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RomanceRe: Having A Baby For A Married Man by InkedNerd(f): 8:23pm On Jan 07, 2012
ebonyvibe:
I can see many peoples point of view but this girl I know her and don't think her aim was to get pregnant for a married man.

I meet this guy once whilst she was pregnant and he was all over her; her point now is when her knows that he is married why let her keep the baby why not ask her to get rid of it and led her on till she gives birth.

He still wants to be with her as long as his house wife does not know of the newborn ( I mean what the f***)

I just spoke with her and asked her to really be honest with me if she realized he was married and she said no and I honestly believe her. She only added that when she was three months pregnant he told her  he was a divorcee and about five months he said he was in hospital she insisted to visit him for several days with him insisting she doesn't come cos of infection and her condition only for him to say the ex wife and kids are around and he didn't know how to tell her she was only staying cos of the kids

The lies continued until he eventually fessed up and by then she had already had the baby but agreed to support her now plus him support or attention she doesn't get but he still want her to keep it from the so called ex
At this point there isn't much she can do. She can take care of her child or give the kid up for adoption. If does decide to suck it up, she should make sure that the man fulfills his financiall obligation to the the child but under no condition should she sleep with him again or purse a romantic relationship with him REGARDLESS of what he says about wanting to be with her.
RomanceRe: Having A Baby For A Married Man by InkedNerd(f): 7:44pm On Jan 07, 2012
Sidajili:
What did she spend 9 mins saying? Heard the F words so many times like a tape on loop, Record breaking highest number of times i've heard the F word used in 9 mins! Anybody counting? Nice video to audition in the up coming 'curse word' reality show. She's in!
lol she reminds me of a lock jaw hill billy grin
RomanceRe: Having A Baby For A Married Man by InkedNerd(f): 6:31pm On Jan 07, 2012
davidylan:
Exactly what is your point?  undecided
It takes 2 to tango but she opened her legs without thinking, to a man she didnt even know and now she's paying the ultimate price.
Yes, she opened her legs but she didn't make that baby alone so stop acting like its all just her. She isn't the only person involved in this equation. Is she paying the price for it, yes. Did she open her legs, yes but clearly it wasn't all on her own. Someone else is involved here whether you or anyone else here wants to acknowledge that.

pendo89:
This topic got me thinking.
Is it impossible for a woman to fall in love with a baby she conceived with a runaway man?? When does hate come in surely,is it after the guy dumps you?
why transfer the hate to the innocent kid? Considering the baby was conceived in love,its therefore a product of love not violation/hate.
I think when she gives birth she will fall in love with that baby because its in her womb.
I just hope she does because hey, human beings do the act but only the creator determines if that very act will bear fruits so that baby's destiny is not in her hands but the Maker and she must stop playing God.

She just needs to forget the married man and say its not the end of her life but the beginning of another (the baby).
Gosh there are worse things in life than deceit!
Many kids walking the earth are products of married men and some end up influencing the society positively so for christ's sake ask her not to despair but pick up the pieces of her broken heart allow it to heal and be a good mother to her kid or give it up fr adoption.
The kid could be nigeria's future president after all.
That's a stretch but then again, who knows? I've seen kids who's parents hate them undecided

