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Get lost with your silly advice!

Your employer owes you dignity! You're probably one abused employee that doesn't know he deserves to be treated right!

kwaso2:
But, if you don't want anyone talking anyhow to you, start your company. Even your own employee will insult you. OP, you need to grow up and grow thick skin, life is not designed to please you, nobody owes you better

There should be a page on nairaland where people can do research on companies before accepting employment from them.

Some of these organisations just bring people in (sometimes from better jobs/companies) and abuse them literally!

When you get there, you will start seeing all the rubbish they're made of.

Rule number 1 for me... If a company is taking too long to fill a position... There's something wrong with that company that you're not seeing!

When a good company puts out an advert, it doesn't take long to fill because everyone will literally be rushing to fill up the position.

This whole post is a fat lie!

Mind your business... That's if you have one...sex is not the only reason why people get married...

Iyaebe:
See stomach hian,I pity ladies dating and marrying potbellied men.Instead of enjoying sex you'll be enduring suffocation,not my portion.

There's nothing to be ashamed about! It happens! Be optimistic... Life will turn out better!
However, for the sake of your sanity and your kids... Make sure you have a husband figure and a father figure for your kids... You'll be needing that...

If you're lucky to meet a single guy... Beautiful! If not...look for a widower or a divorcee and remarry or cohabit... Just make sure there's a man there for you!

Optimistic4life:
Year 2021 February to be precise, my husband served me a divorce notice. Though I saw it coming as we have been separated for some months.
The case is still in court though.

We are blessed with 3 kids under 10.

Soon the divorce will be finalized and we will both move on.

How easy is it adjusting to a new life as a divorced lady?

I just want to let it out as I have never discussed this with anyone. Just my immediate family members knows about it.

What is life like out there for me?

The shame, mockery, coping with kids alone, moving on etc

One mumu girl named chiamaka in mushin is watching this right now and saying to herself... This will be me one day... Forgetting that her father is not a former governor... But it's fine!

He's saying what a lot of broke guys out here have in their minds but don't have the guts to say! Na money wey you no get never let you knack other people wives!

Most of you here have not even touched half of what this guy made in December alone but you constantly fantasize about other people's girlfriends and wives... Even your brothers' and best friend's wives gan!

Leave story!!!

If most of you have what he has... You would do worse!

Tell that to your father!

Biglittlelois:
Learn to read and comprehend.

Baba, make she dey run!!!
You go see girl wey get sense!

Na marriage them call am... No go die for one winch! If she can't contribute, make she shift!

bigpicture001:
My girlfriend whom I have planned to settle down with simply started acting cold and eventually stylishly slide out of our relationship because I sat her down and made a family financial support proposal to her in which she will be financially committed to running the proposed family we intend to raise...

These are the proposal...

1. She earns about 80k wile I earn about 300k.. I asked that we jointly contribute for all the children's Career funding starting from when we get married even before any of their birth.. I proposed 10k monthly from her and 40k from me to a trust account. From it we plan to fund all the children's Career from kiddagatten to varsity or which ever path they choose..

2. That sh choose between Nepa bill or DStv or gotv sub monthly..just one for her

3. I will be responsible for rents

4. We pay into another joint account for vacation once in two years..like sh puts in 20k I put in 50k monthly..

5. I provide all the heavy food stuffs required in the house in large quantities including gas ND change of electronics, but sh provide all the daily food supplements to mk mine complete.

6. She buys her clothes ND I buy mine but we can both surprise ourselfs with gift to the other..

7. I will buy the family car ND maintain it. If she buys no p.

8. I didn't rule out surprise gifts once a while and outting which I bankroll ND expect her to do same occasionally..

Plz oo nairalanders are these responsibilities to a wife too much for her, I mean one who works and earn over 50k...?

But later una go want equal rights!

Biglittlelois:
Man provides, woman helps

Division of labour;
Husband---- financial security
Wife-----household chores
Equation balanced

If you want equal contribution, contribute in household chores and the kids,

If you say house maid, no problem, get a work/financial help for yourself.

Madness dey worry you... Make the guy die because she dey earn 80k?! No be their 2 dey the marriage?!

Get lost!!!

Mariangeles:
On top 80k salary, you want make she dey drop 10k every month for trust account, 20k for joint account, provide "food supplement", make she still choose between NEPA bill, DSTV, or GOTV subscription...on top wetin?
Oga, how much wan remain to take buy clothes, cosmetics and toiletries for herself na (cos e sure me dai say you no fit buy those things for her), not to talk of find her parents something? Unto say she marry you?

Abeg! Carry your wahala go front!

Where are your sisters?

what about cybersecurity?

if you have to go to the second job physically from time to time... o ni choice!
If u dont have to go there physically.. my brother, make your money quietly!

pre wedding photos no be haram?

