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[quote author=New_girl link=topic=54677.msg1130186#msg1130186 date=1179670698]"I don't love you as much as I used to love my ex-girlfriend."[/quote]if a guy tells me that, am out of the door the next second there is no use sticking around

why should he compare you to his ex? abeg brush the loser off !

rainbow boots

iice:
What about us who aren't libras but love the arts?

then go and change your zodiac sign!

Dis Guy:
if you sabi maths you fit enter[b] bank[/b], in short you fit enter bank job with any degree for naija as far as you sabi the test and sabi talk wella

Political Science: Public Service and Clerical, culture and media

see now! what is a political scientist doing in a bank?

@topic prolly social work as in a social worker

Omolulu:
What jobs are available for a graduate in political science?it seems like they have no relevance in the mordern world or what do my people feel?

where is this graduate located?

if in 9ja make him or her cool down for Jesus as aint no job in 9ja

am Libra i love the arts, music, fashion ,various types of dance

the only thing i love in martial arts is kapiorera because it incorporates music

umbrella - Rihana

My dear you have succeeded oh!

all i want this days is garri ijebu ! garri ijebu

the garri we get from bronx terminal market here,God only know where that thing came from

no taste,no nuttin!

spoilt abeg hook a sista up with some ijebu garri jare !

just pass it thru your puter! " "

what won't i give for very dry and sour ijebu garri now! now!

where was i since?

moooooooreeeeeeeeee

love this thread!

is @ topic still fed up?

are y'all still fed up?

after all its been a year since this thread came into being

food eg
chinese chicken with Misso soup and lots of sleep

Dbanj- Tongolo

beegirl:
hello naireland,
Do you think it is superticious?some say only witches have it,i hear some men say they can't marry a woman with hair

used to believe that lie too , no they ain't witches it as a result of their hormones going haywire on them

if a man won't marry a girl because she had hair under her chin, then good riddance to bad rubbish .

beegirl:
hello naireland,
i have hair under my chin, i wax it and use concealer to cover the spots.(my mother makes fun of me saying i did not quickly chose my sex fast in her womb that is why i have hair there)

believe me there is nothing wrong with you , hair under your chin is more common in very old women and not young girls ('am assuming here) like you, waxing is good but can be a burden leaving spots and bumps which can add more to your stress

some people go for electrolysis ( a permanent removal of hair) it could be a painful procedure, expensive and time consuming

beegirl:
i under stand some women don't cut it especially in our home land which could be disgusting.

if not cutting their bia bia floats their boats and their husbands are not complaining

more grease to their elbows

thanks samsillo for clarifying your earlier post!

almost had my head bashed in last night! " " ^{is it the other way around?}

samsilo:
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Bottom line,whether you are a male or female single parent.acknowledge that you have a handicap and be a responsible parent

word ! its all good!

Durlin Gnature ,mamaosisi and spoilt i dey waka

i will be back though! ^{count on dat}

GNature:
God intended man and woman to bring child into this world. And ideally, the child should be conceived after marriage.

Puting needle in your self to born pickin in the name of being independent is nothing but immoral.

lai lai not immoral that is to say you are being Dis - obedient , and selfish and self -loving and not immoral

when you fornicate or commit adultery or if any sexual perversion is involved then that is immoral

spoilt:
when doctors inseminate a woman with her husband's sperm to get her pregnant because the sperm can't swim by itself to the egg is it immoral too?
cool down oh, gnature!

close your eyes oh

labiran:
good point ikamefa

abeg gerraway jor

GNature:
Who would ever want to be a product of artificial insemination ?

What does such woman tell her child when she asks: I want to know more about my father ?

How would you all feel if your mom said she never met your father a day in her life and you are 15 years old ?

Abeg, quit advocating immorality. It is sickening.

please tell or show me how this is immoral _{(abi because i never shack my pammy tonight i no dey see well? )} if you say selfish i understand

spoilt:
how many single mothers do you know personally, who were inseminated? those are a minority and they have their reasons. which you are in no place to judge.

God bless you oh! but being inseminated is now becoming quite popular and its catching on

GNature:
There are women who are getting pregnant through artificial insemination all in the name of being independent.

Now, tell me, how is the child going to know his father ?

erhm! by tracing him through the clinic at least the sperm came from a mans plumbing network abi? " "

spoilt:
single parenthood doesnt mean the child doesnt know who his father is. neither does it mean that the child doesnt spend quality time with his father. each case is different. lets not be judgemental.

and by the way families where the man has a harem of wives and a battalion of children cannot really be considered a 2 parent home. afterall there simply isnt enough of the dad to go round. especially in situations where the wives are housed in different locations and he visits them when he pleases. those women are single mothers.

trust you! " " to come up with funny examples that na pseudo-single parenthood

at least them sabi their daddy

GNature:
When you give a legitimate reason as to why a kid's father is not around, the kid learns to live with it. When you give reasons such as "I am just a single parent" the kid has a hard time living with it and it affects them psychologically. This stuff is well documented, I am not making it up.

i agree but the facts still remain that there are people who grew up in a single parents home who did not end in prison or turn into a mental case

GNature:
There is a reason God gave us two parents. If God had intended us to just have one parent, he would have just created a woman and no man.

But if you folks don't believe in doing things the way God intended, I guess all I can say is more power to you.

its not about beliefs

yes its obvious you don't support single parenthood, the sad fact is there are people already in this situation and more people are still going to go into it : are we going to tell them to go jump into the ocean for being single parents?
does that make them bad people?


for the records ika6 is not a single parent but you all should stand in other peeps shoes for a minute

GNature:
I totally disagree with you on this.

aight! but that is what make me who i am : ika6

GNature:
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It is very unfortunate that you take this stand. Let me ask you a question, what do you tell a child that becomes of age and starts asking for his father ? He sees all his friend's fathers, but does not have one of his own. Do you realize that a lot of young boys that act out and get in trouble with the law do so because of the absence of their fathers in their household ?

you simply tell the child how he came into being , that you are a single parent! if that child was well brought up from the get go well (monitored and cared for ) and the single mum or dad is not always away at work the need to mis-behave would not arise

what about peeps who grew up in a single mum/dads house without getting into any kind of trouble what about those ones?

spoilt:
it really doesnt make a difference anymore if women choose to be single mothers. these days there's a puppet man in the house who really isnt there. t[b]he woman makes all the decisions and does all the work in the home while king kong sits and flips channels. she really does do everything. [/b]

thank you oh

spoilt:
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why add one more child to the ones i already have. i might as well raise the kids myself.(thats the reasoning) and sometimes i can't blame them. its exhausting being superwoman 24/7.

word!

babyosisi:
Is it hard to figure out that single motherhood by adoption is but a negligible number?
How many do you know?

several peeps

babyosisi:
I put aside what I choose to put aside.
My opinion ain't it?

yes its your opinion, no doubt about that!

babyosisi:
don't get that

its not only ladies who are single parents, men too are single parents , are we to label them as fornicators too?

babyosisi:
You and I know 99% of singlemotherhood besides the above three reasons would not be due to adoptions,haba

did you conduct a poll of people to find out the ratio of single-parent who got into this situation through

fornication
adoption
death

to arrive at the above?