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 Romance / Re: If Seun The Owner Of Nl Proposes Love To You. . . by InkedNerd(f): 7:38am On Mar 21, 2012 |
tellwisdom: No vex. I wrote your e-mail address on the sticky pads on my laptop but they later disappeared. |
| Romance / Re: If Seun The Owner Of Nl Proposes Love To You. . . by InkedNerd(f): 7:20am On Mar 21, 2012 |
1. What will be your response? Honestly, I'm not sure. Such a proposal would probably seem totally out of left field so I'd be taken aback by it. 2. Will a promise to make you moderator be a boost? No. I never had a desire to be a moderator so it wouldn't even matter to me. 3. Will a ban threat scare you to say yes? LMAO, hells no!!! Why would it scare me? I'd just open a new account. |
| Romance / Re: Do Girls Have Loose Period Too? by InkedNerd(f): 6:41am On Mar 21, 2012 |
@OP: Now that you're done yammering please ask yourself the same question about men/guys who constantly pursue women just for the sake or pursuing or old men who pursue very young girls. You question goes both ways my dear. |
| Romance / Re: I Am Confused Should I Date Her? by InkedNerd(f): 6:31am On Mar 21, 2012 |
Conner44: I use to have this friend before we had problem. While we were still friends he introduced me to his girl friend and i knew very well about their relationship. But presentely they are not together (according to his girl friend) like wise me and the guy we dont seem to do things together anymore too. And right now the said girl friend comes around to see me and she is fallin for me. My fello NLanders please i need your help cos i'am confused on what to do. Confused on what? Since you don't know whether or not she's actually telling the truth, you might wanna ask your friend just to confirm things--doesn't mean that you need to tell him that the girlfriend has taken an interest in you. Just casually talk to him and in the process, ask him about his relationship. |
| Romance / Re: Co-habitation by InkedNerd(f): 6:28am On Mar 21, 2012 |
fstranger2: Nope, not interested. My womb is not for sale/rent. Go put up an ad on Craigslist and call it a day. |
| Romance / Re: Is It Acceptable For A Lady To Keep Her Maiden Name Once She Is Married? by InkedNerd(f): 6:24am On Mar 21, 2012 |
fstranger2: Whatever. Good luck in finding your foot carpet wife. |
| Romance / Re: Is She A Virgin Please? by InkedNerd(f): 6:22am On Mar 21, 2012 |
@OP: Frustrating as it may be, the simplicity of your question belies the complex definition of the term "virgin." To some, a virgin is someone who hasn't had sëxual intercourse [that is, pënis-to-vägina intercourse]. To others, a virgin is a person who has not engaged in any intimate acts, including deep kissing, gënital touching, and oräl, väginal, or änal sex. Still others may allow certain intimacies, like kissing and touching below the belt, while excluding other sex acts. Some people believe they are a virgin until they have sëx with someone of the opposite sex, while many believe that people who exclusively have same-sex partners can and do lose their virginity. Finally, some believe that people who have been sexually assaulted, but have not had consensual sex, are still virgins. Why the variation? Definitions of virginity are often deeply personal and stem from religious, cultural, historical, and family influences that emphasize different values. Some people want to remain a virgin for religious or cultural reasons, some relate the concept of purity to being a virgin, others simply don't want to have sëx. As you probably are aware, the idea of virginity is an old one. People in ancient Greece and Rome used the term virgin to refer to a woman [or a goddess] who was autonomous, or on her own, not owned by any man. It was only later that it came to apply solely to sexuäl virginity. When the meaning changed, the implication was that remaining a virgin until marriage guaranteed that a woman would uphold a family's honor by passing from father to husband "unspoiled." Because at that point there was no dependable birth control, it also made it more likely that babies would be born to married couples. In terms of väginal penetration, the girl is a virgin but as a whole she appears to be quite sexually experienced. Having väginal penetration isn't the only manner that a girl can lose her virginity. When I was in junior high school, I used to hear girls and guys ask one another whether or not they were virgins in their mouth. The fact that they'd reference their mouths specifically shows that they understood that there were other methods of being sexually intimate with someone, various ways to lose their virginity, and various forms of sex that have yet to be explored, especially when the individual hasn't tried something of a particular nature. As a whole, you are right about her holding onto her virginity for her future husband rather than God because if her reasons who holding onto her virginity were as genuine as she claimed it was, she wouldn't engage in sex of any form. Another reason she may be using this bullshit virgin excuse could be because of the cultural gratification she may gain from it. If she says she's a virgin, she most likely is saying it because she knows we live in an African society that glorifies a woman's virginity. 2 Likes |
| Romance / Re: Co-habitation by InkedNerd(f): 6:13am On Mar 21, 2012 |
fstranger2: Okay, what if I pay you for it? Sorry, my womb isn't for sale/rent. |