[quote author=toy-toy link=topic=840406.msg9915148#msg9915148 date=1325957328]She said  she does not have feelings for the child anymore and if i may say the man might not want to take responsibility for the baby and just in case he decides to, i tell you that there is no way he will get married to the lady, in variably we got another baby mama in the making. Probably if the man is irresponsible then we have a bastard born into the world because the lady might not want to tell who the father is.[/quote]She has options. Either she leaves the kid so people who actually care can adopt or she sucks it up and take care of the kid.
RomanceRe: Having A Baby For A Married Man by InkedNerd(f): 6:15pm On Jan 07, 2012
[quote author=toy-toy link=topic=840406.msg9915046#msg9915046 date=1325956327]Another bastard born into the world, God help this generation of women without moral. i read somewhere on the thread someone saying its a norm to open your legs and get pregnant without marriage like animals do, well my question is where is the morals that our parents taught us, all thrown out of the window all because we want to adopt foreign cultures. Well she got what she deserves and in the first place she should have waited till the guy proposes or at least buy condom £1 for the guy to use. It so shaming when i see all this baby mamas pushing boogies in this country. Go and tell your friend to bosom up  and face the future for the baby, as for her i don't feel any iota of sorry for her.[/quote]Can you not read? What, are you a part of the "I Lack Comprehension Club"? Did she make that child on her own? Its take two to tango. I guess in your mind she provided both the spërm and the egg.
RomanceRe: 9ja Women Always Faking! by InkedNerd(f): 6:07pm On Jan 07, 2012
babsjnr:
^ like your dirty hairy anus stinking dirty p*ssyhole
Sorry my inbred Nairalander, you seem to have me mistake for your that whorish creature you claim to have as a woman wink
RomanceRe: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by InkedNerd(f): 5:51pm On Jan 07, 2012
Repubocrat:
Can you enlighten me on the ever so daunting decisions/actions this so-called male household leaders make that can't be made by a woman?
Please ask because I have yet to figure it out.
RomanceRe: 9ja Women Always Faking! by InkedNerd(f): 5:49pm On Jan 07, 2012
honeric01:
yes i am too lazy to re-read or pick your points from the mixed up comments you posted, if it's worth it, please modify, then re-post it.

as for her looks, you claim that's not her hair, yet you don't have anything to back it up? you mean i should believe it's not her hair because you said so? undecided

if her natural hair and the "weave" you said she's wearing is of same texture, how then can you prove to me that she wasn't wearing her real hair in this pic?

back to the topic :  state your reasons why most Nigerian girls are fond of wearing fake stuffs to deceive those who give them attention if what i listed aren't true and please do not re-direct me to that first post, like i said, it wasn't clear and it's full of prejudice.
Did I put a gun to your head and tell you to believe me? No, that is something that is up to you. Since you wanna act like you cannot read, I'll treat you like you you can't read. I know you're lazy, that's why you're still sitting around making blind arguments. You said:

honeric01:
Very lame/weak responses from some posters on this thread.

1: did the OP compare Nigerian girls with others?

2: He asked a question, "why are Nigerian girls always faking?"

only one person answered his question so far even though the thread is now at page 3.

Nigerians with their level of comprehension. sad

@topic

Women in general have issues with inferiority complex, bandwagon effect and some are good at seeking attention, which better way to fit in if not through costume? sorry make-up undecided
I then replied by saying:

"There is nothing weak or lame in the responses by those who have questioned him. What is lame is you attempt to justify his idiotic question but then again, I'm not surprised when I see some men here justifying the stupidity of their countrymen. No, he did not compare Nigerian girls to other women but he specifically stated "Nigerian girls", almost as though he is underhandedly implying that these are things that are found solely among Nigerian girls. If he didn't want other Nairalanders to question and infer things about his statement then he should have done two things--he should have clarified his statement or added more information to give some insight to it. He did neither of those things so if you disliked the replies you've seen on this thread you only have the OP to blame for this, not the Nairalanders who are replying. With that being said, you went onto say that this thread has taken on a wayward route which I disagree with. It is still within the confines on the subject matter. Like I said to Freiburger when he attempted to call Goldieluks racist for her statements, although the OP mentioned a nationality, we are all aware that the general racial make up of Nigeria is black. With that being said, her argument is highly valid. Her response was in reference to the fact that he specifically named Nigerian girls [excluding other ethnicities/expats who obtain Nigerian citizenship]!!! His ill conceived argument is based on the fact that these black girls in Nigeria are fake because of the reasons he named which include, their hair, nails, make up, etc. to which Goldieluks responds by pointing out to him that the things he seems to love complaining about are not things that are found solely among Nigerian women. She then goes on to point out that white women [just like the black Nigerian women that bin gbagbo is condemning] also get procedures that give them a "fake" appearance as well. These things include but are not limited to, fake hair extensions, brëast augmentation, fake eyelashes, fake nails, botox injection, etc. As a whole, both men and women possess levels of inferiority. It's not just something that women posses. I can name a slew of inferiority's that men posses as well. Inferiority of various forms is something that sees no color, gender, or class so bear that in mind before you go around saying that we women posses an inferiority complex."

