₦airaland Forum

ArQueBusieR:
What's your tattoo like?

namfav:
nigerian men are loyal, that is why you see few single nigerian women and few nigerian women who are with outsiders, the tiny few who are with outsiders are either outside of nigeria or they are doing so because they have some economic hardship

tellwisdom:
Ink maid, can i touch your Flat yansh . I have a soft palm  

namfav:
sorry, but you are wrong there

lindabon:
No problem, as long as he doesn't steal/borrow my own  

namfav:
you know what i mean is that in most nigerian people, it is not in us to seek other 'option', i hear that from black americans but not nigerian thing, it is not like nigeria is running out of good men for nigerian women

namfav:
the nigerian men say that because they dont want nigerian women to stray, that is like warning nigerian women to stay loyal or else they will be single forever, we know it is a lie, but nigerian men do that because they choose nigerian women over any other women, if you compare to most countries in africa, nigerian men are the most loyal, but maybe nigerian women are becoming too westernized and talking about options, but you know the default is nigerian women for nigerian men

pendo89:
right there.
That earing stirred up debates for wks till he was willing to give up the position than remove it. It was symbolic to him not fashion.

if u choose to wear it be careful where you wear it lest you get misunderstood and mistaken for what you are not.

2buff:
cantell take notes pls 

<Grabs inky and deep-smooches her for 5 minutes straight. Lots of tongue-sucking was involved>

As you will now witness, the wench has been silenced. 

BoboYekini:
If we're talking serious relationships, then high education and class strata play a role. Countless studies have been done on the subject.

Just like you'd hardly see a well educated kennedy with any other than an all-american spouse, same way a comfortable, highly educated black man would more commonly be with a clever black woman of similar class stratum. To these kind of people, culture continuity matters a good deal.

Its the footballers and rappers that get it wrong always. Trophy wives.
The ordinary black men just keep wishing, patapata get with less desirable white women.
Thankfully, black women, regardless of education, are more discerning; hence op's observation.

Me, I'd rather an nkiru nerd over a scarlett johansson.

namfav:
this one is wrong

'I see men always doing the same thing when it comes to women--throwing them under the bus' - most nigerian men are with nigerian women

'no one likes black women or finds them to be desirable in the least sense' - that is false, because if it were true then nigerian men would not be with nigerian women

fergie321:
Hi my sisters I’m not in any way advocating violence against black women, in fact a woman should not stay in any relationships where violence exist. To point this home as matter of fact I do not anyway raise me hands against my daughter. I leave the discipline to me wife. The reason I don’t is not only is against the law but to give her ample confidence that a man must not raise hands on her for life. I can assure you if her father has never beaten her she will never stand for an abuse from a man. If I do she might think is alright for a man to beat-up a woman. I want leave it short that way.
A man that beats up his wife because his food not ready is probably uneducated. In a civilised environment that will not stand. We appreciate most our women will not readily call the police for fear of the police killing us (Black men). You know the Caucasians race do not like us, calling their police for a domestic disturbance is an excuse for their Police to twist our neck until we are dead.
They have murder so many black men police cells. The Police have soft torch for our women because they are not a threat and they see us (black men) as woman beater. I mentioned in my earlier tread that if you beat-up a white woman she will take her toto to another black man or your friend that frequents your house and tells you later what she has done  is to say that this is the only way they knows as payback when they are wronged.
Talking about domestic abuse there was a recent study that came not long ago in UK that says ‘’there is an increased number of a men suffering from domestic abuse’’. So is a not only men that perpetuate domestic abuse, women does too. Generally and culturally a black women will not necessary take their toto to someone else for s-ex as a way of relief when she had a row/fight with their partner except she wanted to and mean to leave the relationship. About 99.9% of black normal black women in a relationship cannot have s-ex with their partner and another man outside for long.  God have not design them to do so.

merge:
While other race of men are building empire, black men are importing and exporting their D-I-C-K globally.

2buff:
^^^ When women get overly argumentative, it means they just want you to grab them and deep-kiss them 

2buff:
@inky and cantell,

I see you children haven't french-kissed and made up yet.
I'm quite dissapointed in the 2 of u

cantell:
Blah, blah,blah!
You sound so dumb, repeating your comments.

merge:
How long will black women wait for this nonsense? Black women must take things in their own hand. Black men are too busy chasing P-U-S-S-Y to concentrate on running a country and planning for the future generation. Black men have failed in leadership in almost every areas in life.

merge:
Black women must have higher expectations from black men. No more excuses and nonsense.

Black women deserve to live in well run and safe countries. Black men want to lead and not perform. No more excuse and games.

namfav:
i hope you dont believe that is true, you know men are not like women, when women talk about other men other then their own they are seen as s!uts with low self esteem in fact women are easier used than men as objects, that is why if you are a women you just have to stand on your own ground, not read much into this or argue with this people who say that

sleekch1c:
@inkerd,
Dat guy is a total scrub.its sad dat our men hate themselves dat much.I hope dat scrub has abandoned his mother too.

merge:
Black men have no self-respect. Other races hate and don't respect them but they gladly date and marry their daughters.

aribisala0:
inked you make an easy mistake of creating a category "BLACK MEN" for sexuality

every individual has a different sexuality  and books are quite a different thing from reality.

there are man-lover,bisexual,sadistic,masochistic,fetishistic,cross dressing,transexual etc black men just like there are in other races .

some of the more submissive sexuality that is present in black men is often characterized as voodoo etc  i.e his wife has bewitched him

in short some black men/women are very alike in their intimate behaviour and modern sexuality is very much influenced by Indecency as such a lot of younger  people of all cultures are experimenting with all kinds of practices that it is really futile to group behaviours as "black"   "white" etc

sleekch1c:
^^because all of them have self esteem issues and are very self-hating.observe their comments here and U̶̲̥̅̊ will understand.