₦airaland Forum

chazon:
Am in my 30’s, My wife and I have been living in separate locations about 4yrs now. With intermittent visits 3-4months intervals.
Few days back wen she visited, I exchanged one of my new fones with her so while I was checking out the fone so I could delete some stuff and familiarize with the fone(her previous fone ,now mine)I casually stumbled into her FB & WhatsApp and saw sex chats with different men including her ex. This will be first ever I would be checking her SM, calls, SMS or whatsoever.
When I confronted her with these evidences, she rather than apologize to me, began guilt tripping me with how she’s been ignoring my own philandering (but no evidence, she’s just basing them on speculations).
She dragged the fone in a bid to snatch it from me at the Mall in public.
I told her point blank how disappointed & angry I am and am separating from her.
I arranged for for logistics to take her to our house in the town she stays.
She’s called my dad. I have no idea what she’s told them, but I got evidences.
We do not yet have a child together.

Did I overreact??
How do I deal with this situation
Mature advices will be appreciated from experienced people

As for me you did the right thing. But if you feel you can forgive and forget her, you can take her back.

As for me, I can't take back such a lady

Ozommadu:
So why una dey carry fake news upandan

I'm i the OP who post the article?

Gistsnaijamedia:
The National Judicial Council (NJC), on Wednesday, recommended the appointment of 11 justices to the Supreme Court.

Justice Moore Aseimo A. Adumein, who signed the controversial judgement in Kano governorship election appeal, also made the cut.

The Court of Appeal had in its November 17 judgement read by Adumein upheld the judgement of the Kano Governorship Election Petitions Tribunal, declaring APC candidate, Nasiru Gawuna, as winner of the governorship election in the state.

https://gists9ja.com.ng/2023/12/07/judge-behind-controversial-kano-judgement-to-be-promoted-to-supreme-court/

There's nothing controversial about the Kano judgement

lordkush:
what has you and you father done in the area you reside ? Jealousy is all I see here. He earned it. But the spirit of agbero and omonile in you people won’t make you take your eyes 👀 off. You don’t you extend this your prosperity to akure or osogbo

The bus stop was never named Charley boy.

Ozommadu:
Owners of lagos?? Dem dey pay am for the bus stop?

Abi the bus stop will make 1 dollar =#1

The bus stop was never named after him sef.

Gistsnaijamedia:
Justice Haruna Tsammani, the lead judge for the Presidential Election Petitions Tribunal that affirmed the victory of President Bola Tinubu in the February 25 poll, is one of those that have just been recommended to the Supreme Court bench by the National Judicial Council.

Tsammani presided over the five-man appeal court panel that included Justice Stephen Adah, Justice Monsurat Bolaji-Yusuf, Justice Moses Ugo and Justice Abba Mohammed.

https://gists9ja.com.ng/2023/12/06/breaking-head-of-presidential-election-appeal-court-panel-justice-haruna-gets-superem-court-job/

He deserve it

lexylaw40:
“DapoCNG Bus”: Gas-Powered Buses Arrives Lagos, Charges N200 to N400 Per Passenger
carmart.ngDec 6, 2023 11:34 AM

Gas-Powered Buses Arrives Lagos, Charges N200 to N400 Per Passenger
Gas-Powered Buses Arrives Lagos, Charges N200 to N400 Per Passenger
The Lagos State government has introduced a new and cheaper means of transportation for residents ahead of the Christmas celebration.
The bus named “DapoCNG Bus” began its operation in Lagos on Monday, December 4th, 2023.
However, the bus will only be operating in areas like Mowe, Ibafo, Magboro, Arepo, and New Garage in Berger in Lagos.
According to the Lagos State Commissioner for Transportation, Gbenga Dairo, the buses will operate ahead of the introduction of Bus Rapid Transit (BRT) along the axis with bus stops only in areas that include Mowe, Ibafo, Magboro, Arepo, and New Garage in Berger.

Speaking to the Guardian, the Commissioner told the publication that the operating hours of the buses will be between 6 am to 9 pm from Mondays to Saturdays and that transport fares on these CNG-powered buses with range between N200 to N400 maximum.

Talking about the government’s effort in ensuring the smooth operation of these buses, he noted:

“Expectations are quite high, the services are much anticipated, and the timing of the start of operations with Christmas activities at the RCCG camp much valued by commuters.”


The state’s Commissioner of Transportation has also urged those living within the Mowe, Ibafo, Magboro, Arepo, and New Garage in Berger axis to patronize the buses as they are convenient, safe, and affordable.

