₦airaland Forum

Jazmine10:
For real, you begin to wonder if these men are in their senses?

At all , they're never in their right senses, one was telling me how ugly his wife is , I was just like oga , no be me send you message, if you wan toast , go straight to the point , I don't need to hear your family problems, is either yes or no ....

We have many of them in our society , I know some ladies do go extra miles to get a man but majority of them do it with their eyes wide open, nothing like juju or kayanmata whatsoever..

Dating married men is not my thing, cos I do feel for their wives and children.. the truth is that most of them do have beautiful wives at home .. I do wonder if they're forced to marry their wives ..

etrange:
So women should not progress career wise? Are female doctors not getting married in Nigeria? Or you think Nigerian men abroad don't face loneliness as well? Or maybe the non career driven girls abroad are less lonely? What exactly does this have to do with her job? You think the loneliness is just about the absence of a boyfriend? Dude, the western culture makes immigrants lonely regardless of thier careers and gender, and there are many reasons for that.

You guys don't ever miss an opportunity to be sexist even in this century. If women don't do "important jobs" or pursue thier dream career, you say they're useless and that they don't bring anything to the table. When they go out there to hustle or pursue thier dreams, you'd still call it feminism and claim they're not marriable. Nawa

Are you minding them , they make it look as if it's only women that are suffering in one pain or the other ..

Most Nigeria men don't actually knows what they want.

If you are a career lady , they'll blame you , if you're jobless , they'll call you names ...

A guy will get married to his grandma's mate , his fellow gender will hail him but if reverse was the case , they'll tag her a gold digger ..

They'll ask you to build with your boyfriend, after building with him , he will reward you with multiple side chicks and emotional pains ..

Ebubu2:
it can be lonely marrying a doctor wife. Even when she’s free at home she might be reading medical books. The good thing marrying female doctors is it gives you time to cheat if you love exploring while she’s busy saving lives at hospital

Na wetin una sabi be that , to cheat and nothing more, see as you dey happy on top cheating matter but if woman cheat now , every where go dey boil , tueh for some men mentality...

Una mumu no fit die for this life ..

Some married men are the greatest simps you could ever imagined

They leave their beautiful wives and children to suffer in poverty,and they go about chasing and spending money on another men's wives..

Cheating is an expensive business, some steal from their wives to give to their side goats

Vex buy your own land ,even if it's in the village.

They've been singing it since , that a wife is not their family member ...

You better start saving your money to better your life , this man will shock you with a 2nd wife soonest..

It's high time we ladies start seeking for our
green card , green card is not meant for only Nigeria men..

Na pure American i dey find, the ones I dey see , dem no too Behind

Dey play

Ask on top wetin , na touch body go do the talking

Even devil no do reach this one

See the father one on one, don't even call him to complain about his daughter's behavior.

Na so many married men dey do , dem fit date their grandpikin

Same question every time

Congratulations 👏

I will know before you confess but you can never know my own , except ,I told you about it

We get spiritual eyes

I will forgive you but no trust again cos you will do it over and over again ..

Life no hard , na you dey give urself headache

Men are afraid of being alone

jeromestarks:
How can I be a virgin?

How many times do I have to tell you guys that virginity status is for women.

As a man, u need great sexual experience to keep your wife.
As a woman, you need purity to keep your man.

Abegi , if every woman keep her virginity , where una go see am fvck .

Na only woman need purity to keep her man , make una dey play .

If dem say na fvck dey una head , una go begin rant ...

No be say na virgin you marry , if you never marry sef , you no go still marry virgin..

Naijatask:
Isn't this the Jerome who advocate to marrying a virgin? You mean you're not actually one?

Dey believe holy holy people online 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Marry virgin , fvck matured pussy , very soon na age 90 pussy him go advice una to dey fvck..

Everybody holy online ..

No 5 ,I have been with one before but guy man con dey slack day by day .. but if you dey willing to change, why not .

Beg portable make you feature am for one of your songs

Las las na everybody go chop breakfast

I'm unavailable for the two , thanks and don't mention..

I don't know them

For how long will they keep sharing the 8k ,as if the politicians in charge of the money , will give it out to people..

Chai ! So sad , rest in peace little one..

As for your murderers , God will judge them ..

Emma1Oj:
Talk your own make Nigeria better..

How many of your talks don better Nigeria

The single ones are the ones that will answer this your question

Na wa o , how come you forgot to even search for the job on nairaland

richie240:
You're mixing up the age of marriage and d age of sexual maturity.

Yes, I can marry off my daughter off at the age of 6, it doesn't mean she's ready for sex at that age of 6. The husband can groom her till she would be ready for sex/child bearing i.e. 15/16 years. Even in Asian countries they do marriage for their children at infancy, so e nor be new thing.


You marrying early/late doesn't determine whether ur husband will turn u to 'trash later on in d future's or not. That one na another topic on its own

Na true you talk , you no lie

Dem dey keep goat and yam together

I no say na only mouth you get , you personally no go fit do am ..

It goes both ways

Everytime woman this woman that

This gender war no go ever finish

Some of you men , don't appreciate the good women in your lives , people have eyes , they're seeing everything that goes on.

Very soon , everybody go dey him dey .. 🤣🤣

Since relationship matter no wan get head agai, everybody wan play smart , he go soon tire everybody.

richie240:
Truth be told, that is how God created them: to be taken care of by the man.


If u want a faithful woman,
1) marry a virgin.
It is delusional for a man to think that a woman she married as a non-virgin is not a potential runz-gel.

2) marry her when she's still very young and impressionable ......i.e. as a teenager.
Don't mind d oyibos, they have their agenda which we mumu-ishly follow bumper-to-bumper.
The same oyibo (american) that says marriageable age for women is 18yrs na d same oyibo (british) wey talk say the marriageable age na 16yrs, but when african man marry 14/15yrs girl, fellow african go open mouth waaaaaa.

The reason to marry them young is to be able to groom them them to your desire, but if she too old b4 u marry her, instagram and tiktok would've done the training for you, and by that time, trying to mold her will be like attempting to bend an iroko tree at adulthood.

3. Be ready to marry a full housewife and be the major/sole breadwinner.
The more she goes out the more she gets hitted on by guys. If u want peace of mind, let her be a full-time housewife.

Give out your own daughter by age 6

Oshey groomers , so that you will turn them to trash later in the future...how many men do come out to shower praises on their wives ..

What this lady did , it's not different from what men have been doing to women since 19...
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I ain't in support of her behavior but men do worse to women..

Same men will say it's not necessary for a man to marry a woman that was there for him during his trying period , if paradventure the man later got married to her , the best gift the man rewards her is with a 2nd wife or multiple side chicks , causing her emotional pains every day of her life..

The world is changing, nobody wants to be fooled again ..

Instead of men to pepper their exes by showering love on their wives and let them know the good thing they're missing rather they're peppering their innocent wives at home..

A lady rejected you but you're making an innocent lady to suffer for what she did not do ..

God in heaven knows that I won't suffer for anybody's sins ... Jesus Christ has died for all..

It's until you men appreciate the good women in your lives , that's when those that are outside will sit up ..

Ndi ara