₦airaland Forum

HUSTLER001:
My boss have asked her employees to either take the corona vaccine or resign. I didn't but I don't want to resign either. I'm expecting to get sacked and take up a legal suit. I still need advice though.

Bobxin:
Two of them

Beremx:
He would have left the phone for the thieves. Life first.
How many phones will the robbers steal to become millionaires? Hungry idiots.

Rest In Peace dear.

Angelfrost:
So... What exactly is the crime here?!!

What part of the Nigerian constitution did the adulterers contravene?!!

gulfer:
They need to watch this TRUMP very closely in these last days; I just hope he does not start the 3rd world war as predicted by Nostradamus

BeeBeeOoh:





My problem is not Shekau being critically ill, my problem now is that if this present Shekau dies which we pray for it won't take his mother 3 days to give birth to another adult Shekau..

Anoymus:
I have a girlfriend I am meaning to propose to during the festive period, she's everything I want in a woman except few exception which might be a hindrance to the proposal.
Gist is, my babe is a graduate but lack of work made her to learn fashion designing, she's done with the training and she's very good with what she does.

After marriage, I have told her that I'll assist in her business, I'm planning to get a bigger shop space for her and equip it with modern day machines, tools and tailoring materials goods to help make her work lucrative. I'm budgeting about 1.2-1.5m for this.

The issue now is that, 3 days ago, I asked her what her role would be if eventually after marriage she gets the shop, equipments and all, where she would come in in terms of responsibilities in the house. Her reply was she doesn't want to assume any responsibility and that it's my duty to cater for the family and she can only help & I shouldn't make anything compulsory for her. So many thoughts came through my mind. One of it was that, where the proceeds of her investment would be going to if I should shoulder all the responsibilities in the house knowing fully well that she makes money.

I rang my mum and told her of her response, I was shocked that she backed her saying that I shouldn't have asked her to foot anything in the house that it was my sole responsibility as a man to cater for my family my wife inclusive. My dad too, same thing. Even told my gf mum about it too , she giggled and said I shouldn't have asked her n that it's my duty to provide for my family. They all sounded foreign to me. Or am I the one not understanding?

My question now is, why invest that kind of money in her when I'm not sure of getting little or nothing in terms in return help to run the family. That sum of money could get me 4 brand new bikes and 2 neatly used Keke Napep for transportation business. I'm sure I'll be getting returns from these investment weekly or monthly basis.

I don't want who wouldn't have any sense of responsibility at home after investing in her, even if she's covering 10% or 5% I wouldn't mind. Mere helping doesn't go down well with me, she might have and decide not to give out. I rather not invest at all and expect nothing from her.

I don't know if I'm the one over thinking this things or my parent and her mum aren't seeing things from my perspective or am I being inconsiderate?

Criticism, Insults and bashing are welcomed. Thanks

Shayetet13:
Kalu playing the game of chess... Let no man be surprised if he emerges the APC presidential candidate for 2023 elections... He is well loved in the north

Fallasy:
Every adult has the right to choose who fathers him/her. Some people disowned their parents due to one problem or another and was adopted by their desired individual. In this case there's nothing their biological parents can do about it.