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maclatunji:
Read in between the lines, the answers are there. I would like to think I am debating with an intelligent lady hence the user-name Inked_Nerd. Nice debating with you, will do so again at another place and/or time God-willing.

pinkrex:
It being a matter of choice wasn't what I was trying to point out. If she's a lesbian then she's a lesbian, she can't help who she is that's why I said it was ok--if she truly is a lesbian, there is nothing wrong with her embracing her sexual orientation so please stop trying to misconstrue what I said.
@ Inknerd, Im seriously vexing with you here oo,  simz d western world has brainwashed you to d extent of making you feel everyone is free to do what they like cos they just want it, even for a bad reason. C'mon darling, yu aint supposed to make her feel ryt about this even when she her self knws its wrong





@poster, uv got to jokingly talk to to your sister about it and find out how she feels k, den ul knw wher to hammer from,  As for your own case, u better start 100 days fasting and prayers fro forgivness   cos God will not take any excuse that your violation led yu into this,

maclatunji:
I am real already, and I will continue to compare homosexuality to other vices as I see fit. They say, if a man feeds a whole town he will still have enemies, and if a man throws stones at the market (people), he would still have friends. So do not come here and tell me people have been doing it and people have been supporting, so let it be. It is about right and wrong, not popularity.

Why do you think society frowns at drug abuse? If someone consumes heroin, am I the one taking it? I frown at homosexuality, just in the same way that I frown at violation, Inbreeding, fornication, adultery, drug abuse, corruption and other vices. If you do not frown on them, do not think other people are shy about doing so. If you will not drink garri, I am going to look for some garri Ijebu to kan baje.  

maclatunji:
I am sure I cannot by myself enforce these notion on any human being. But with more people being like me and not like you, I am sure those notions would be enforced much in the same way that we enforce our notions legally on thieves, scammers and drug pushers. After all, they could argue that only the fittest survive in this Jungle that we call life, why punish them?

Ron Oneal:
@Inked_Nerd

I never said nor implied that African Americans and Africans are the same, we are different culturally which is obvious. And yes there are negative things that some African Americans but that negative stuff is the exception and not the rule among us. As for Africans, well it would be dumb for me to hate my roots, which I obviously do not, but for any African to state that African Americans conform to some dumb stereotype is wrong and vice versa. I think both are uneducated about the other.


The Africans I've had the most experience with have been Nigerians and there's not much I can say except that with the exception of some males, I get along well with Nigerians, especially the women, of course BEFORE I got married, lol. I dated one Igbo woman here in Germany, she was cool, she just had to be boss and in charge of everything lol, must have been my quiet demeanor.  I personally don't think there#s too much friction between Continental Africans and Diaspora Africans.

maclatunji:
Your hand don dey fall small-small. It is bad because man is a social animal just like ants and bees. In fact, these two insects should provide the lower form of social organization. Alas! man has stooped so low that we have to learn from them.

Have you ever heard of the queen bee or ant sexually molesting her female workers because she is bigger or better? The answer, I am sure is no. It is against the benefit of the Queen bee or ant or that of their social unit to engage in such acts.

In the same way, it would be a social malaise if we allowed 1 person at a time to fulfill the urge of homosexual behaviour. What would have? Falling population as more men would seek-out men and women would seek-out women.  Those who do not engage in this activity would then become outcasts as is gradually becoming the case in some western countries. Imagine, a mother would not be able to trust her daughter with a female teacher nor a father his son with his football coach.

Slowly but surely, the fabric of society would be destroyed all because we want to sound and feel liberal (when in actual fact it is stupidity). Allowing homosexuality to thrive in any society has similar effects to allowing wanton drug abuse, stealing or the use of brute force in settling disputes.  They all destroy societies and civilizations that engage in them.

Nobody will tell you this, but I am telling you now, one of the major causes of the fall of the Roman empire is homosexuality. When it got to a certain stage the Barbarians who remained true to human heterosexual nature overran them from almost all angles.

maclatunji:
I am getting your logic now, it goes like this: "because it can happen and does happen, it must be acceptable." This is the twisted logic that is slowly making human beings worse than animals (whatever animals do, they can be forgiven, they do not have high intellect). Following from this logic, Inked_Nerd would probably say: "because stealing can happen and does happen, it is acceptable." If you say stealing is bad, please do not use the same argument to justify Lesbianism. It is bad. Let's call a spade a spade.

MRbrownJAY:
As the bible says:"let he who has no sin cast the first stone"

maclatunji:
The last thing she needs is for you to be telling her it is normal. And what propaganda do your beliefs stem from, irreligious propaganda?  Go and drink garri and stop typing rubbish.

Parnassuss:
Are you bloody MOLESTING my testis now?
What sort of fc.uked up advice is this! Its OK to be a lesbian when SHE DOESN'T WANT TO BE A LESBIAN. How the heck is that any help to her situation!

maclatunji:
Rubbish from Inked Nerd. Abeg poster  leave am. It is a choice not some disease as people like InkedNerd want us to believe. Next thing you will be telling us that people are born and wired to want to eat bird poo instead of bird meat.

MRbrownJAY:
@poster
You are trying to live your life in the eyes of society, pretending that lesbianism is an addiction. Just because you pretend to be hetero doesn't change the facts at hand, YOU ARE A LESBIAN!
The minute you stop being ashamed of who you are and accept it, that's the day you will start living right.
I feel truly sorry for the guy you are dating or the puppet you will eventually marry out of peer pressure while fantasizing about women.
You can pretend/act/look hetero but deep down inside you will always remain a lesbian. Don't waste your time and others in worthless r/ship!

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ZIM DRILL:
like i said let me deal with them one by one

ZIM DRILL:
let them speak for themselves and i will deal with them one by one

ZIM DRILL:
then thats your problem on mine

bhusayor:
^^ I so much like and respect your views, you are so cool-headed and intelligent ,not just on this issue, I take time to reacd your posts anywhere!

@topic, You will get over it soon i can assure you , he doesnt deserve you girl!

ZIM DRILL:
focus on the thread or on what is being said  not my photos