The Rise of CNG-Powered Vehicles in Nigeria
CNG-powered buses have been getting a lot of PR recently, especially following the crazy increase in the price of fuel in the country. CNG (Compressed Natural Gas) is a cheaper alternative to petrol and is also noted to be more environmentally friendly. As such, some Nigerian car manufacturers (Innoson Motors) have gradually started introducing CNG vehicles to help many Nigerians reduce the cost of fueling their vehicles.

Is the commissioner trying to say BRT will be operating in Mower/ibafo axis in Ogun state?

Bobloco:
“About nine Nigerians were sent back by The Gambian immigration officers for attempted stowaway in the high sea and two of them almost lost their lives in the process because when they were discovered, they attempted to escape and jumped into the high sea. Unfortunately for them, two of them could not swim.


https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2023/12/nine-nigerian-stowaways-captured-at-gambia-sea-return-to-lagos/amp/

Some Nigerians eh... Where exactly are they swimming to?

SSFeedsNigeria:
Political observers can detect that something weird has been happening since Tinubu seized power. Apart from his bigotry and ethnocentric tendencies, he seems to be taking his devil may care attitude to brazen heights.

I’m not even referring to his “ethnic purging” of fulanis and Hausas in strategic positions while replacing them with Yorubas. Neither am I referring to other policies like knee jack subsidy removal that is aimed at giving SW a huge advantage over other regions of Nigeria. Also, sidelining popular northern politicians while projecting weak ones, can be called politics of self preservation since he obviously doesn’t want any serious challenger in 2027.

What I’m talking about is how on earth will the chief of army staff alongside the GOC Kaduna ist division order or allow the bombing of Northern civilians celebrating Muslim festivities? Are they trying to say they didn’t work with “intelligence “ or it was deliberately done on purpose? The fact that the chief of army staff and GOC Kaduna 1st division are all fellow Yoruba men like Tinubu makes the situation worse. Conspiracy theorists can easily create a perfect story of ethnic cleansing on this.

Tinubu should sack that chief of army staff now and prosecute him before it’s too late.

Igbos like you are not happy and are also jealous because Yoruba and Hausa/Fulani politicians are working together.

Justiceleague1:
See pretending o!!!
See painment o!!!
Stop pretending,you are in Sifia pains cos we know how you are ya fellow ronus attacked Sunday Igboho for daring the govt of your beloved sai baba

Tchewww

eepeepook:
Shameless bitch.

Why e com pain you like this?

money121:
Lagos State Governor, Mr. Babajide Sanwo-Olu on Tuesday said the Opebi-Mende-Ojota Link Bridge and other arterial roads connecting the bridge will be ready for commuters by the Second Quarter of 2024.

The construction of the bridge is in line with the Babajide Sanwo-Olu administration’s commitment to the second pillar of the THEMES+ developmental agenda, which is Traffic Management and Transportation.

Speaking with journalists at the Odo Iya Alaro area of the state, after an inspection tour of the Opebi- Mende- Ojota Link Bridge, on Tuesday, Governor Sanwo-Olu said the project conceived over a year ago is currently at about 65 percent competition stage.

Governor Sanwo-Olu, who was accompanied by his deputy, Dr. Obafemi Hamzat and some members of the State Executive Council, members of the Lagos State House of Assembly and other key stakeholders during the inspection tour, expressed satisfaction with the level of ongoing construction works by the contractor.

He said the Opebi- Mende- Ojota link Bridge when completed will in no small measure solve major traffic issues and provide alternative routes for motorists plying Toyin, Allen, Opebi to access Ojota and those from Maryland to connect Ikeja and its environs, adding that it will also decongesting traffic on Kudirat Abiola Way and Mobolaji Bank Anthony.

Governor Sanwo-Olu disclosed that additional human needs infrastructure such as walkway for pedestrians, bicycle lane, parking space to accommodate any broken-down vehicles temporarily and other complementing road infrastructure, were considered in the construction of the bridge.

He noted that when completed the Opebi-Mende-Ojota Link Bridge would not only provide an alternative route, it would also ease traffic congestion in the axis and would bring about economic development to the state.The Governor also disclosed that a tour of the ongoing Regional Road in Lekki would soon be embarked on.

He said: “The Opebi-Mende-Ojota Link Bridge is going to solve the major traffic problems and provide alternatives for our citizens; people that are commuting from Toyin, Allen Avenue, Opebi to access Ojota Bridge and people coming from Maryland can go straight to Ikeja. It will solve many traffic problems that we have on Kudirat Abiola Road going towards Alausa. It will also solve the major traffic issues that we have on Mobolaji Bank Anthony Way.

