija sound like immature children,shows you the mentality of the African man where women are seen as pieces of furniture.
I feel for this guy
Even if he decides to divorce which seems to be what he is doing it will cost him.she will most likely get her own lawyer and he will also pay for her lawyer.
Make sure you check through the contract with the lawyers and how they are billing you or you will have a huge bill on your hands.
Most sensible men just allow her take what she demands so they can make it snappy to cut costs and move on.
This is not an easy road but seems to be the only sensible one.
My heart goes out to the innocent children in this mess.I can only imagine the trauma they are going through. God protect them from any damaging long term effects.

Spanishmilf:
The only thing OP can do is to call cops or immigration officer on your wife. If she use 7-9mnth in ICE center her brain will settle. Note they won't deport her if u have a very extremely lawyer. Just that she will stay longer in immigration camp. Her gra gra will be reduce to 0,just try that and come give testimony

Some of u sit in ojuelegba and talk like say u know sumtin
U think someone can just pick up the phone and call ICE and they come and pick someone up?

LinLinGentle:
I have tried to convince her to come back to Nigeria before the lockdown, but she said she would never step out of the country until she gets her Pali. She said she has no business in Nigeria and even if her mum dies before she gets her Pali, she would not move an inch.

I have honestly tried almost everything. I have begged for peace, prostrated, cried, moved out, moved back in when I was piling up more debt, called pastor and his wife who have now given up on her case due to her non-compliance with spiritual advice. I have made multiple attempts to sit her down to have a heart to heart, but it's always the same roadblock. She sees me like some piece of shit that doesn't deserve her. I have seen some chats where she was talking to family and friends about how she plans to divorce me and re-marry here once she gains her grounds.

Eziokwu!!
You try o.please what did you do to her in Nigeria? I am still reading

LinLinGentle:
You are right bro, I had plenty gra gra back in Naija and I think she has psychologically programmed herself before arrival to come take her pound of flesh here. There is complete breakdown of communication with her family as they are on her side, always encouraging her to call the police on me. All they say is ''No gree for am o, he think say na Naija he dey. Show am well well, you have rights there and the govt. would support you''

Obviously you did a lot of damage to this woman in Nigeria going by your own words.

lekki1444:
yes but domestic abuse is not one of those

Says who?
Do u know how long the record is and other criminal records he may have and that was the last straw?

lekki1444:
but this your story is not adding up lol. how did your brother with no papers bring a woman over to the UK ?

With certain criminal convictions people's legal status can be revoked and they are deported .I know 2 people it happened to

PeachtreeReside:
You must have been beastly to her hence her exacting her pound of flesh..


Wish both of you the best now that you are starting the divorce process....


We should all learn to take things easy with each other as spouses .

Your past is catching up with you.

Maybe you should show her that you have changed....?

Yes
There are 2 sides to every story especially man and wife stories.
The bottom line is that the relationship was bad from the very beginning and is now toxic and they need to go their separate ways before someone dies

Badgers14:
Dont judge a book by the cover... you sound like a lady.. women advocate shebi

I wish u all the best but dont pray your brother marry a vulture woman, a saint in Nigeria but mesmerized with watching too many realty T.V comes to yankee and turns Jezebel.. madam you sef will be calling for her head in a platter!

Believe me I have seen worse women.My own relative married one.we begged him to leave her .It is a miracle he came out of it alive.

Badgers14:
I hope you had a conversation with a divorce attorney prior to filling one.

Not sure which country you reside or which state (if U.S). Sometimes the situation might even be worse when you fill for divorce, like if you have to share your property 50 50 and pay spouse support... she will take half of your property and will never get married again or even want to work because the spousal support will stop.

This is one of the reasons why divorce is sometimes bloody... check OJ Simpson.

People are upset the woman is trying to reap where she did not sow... clean out the guy and guy man don't want to smoke back from ground zero...

Not admiring the bloody divorce tho..
I know a guy that went through this one time.. he kept calm played along, have his men dem in 9ja hype up the lady, around one of the holiday season sent a car to Nigeria told the let's visit home, she gave her a list of what to buy for her and for her whole village..dude purchased all...

