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Politics / Re: Lagos Metro Official Addresses Passengers In Yoruba Language (Video) by Iree1(m): 10:21am On Sep 13, 2023
Elvis2kay:
YORUBA is gradually departing away from Nigeria, making a YORUBA language a must in schools, fast infrastructure development in South west, the region leaders are working together.. this people get plan B🤔

I could sense that too!

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Family / Re: My Ex Fiancee Is Pregnant For Me by Iree1(m): 4:42pm On Jan 13, 2023
Can u hear ursef out.....
Pls be man enough bro.



Alesa3341:
Hello Guys, please I need a sincere and matured advise on what to do. This will be long, please bare with me.

I'm 27, am a businessman, I have this girl I really love so much and intend to marry her this year December, but one thing about her is her bad character. She challenge me, talk back at me, shout at me, get angry with me for days, refuse to cook when she is angry, disrespect my family, most especially my mum, always trying to paint herself good and paint me bad in presence of people, these are just little of the things she has done to me.

When she lost her job, and had nowhere to go, I had to bring her to my house, and provide everything for her, food, I change her hair twice a month, subscribe unlimited for her, I just provided everything a woman need to be happy for her. Last year November, she told me she haven't seen her mum for 5years and wanted to travel to see her, I spent close to 200k to take her to and fro, including other things she needed. She insisted on collecting the bride price list for me when coming back, I spoke to her mum and they gave her to give me. I was planning to finalize all on the weeding this year.

Last year DECEMBER, I took her to my family to introduce her, but this was the biggest mistake of my life. She was completely disrespectful to my mum, talks to me anyhow in presence of anyone, even to the extent of refusing to cook for me anytime she is angry, I go to kitchen and prepare food myself.

I love this girl so much but I still thought of continuing, with all this attitudes, I advise her everyday, I also took her to my pastor who advise her too most of the times, but she never changes.

Fast forward to 2days ago, we had issues because she told me to join her in washing and I refused because I was working on a client project, she got angry, washed the clothes and when it was evening she brought the clothes inside, folded her own in the wardrobe and just threw mine into the wardrobe without folding or arranging them. I was angry about this, but I kept mute. The next day, she sent me "sorry" on WhatsApp, I told her to come to me physically and apologize but she told me she can never do that, and why was she even apologizing, that she did nothing wrong, we exchanged words and she left my house.

Today, she called me and told me she is pregnant, and that I should send her money to remove it. I was like "just like that"? We didn't discuss about it, how will you just tell me you want to terminate my pregnancy, I told her to go to hospital and confirm it and also get the test report, she did this and sent to me, it was true she is pregnant, but she insisted on removing it, I persuaded her and she still refused, claiming she can't be a single mother. I told her I will take responsibility, but she insisted on removing it, I told her to go home and think about it, and she told me she can't leave there without removing it. After so much persuading I decided to give her the money, and told her if she removed it, that it's on her, that I didn't consent to this.

I asked her why we can't keep it, and she said because my family is bad, we support evil, if the sky is blue, we say it's red, that my mother is a bad woman, and she doesn't want to come there. She said so many bad things about my family, I was shocked! I asked her, how are they bad, she said "how can my mother be telling her to wash my clothes" I was just confused, After all I have done for you, is it bad if you wash your husband to be clothes, I left her!

Later she told me the doctor referred her to another hospital, I still tried to persuade her and she said her decision is final. She asked me to give her money to go to the hospital she was referred to, I refused! I insisted that we keep the baby, she told me "I'm a nobody, that she will call now and she will get money to go" I angrily blocked her. Later, she called my other line and told me, she went to the other hospital and the doctor told her, the cost to remove the pregnancy is 125k, she told me and I insisted on keeping the baby.

Please guys help.me, I don't want to terminate my first child, the girl is too disrespectful and rude, I don't want to continue with such woman, but she is carrying my baby, what do I do? And if she later agree to keep it, how do I go about it?

You all are just saying "don't marry her" what about the baby? Should I agree to abort it and give her the money?

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: What Should Kayode Do? by Iree1(m): 1:25pm On Dec 14, 2022
The fire should go round, as kayode is receiving the knock, Peter would receive double....

