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You guys should stop giving me false alerts! Stop commenting here until they have sent a message, Biko!

Can't you guys just give it a rest? Sigh

This is a disaster waiting to happen! Lol.

Good work!

This people disliked me no be small. See numerical analysis question: lol. Okay nA. O set!

Okay. Those up there are wonderful advice. I'll just chip in that you need friends. Friends and family are the two support groups that build us. The latter we can't choose, but you have the options of choosing who's going to be your sidekick. So, I advice you to go out there and find yourself friends with somewhat strong, outgoing personalities. You don't have to try so hard. For the time being, be yourself and push yourself just so little. With time, you'll be surprised at what you've achieved for yourself. Trust me, I know. I'll talk to you via Uziel;-). Stay cool, babe.

Please

Serenade by Wolfgang Amaedus Mozart

ferdimako:
yea...she is committing a sin ..stay married or no sex.

and you aren't a sinner too?

danbrowndmf:
sure...buh there come's a stage where ur suppose to 4get about sex na. sure...buh there come's a stage where ur suppose to 4get about sex na.

There we go again with the subjective thinking. That you have decided to have less sex or go celibate doesn't mean that this woman should. She's different from you. Moreover, married women at her age still have sex, why should her case be different? Because she's divorced and has a grown child?

Shortyy:
you are gay

And you're an idiot. There now, who's far worse?

bobolizim:
seriously?so if u were d one wat would u do?

I'll do what I just told you. Ask her about it. And try to understand her. If she's seeing someone, I would like to meet him. What else would you do? Fight her?

You've got to understand that your mother is an adult. She is single. For whatever reason can choose to have condoms in her bags. You need to respect her wishes and boundaries just as you expect her to respect yours. If you have a good relationship with her, you can causally ask her about it. Otherwise, forget that you saw this and mind your own business. It doesn't even concern you if there's a guy out there younger than you who's banging her. Like someone said, your dad might be doing worse, would it have provoked the same reaction from you? That said, I'm curious as to how you found the condom... Snooping isn't cool.

I don't fully understand this question and why you asked it (apart from being inquisitive) but I would say that the person's left hand side is ideal if you're helping him or her walk. This provides support as you can still wrap your right hand around him or her and hold him or her with the left. This stance will also leave her right hand free to hold things for support. I use this all the time on my great grandma.

My Life by Dido from No Angel. A powerful ballad.

Doesn't the current Industrial Training Programme cover this?

ninocia18:
yeah. the cab idea is noted. the communication part is where wahala dey. help me oooo

simple questions about what she likes and about herself. You can talk about music and your classmates. Hehehe. Don't be too judgemental, sha.

Hmmmm. Okay. So, it's going to be a school thing. You won't be required to do some heavy lifting. Are you going to be picking her up(advisiable)? I think you should, at least with a cab if you can afford it.
You should just plan to have a fun conversation with her. It would help if you know how to make good jokes and if you're jovial.
Relax. It's no big deal. You'll be fine.

I know this might not be relevant anymore, but I couldn't resist recommending some songs.
Beyond the Invisible by Enigma.
Nightingale by Yanni
Felista by Yanni
Take You Away by Angus & Julia Stone
Damascus by Conjure One
Big Girls Cry by Sia

okay. I'll stop here. Enjoy.