Get both.

I had to emphasize that... Because it's obvious you can only be a product of a bunch of useless fathers!

DEROX:
your useless fathers its obvious you are useless anyways

Because apc was built on a silly philosophy! Igbo people don't associated with rubbish!

AbijaJ:
Won't happen. Ibo people all over Nigeria don do blood covenant with PDP. Even if APC gives Peter Obi its Presidential ticket, ibo people will still prefer to vote for PDP if the party gives a dog its own ticket.

Talk about bin rejected... Even your useless fathers reject you! I can swear that you were not brought up by your parents full-time. Igbo people are respected by all... We go everywhere and anywhere and we took and hussle for everything. We are not spoon fed ungrateful miserable imps like you and your useless fathers. Even after all the igbos lost during the war... Your useless tribe can't step to them on their worst day. You're not worthy of mentioning the word "igbo". Igbo represents courage and resilience... Things that are strange to you and your useless fathers.

DEROX:
Of course and i also forbid it for myself ase that i will be as foolish as an igbo like you Dont you see how people view you home and abroad you are rejected everywhere am happy am not one

God forbid that liverless scum like you will ever be an igbo person! Twa.t

DEROX:
Lol am not an empty emotional igbo man so i cant wrestle words with a vagabond lol all those words qualify what you are

Your miserable father wouldn't compare to me on my worst day! You are a waste of sperm... Your useless mother should have just swallowed your father's dirty sperm!

DEROX:
P.A.I.N.S Am not you i know you are a failure in life and as such vent your anger on tinubu abeg shift

If that thought keeps you from offing your miserable self... By all means imp

DEROX:
Those are Men, men that matters than all stupid flat head igbos dead and alive

tinubu and all your other stu.pid yoruba people will never rule Nigeria again.

DEROX:
Let them know, even vice post sef i doubt it with the way these northerners are acting

I can feel tinubu crying from the pit of hell...

Olodo... See as you dey talk rubbish with confidence!

What section of what law are you referring to?

mauriceju2:
there are laws regulating loan/interest rates in Nigeria, let the loan apps follow the laws and regulation. According to the law, no lender can prosecute any defaulter until after 1 year of owing, according to the law and regulation in Nigeria, interest rate is maximum of 48% per annum which is 4% monthly. wicked lenders and their agents loan their money out to receive interest as high as 50% weekly /monthly plus capital. That is unspeakable evil of man to another man and if you cannot see it then it is because you yourself are part of this grave wickedness to humanity, they all know their business is wicked that is why they are hiding from CBN and others regulators,
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From the way you're sounding... The per.son poking your wife is someone you know... And you can't do anything bout it cos you're a bit.ch! �

authority2006:
Why all these nah? Did I attack you? You better direct your anger to those who neglected you.

Notice how you didn't say anything about your happiness... Because it doesn't exist! And you know deep down one random guy is out there bleeping your stupi.d wife like the little bi.tch that she is... And you're dy.ing inside little by little!

authority2006:
Yeah, the one that makes you sad. I got it, you will get lucky one day, be hopeful.

Better RUN for your life... You dodged a bullet... If you put yourself in the line of fire again... You might not survive what she will do to you!

Breeze111:
Early this year, my babe broke up with me. According to her, she told me there is a man who is asking her hand for marriage and her parent has already giving her the go ahead to marry d man..

She told me the man is rich and promise to buy her car, bla-bka-bla so I told her there is no problem, she can go ahead since am not ready yet after all am just a shoe-maker still waiting for my NYSC...

Bt of lately like last two weeks this babe started disturbing me that we should come and she is sorry... Well I don't know how she get to know that my mum lent me 600k to start up, of wish am doing well now by his "Grace" and at the same time serving my country presently...

So according to her, she say the man just only wanted to sleep with her and because she refuse and told the man to wait till after their wedding the man broke up with her...as it stands now I don't really know what to do...

This topic na complete lie! If you have money in this Nigeria, you're a demi god... You will mess sisters, wives, colleagues, church members and they will all know that you're knacking all of them and still be happy!

No let anybody lie for you oo... Money is everything in this Nigeria!

silly Tinubu bot

emilo2bad:
Which frustration are talking about. It you who is frustrating because the person you hate who is an accountant and will present a paper in annual ICAN conference in Nigeria against your frustration. I repeat STOP HATING.

What don't I know?! I'm not the source of your frustrations!

emilo2bad:
Stop degrading yourself on social media. Any thing you don't know ask goggle than disgrace yourself because of hatred for Tinubu

Ok.

oyatz:
Bros ,join the presidential race.



The youths of this country are solidly behind you sir.