₦airaland Forum

ayosmiles:
time 2 rest ke? more like time 2 write cos i have personal writing projects i have 2 finish 4 the publisher

jay bee:
When is the show going to start? This thread has turned to yet another chit chat haven and any more derailing will most probably propel me to bin the thread.

ayosmiles:
nerd, am cool. i work 4 a me dia company so work is always interesting. dis friday, no office work TGIF?

ayosmiles:
i thnk its time we av some sanity here. @ragdolz i suggest u shut up your lousy mouth nd stop embarassin urself

Igwe419:
If my lover infects me I will hand myself in before I murder someone, my friend was diagnosied with the monster and he told me he will infect every woman 

Igwe H.S.O.F.N

Nekai:
Listen to this guy boast about all the woman he infected with AIDS:

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KKmyP4ZScN4&playnext=1&list=PL0AE0D16591C969E6[/flash]

They caught him though, thankfully.

MzDarkSkin:
[color=#0066ff]Like two weeks ago or so. I think Jaybee locked and moved that thread.[/color]

MzDarkSkin:
Actually Ragdollz if I really wanted to be African, I wouldn't choose to be Nigerian.
I am more so infatuated with and study Cameroon, Ivory Coast, Angola, Ghana, Liberia and the Congo
. . . .and I still don't pretend to be from any of those wonderful African nations

You are so ignorant you don't even know that Pidgin and Patois are from the same roots (languages)
therefore when I attempt to speak Pidgin I am also speaking the tongue of my ancestors, biotch.
I have an open mind unlike yourself.

I don't really care what Araboy has to say about me, he is as dead to me as your brain cells. He pretty much
referred to Africans as 'Arab needing niggers' so if you seek satisfaction in celebrating such scum dissing me
for calling him out be my guest. It's your soul and dignity being sold out not mine. YOU DIG? 
I'm the Maroon Jamo who is proud of her blackness, no Nigerian or Arab deluded imb3cile can stop me
from reppin' who I am regardless. You on the other hand stand for nada but self embarrassment and uselessness.

Now eat the banana and be merry. 

REALITY101:
@ Kandi I'm the wrong translator lol. @Inked re you free tonight? For phone love making

kandiikane:
lol fstranger typed it and he would not give me the translation

@ Inky. Hope you watched/are watching ABDC! Iconic boyz all the way!!!! They are sooo cute!!!

REALITY101:
Elaborate what? Don't pretend as if you don't see the way them pitbulls in human skin attack everything/human that passes their sight. No sense of humor. Smh

REALITY101:
Some people of this forum makes me believe there's still human eaters in Nigeria. Seriously

Advocator:
If there's a p-u-s-s-y in this world I would never think of putting my d-i-c-k in it then it's tpiah' one. Beside this whole thing is a game, I'm a pro & I wanna teach the rest of the boys how to get a woman. So rethink yourself babe, let me have my shot in this game, it is not like I'm gonna screen-f-u-c-k anyone. it's just flirting and building my online reputation (if there's even one).  

Advocator:
I am against this whole idea big time. You see we have nerds and charming (aka ladies' men) guys in this site. Let's say both those 2 species try to wow a girl? Tell me who do you think will win?

If this whole scenerio is gonna take place, then the nerd will try to flirt with the nerd females and the ladies' men (coughs) aka real thugs will take on the JLO like girls.

Nasaying?

NAJALYN:
If we raise our children in the ways of the Lord they will never depart from it. Give your children the right training, all the while giving them to God in prayers, to help them grow to become  God-fearing and responsible children. Thereafter you can vouch for them. That does not mean that they will be 100% perfect. But they can never associate themselves with murder or other heinous crimes. Having said that I wish to say that it is only natural that parents would want to defend their children when they do something wrong. They would naturally protect them, but when they get home, they deal with them. Afterall the children are theirs, and in their custody. However the one who is unfortunate to have a murderer for a child can not afford to pretend that all is well because it will not be in their best interest to do so.

IyaBasira:
To be honest I have noticed this trend as well , especially among Nigerian parents. When their child does something bad, they try to defend them and make up silly excuses.

In other continents it's just as bad, if not worse. There was a news story not too long ago about an 11 yr old who was gang violated by up to 17 young men. And the most sickening part of the whole thing was that one of the mothers was saying " Well everybody's talking about the boys and what they did, but how about the girl? What about the girls parents and why weren't they supervising her? " Essentially she was trying to say that the parents were to blame for what happened to the girl , forgetting the fact that she wasn't supervising her son when he was despoiling another woman's child. That's how dense some parents are.