“The bridge is an economic development. We are changing the face of traffic management. We are changing the face of commuting in Lagos and we are changing the face of access to modern infrastructure roads and development.

“I am impressed with the amount of work that Messrs Julius Berger has done here. We are happy with the contractor and all the consultants. We are still on track with the completion. We are still hoping that by the second quarter of next year, towards the third quarter, we should complete the entire road construction so that we can hand it over to the citizens.

“There is still going to be a bit of furniture that you are going to see on the bridge. Eventually, it will look like another iconic bridge in Lagos, similar to what we have in the Lekki axis. We want to ensure that what we see in other developed nations are the kind of infrastructural development that we are doing in Lagos.”

Also speaking during the inspection tour, a member of the Lagos State House of Assembly, representing Ikeja II Constituency, Hon. Adedamola Kasunmu commended the Governor Sanwo-Olu for solving the plights of residents in the Ikeja axis, saying the people of Ikeja are happy with the bridge project.

Kasunmu, the Deputy Majority Leader of the Lagos State House of Assembly, said the Opebi-Mende-Ojota Link Bridge would solve traffic problems and alleviate people's sufferings in Ikeja and its environment when completed.

#AGreaterLagosRising
#LASG

lalasticlala, Mynd44, OAM4J Seun Nlfpmod

Sanwo olu once said he will complete it in a year

I'm impress with Lagos, Kaduna,

Oyo — 50%: ₦31.2b < ₦62.3b
🟤Edo — 48%: ₦22.9b < ₦47.5b
🟠Niger — 41%: ₦6.9b < ₦16.9b
🟠Plateau — 40%: ₦6.3b < ₦15.9b
⚫Yobe — 39%: ₦4.1b < ₦10.5b
🟤Delta — 36%: ₦30.9b < ₦85.9b
🟣Osun — 26%: ₦6.5b < ₦24.6b
🟣Ondo — 26%: ₦8.5b < ₦32.6b
🔴Kano — 23%: ₦9.7b < ₦42.5b
🔴Jigawa — 20%: ₦4.2b < ₦20.6b
🔴Sokoto — 16%: ₦3.7b < ₦23.6b
🟠Kwara — 12%: ₦4.2b < ₦35.7b
⚫Bauchi — 11%: ₦2.9b < ₦25.5b
🔴Kaduna — 10%: ₦6b < ₦58.1b
🟣Lagos — 9%: ₦57.5b < ₦651.2b

Wike needs to answer lots of questions :

🟤Rivers — 86%: ₦147.8b < ₦172.8b

I wander why the deputy governor can't be made the acting governor.

Advancedman:
Do you people have brain at all? I doubt you still read at all.

You're still a baby when OBJ ruled between 1999 and 2007, so I won't blame you kid

Tochi360:
Lool your late goat rapist father can't be put in the same sentence His daftness is natural dats why he never paid heed to advise to stop raping people's goat until he was caught and burnt alive like asun

You will soon die the death of your late father too you daft deadheaded tribalist

K

DaTruths:
Yoruba presidents and rigging are inseparable.

They are always dragging our democracy backwards.

I'm not being Tribalistic but stating facts.

k

Tochi360:
Shut up daft mofo like you dey talk about smartness can you imagine

Nothing like tease here,the only reason why your god create you na to look for co senseless shameless tribalist to do tribal banters for nairaland,na your purpose of existence be dis

Useless bingo,there are good and bad people in every tribe, since your deranged tribalistic mind refutes this reality, you go soon run naked enter market be that e no go tey

Shameless tribalist.

I won't be wasting my time on a dumb person like you

Scammerr:
yes, comfort yourself with that.

Nah all this fake stats una dey use lie for yourselves

Obasanjo should not be the man that will be complaining about election rigging

Tochi360:
You and the mofo wey you quote be shameless tribalist,e no possible for una two to ever make sense 😄
The only thing wey fit come out from two of una tribally bigoted hateful coconut head na
Hsdhrdh csssauggh vssf,bjittr gsaaout cdyoyc xdyifrr gsuurf nooya plkcsa jut,hitryhhvb ,hiyutr

You don't seem to be smart at all. You're extremely dull.

I dey tease the mumu, you're here saying nonsense. If you think I really give a fvck about igbos or any other ethnic group, nah you sabi

It's not Tinubu that told the PDP in Plateau lateau state to disobey a court order.

