₦airaland Forum

Relax101:
Sup inked Nerd. Can we start something, anything, everything? hehehehe

namfav:
why are you so emotional?

joe4christ:
Oh boy! If i happen to travel to yankee even if na for one dey, mehn i dey come back to 9ja with a beautiful white lady, good statured "to baaaaaaad gon" I just love white ladies, i just cant quench the desire to have one, immagine an handsome bobo like me marying a beautiful white babe, just immagine how beautiful our children would.
I love children, especially the beautiful one.
Infact i've finally madeup my mind i'm settling with one.
So help me God,

fergie321:
@Inked Nerd, The something about white women is we have not tasted them before, besides when I was growing -up I read a novel fiction or not I can’t remember because it was a long time. If there is anyone in this forum who remembers please let me know. In it the Nigerian adventurer talked about how much he enjoyed this Sweden’s blond girl in a boat trip, and that he had never had that kind of experience before. I was only 16 that little titular sticked in my head.
The other reason was from mates who told me how good they are in bed. So I decided to explore it. When I did I agreed in its totality, they are full of stamina and veracity.  I’m not saying I’m going to stay with them. What I’m saying is as good as it last,  I will not swap them for a Nigerian girl because they get bored of us easily and if you beat them they will simply take their toto to another black man and tell you about it as well. They don’t know how to lie. With Nigeria girl at least we rough-it together. They have their problems but we can manage it together.
Most Nigerian girls problems comes from her family wanting her to come and take-care of her fathers and mothers children battalion they had without her consent. Especially those from Edo, Delta and some Ibo families. Her family who couldn’t afford to send her to University will be demanding she come and send her junior ones to University simply because  she is able to flogged herself to Europe. So if you know her problem you will able to manage her better.

ronkebp:
i do not understand how men would think that sex is their right!!!!!!!! am trying to understand it, sex is the right of both the husdand and the wife. if one person is not up to the task, the otehr should understand and stop giving lame excuses for  bad attitudes.

toba:
op. nice question. I remember during one of my lectures in my MBA class in University of calabar couple of years, such a topic was brought up whilst the lecture was on. The lecture is a british trained barrister at Law an an elder man. he stated categorically that theres nothing like ra,apeee in marriage. There were decided court cases that were cited which shows similarities with whats being asked here. One of the marital responsibilities is $ex. However, the law doesnt permit violence on the wife but the husband must not also be denied enjoyment

dammizz:
Its not right 2 refuse d man his right, or how will d woman feel if d man refuse her when she needs it? She must have deprived him several times b4 any man cld think of using force. Its high time women stopped developin headache every evening

justwise:
West drag African leaders around cos they want to be dragged around, they accept all sort of ''hand-shakes'' from the west but when things turned against them the blame game starts. Why would any leader stay in power for 42yrs?

ronkebp:
And who says, sex is only for the man??

fergie321:
@Inked Nerd - Please don't get me wrong I'm well liberated. I keep my ears to the ground, let me put it in a better way. One of the only reason one grows up thinking or imaging going out with someone outside their culture is if him/her have been badly treated by his/her own kind. I grew up in the city and well vast, most of us have dreams. The dream we have then was just experience of white woman in bed. I can't recollect any mates saying to me they want to marry another culture mainly - white in this case.

fergie321:
@Inked Ned, lets be realistic here no one grows up saying I want to got-out with someone outside their culture or they want to love an old man. The reason a niaja woman will go out with an Older white man is money period, because the old white man can't do jack in bed. They can't possibly be in love with them. They can have sympathy for them because of the money they have taken off them (felling guilty) not love. The reason you see a black naija man going out with a fat lady is either because of visa or because they can't afford to take a naija woman because of expense, and the fat or old white women is serving the a better purpose in bed. At least util he is matured or have enough money to be counted as a person. Look if you approach a Niaja woman with empty pocket she will run far. At least you 've got to impress first, to encourage her there is better things to come. Then she can listen to you.

justwise:
Most of the conditions that comes with aids/donations from America/west has to do with accountability, dealing with corruption, in most cases they want western aid agencies to carry out the management or distribution of those aids, ant-retro-viral drug for example is donated free to some Africa countries but those drugs are instead sold to HIV carriers.
Many donations (cash or materials) end up with top govt officials, material things end up been sold to pple who was supposed to get those aid for free.