Oya, start dissecting since apparently you seem to make so much sense.
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Men Selective Listeners? I Can't Believe This: by InkedNerd(f): 5:38pm On Jan 07, 2012
vislabraye:
I would have supported the lady but when she said that "and he did contribute to my fare" just spoilt everything. [b]Y should he pay for your fare ? Because he toasted you so u expect him to pay for your fare. [/b]That is a cheap mentality. If he did that, wont you be calling him a mugu?
Good question, I was wondering the same thing as well undecided
RomanceRe: 9ja Women Always Faking! by InkedNerd(f): 5:37pm On Jan 07, 2012
babsjnr:
Becareful Inkie, he is trying to get some arse yeah im trying to get your dirty pothole azz silly bitc*
Chei, I can't believe your inbred self is still lingering around. Were you able to stay at the internet cafe a bit longer today? wink
RomanceRe: 9ja Women Always Faking! by InkedNerd(f): 5:33pm On Jan 07, 2012
honeric01:
^^^

 sorry but what are you saying? best thing, you know her better so can you post more of her pictures so we can see if her beauty is natural or enhanced. (and can you also post her picture with her real hair if what she was wearing in the other pix isn't hers?

and like i said, post your own reasons if mine aren't "right" or true.

why do Nigerian women (most) wear fake stuffs most of the time?
I gave you a reason. Are you too lazy to go back to my response and re-read the information I gave when I initially replied to you? As for the model, her hair and the weave are pretty much the same texture. I have seen her in person but do not know her personally so I have witnessed her getting her hair done backstage at NYFW. If a picture of her is what you're expecting then you can keep sitting here and keep expecting it because I don't have any. All I can tell is based on what I have seen with my own eyes. Whether or not you want to believe what I have just said is totally up to you. It is a know fact that many models in the fashion industry both black and white wear weaves--even some of the men!

MarcAnthon:
Alright darling  wink

RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Men Selective Listeners? I Can't Believe This: by InkedNerd(f): 5:22pm On Jan 07, 2012
jay bee:
@Inked
Did you get my fb msg?
I'll go check it right now wink
RomanceRe: 9ja Women Always Faking! by InkedNerd(f): 5:18pm On Jan 07, 2012
honeric01:
post pictures of her in weaves and lets compare side by side with her natural looking picture. so please post any of her picture with weave or any other fake stuffs for comparison.
That is her in weave!! She wears natural looking weaves. That is the "look" she agency uses for her. Just because it looks natural does not mean its not a weave. If you don't know what you're saying please say that and stop assuming that its not a weave. Believe it or not there are natural looking weaves out there just because all you ever see is the straight Caucasian looking ones doesn't mean that this is excluded as a weave. By the way, she's a model.

honeric01:
And before we digress, you still owe us a neutral reason you think some or most Nigerian girls wear fake stuffs to paint a wrong impression of themselves.
Go re-read my comments from the beginning till now. Did you suddenly develop the inability not to comprehend basic information? Where did the OP ask why Nigerian girls wear fake stuff to paint a wrong impression of themselves? That is some is something you brought up on your own accord, to which I gave you a response. Rather than read like a normal human being, you chose to bypass the information and take on a wayward approach to the responses. If anything you should be the one answering questions.

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=839545.msg9914706#msg9914706 date=1325952618]Becareful Inkie, he is trying to get some arse.   lipsrsealed[/quote]I don't give a damn what he's trying to get. If cannot comprehend information, I would appreciate it if he would say that!
RomanceRe: 9ja Women Always Faking! by InkedNerd(f): 5:06pm On Jan 07, 2012
MarcAnthon:
Did I call you better person somewhere? That's an understatement. You're heaven-sent! Breakfast in bed? Wow! Let me curl up tighter under my comforter.
Ok, gimme a moment while I get breakfast ready for you smiley
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Men Selective Listeners? I Can't Believe This: by InkedNerd(f): 5:01pm On Jan 07, 2012
MarcAnthon:
ol. . . On my part I kind of already know where the story is going and it becomes a case of why bother?
Its understandable. Chei, those things are embarrassingly terrible.
RomanceRe: 9ja Women Always Faking! by InkedNerd(f): 4:58pm On Jan 07, 2012
honeric01:
that i don't know, seems irked knows her better.



