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please tell us something realistic

As far as possible and predictable I plead with people to have children they can carter for- both the fathers and mothers
Raising children is not the work of a man alone or a woman alone, it takes complimentary efforts.
My parents trained more than 4 children conveniently as teachers and cartered for other relations. They had to do side jobs and legit ones at that.
Now men have baby mamas and children they don't even know their names or number.
Women have babies for different men in the hope of eating from the money some of those men will give for the children's upkeep.

Those with special needs children should not give up on them.
We all know someone with mental challenges, physical challenges, others like albinism, asthma, epilepsy, polio, autism and others with special needs and protection by parents for those children even sickle cell which should be preventable.

Where parents have children with special needs, they have the right to get assistance from their places of work, government, specialised NGOs and other groups.
No parent should give up on his and her child because of funds, health, stigma or whatever.
Children are gifts they are not mistakes. They are consequences of actions meant to be done in love with expected intentions and preparations.
Not by seduction, rape, deceit, drugging, force, failed co traceptives or no contraceptives just for pleasure.

As long as you can read this post of mine, it means you have life, the privilege of a device- phone or laptop or tab and internet access.
It could have been any of us ime this boy the op posted up there. Some who are here who were once in this situation can also relate.
Praise God you came out of it. We can't blame God for evil, humans are mostly the architects of the problems of this world.

When evil occurs they blame the devil, for rape, a challenged child, seduction, deceit, poverty and the likes. The devil only tempts and deceives we humans have the ultimate power to listen or NOT TO listen.

#Be encouraged

Mods were ban me before I forgive you oh , like many prisoners wey dey prison go say, I am innocent, I did nothing to deserve the ban, but I forgive Seun and his mods

So they are our standard? UK is to dictate what we should and what is normal or necessary?
Na was oh,

So it's now ok?

Issorite. I beg when they also reduce price of fuel hope we will follow for Nigeria oh?

And did I forget, yeah their officials actually work
They have terms of reference, blueprint, goals and supervision from public opinions

Please emergency

If this Prof really said this

All the schools that gave him degrees and certificates, his employers, his relatives, his associates and if he has any link with Benue
Pls all the mentioned above


TAKE NOTE AND DO THE NEEDFUL

There are people that if I were to be related to them I'll change my identity
I no call any name

[quote author=livebynite post=64247381]Those who throw stones in the market risk stoning their mothers, brothers and themselves by boomerang.
You do not know who you talk to in a public forum so wisdom profits that you talk as one properly brought up.
I choose to
Inspire
Motivate and
Encourage
With my various social media platforms.
If not I read and pass.
What we say goes a long way to build up or break others and our legacies.
Livebyday and be a child of light.
Read Matthew 5:16 and fear God

livebynite:
Please shut up!!! All these "TRY HARDS" on nairaland, you guys always have a ready made response in your mind that you try so hard to put out as wisdom when in reality its garbage..

stop trying too hard and shut up bloody "TRY HARD"

God be with you and forgive you

COvo:
Wrong!
You have no idea how much I hate this car.

Not G wagon in particular oh

But be Benz generally

To my dear NL,
I'm sorry if I am the one breaking the news to you but
Our dear Dolores is dead :

Please i know I am people of the 80’s like teasing people of later years, but many may not know her in this generation.

If you ever saw Zombie, Linger, Cornell, Dreams and so many others you will know who I am talking about.

Irish music band with strongholds as social critics and love rock.
I played Cornell after my sister's passing but it only made me worse so i deleted it.
I played Zombie till I almost had headache
I played linger with headphones and almost became unaware of my surroundings.

People like Dido and Adele come close with vocal prowess and soothing songs.

As a Christian I weaned myself (and still am) of secular and unuseful (not useless oh) songs when I became born again.
I said goodbye to linger, life for rent, dialo, if I could turn, think twice, kameleon and dear mama and many others that rocked my world then but I acknowledge the lyrical skills and vocal depth of these musicians. I believe God gives talent for His purpose, will and glory. I know God loves us and has mercy on us. I know messages are easily passed and sink deeper and faster via music. But in our liking, let us honour God. Anything sharing glory or a place with God in our lives is an idol and must be destroyed and removed and cut off. Jesus is Lord and will never impose Himself on anyone.

Irish singer-songwriter Dolores O’Riordan, frontwoman of the multi-million selling rock band The Cranberries, died suddenly in London on Monday aged 46, her publicist said.

Her last internet message was-
“Hi All, Dolores here. Feeling good! I did my first bit of gigging in months at the weekend, performed a few songs at the Billboard annual staff holiday party in New York with the house band,” it read.

“Really enjoyed it! Happy Christmas to all our fans!! Xo”.

The band, formed in 1989, went on a break in 2003 but reformed in 2009, releasing their final album “Something Else” last year.

Source
Punch online and Yahoo


May she rest in peace, I go miss her oh

Fake news

Benz

EVERYONE'S dream car

Are they the court
Is Borno government the court
Who found them repentant
Are they...

Infact

Make we rest for this matter now
Even Funke no dey follow talk the matter
Featuring in a Hollywood movie is not the ultimate

We appreciate and celebrate her

That's why many musicians are looking for foreign collabos

Who Victor Uwaifo, Sunny Ade, Rex Lawson and Bright Chimezie collabo with before they became legends

I pray with you Phil that the Holy Spirit rekindle your joy and fire of love and remind you that you are a child of grace. Christ in you is the hope of glory

1st be strong
2nd don't lose faith
3rd I don't believe your mom swindled you of 30k she probably used somewhere that is tied down for a while
4th suicide is a crime in Nigeria (strange law)
5th you are not alone
6th there are people who love you, I don't know you but that you are made in God's image I love you and know God loves you most
7th love yourself, love your life, it's a privilege
8th school is not the determinant of a successful life.
9th your admission will not go and you will meet the registration by God’s grace
10th it's always darkest before dawn. Be strong now and persevere so you don't lose your future glory