I think that no-one ever wants to admit that their child did something wrong, because it automatically makes them look like a bad parent. I can understand this because  people always think that a bad child equals a bad parent and that's not necessarily true. There are good parents and bad children, the same way there are bad parents and good children. Everyone has a choice to turn out good or bad, it's not necessarily down to the parents and the upbringing of the child in question.

But I have noticed that women are more guilty of this than men. A lot of women like treating their sons as if they are kings and never make them realize that they have to be responsible for their actions.

On the other hand, with regards to the murderers you mentioned, it's possible that the children told their parents that they were innocent even though they were guilty. I was watching a show the other day about a man who had committed a murder. He was put on the death row for 18 years and he was about to be executed  in a matter of weeks. Throughout the trial and their 18 years he was in prison, his wife stood by him, why?  The man on death row told his wife that he was innocent. And it was only when he was two days away from being executed that he told her the truth, and his reason for lying was because he was scared that she would leave him.
This is obviously a slightly different example, but the reality is that people do lie to their loved ones and to themselves. Parents convince themselves that their children can do no wrong , and eventually the children convince themselves of the same thing.

MRbrownJAY:
@poster
STANDING BY YOUR CHILDREN DOESN'T MEAN THAT YOU AGREE WITH WHAT THEY DID.

Whatever your child does (whether good,bad or heinous) you should stand by them. Standing by your child, as any parent should, is what is important here, regardless of the crime. It is too easy to stand proud when they do good and quickly dismiss/disown them when they don't.

As I always say, if your child fukcs up then YOU (as parents) are partly responsible for that failure, whether you like it or not.

I will ALWAYS stand by my children whether they have done a killing spree or som' worse.

Outstrip:
Not my mother. I remember as a child anybody could walk into that home and say anything about us and my mom will believe it. I really hated that. Everybody else seemed to only have good things to say about us but my mother was always critical. It made me who I am today though. I hate to make excuses for myself till today. If I fail at something I take steps to fix it. The example you gave is so extreme though. I think you have to be mentally unstable to defend such

REALITY101:
Is there gonna be some kind of p orn version?

ragdollz:
OmGosh this dumb nerd TALKS TOO MUCH!!!


I dislike her with a PASSION !!!! (more than missussuu chimp n dat creepy jamo COMBINED---!!!!!)


always yak yak yak all blab no jab, as in no action!! Ugghhh

J12:
bia inked_nerd, what about our deal?

ragdollz:
Lol

Question: why does inked nerd always speak like she's talking to pre-schoolers?? "go make a mud pie", "get off the floor pple are staring" Oh my GOSH she's a freaking nanny guys!!! LMFBO. . .  BABE! pls come and deliver your thread from the resident NL dryo's b4 it too late oooh

By the way Jaybee u are derailing! If u're deleting posts anytime soon, don't forget your own oooh

jay bee:
I always  slap me self on the wrist as well be rest assured
BTW: I don beg una now. You guys shud patch things up
Still on me knees

ragdollz:
Lol. Such a Sunday school teacher u are . All prim and proper. You're the LAST person should be on top of things here - but I guess you're forcing urself to actually be, well, INTERESTING. So, keep your gran'ma glasses on and watch out for little snippets of me once in a while. Adult my arse

ragdollz:
^^^^Itz a pity yiboboy that I'll have to pass on this one; I was only sticking around bc of Babe! but if certain pple are going to be in charge (a self-confessed NERD) then it's not worth the look-in. Some threads are fun to derail. While some are not even FUN to start with, talk of to derail.

Lol anyway I'm sure jaybee will be glad to know I won't be on the "Kolomansion" premises

ragdollz:
^^^^See me see ooh!!! Lol, who WANTED to be included in d first place?? Such a nerdy nerd , u're sooooo lame+boring so anything u cook up will always FLOP !! In 48 hours this will be a dead, buried and recycled thread no thanks to YOU. But if u beg me, I promise to put in an effort and grace u with my edifying presence once in a while. Lamester!!!! LMFBO!!!

tjskii:
ooohh interesting concept,me likey, hey inky and babe, i cud also cater for the event, my sweerat firearm just opened up this amazing restaurant,where we cater only to the creme de la creme of the society, what say you? Using our restaurant will give your show loads of exposure and of course correct sponsors

by the by *think i mite be intereted in being the kokolet,but shhhhhhh for now,dunno if firearm go gree,but sha keep me in mind*

iyawo ochu:
Si claro que yo se espanol soy santera estoy de iyawo tengo 1 mes nada mas mi mama es ochun y mi papa chango i hate people that talk what they dnt kno so yes iyawo is a rebirth of a person for the 1st year . it dosnt mean wife everyone is making these things up take if from someone that IS A IYAWO (ME]