Some conditions also bounders around human right records, giving fair trial to political prisoners, discrimination against g[i]a[/i]y people like in the case of Malawi and i think Uganda.

Many countries give and expect something in return (whether good or bad) that is how it works, its up to you to accept it or tell them go die with their donation but if you accept it then they will influence your domestic polices one way or the other.

igbo2011:
Everybody should watch this video:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v5u4GmPbM3o&feature=feedu

It is about the REAL reasons why they are in Libya.

On Facebook go to this page: http://www.facebook.com/pages/THE-REUNION-OF-BLACK-FAMILY-WORLD-WIDE/137580649597223

THis is a good site too: http://www.conelle.net/

This is real news not the propaganda on TV

Naledi14:
Justwise you are right the blame game should stop but the truth is the truth the more people know the real truth things will and can change. People are dilberately being misinformed the sooner more people realise and accept the better of we will be. Check igbo2011 links. Interesting.

lefulefu:
Abeg make we hear word jor .The main reason many of these naija run after oyibo granpapas is for the money and nothing more .Afterall many of us naija men date beautiful younger white girls and the ones who date white gran mamas are very few.But i see a lot of naija women with old looking oyibo men who bald head and pot bellies

lefulefu:
True word but the thing i am saying is that why is it that the white men who date naija women are always old and ugly.I hardly see a good looking white man dating a nigerian woman.why is it that u naija women settle for less?

Dyt:
no he cant

lefulefu:
But wait ooo come to think of it, Why e be say most of the oyibo men wey dey dat naija women are always in their late 60s and early 70s with pot belly and on pension.Why is it that young goodlooking white men hardly date naija women

blank:
I am considering it for my kid as my husband is a lost cause. If i can defend it infront of my husband by showing that he is not being deprived of protein then he will allow it though i don't know for how long. Will like whatever material you can give me. How can i get them pls?

2buff:
Peeps abeg watch the video mzdark posted some pages back and tell me if you won't hit THAT woman if she start sh[i]i[/i]t.

justwise:
You should print this and send to those who asked for donation and those who benefited from it, i never asked or benefited from American/western donations.
Yes i raised the issue of aids cos you keep going on about America sticking their noses into our businesses then i said America aids are part of those nose sticking. You can't accept their donations and expect them not to have some sort of influence in our businesses, almost every donation or aids comes with some condition attached, if you took the aids, you obey the condition attached.

justwise:
You did not ask them to donate or start charity in Africa but millions need those American/western goodies, some govt in African can't even write annual budge without western donation. Even with our oil Nigeria till accept donations from the west. when such is the case then expect America/west to stick their noses into our businesses.

namfav:
hahaha real men dont hit women, not even a headbutt, i swear

justwise:
Yup, America should stick their noses into our businesses when it comes to donation and other charities they do in Africa but when it comes to corruption they are interfering.

blank:
@ Inked Nerd, i keep swinging back and forth but i can proudly say that i have been meat, fish and egg free for the past one and a half months. Milk is another matter.

But i want ask, how healthy is a vegetarian diet for kids? I keep thinking that they are not getting enough protein.

justwise:
The blame game goes on.

justwise:
I'm not denying for one moment that America did not play a part in some of the problems that occurred in the Africa, yes they did but ultimately we Africans are the problem, SA got independent in 1994 and Nigeria got her independent in 1960, both with colonial history, which country is better today? Nigeria with the oil or SA without oil?

My point is this: Lets stop blaming the west, we Africans choose to loot our resources and banked them in the west, we can't say no to American dollar cos our are greedy, no good hospital, no good road, no electrify, teachers poorly paid, we blame the west?

freecocoa:
My experience is a bit like inky's,I was 20 and he 26 and an only child,he wanted to get married immediately,I wasn't ready and my folks would have objected,his folks put so much pressure on him,he eventually married a girl his parents hooked him up with,he was a nice man but the timing was so wrong,I guess it wasn't meant to be.

namfav:
if it is once you just have to take it like a man and ignore it and talk a little, but 2 or 3 or 4 times, then grab the woman by the arms and headbutt her














joke

cantell:
Unlike you knuckle head, i got other things to do.
Besides you were whining and crying like a spoilt brat, so i had to slow down.
If you think you're not the one chasing me around, then you need to have head examined the second time*
Btw, i got things to do. If you still want another round of a$$-whopping, get in line.
So long for now.