₦airaland Forum

2sexy:
Hmmm. . . After reading the entire thread, Toba's post drew my attention. Why? Because the same thing happened to me and even worse. . . I later realized that I was a complete mugu and thanks to nairaland cos at that time they made me see the REAL world.

I almost became a bad boy but some ladies and guys told me to remain myself but upgrade the security so that I don't look cheap.

Because of that girl, I don't wast time to dump any girl who does not value and am always happy to dump them because in every 10, there only 1 or 2 of me. That means she will always be dealt with.

The id.iot has been begging me for a year now but no way. . . Then I decided to accept,b.ang and kick her out of my life for good.

kistehsia:
So this has turned into a Bash The White Woman thread, ? Once again label all without knowledge of all, !

leaving thread, kistehsia

Mobinga:
He's talking about the typical Nigerian girl, the types in the University. He's not talking about people like you.

If anything, his advice is really appropriate.

sauer:
really?

Kutey:
On this you are right  "some black men find White women a step up in class and an enhancement to their social status. " Any white woman.   I can only speak for the UK but most white girls that go out with black guys are the lowest common denominator. Never will you find a doctor or a Cambridge student white girl going out, talk-less marrying a black man. For what?
And when they do marry, the black man always ends up working for both. Black couples hustle and work together even after children. The whites stay on benefit.
This is not true for all i accept but the overwhelming majority.
Masculinity? sorry but you are a joke. Look at your community, your society. Who makes money and moves into a black neighborhood?
Every black community in the UK, USA, Africa, Caribbeans, South Africa is full of gangs, violence, violation, gun crime. Is that what masculinity is all about?

Every other race including Indians, Chinese, Caucasians are looking to improve their society and standard of living. The black man lives on handouts and international aid, his only concern is how much pum pum he can get.

abioila:
@all nairalanders, Why do u guyz lyk outdoin odas?sm nlders can even lyk to outperform odas in stupidity,foolishness and what av u.

lindabon:
[b]^^^^Ultimate male !!!!
Yeah right. . .
First of all, the ultimate race is and still remains the white race!
Blacks always make claims to s/hit that isn't researched or proved. We say that we are the strongest race, and yet, all Caucasians win ALL the strength competitions. All "the strongest man" are ALL white (like 90% of the gold medallist).
and to top it all, the biggest p./enis in the world is a Caucasian dude! Black men even make up that poo! and it is based off of Nothing!

Well yeah, you are right. Most black women have low self esteem because of the direct impact of the black man's behaviour on them. When ever most black men mingle with a white woman, they automatically become racist to their own black women. Watch some of the racist/self hating male comments on NL and you will understand what I'm talking about. One way or another, as human beings, this definitely let down some women who allow such bulls./hit to get to them.

Every woman can attract any man. Ever wondered why some cute dudes end up with not so pretty babes? The trick is ATTITUDE!!!
That is the strength of a woman. So black women,  can attract any man from any race if they want to! But then, our women are very patient. Despite all this BS and crap that the black men bombard them with about them being the least attractive race, majority are still on the black man's side. Upon all the faults of our black men, rarely will you see a black woman talk s/hit about them. The black men on the other hand, are the one's that will cook up all sorts of garbage about white men and men from other races, just to keep the women away and closer to themselves. That's the selfish instinct of most black men. They will tell the women how attractive a black man is to other female races, and at the same time, they will lie to the black women that they are not attractive and that is why men from other races will never go for them. (So OP, here is the reason why many black women can't date other races)
Its just a matter of time before the black women will begin to see through this dubious acts of their own men. Soon enough, they will start putting themselves out there for other races to see them, just like the white women. Frankly, you are right to say that black women are not getting married, and this is because the black men are being taken by other races, and the black men are subsequently becoming scarce by the day. In no time, most black women will begin to explore other options available to them. 

The white people have always looked down on black people. .  Blacks had over the years, tried to stay strong together even through the racism, discrimination and castigation. But the pressure has pushed some of us to self hate. All Blacks do now is fight one another instead of further advancing as a whole. Most black men have decided to live the negative stereotypes that are associated with them and the successful and unsuccessful blacks have no where to turn but other races (So OP, here is the reason why most black men date other races). Black people run around with these stereotypes and making people believe them and then if someone denies them, we start screaming "racist" like an angry gibbon until everybody believes it. I live in the western world, and never have I for one day experienced racism, and the best part is dat i really don't give a s./hit about stereotypes and all that comes with it. 

A white woman will be in a relationship with a black man, but you will hardly hear her make remarks like; because "white men are unattractive"or "Black men are better than our white men".
A black man will be in a relationship with a white woman, all of a sudden, he forgets that he is black. Now, he notices that the black women have very tick hair and her lips are too big. She is no longer attractive, and a white woman is now better than her by far. And they will do anything to breed the black out of themselves

My fear is that i don't know were this self hate, anger, stereotype and negative energy will lead us to in the nearest future. 
Yeah, and this is not a generalization, there are still many sensible black men, who date outside their race for genuine reasons, and will never turn around to call their own mother ugly because she is "black"!!  [/b]

MsDarkSkin:
@Inked niiice!   Glad I [involuntarily] helped in your yr long search!  

im not even going to waste my time responding with a decent reply to this garbage.
i'm just gonna freeze it in time for the future readers to shake their head and laugh at too. 