check out this too.
I've seen her at NYFW so I know for a fact that she wears weaves as well that is why I said what I said. I gave an outline of my explanation. I'm waiting for you to dissect it since you keep claiming that I have no basis for my responses. You saying that even if she wears weave, that's another thing entirely only demonstrates the wayward nature of your response. Is the OP not mentioning weaves in this thread? All of a sudden because he weave can look natural it is a different matter? Make up your mind and stick to one thing.
RomanceRe: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by InkedNerd(f): 4:41pm On Jan 07, 2012
[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=838273.msg9914534#msg9914534 date=1325950537]@Inky
Oh now I gerrit. No wahala, I supposed you accepted that position since you don't no need for much discussion.

Sayonara.[/quote]I doubt you do, but it was in interesting conversation nonetheless. Hope we can have more in the future wink

Just wondering, what is it that you "get"?
RomanceRe: 9ja Women Always Faking! by InkedNerd(f): 4:37pm On Jan 07, 2012
honeric01:
Believe me, your reasons were milked up with prejudice and i didn't want to quote from such mixed up comments, rather you post a stand alone one then we can proceed from there. believe me i am not attacking Nigerian women, only pointing out what the op's asking and fortunately i share same view too.

believe me, if i do not like you, i wouldn't have responded to your post which wouldn't have been cool (would show that i am ignoring you and you know what happens when people ignore other posters, it sends a message of "malice" or "hate"wink.
Oya, dissect my comment! I'm waiting the sort or "reasoning" you posses. And FYI, even the girl in the image you posted wears weaves as well. She's a French born African.

MarcAnthon:
Could you all stop fighting please? It's too early in the morning.  shocked shocked shocked
Good morning Marc. Did you sleep well? Want some coffee and hot meal while you enjoy the morning fight? grin
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Men Selective Listeners? I Can't Believe This: by InkedNerd(f): 4:34pm On Jan 07, 2012
MarcAnthon:
Better person. Thank you o jare.
Lol @chick flicks. Just what I was saying about Nollywood. I never understand why girls watch it, but I let them be.
lol I'll tell you why I watch them. For me it is all nothing but pure stupidity. Sometimes I just need a good laugh so I watch them. If not a Nollywood movie, I'll find some silly prank videos on Youtube that will crack me up grin

MarcAnthon:
I should imagine  wink
wink

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=840475.msg9914506#msg9914506 date=1325950238]Yes, they aren't used to vocal women therefore we are she-males because we challenges them to think and doesn't just accept everything they say.[/quote]Hahaha @ shemales. You wouldn't imagine the image the just went through my mind grin
RomanceRe: 9ja Women Always Faking! by InkedNerd(f): 4:25pm On Jan 07, 2012
bin gbagbo:
^^^


if you are a lady(nice), post your pic make we see na. angry
No, I will not post a pic of myself. The thread isn't about my looks. It is about the ignorant statement that you made which was highly biased and ill conceived. Stop being a fool and stick to what was being discussed. Because I called you out on your bullshit, you wanna get upset and have a mini bïtch fit. Some fool made an attempt at disrespecting me yet your foolish self is here telling me to be "nice" to me. I've told you what you need to do. Either do it or just shut your mouth.

honeric01:
Because i like you, let me grace you with just one response, if you disagree with my write-ups, please give reasons.
I did give a reason. You just chose not to accept it. Even if you didn't like me, I still would have replied as I did.

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=839545.msg9914415#msg9914415 date=1325949306]Who said I WAS COMPLAINING?  WTF.  You gotdamn right, there is nothing stopping me from creating threads and comments.  

