₦airaland Forum

delugajackson:
It's either you get married or you tell him straight to his face that you're no longer comfortable.

Is he the type that leaves your bed scaterred and your pillows on the floor? Is he the type that litters your room with used tissue and packets of condom? Does he soak you bedsheet with loads of semen? Does he mess up your kitchen with unwashed plates of indomie?

If he's such a person, then just tell him look, man. I don't want you bringing girls to my house for sex anymore. This isn't a brothel or a slaughter slab. This is my zone, my fortress of solitude. I respect our relationship and the fact that we're very good friends, but I think it's time we started acting like reasonable people. My privacy means a lot to me and I expect you to understand that and respect me as well.

But if he isn't the type, then perhaps you should try something else, like dilplomacy for a change. I'm sure you know how to go about this. The truth is, what you allow is what will continue.

Explorers:
"Children are more important than rice. We can regrow rice, but we can’t regrow the children"

Olalan:
If humans can't spot the difference how will a computer do............

Nbote:
Can U Imagine what Useless ppl we have in charge.. First it was PMB's son who was involved in a bike crash dat d Minister of Health was all over and even shamelessly led a welcome party on his return from a foreign medical trip. And now a man who developed injury from trekking for d President is getting a visit?? How many victims of disease outbreaks did he visit wen Meningitis, cholera and other outbreaks ravaged some states? Dis govt, it's officials and supporters are all mad..

kindnyce:
Nigerians doing great things abroad.
I repeat, Nigerians

ITbomb:
And I am in the same country with these peeps

Lugard, it will never be well with you wherever you are

ITbomb:
And I am in the same country with these peeps

Lugard, it will never be well with you wherever you are

PrincessB1:
Why is Naija going backward?

izzou:
I don't blame the man.

Nigeria is all over the news for drug peddling, scams, fraud, human trafficking, terrorism and the rest.

I understand how you feel. But put yourself in the man's shoes too. He was just trying to play safe.

Babiod:
Na God save the fiance, u meet a random guy when U were in a stable relationship,had a fling just like that,So many people don't know what it means to be committed in a relationship.what if the guy didn't know?she couldn't confess,she had to hide as if nothing happened,God knows what else she's lying about.wife no be just fuckmate,bedmate,gistmate but LIFE and HELPmate.

Olalan:
Thank God for His Grace
BTW more education and information needs to be made available to the public on the safety precautions to take while using a gas

afroniger:
Well, I feel that in life we must be realistic and keep our cards on the table. If a man lies to his wife about the state of his fertility, the woman should be free to move on if she wants kids and can't cope with such a man's disability, without being made to feel guilty. We all have a right to our happiness in life without the burden of social stigma. That is my position.

kallmemrB:
Until we differentiate spirituality(religious beliefs) from medical ,death tows will still remain the same

afroniger:
Maybe polygamy will solve all this. If men are allowed to marry more than one woman without any social stigma attached, the problem is solved because then another fertile and willing woman will have the kids that the other one refuses to have for whatever reason. Problem solved. Let us be real, some men want lots of kids and shouldn't be made to feel guilty for that, especially if they can afford to take care of as many as they desire.

krendo:
Let’s get back to the business of governance and running the country.

Enough of the “mission impossible” by Oshiomole

It is getting too long and boring now!

nextstep:
No nah... one year to know they girl, two years to gather once your mind is made up.