Lenny5000:
Back in the days when I was still 16 I had my first one Of cause it was a fight with Mumsie (Strong disciplinarian, but very good woman, lol) Everybody soon discovered that no matter what you do to me I will still put it on again, So made a deal not to wear it to Church but only when I had to perform (Dancer),  Anyway am a grown up now and where I now reside it's not a big deal, Very relaxed country, even some police men here put them on. Had 5 piercing with 5 lil studs but then when I take them off I sometimes forget to put them on again for a long period of time, so I just have only 2 now that I don't take off. I wear them to Church, and when I visit Naija, or anywhere for that matter,  I wear them because I like them and not for any other reason,  My Mum is long used to it now that she doesn't even notice them anybody. The only person that should complain (if anybody at all) should be my Lady, but she met me wearing them and sometimes buys bling studs for me. They have never stopped me from getting anything, entering anywhere or being looked down on. If anything some actually liked them on me so to each his own!

@Ink Nerd, thanks for your input,  mean wearing ear rings is not Alien to Africa,   Hope you are doing great! I always love reading your view points on issues but I don't see you  so much these days,  Hope I will be seeing more of you. Have a beautiful Sunday

seedord247:
Take a look at the pics of  the Guyz in your Village.

BlackLibya:
lol damn they go like that in naija?

Im american, all i could understand was suck suck and some bleep and she was laughin and aint seem offended so really,

they be goin like that random dude call and say he want "suck suck" and the girl say "when u comin?"

really tho?

MsDarkSkin:
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vp-Eq6QGSfI?version=3&hl=en_US&rel=0[/flash]

this is just on the person to person level.

DO NOT LET ME GET STARTED ON THE MEDIA OOO!!

lindabon:
[b]Black Men date other races because they naturally have no inhibition to anything. They will boldly approach a woman from any race, but this cannot be said for men from other races. They are always courteous with the way they approach their own women talk-less of women from other races. But then, most black men don't give a damn about courtesy.

Most black men are never content with what they have, their eyes are always in the streets and whenever their "spiritual konji" catches them, they are least bothered about who takes the tension off their loins. . 

Most black men are ego defensive, and very little things can pitch their ego. So they will always try to tell you things that will make them feel better about themselves. Things like "when u go black, you never go back", and "we are the most virile"; these are lines coined by low self esteem black men just to feel good about themselves. Low self esteem, is one of the terrible effects of slavery on most black men (God will forever punish these Europeans for doing this to our lovely men!)

Men from other races have constantly refused to join them in such pointless arguments, because they know how this mentality is seriously damaging our black men. Most black men cant seem to think beyond their "kini", a very good example is the numerous number of recycled posts on NL about this same topic.  Ever wondered why Africa is still backwards? Pride is seriously hindering our black men, keeping them away from things that are more important.
While other countries are advancing, black men are busy praising themselves for petty things

Another reason is that most black men are masters of follow-follow. Because one black brother has done it, others will definitely follow without thinking of things like consequences, or implications. Most black guys might not fancy oyibo, but because their friend has entered oyibo before, they will never rest until they have done same thing, just to be equal. They hardly want to be original; always copying. . . .

Also, the black men are the most travelled and you can find them in almost any part of the world which makes them a readily available option for other women. But how many young hustling white men can be found in a typical Nigerian society?; They range from very rarely to none.



Some still have genuine love for women from other races without trying to make a big deal out of it or resorting to justifying their actions by claiming that black women are bad and white women are better. The above is just the mentality of most black men though.
Bottom line; Its high time most delusional black men stopped thinking about being "the most wanted". They need to find other glorifiable things to take pride in, like being the best in science, maths, computer etc than other races . Being the most wanted race is not going to contribute anything to the global economy neither does it bring anything tangible to the table !
This "big d//ick" thing is really becoming embarrassing . . . . . . .  C'mon guys, we can do more than "big d//ick". [/b]

claremont:
Well, I think you have to provide evidence that the HIV you claim to have is a direct result of the s-ex you had with the girl in question. How you can prove that to a Judge, I don't know!

r231:
where

adosjun:
Inky babe, I am crazy abt u,

ArQueBusieR:
Nah, I don't. I just thought, maybe going by your nick, you know.

namfav:
my whole argument is that nigerian women are not single, let us say like black americans, who tend to be single because their men are after women of different races, nigerian women have the best option because nigerian men are loyal to them, it is a easy option for them because they can also relate to nigerian men, so i dont know what is so bad lol

lailaiwala:
namfav dude, dont waste your time with that promiscuous pig.