I JUST DID.  Now what.[/quote]lol such a trip grin
RomanceRe: 9ja Women Always Faking! by InkedNerd(f): 4:05pm On Jan 07, 2012
bin gbagbo:
be a lady girl. , SMH
Look, I told you what you can do. If you wanna sit here and be a hypocrite please say it! Don't tell me to be a "lady". I will speak as I want regardless of what you or any other person tells me. Go speak to your hegoat brother then perhaps I will change my tone. Like I said before and I will say it again, respect is a two way street--in order to get some, you gotta give some. If you don't intend on saying anything to that hegoat then you shouldn't be addressing me at all.

honeric01:
Back to topic : NO "sensible response/s so far" (based on what's on ground)

Why do Nigerian women (to help the OP rephrase his question : [b]most) end up with fake lifestyle and appearance?[/b]



I really need to know the reasons if not:

1: inferiority complex to other naturally looking women out there (beautiful)
2: To fit into what the media paints as beautiful or a sexy woman
3: To seek attention they probably believe they can't get maybe due to their emptiness upstairs (some)
4: Lacking in any valuable attributes.


please supply answers if these above reasons are wrong or misplaced.
Kindly insert yourself in the same category as the others who cannot comprehend information.

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=839545.msg9914306#msg9914306 date=1325948416]Be a man. BOY. SMH.[/quote]You can't expect a boy to be a man when he doesn't posses the necessary tools to be one.
RomanceRe: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by InkedNerd(f): 3:56pm On Jan 07, 2012
[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=838273.msg9914212#msg9914212 date=1325947444]@Inky
Another question do you accept that a man is the head of his family?[/quote]No, I do not. Why are you so dead set on having me believe that as a woman I need to be lead by some man? If you want to believe that for and with your family, then that is fine but that is not a notion or belief that I subscribe to.
RomanceRe: 9ja Women Always Faking! by InkedNerd(f): 3:52pm On Jan 07, 2012
bin gbagbo:
be civil,  are you mad!!! angry angry
Shut your damn mouth! Until you tell that buffoon to be civil to me, I will continue to talk to him as such. If he wants to be treated as a fool then I will treat him as one. Clearly the hegoat called me a 'bïtch' yet you're here telling me to be civil. Do me a favor--take that last comment of yours and shove it where the sun don't shine! Respect is a two way street--in order to get some, you gotta give some.

babsjnr:
@inked_nerd lol There's no need to fret. Your arrogance will not be your undoing, though you will taste defeat. The reason is simply, a difference in skill.
put the lime in the coconut and drink that excreta up. fcking illegal alien living a low life in states i will pay ya bills and feed ya entirely family's boths bck home and states,  loser inked_nerd

Eh ya
, what's wrong my little inbred Nairalander? Did you miss you bus back to your remote village? What, you found out that your work visa wasn't coming in the mail? Fuel subsidy too much for you and your fellow villagers to manage? Couldn't get enough money to sponsor your primary school education? What is it that's got you all riled up my my inbred friend? C'mon, tell me since its apparent that something seems to be biting you in that dead skin infested nyash of yours.
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Men Selective Listeners? I Can't Believe This: by InkedNerd(f): 3:28pm On Jan 07, 2012
[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=840475.msg9914076#msg9914076 date=1325945945]Why do you and other guys think I have that much power over girls on Nairaland?  Heffas don't listen to me many of the times and that's why they come online crying and ranting about the woes of their men.   cool   I do not need to put a disclaimer anywhere, if what I am advising is meaty enough to bite then so be, but if it isn't meaty then they don't have to bite.  Free will.   wink

There is a difference if a guy watches sports all the time and DO NOT SPEND ANY TIME with his girl than a guy who watches sports on Sundays and cater to his girl the rest of the week.  Which one do you think I was referring to when I said ignore him in bed?   wink

Inkie, you are right!  A sensible woman will only bother her man/husband if something is SERIOUS.  Oga Chima watches his matches and I do not bother him, he bothers me!   I am sure the men will come and cuss me out, but I don't find nothing exciting about a bunch of men in tights kicking balls across the grass to the goal posts then again, that's indecency for the men.   lipsrsealed[/quote]lol lol lol, you don't have control over us. Female opinions and feelings are new to some men, so seeing a woman who can choose for herself if she want to open her mouth is like them realizing that the Earth isn't flat.

