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FamilyRe: Women, After Giving Birth To A Baby, Can U Boast Of Your Figure? by InkedNerd(f): 10:47am On Apr 15, 2011
Blazay:
Why not?
Even if you don't carry the child yourself. . .rent a womb online and keep your figure!
The DNA is yours. kiss
Women have choices these days.
No woman has to suffer hyper-emesis gravidarum for 10 months to be called a real woman. Just harvest your eggs and fertilize them with a sperm-donor of your choice and viola! You have 'issues'! wink

Then currrof all the useless 'shaki' and 'abodi' in your stomach and start doing 'sisi eko' all over town, country and universe. kiss

Cancer free too! kiss

God is great! kiss
Wow, I'm really surprised by this response shocked
RomanceRe: Does Bromancing Equal Homosexuality by InkedNerd(f): 10:26am On Apr 15, 2011
@OP: How could or would that pic equal homosexuality? When girls dance with each other, its ok so I don't see why there would be an issue for two men to do it? Hell, if they like they can shake thier ȧss at me grin
RomanceRe: Arab Men And Black Women by InkedNerd(f): 10:03am On Apr 15, 2011
Blazay:
*Hand shake* wink



Welcome aboard.
Thanks cheesy
RomanceRe: Arab Men And Black Women by InkedNerd(f): 9:58am On Apr 15, 2011
Blazay:
Not offended at all.
I am from a combination of all those areas. . .so I know them extremely well. Enough to wash my hands off their curses to liberate myself.kiss
Hehehe, your a "tribal mutt" like me wink kiss

Anyway, I understand what you're saying cool

Oh and I'm glad your not offended.
RomanceRe: Ladies, The Man Of Your Dream Is Finally Here! by InkedNerd(f): 9:55am On Apr 15, 2011
Lmaaaaaaoooo grin grin grin grin

Here's a better video with some music to it Mrs. Chima wink

Homeboy's got some moves though grin

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ALNM9XcM-7g&feature=related[/flash] [flash=400,400]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8pUAnrVWUkk&feature=related[/flash]
RomanceRe: Guys Would You Marry A Girl If You Made Her Pregnant? by InkedNerd(f): 9:49am On Apr 15, 2011
toptop:
But why should a girl allow her self to be inpregnated? We are in a newage,
So its only girls that enable pregnancies abi?
RomanceRe: Arab Men And Black Women by InkedNerd(f): 9:48am On Apr 15, 2011
Blazay:
^^^
Does it marrah? undecided
No, not really. I know that there are other ethnic groups in Nigerian besides Ibo's, Yoruba's, Hausa's, so I was just curious to know where you might be from. But if my curiosity offended you then I'm sorry undecided
RomanceRe: Arab Men And Black Women by InkedNerd(f): 9:42am On Apr 15, 2011
^^^ So, what is your ethnicity? Just curious.
FamilyRe: Parent(s) Defending Children? by InkedNerd(op): 9:40am On Apr 15, 2011
^^^ Oh ok. For a moment I was thinking "Huh, she has kids?". I'm still trying to wrap my brain about the whole parent child thing. I even asked my grandmother and she told me she if it were here children then the matter is out of her hand and that whatever the court does is up to them. As for the mansion, plans are underway.
RomanceRe: God is love by InkedNerd(f): 9:30am On Apr 15, 2011
Ranoscky:
Dont play feminine here, Iya.

You complained about "Tempting" and I made it clear to you. Now you here telling me "she didn't wake up one day and say "Oya, hit me" Is it until she says such before we know that she was tempting him? Now, lets do the remix. . .Did the guy wake up 1 mornin and started beating her? NO! why? Her refuser to leave.

You said "he made threats", what knida threats was that? According to her write up, I SEE NO THREAT! Is "leave my house" a threat? Is arguement threat? Pls, where was the threat?

Dont get it twisted about my sisters, ma'am, they'r as cool as the word COOL! But if they find themselves in cases like these, then they should carry their crossess, for I see no reason why som1 would ask you to leave his house an, you refused, unto which level?. . .When NOT even the wife? Now, let me ask you a simple question. . .Had it been the OP left when she was asked to leave, are we gone be here discussing about this issue?
Oh please, don't try to pull the whole "stop using feminist card with me" crap.

So, her just saying no is justification for him to use her a punching bag huh? Her saying no is justification for him strangling her? Her saying no is justification for him using a pillow to press down on her head? All those things are justified right? When she asked him "Are you going to kill me?" and he responded by saying yes, is that not a threat? Yes, it would have been in her best interest to leave but his actions are not justified.

And another thing, she never told us whether or not the place he asked her to leave is a place that they both reside at. And yes, I know she said that he said "Get out of my house" but it could also be her house as well. . . Just a thought.

As for your sisters, I've said all I needed to say so may God help them.

And who is to say that we wouldn't be here discussing any of this? She did mention that he has been this way for the past 6 months.
RomanceRe: God is love by InkedNerd(f): 8:58am On Apr 15, 2011
fstranger3:
Men are allowed to talk too much cos they make a lot of sense when they talk, Woman talk too much, but make very little sense!

