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Blazay:Wow, I'm really surprised by this response |
@OP: How could or would that pic equal homosexuality? When girls dance with each other, its ok so I don't see why there would be an issue for two men to do it? Hell, if they like they can shake thier ȧss at me ![]() |
Blazay:Thanks ![]() |
Blazay:Hehehe, your a "tribal mutt" like me Anyway, I understand what you're saying ![]() Oh and I'm glad your not offended. |
Lmaaaaaaoooo ![]() Here's a better video with some music to it Mrs. Chima ![]() Homeboy's got some moves though ![]() [flash=400,400] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ALNM9XcM-7g&feature=related[/flash] [flash=400,400] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8pUAnrVWUkk&feature=related[/flash] |
toptop:So its only girls that enable pregnancies abi? |
Blazay:No, not really. I know that there are other ethnic groups in Nigerian besides Ibo's, Yoruba's, Hausa's, so I was just curious to know where you might be from. But if my curiosity offended you then I'm sorry ![]() |
^^^ So, what is your ethnicity? Just curious. |
^^^ Oh ok. For a moment I was thinking "Huh, she has kids?". I'm still trying to wrap my brain about the whole parent child thing. I even asked my grandmother and she told me she if it were here children then the matter is out of her hand and that whatever the court does is up to them. As for the mansion, plans are underway. |
Ranoscky:Oh please, don't try to pull the whole "stop using feminist card with me" crap. So, her just saying no is justification for him to use her a punching bag huh? Her saying no is justification for him strangling her? Her saying no is justification for him using a pillow to press down on her head? All those things are justified right? When she asked him "Are you going to kill me?" and he responded by saying yes, is that not a threat? Yes, it would have been in her best interest to leave but his actions are not justified. And another thing, she never told us whether or not the place he asked her to leave is a place that they both reside at. And yes, I know she said that he said "Get out of my house" but it could also be her house as well. . . Just a thought. As for your sisters, I've said all I needed to say so may God help them. And who is to say that we wouldn't be here discussing any of this? She did mention that he has been this way for the past 6 months. |
fstranger3:Glad that you finally got that out of your system? ![]() |
neonet:I suppose the same applies to your mother and perhaps your sister(s) [if you have any] huh? Would you be saying the same to a man if he "talks too much"? |
Ranoscky:You make it sound like she randomly approached him and asked him to hit her. He made a threat so she responded by telling him since he thinks he can do it, he should go ahead. Had he not been making threats would she have said that? No. I'm quite sure she didn't wake up one day and say "Oya, hit me"These sisters you say you have, I feel sorry for them if your response is to just disregard them. Its relatives like you that will see abuse and turn a blind eye. |
MzDarkSkin:I agree with Phate07. Besides, what county in the world hasn't or isn't engaged in tensions based on tribe, religion, politics or any other interest of conflict to a nation? |
Ranoscky:Tempted? Tempted? How did she tempt him? Is he not the initiator? You saying she "tempted" his is the equivalent to justifying his actions. Its comments like this that enable other men [and women] to continue the cycle of abuse. |
@OP: Please disregard anything that comes from fstranger3 ![]() fstranger3:Can you ever keep you womanizing sexist nonsense to yourself?!?! |
@OP: Thirst4Lif has said most of it all in his first, second, and third post. Sincere08:Honestly, please try not to pay attention or feed into the tribalism of this website. The ethnic tension and constant squabbling on this site can be very nauseating at times. Sincere08:I don't wanna be a pessimist with my response but yes there can be at times a common belief that Americans aren't suitable for long-term relationships but keep in mind, its not just a belief that is native to Nigerians. Take a look at other cultures and you'll see that others possess the same notion as well. Is it right, no but does it exist, yes. |
Its his life, so why should anyone else be bothered by it? |
Well then perhaps you two aren't meant to be together. If he can't or won't even talk to you about little things, then imagine what he would [or in your case, wouldn't] do when a serious situation arises. If thinking that you won't find someone else is what is keeping you from ending things then I'm sorry to tell you, whatever it is that you're experiencing now is what you will experience in marriage ![]() |
[font=time ] Beync: ![]() Na was o!! This shortage of uncircumcised pėniṡ na serious issue [/font] |
Why do you want to be freed from something that's just as natural as breathing? |
annawhite:He's a terrible pig, not person. , There's a difference ![]() Besides, referring to him as a person is an insult to all human beings. |
fstranger3: fstranger3:Hmmm, I always knew you were a pig ![]() |
"Diablo Rojo" by Rodrigo y Gabriela [flash=400,400] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUibjcu2L_s[/flash] |
ayosmiles:Nope, nothings going on. Its just an inside joke ![]() |
@OP: Please, let me start off by saying that I am so so so very sorry for all the things that you are going through. I know we are just faceless ID's here on a site but what you've just written is really tugging at my heart right now. What breaks my heart even more is the fact that you know what he is wrong and you're asking us if you should go back to him. I hope you love yourself enough to know what what this man is doing to you is WRONG!! I don't know where you live or what the laws of your regions are but you really must find a way to get away from this guy. You need to tell people around you. Make sure you inform others [particularly your friends and family] about what this person is doing to you. Only you have the power to put an end to this. You cannot make excuses for this guy by telling us the sort of person he was before he started abusing you because that may be something that will keep you entrenched in this horrid situation. You've acknowledged that there is a problem, now the next step is how to leave this relationship. Let me ask you something, is causing someone both bodily and emotional harm love? Is threatening their life love? This disgusting creature you call a boyfriend knows perfectly well what he's doing but it seems that you don't. Your excuse for being with him is that previously he was gentle and responsible, the commitment and the sacrifice you've made, and that you have and that you love him. . . Tell me, is this what love is? Please keep in mind, love isn't supposed to hurt. What kind of sacrifice is so great that you would put your life in danger? If you do stay in this relationship with this guy, what makes you think he will change? What would make you think the situation would get any better? If he's doing this to you while you're just dating, imagine what he would or could do to you while married. Don't allow this boyfriend of yours to keep using you as a punching bag. You really don't know how much this is breaking my heart to hear that this person is causing you so much pain. Please, I'm begging you for all that is good please TRY to see your worth so you can leave that monster. If you don't mind, I'd like you speak to you outside of Nairaland. If you're interested, please let me know ![]() Here are some websites that can provide you with information on how to tend to this situation: (1) http://www.loveisrespect.org/ (2) http://www.thehotline.org/ (3) http://www.thesafespace.org/ (4) http://www.safehorizon.org/ (5) http://www.helpguide.org/mental/domestic_violence_abuse_types_signs_causes_effects.htm (6) http://www.beckysfund.org/cms/index.php?page=how-to-end-an-abusive-relationship (7) http://www.stanford.edu/group/svab/relationships.shtml http://www.safehorizon.org/ (8 ) http://www.gurl.com/findout/fastfacts/articles/0,,697185-1,00.html |
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