Speaking of Earth not being flat did you now that no one in the medieval/renaissance era actually thought that the Earth was flat? It's just a common historical error that people don't realize grin
RomanceRe: My Underwear by InkedNerd(f): 3:17pm On Jan 07, 2012
Guitarlife:
^^^^^^^washing machine hey! Now you got me. I guess that sound's a lil bit more civil than me having her use her hand to wash all my "emission's and propulsion's and please pardon my assertion". whao now I know I got rhyme's and tight one's too.
Oh ok. I appreciate the clarification--thanks smiley
RomanceRe: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by InkedNerd(f): 3:05pm On Jan 07, 2012
[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=838273.msg9913861#msg9913861 date=1325943595]@Inky
I understand you. Here's what I want you to understand submission of woman to man does not imply domination by man. Submission means she willing gives him pride of place as head of the family. A man as head should not submit, its like saying the neck should be attached at the top of the head - wrong place, loss of function for both of them.[/quote]So once again, why is it that you continue to insist in this underhanded manner that if I as a woman were to go seek out a submissive man then I am up to no good. The social beliefs that you're projecting here are not here because they naturally exist--they are here because you want them to be here and you continue to perpetuate them. You choose to believe that a woman who is doing the same that you claim is expected of a man is, is evil. Fundamentally speaking there is no difference between you wanting a submissive woman and me wanting a submissive man.
RomanceRe: The Era Of The Hot Moms by InkedNerd(f): 2:58pm On Jan 07, 2012
Rooneyboy:
This is a complete / blatant lie.
If a guy/lady keeps to their shapes after years of marriage there wouldn't be any reason y the partner would cheat.
Except he/she just feels like tasting other soup.
Which ofcourse is still natural.
Remember the saying : SWEETER WHEN STOLEN ?
The only blatant lie within this thread is the nonsense you just wrote. Perhaps in that simple brain of yours it all makes sense in that aspect, but in reality human beings don't function in that manner. If your logic were actually applied, many marriages would still be intact. Cheating isn't always based on the physical appearance of an individual. Apply this nonsense notion to that of Halle Berry and Eric Benét, Deion Sanders and his wife Pilar, Kobe Bryant and Vanessa Laine, Tiger Woods and Elin Nordegren, Garcelle Beauvais-Nilon and Mike Nilon, and Christie Brinkley and Peter Cook, the list goes on and on. If someone is going to cheat, then they will cheat regardless of how good their wives, girlfriends, partners, etc. are. Where on Earth you picked up such an idiotic belief that a person won't cheat if their partner looks good is beyond me. I agree that as human beings we do have lingering eyes but to come up with such an idiotic belief to justify trifling ways is just an asinine way of saying that you would be ok with cheating on your wife, girlfriend, partner etc. just as long as something hotter comes along and the person your with doesn't look as they did anymore.
RomanceRe: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by InkedNerd(f): 2:13pm On Jan 07, 2012
[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=838273.msg9913529#msg9913529 date=1325939977]@Inky
So answer this other one: Are you implying that men should treat women the same way they treat other men?

Take a look at the meaning of ethnicity:

An ethnic group (or ethnicity) is a group of people
whose members identify with each other, through a
common heritage, often consisting of a common
language, a common culture (often including a
shared religion) and/or an ideology that stresses
common ancestry or endogamy.[1][2][3] Another
definition is ", a highly biologically self-
perpetuating group sharing an interest in a
homeland connected with a specific geographical
area, a common language and traditions, including
food preferences, and a common religious faith".[4]
The concept of ethnicity differs from the closely
related term race in that "race" refers to grouping
based mostly upon biological criteria, while
"ethnicity" also encompasses additional cultural
factors.

Once I conform to all the precepts of an an ethnic group I can choose to be recognised as one of them. It is not fundamental to human existence because any arrangement of cultural groups can exist and perpetuate but any human arrangement that excludes either sex can not self perpetuate.[/quote]Yes, in theory you can call yourself whatever you want but in essence regardless of what you call yourself you are still what you are. You simply waking up and proclaiming to be of a different ethnic group just because just happened to feel like it doesn't change ones ancestral lineage. As for your question, I am saying men should treat women as their equals [and vice versa] not some subordinate being who follows because that is what you expect. In my initial comment to Ms. Chima's question, I said ". . . when it comes dating and relationships, I expect a level of fairness in such things. I wouldn't expect that the the person I'm with will control or dominate me and he shouldn't expect that I would do that to him." Regardless of gender, in a partnership/committed relationship people should be treated in an equal sense. My gender is no reason why I or anyone else should be expected to be in a position of subordination.

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