Buncha reetards!
Glad that you finally got that out of your system? tongue
RomanceRe: God is love by InkedNerd(f): 8:53am On Apr 15, 2011
neonet:
Any woman that talks too much,should be beaten thoroughly!!!!!!!
I suppose the same applies to your mother and perhaps your sister(s) [if you have any] huh? Would you be saying the same to a man if he "talks too much"?
RomanceRe: God is love by InkedNerd(f): 8:50am On Apr 15, 2011
Ranoscky:
Madam, tell me what that means?
You make it sound like she randomly approached him and asked him to hit her. He made a threat so she responded by telling him since he thinks he can do it, he should go ahead. Had he not been making threats would she have said that? No. I'm quite sure she didn't wake up one day and say "Oya, hit me"These sisters you say you have, I feel sorry for them if your response is to just disregard them. Its relatives like you that will see abuse and turn a blind eye.
Nairaland GeneralRe: You Nigerians Should Feel Honored Today Because A Somali(me) Is Visiting Here: by InkedNerd(f): 8:41am On Apr 15, 2011
MzDarkSkin:
[color=#0066ff]LOL lion pride of Africa.

excuse me while I laugh my Jamo azz off.  grin grin

you are calling someone else ignorant and making fun of refugee camps?
You whose country never fails to engage in ignorant tensions based on tribe, religion and politics?
are you that damn dumb to be ignorant to the fact that anything that occurs elsewhere can occur in Nigeria?
You are dumber than I thought. Feel free to diss me. You heard what I said.  wink[/color]
I agree with Phate07. Besides, what county in the world hasn't or isn't engaged in tensions based on tribe, religion, politics or any other interest of conflict to a nation?
RomanceRe: God is love by InkedNerd(f): 8:36am On Apr 15, 2011
Ranoscky:
My broda, it wonders me to wonderland, really!

Why must 1 refuse to leave when she was asked to leave, is she the 1 paying the house rent for him? undecided
Why not leave at the moment when she knows that the guy will come asking for forgiveness later? What if the guy gets 'RED', and decides to do an un-do?

OP, FYI, I know of som1 (a Nigerian) serving 22yrs inprisonment in Japan for killing his GF. I dont want to go into details buh, it's similar case with yours. I dont know why some of you girls are block headed (no offence tho, very angry), is it until he does what was in his mind before U'll decide to leave (and thats if you'r fortunately alive to leave)?
Imagine the guy not being that rude guy but, your stubborness led him in maltreating you like animal, and U'r here complaining. In-as-much-as I HATE GUYS THAT BEAT GIRLS, I dont think I'll blame that guy cos, U tempted him to.

I have said it that, any guy that ever lay his hand on any of ma sisters wil forever regret it, but, in a case like this, omo mehn, SHE IS ON HER OWN!!!

FLAWBISH !!!
Tempted? Tempted? How did she tempt him? Is he not the initiator? You saying she "tempted" his is the equivalent to justifying his actions. Its comments like this that enable other men [and women] to continue the cycle of abuse.
RomanceRe: Am I Asking For Too Much? Pls Help, I Am Honestly Confused by InkedNerd(f): 7:54am On Apr 15, 2011
@OP: Please disregard anything that comes from fstranger3 wink

fstranger3:
OP: You are just like the typical crazy Bi/t/ch

I think you are losing it.

You are prolly driving the young man crazy and here you are presenting the story from your own perspective, painting the guy in a bad light.


What if he doenst want to talk about some stupiddd shyyte you want to talk about, suck it up like a hot pap and move the hell on.

You have to many emotional issues. if i were the guy, I'd simply dump your crazy sef.

I think you are crazy!

As a matter of fact, o ti ya were.
Can you ever keep you womanizing sexist nonsense to yourself?!?!
CultureRe: Nigerian (igbo) & African American by InkedNerd(f): 7:47am On Apr 15, 2011
@OP: Thirst4Lif has said most of it all in his first, second, and third post.

Sincere08:
@DaRapture, thank you for your advice.

@EZeUche, why do so many people show hatred toward the Igbo?
Honestly, please try not to pay attention or feed into the tribalism of this website. The ethnic tension and constant squabbling on this site can be very nauseating at times.

Sincere08:
@mbatuku1, thank you for your knowlege. I will continue to learn more about the culture for my own growth. I will not let things I have read or the actions of one Igbo man be the lens I see all Igbo men out of.

@Thirst4lif, attending cultural events sounds great. I will discuss everything with him later on today and update everyone.