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Family / Re: Lost His Wife About A Year Ago, Planning To Go Into Relationship Again by Iree1(m): 7:22pm On Dec 13, 2022
Jennyclay:
Haba! Kilode! A year is too early for him to start a new relationship. How are we sure he didn't kill his wife just to marry another woman... You know you men can't be trusted.
Atleast 3-5years is okay before he can move on
What sort of reply is this.... Check ur mind pls

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Family / Re: My 17yrs Old Son Is Getting Out Of Hand by Iree1(m): 9:15am On Jun 09, 2022
This can be so worrisome! Firstly, I will advise that you make a report to the police regarding their suspicious moves, that I will help anything otherwise occurred, look for some one to talk to them, them take a short break and rest! Hope you nva over pampered them while growing up? I pray they change
Investment / Truck For Haualage Services by Iree1(m): 8:45am On May 12, 2022
Goodday Fam!
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We give the best insured logistics services you can ever inmagine!
Customers satisfaction is the GOAL!
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Celebrities / Re: Davido Unfollows 2baba, Wizkid, Timaya For Not Congratulating Him by Iree1(m): 5:07am On Apr 04, 2022
Davido with his childish character!!!
Politics / Re: Tinubu: Nigerians Have Seen Ancestors Dressing As Youths Before - Adeyanju by Iree1(m): 7:54am On Feb 08, 2022
Adeyanju Na fool
Travel / Re: Nigeria To Place UK, Canada, Saudi Arabia On COVID-19 Red List - SaharaReporters by Iree1(m): 6:43am On Dec 12, 2021
Can Nigeria sustain this??
It's a nice moves tho, but not with this kind of leaders. It's al joke
Romance / Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Iree1(m): 5:06pm On Dec 05, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.

You HV tried bro, but asking such question can be frustrating, things can be tough atimes, try n establish her, so that some of this petty billing can be subsize
Food / Re: FG Moves To Reduce Food Prices by Iree1(m): 7:15am On Nov 17, 2021
ManirBK:


https://dailytrust.com/fg-moves-to-reduce-food-prices
Nigerians are tired of your unaccomplished promises, you know exactly what to do n you should be fast about it, the country is in a deep mess.
Family / Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by Iree1(m): 7:11am On Nov 17, 2021
If she's saving for the interest of the family, you might just need to adjust and find a way round it, it's not a big deal bro, you can serve yourself or you continue to buy suya, Just make peace that's the KoKo
Barrister026:
My wife attitudes towards food she cooked with my money is getting on my nerves.

How can my wife be dishing food to me like she's serving it for our kids.times without number have complained but still no changes.

It's either she makes eba that won't satisfy us ( when they is enough garri available) her defense is that she don't want it to be wasted.

OR

She dished out soup for me with lesser meat like am a kid. Have told her several times when cooking..to buy enough protein in the soup or stew. But to my surprise she always economise the money and divert it into something else.

I even had to start buying suya in the evening when coming back from work, because I know what I be expecting when my food is dished out. ( Recent news we saw of how suya killed some families, made me limiit it)

Have ordered her on several occasions to take it back and put more protein, but must i always do that?

Please This is really getting out of hand, I really don't know how to handle this situation.
Business / Fried Cashew Nut For Sale by Iree1(m): 6:50pm On Nov 03, 2021
Hello Everyone!
You can contact me for your fresh and neat cashew nut.... Serious Buyer Only.
07031164607
Agriculture / Cotton Seed by Iree1(m): 10:49pm On Oct 03, 2021
Pls who can link me up with where I can get COTTON SEED?
contact me on :09153621667
Religion / Re: Is Your Name In The Book Of Life? by Iree1(m): 9:56am On Jul 11, 2021
After going tru Ur write up.... What exactly are u concluding on? Is the holy spirit saying telling u that TB Joshua is in hell or heaven.... Holy spirit is not a spirit of confusion, so make it more clearer,why are all so called man of God are so much interested in TB Joshua?forgetting that death is a certainty, another is I still can fathom till now is that, what exactly was those miracle's tht the late man did that God cannot use man to do, why troubling Ur mind ova someone that is gone? May the soul of the departed rest in peace.