On arriving to Lagos after clearing the airport... he took away everything from her including her passport, and filed for divorce in Lagos... this was a very carefully laid out plan...it was an ambush. She was served paperworks the same day she landed in Nigeria. That's all he needed, to serve her the paperwork, she thought it was a joke... she was a no show during proceeding and divorce was granted. It costs a bit a of money but wayyy less than he would have spent in the U.S.

Again, not recommending anything just a story on how people go crazy during this divorce process and also to ask questions prior to filing, like questions on how to come out on top...

People that live in communal property states, some intentional rack up debts , re mortgage the house, like taking off all the meats in the bone then file... knowing that they would lose the bone but again they have securer to "meat" to help them back up from ground zero. It's all about planning.

Cheer up my guy, I have heard so many of these stories from guys in the U.S and Europe and it's not even funny.

Your guy is just as wicked.
A woman is entitled to proceeds from the marriage in divorce.Being mean to take away everything from her ambushed in a crooked society is not right either.
Dont encourage wickedness especially when there are kids involved

LinLinGentle:
Not a tale bro. This is my life right now, I swear! I am in a very messy situation and cannot reveal my identity cos a lot of people we know are on nairaland.

Just came across the thread now and glad to see the update you added on.
You shouldn't be with this woman.You made the right decision.
Take out a restraining order as well so she could be arrested for coming close to you
I pray you find a good woman that will love you and treat you right.
Dont beat yourself up and stay safe, she sounds psychotic.
This is your side of the story I am sure she also has hers

nurusystem:
THAT is d beauty of ISLAM where such problem is solve. the guided religion.

Sleeping with your aunty to produce kids is beauty?

President that nobody has seen live

Modesthy:
I had a good uncle who passed away three years ago. His wife morned him for one year. I lived with that my uncle until I got married and parked to my own house.

I use to visit the house sometimes. After the mourning, his wife called me and told me that I should give her more children. She has only one male child. I refused. But She said I should do it for her because she doesn't want children outside the family because she loved my uncle and our family and that she can't continue to stay with only one child.

I'm completely confused. First I'm married doing that is infidelity, sencondly, the uncle was like a father to me before his death. And I see it as a big sin.

Please somebody should help me, what do I do here? How do I handle this issue? Thanks for your candid advice.

So you are actually seeking advice on what to do?

post=89858595:
We concur!
One of us @[/b] (Sisi Yewande) absolutely concur with this.
Just look at her shaking her head in agreement at the moment!


[b]Anyone Wanna know the characteristics of an entitled man that Dyt is talking about?!



Hehehehe , igbowoman has spoken, she just break d table patapata.
And she is so apt!
But a quick question please, what about if he is short and ugly but come get money like Dangote?!

Igbo kwenu!

A man's beauty is his wallet
Nma Nwoke

Snaagg:
Nobody's is forcing you into marriage in the first place.

Afterall it's your gender that cry yourselves to sleep every night, embarking on intense fasting and prayer for husbands + joining Facebook groups to encourage each other in your singleness/loneliness

Then you start giving boyfriends ultimatum on when they must propose to you. Hahahhaha!

Na only for Nairaland una get liver. Desperados.

It's actually an indictment on men.When u are still at your mama's houses at 33 dragging plate of beans na who go marry the girls?

The worst of all is an insecure man especially a short ugly insecure man without money.

We have all seen pictures of seriously sick covid patients all over the world as well as pictures of patients who succumbed to the illness.We have also seen their grieving families in the news all over the civilized world

Does anyone know families of any of the deceased covid patients we hear of in Nigeria .
Do you know anyone that was seriously sick from covid in Nigeria?
Please abba kyari doesn't count ( his case was shrouded in secrecy so we dont really know what killed him)

First of all that child is not up to 18
It must have been a forced marriage. They cleverly left out the age of the man most likely 60 plus.
She endured 10 days of rape and couldnt take it on the 11th day.
Sadly they will throw this innocent little girl in jail .

olawonder:
There’s something abnormal about Northerners With knives! One minute you’re sitting together laughing, the next minute you hear “petsh mai dagger!” Kids as young as 10, male or female doesn’t matter, will be threatening to kill u as if you’re a chicken... there needs to lots of awareness about dangerous behaviours that could lead to fatalities in the North, most of these youngsters simply don’t know the consequences of their actions!

It's the religion.There is a spirit of killing with dagger attached to that religion

Without reading the story I know exactly where this is coming from.
If not NE it is NW
Now let me read

This is how ebola started