However, I do have a major concern that no one seems to want to address. Is there a common belief that Americans aren't suitable for long-term relationships?
I don't wanna be a pessimist with my response but yes there can be at times a common belief  that Americans aren't suitable for long-term relationships but keep in mind, its not just a belief that is native to Nigerians. Take a look at other cultures and you'll see that others possess the same notion as well. Is it right, no but does it exist, yes.
CelebritiesRe: Can 2face Survive Having Different Children From Different Mothers by InkedNerd(f): 7:28am On Apr 15, 2011
Its his life, so why should anyone else be bothered by it?
RomanceRe: Am I Asking For Too Much? Pls Help, I Am Honestly Confused by InkedNerd(f): 7:22am On Apr 15, 2011
Well then perhaps you two aren't meant to be together. If he can't or won't even talk to you about little things, then imagine what he would [or in your case, wouldn't] do when a serious situation arises. If thinking that you won't find someone else is what is keeping you from ending things then I'm sorry to tell you, whatever it is that you're experiencing now is what you will experience in marriage undecided
HealthRe: Male Child Circumcision by InkedNerd(f): 7:17am On Apr 15, 2011
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Beync:
eewwuu!!Nerd, all his male relatives has been taken, u know this thin is scarce now Ok, i'l pass him over when am done trus me
grin

Na was o!! This shortage of uncircumcised pėniṡ na serious issue angry
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HealthRe: How Can I Be Fred From Mastubation by InkedNerd(f): 7:13am On Apr 15, 2011
Why do you want to be freed from something that's just as natural as breathing?
RomanceRe: God is love by InkedNerd(f): 7:08am On Apr 15, 2011
annawhite:
u r so alone----- undecided undecided  undecided undecided


@Op!
U can't love a man who takes delight in kicking your backside,
learn how to kick him in d balls or u kick him to d curb!

@fatranger
U r a terrible person tongue tongue tongue
He's a terrible pig, not person. ,  There's a difference tongue

Besides, referring to him as a person is an insult to all human beings.
RomanceRe: God is love by InkedNerd(f): 7:04am On Apr 15, 2011
fstranger3:
You deserve it


If i were him, i'd do the same thing

Women are goats, they dont listen until you beat the shyyt out of them
fstranger3:
^^^^

That said, you are bound to get beat(en) by your future husband anyway.

Best to get prepared for it.
Hmmm, I always knew you were a pig lipsrsealed
Music/RadioRe: What Are You Listening To Right Now? by InkedNerd(f): 6:53am On Apr 15, 2011
"Diablo Rojo" by Rodrigo y Gabriela

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Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Help! Am In Love With Inked Nerd by InkedNerd(f): 6:47am On Apr 15, 2011
ayosmiles:
@REALITY dude i dont know wat u mean by nerd flirtin with guys nd i wonder if u guys av somethin goin. u sound funny
Nope, nothings going on. Its just an inside joke wink
RomanceRe: God is love by InkedNerd(f): 6:43am On Apr 15, 2011
@OP: Please, let me start off by saying that I am so so so very sorry for all the things that you are going through. I know we are just faceless ID's here on a site but what you've just written is really tugging at my heart right now. What breaks my heart even more is the fact that you know what he is wrong and you're asking us if you should go back to him. I hope you love yourself enough to know what what this man is doing to you is WRONG!! I don't know where you live or what the laws of your regions are but you really must find a way to get away from this guy. You need to tell people around you. Make sure you inform others [particularly your friends and family] about what this person is doing to you. Only you have the power to put an end to this. You cannot make excuses for this guy by telling us the sort of person he was before he started abusing you because that may be something that will keep you entrenched in this horrid situation. You've acknowledged that there is a problem, now the next step is how to leave this relationship. Let me ask you something, is causing someone both bodily and emotional harm love? Is threatening their life love? This disgusting creature you call a boyfriend knows perfectly well what he's doing but it seems that you don't. Your excuse for being with him is that previously he was gentle and responsible, the commitment and the sacrifice you've made, and that you have and that you love him. . . Tell me, is this what love is? Please keep in mind, love isn't supposed to hurt. What kind of sacrifice is so great that you would put your life in danger? If you do stay in this relationship with this guy, what makes you think he will change? What would make you think the situation would get any better? If he's doing this to you while you're just dating, imagine what he would or could do to you while married. Don't allow this boyfriend of yours to keep using you as a punching bag. You really don't know how much this is breaking my heart to hear that this person is causing you so much pain. Please, I'm begging you for all that is good please TRY to see your worth so you can leave that monster.

If you don't mind, I'd like you speak to you outside of Nairaland. If you're interested, please let me know embarassed

Here are some websites that can provide you with information on how to tend to this situation:

(1) http://www.loveisrespect.org/

(2) http://www.thehotline.org/

(3) http://www.thesafespace.org/

(4) http://www.safehorizon.org/

(5) http://www.helpguide.org/mental/domestic_violence_abuse_types_signs_causes_effects.htm

(6) http://www.beckysfund.org/cms/index.php?page=how-to-end-an-abusive-relationship

(7) http://www.stanford.edu/group/svab/relationships.shtml http://www.safehorizon.org/

(8 ) http://www.gurl.com/findout/fastfacts/articles/0,,697185-1,00.html

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