| Romance / Re: Is It Acceptable For A Lady To Keep Her Maiden Name Once She Is Married? by InkedNerd(f): 6:02am On Mar 21, 2012 |
fstranger2: ^^^ Like I said, the same thing goes for you. |
| Romance / Re: Please! I Need Urgent Help by InkedNerd(f): 5:52am On Mar 21, 2012 |
sensisosu: i really need an advice., i am in tears as i am writting this letter, i am in a long distance relationship with this lady and we have both fell in love and about getting married.., she told me yesterday that she has been having sexual relationship with my best friend who they happen to live very close by.. and when i asked her why she did it, she said he was the only one she could talk to after we have an arguement and then later he sleeps with her and this has been going on for a very long time and he threatened her if she ever tells me.. then i will kill both of them just so that he can continue on his adventure.. What would you gain from killing them? If indeed your story is true, then you need to decide whether or not you still want to pursue a relationship her and if she wants to mend the relationship. If not, then just think of this as favor from the both of them. All they did was make room for someone else in your life. |
| Romance / Re: Co-habitation by InkedNerd(f): 5:48am On Mar 21, 2012 |
fstranger2: ^^^ No thank you. You're more than welcome to make someone with someone else. |
| Romance / Re: Is It Acceptable For A Lady To Keep Her Maiden Name Once She Is Married? by InkedNerd(f): 5:44am On Mar 21, 2012 |
fstranger2: Only if she is accomplished with some heavy weight degree or innovation to her name; otherwise, if all she brings to the relationship is her p/u//c/cy, looks,womb, never ending family problems and her cooking skills, NO WAY! Same thing goes to you. You being a guy doesn't mean that you're immune to any of those things or that is that is all she has to offer that it has automatically sealed the deal for her to take on your name. |
| Romance / Re: Co-habitation by InkedNerd(f): 5:38am On Mar 21, 2012 |
fstranger2: Sorry, you got me mistaken with some other girl. No kids over here. |
| Romance / Re: Is It Acceptable For A Lady To Keep Her Maiden Name Once She Is Married? by InkedNerd(f): 5:32am On Mar 21, 2012 |
~Killz~: And would you hyphenate your last name since apparently that's what you're suggesting for the woman? Dyamante: I was listening to a discussion on radio today morning about the modern day woman not wanting to give up her maiden name and if she does so, she will only hyphenate it in order to include her husband's name and will not give it up entirely.. Is this acceptable or does it seem disrespectful to the husband? Why would it seem disrespectful? If the husband doesn't hyphenate his name as well, why isn't that seen as disrespectful to the wife? I don't see anything wrong or disrespectful about a woman choosing to keep her maiden name. As for hyphenating, that is a personal matter of the individual but for me, it seem like a one sided option because unlike the option of both partners keeping their individual last name, hyphenating includes the name of one individual while disregarding the other. |
| Romance / Re: Men With Long Nails -yuck! by InkedNerd(f): 5:20am On Mar 21, 2012 |
kelz88: Why would any guy in his right mind want to keep his nails, let alone this long? And why would a girl in her right mind be ok with her man's nails like this?! (Pic taken from a member's profile) I've only ever seen this nastiness in Nigeria. Chicks/guys, do you dig this? Ewwww!!! Gross! I'm sorry but I would never let those razor blades come near me. That's just nasty! Can you imagine a dude wanting to finger a girl with those claws? |
| Romance / Re: Co-habitation by InkedNerd(f): 5:14am On Mar 21, 2012 |
jmoore: Hello!!!!!! a man cannot be living with a woman he is not married to and still not engage in sex. They will do it. How the motha flippin' hell would you know? Do you speak for ALL men?!?!? No, you obviously don't! I suggest you take your 'hello' elsewhere since you cannot speak for all men on this matter. |
| Romance / Re: Guys Can U Wash Ur Partners Cloth by InkedNerd(f): 5:12am On Mar 21, 2012 |
@OP: I don't see anything wrong with a guy washing my cloth, especially if I can wash his. As long as he doesn't expect me to be his personal washing machine, I see nothing wrong with it. |
| Romance / Re: How Do U See Poeple With Tatoos On Their Skin by InkedNerd(f): 5:07am On Mar 21, 2012 |
amefi: Nna, you already know that I don't have tattoos--just piercings  |
| Romance / Re: Advice!! by InkedNerd(f): 5:04am On Mar 21, 2012 |
@OP: I'd do the same thing I mentioned in another thread. I'd pop champagne and give 'em the deuces and call it a day. |
| Romance / Re: Guys With Pot Bellies: Do Ladies Love Them? by InkedNerd(f): 10:21am On Mar 20, 2012 |
Chimezie198: Oh Oh! Becos you no like am boyz no go drink beta beer again?  |
| Romance / Re: Ladies, How Would You React? by InkedNerd(f): 10:10am On Mar 20, 2012 |
@OP: Well first of all, I'd get her to unhand my husband's pogo stick then I'd find out why the hell she was trying to rip it off?  |
| Romance / Re: "I'll Think About It" She Said. by InkedNerd(f): 10:00am On Mar 20, 2012 |
@OP: Here's what I think--she ain't serious. It's either you love the person or you don't. Reminds me of a conversation I have with my best friend tonight. While talking over dinner, he mentioned to me that he's avoiding his boyfriend saying that he loves him because his response to that would be →  |
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