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Food / Re: Tomatoes And Onions I Bought For 300 And 350 Naira Respectively In Nnewi by Iree1(m): 7:40pm On Feb 21, 2021
It's looks expensive..... It's very cheap here in d North right now
Family / Re: Should I Bring Her Over To The US? by Iree1(m): 4:20am On Dec 23, 2020
Are u principles majorly for the women... Or for both genders? No one is an island, we all need oursleve to survive bro.
Agriculture / Are You In Need Of Someone To Help You Get Agricultural Product From Far North by Iree1(m): 12:23pm On Nov 08, 2020
Good day All.
Are u interested in buying(Tomatoes, onions, ginger, Irish potatoes, pepper and any agricultural perishables) in Northerner part of Nigeria
I help to buy and waybill to all parts of country and even outside Nigeria.

I give the best rate.... Let's do bussinex...(Companies $ Individuals)
WhatsApp or call Dave
07031164607 or 08116575348
Thanks.
Business / Are You In Need Of Someone To Help You Get Agricultural Product From Far North by Iree1(m): 10:26am On Nov 08, 2020
Good day All.
Are u interested in buying(Tomatoes, onions, ginger, Irish potatoes, pepper and any agricultural perishables) in Northerner part of Nigeria
I help to buy and waybill to all parts of country and even outside Nigeria.

I give the best rate.... Let's do bussinex.(Companies n Individual's)
WhatsApp or call Dave
07031164607 or 08116575348
Thanks.[b][/b]
Investment / Are You In Need Of Someone To Help You Get by Iree1(m): 10:18am On Nov 08, 2020
Good day All.
Are u interested in buying(Tomatoes, onions, ginger, Irish potatoes, pepper and any agricultural perishables) in Northerner part of Nigeria
I help to buy and waybill to all parts of country and even outside Nigeria.

I give the best rate.... Let's do bussinex.
WhatsApp or call Dave
07031164607 or 08116575348
Thanks.
Investment / Re: Legit Income On Smart Phone by Iree1(m): 10:02am On Nov 08, 2020
07031164607
Celebrities / Re: Falz Interviewed On CNN Over EndSARS (Video) by Iree1(m): 9:15am On Oct 23, 2020
quote author=Okoroawusa post=95224143]Falz is the son of a privileged lawyer that has been dining with Nigerian elites n politicians for years.

The bloods of dead Nigerians as a result of this carnage he birthed will hunt him to his grave.

So he has time to grant interview to CNN but couldn't control the monster he created.

When the story of #ENDSARS is told no matter how many years from now those with conscience will in their hearts curse you.


Life goes on.[/quote]Who hack your brain nah.....12min pple
Education / Re: Strike: FG, ASUU Disagree On Payment Platform by Iree1(m): 9:08am On Oct 23, 2020
What about school that are not under ASUU? We dey get from this funds too....
Crime / Re: EndSARS: Sanwo-Olu Lists Names Of Police Officers Currently Being Prosecuted by Iree1(m): 9:02am On Oct 23, 2020
I think m liking this.....dis happen when you hv someone in charge..... Not like dakudagi...lol

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Crime / Re: Indigenous People Of Abuja Give EndSARS Protesters 48 Hours To Vacate Roads by Iree1(m): 5:42pm On Oct 19, 2020
Wetin musa no go see for gate....am I speaking ur mind... Lol
Business To Business / Re: Truck For SALE by Iree1(m): 7:40pm On May 25, 2020
That's the pix
omohoneyland:
pls post the picture

Business To Business / Truck For SALE by Iree1(m): 2:09pm On May 25, 2020
DAF 96 truck for sale wt a bucket capacity of ova 40tons.......Engine not in good condition.....At a very good price.... Serious buyer call or Watsap:07031164607... Mr Dave
Religion / Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Iree1(m): 1:17pm On May 23, 2020
because it's no longer a sin.....
Family / Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by Iree1(m): 6:44am On May 19, 2020
Don't allow him.....instead give him small change to lodge no matter how small, that's ur contribution......jare eh.
Romance / Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by Iree1(m): 8:02am On May 18, 2020
Oga use ur head.....plenty wife material for Street na on how u take reason dem..... Anger is disastrous.
Business / Re: Over N400k Got Debited From My Stanbic IBTC Account Overnight (Pics) by Iree1(m): 7:59pm On Mar 29, 2020
Do u stay anywhere in Niger state, because that MX I saw in that transaction statement.... If so, u can try to trace it.

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