₦airaland Forum

adontcare:
I don't allow my girls to sit alone with any male talkless of allowing her watch cartoon in a Neigbour house. Even if am going out, we all go together. I can't trust my husband, brothers nor relatives with them talkless of Neigbour.it is well.

meobizy:
Lol.
Uriel is a confused human being right from her days in the house.
I’m sure if Anthony comes her way showing interest she’ll play the hard to get game so much she’ll forget being the one originally with a crush on him.

iyke926:
...greedy insatiable preposterous b!tches everywhere.

NobleAngell:
He Should have asked for a re-run.

NobleAngell:
He should have demanded a refund.

NobleAngell:
Rubbish. She performed poorly and instead of walking away, you killed her.

frozen70:
This is an example of true love

blissgregory:
am sorry,i cant

blissgregory:
if u don see d numba copy nah

blissgregory:
violation of rule numba 22

torqque7:
Mtcheeew...retired olosho wants to catch husband..so with all your piercings and tats which means you don chop life tire you expect someone to wife you easily?lol..if you don't know then il tell you that is the reason why he didn't wife you so stop thinking you did everything right,because your past life matters alot and that's what is haunting you now..

So other young ladies learn from this, ofcourse I don't expect you guys will actually learn, only the few smart ones will learn,but surely those who don't want to learn will taste the bitter reality when the time comes. You reap what you sowe na. Very few,less than 5% of retired oloshos get lucky with happy homes and I'm sorry to tell you that you will not be one of the lucky ones.

blissgregory:
It could be

Michelle55:
Awwwn, that's sooo sad But you gotta move on dear. Never change because of someone, do it for yourself. I never see person wey go make me do things wey I no dey comfortable with

sweetilicious:
I call it child labour.Why is there no public outcry against this act too just like the other woman.We need people to know that beating another human being is a crime.We need to sensitize the public of the Nigerian Constitution.

Colonelswitz101:
Women !!!!
Hmm...

slimjohn2k5:
Bro this story no complete, u said u noticed this before u guys got married right? How did u people have sex, does she frown or u guys have timetable for sex. Just wondering a woman that was relaxed for u to HV sex with her, must have been hurt by u for her to be acting this way.
Talk to her

victorian:
Oga, you are not tall dark and handsome. Talk true make devil shame.

Anyways I understand what she's going through. Cause I almost got myself entrapped in such kind of marriage but counselling with my Pastor saved me on-time.
I'm not saying u are a bad person, neither am I saying u are ugly but the thing is this : you can be someonelse dream man , perfect and Denzel looking to another woman except your wife. Your wife has the idea of how her ideal man should look like.
Not all women are tall, dark and handsome as their ideal looking man. Some prefer average height, natural for looks with a muscular or athletic body. That's why God created us in different shapes and sizes.
And your wife who got married in her 30s must have seen it all, got heartbroken by the kind of guys, she would have love to marry and settle down with. But reality dawned on her, such guys won't make A good husband to her. Then u strolled along into life, she realised u are serious with marriage. She checked herself, she's not getting younger, what da heck! Lemme marry. I will simply resign my self to this marriage as long as I have a family with him. Who cares about happiness and love. Most marriages sef are just there.
And with what friends will always ring into our ears everyday. Marriage is not about love, it's about marrying a man who is ready and capable to stay married. Just be humble and calm, have your kids and have a business or career going for yourself. That's all. We don't always marry who we wish to marry and here we are with our kids. You cannot be selective anymore, forget about falling in love and just Marry!
That's exactly how your wife feels. She's resigned to her fate with u. She cannot leave u, cos she's determined to stay married. Her happiness is irrelevant as long as she's Mrs.

What a life


In my own case, I stopped myself on-time from marrying the guy who proposed to me, after opening my heart to my Pastor. My Pastor said do I want to be lifeless in the marriage, I said no with tears almost running down my cheeks. He said good, then don't marry him, cos u will regret it. Tell him kindly u simply don't love him, which is the truth. There and then I felt so free and alive, I even felt like hugging the pastor with so much joy! Lol
I told the guy, I'm sorry dear, I can't go thru with it. And I don't regret it. I feel free and alive! . I don't care about my age. I just want to feel at peace wit my soul and being.

czarina:
Naah...you're wrong.

They may even be eager to help you once you let them in on your struggles. Some can be that matured. I've worked at a gym house so I know. Most are all too eager to play "instructor" the minute they get the chance.

dingbang:
so this is the new trick to have sex with a girl without condom