That's good

It's high time the Government work on ways the price of food stuffs will stop increasing

emekabassey:
My story is going to be long and the experience is far from pleasant

I worked for Fouani NIgeria Limited, the customer service department.
The manager is Lebanese, most will think this is enough justification for the way he acts but all other deartments in the company(that I know of) all have Lebanese managers but their story is so different from ours aside from the general issue of not giving employment/appointment letters, most these complaints is peculiar to that department of the company

Our manager does not allow any form of interaction amongst worker as you can be terminated for turning your head in the office, as in say you just turn neck o. Someone was terminated for laughing after office hours, work don close o and baba say the guy laugh and the next day na termination straight. Your job security depends on his mood, as he might just decide to terminate you with the excuse of 'we dont want you anymore'

Approval of leave is at his mercy, I can remember a staff, although she was due for 1 week leave, this man denied her despite the fact that this lady was seriously ill, he made her come to work even with the drip connected to her body as he told her she will be terminated if she doesnt work. This lady fainted twice at work that day and had to choose her life by resigning.

This is just one of the many cases of staffs that were terminated because they were absent from work because of illness even after informing he resumed with a medical report after being unable to come to work for 2 days and in this man's word "sorry, you can go home and rest. You will see your salary at the end of the month" That was the end of it.

This man has made the work environment so toxic and it is not strange to see staffs crying after leaving his office as he talks to staffs as if Nigerians are lesser humans, he called a teamlead a slut and accused her of sleeping with her team members because she does not deduct staff break, he threatened Samiat and promised to destroy her because the young lady wanted to quit and go for her youth service.

This man makes it his office policy to to limit staffs restroom usage to 7 minutes, anything beyond this can get you break deductions, warning letters and even termination. Whereas he who sets the rules spends 30 minutes in the restroom (You and I know that no one can control nature).

A Muslim staff was terminated for dosing during ramadan(this man na muslim o, and he prays 5 times daily) and so many others that I can't mention all that have face similar cases on a daily basis. He employs today and terminate tomorrow with a reliable reasons. There is a post on nairaland as far back as 2020 about this man.

Work time is Monday to Saturday 7:50AM to 5:30PM with no visible compensation for working overtime instead he tells you he is doing you a favor and you will get as much as 5,000 deducted from your salary which is more than double of our daily income.

Staffs break are deducted x3 of the minutes they came late to work despite the fact that their salaries will be deducted for same reason. I heard they protested against that recently and the break deductions has been stopped and replaced with more salary deductions for being late 1 minute past the resumption time of 7:50am, not even a grace period of 10minutes.

I made a more detailed post some weeks back on this man, e no easy at all.

If you have an advice for the people still there and know of a way for these ill to be corrected, please reach out and drop your comments as every bit of info here has evidence to back it up

Why has no one report him to the authority?

Mindlog:
You, who on a first time visit went visiting your intending in-laws with shortcake biscuits and juice and they returned the energy with loaves of bread, yet you regard it as awkward?

If na me be the family, na dat biscuit and juice una bring come na im I go serve una since na from your village farm u harvest am.

Applying social intelligence is very key when dealing with such.

I would have returned his buscuit and juice if I am his gf father

Ginaz:
Guy you are wrong, you should have collected the gift. I can't imagine the embarrassment of your in law when you rejected the bread, they must had felt inferior in themselves thinking you rejected their gift due to their condition.

you are wrong period! ha! you had the guts to tell your gf that her parents gift is the wrongest gift to give you.

damn! no respect at all.

The guy has no respect for her girlfriend parents at all.

PuZZyNegro:
I traveled from Lagos to Port Harcourt to see my future in laws family. My girl wasn't around as she's still in Lagos schooling.

I went there with a family member and got them some items like shortcake biscuits and juice.

They offered us food and we ate. After the meeting and normal questioning, we were set to go when surprisingly, this people brought out two loaves of bread and gave us. I told them that the food we ate was enough, that we don't need the bread.

We haven't even gone far when my girl started texting me on WhatsApp angrily asking me why I rejected her mother's gift. That she gave it out of love, this and that.

I told her that bread is the wrongest gift the mother could give me. I am supposed to buy them bread and not the one way round. I intentionally refused to buy bread for them because I assumed bread is an everyday food that people buy and eat, so I decided to go with the package biscuits instead and here they are offering me bread.

If it were something produced locally by them like coconut or something, I can understand but bread?

Please, did I do anything wrong rejecting the bread?

You behaved chidish

IVORY2009:
Igbo man weldone oooo

Igbo man weldone oooo

IVORY2009:
What are you trying to say?

What are you trying to say?