₦airaland Forum

AnamCity:
Can we see your environment what you are typing this from? People like you are actually typing from the worst form of slum somewhere in Lagos. We have seen people like you before. Stop being bitter and frustrated over another man's issue!

Fuera Pendejo! This is bigger than you. Go rumble in mud with pigs somewhere. This is not something your feeble mind can handle or comprehend.

Adelaide2:
You are a foolish charlatan. Fantom is a variant, even if archaic, of phantom. I am too educated to have the liberty to choose between/among word variants. Now buzz off with your phony non-Nigerian claim. Nobody cares about you. You probably live abroad and have become a foreign citizen. But same goes for many other Nigerians including myself. But I am still a Nigerian unlike you who now claim non Nigerian and use that decoy to bash Igbos. You have done this cowardly act for as long as you have been on this site. Stop being a coward. Dundie, dick-headed Yoruba man

You really do have mental issues. You need to see a doctor. Your inferiority complex is sickening.

AnamCity:
I think you are the one that has mental problem here. Tell us what is not planned in this well paved and planned church premises? I am sure 90% of Nigeria does not look this nice and serene. You need to see your doctor immediately!

Another mad Nigerian.

You're not expected to know what a well planned city looks like, anyway.

Adelaide2:
Fake non-Nigerian. You have been busted over and over, yet your silly strong-headedness keeps you wallowing in this fantom non-Nigerianness. Silly Yoruba goat (only goats keep repeating the same thing expecting a different outcome)

Its actually "PHANTOM", but whatever rocks your boat, crazy.

You are insane. I make a statement, you become upset and say the whole of Nigeria looks the same way (even though thats what I meant from jump). I agree with you, you then turn around and get upset that Im agreeing with you. You have mental issues and you need to either go hang yourself from the nuts or jump off a bridge. You're sounding real crazy with each passing post.

Adelaide2:
You are a silly Yoruba man claiming non Nigerian. FYI no non Nigerian would be wasting his time everyday in this kind of forum. May you xxxxx-Bleep if you are not a Nigerian of Yoruba descent. Ewu ofia

Ok, dumb oaf, I'm a silly Yoruba man claiming non Nigerian, now tell me: WHAT THE F*CK ARE YOU TRYING TO DO ABOUT IT, FA*GGOT?!

Inferiority complex and low self esteem issues, coupled with untreated Mental problems is usually the bane to your development. I am not the reason for your madness. You can f*ck off now.

Adelaide2:
Dumb urchin, your history and your ''their city'' allusion bear you out.

This is not even an aerial view of a city. It is that of a church compound. Fuckta.....rd.

You actually fit the description of Nigerians I'm right now trying to give to a colleague: Most of you have mental issues and you don't even know it. Why are you on my case? Why don't you go play in traffic or something?

Adelaide2:
No less disorganized than 99% of Nigerian cities. Stop being a bigot.

You dumb mor*on, how is my statement that of bigotry? Your whole country is mainly unplanned like you said, how the hell is that my issue?

Shows how disorganized their city planning is.

This con man is NOT dead.

blueto:
Baseless!

it was stated as ““The $2.3bn assistance will cover activities from 2015”.

that word “from” indicates the money was either totally remitted in 2015 or was there is a gradual remittance that commenced from 2015.

lets presume it is a gradual remittance, why are we not seeing or experiencing its gradual utilization in Nigeria? why is the economy retrogressing instead of progressing?

Farcical Zombies will always like to defend the undefendable.

You really think the United States will give Nigeria Billions of Dollars?

dougivilla:
I guess PMB has distanced himself from Atiku, Tinubu, Amaechi, Fashola, SLS, the CBN thief and Children molester and kidnapper etc.

What exactly is ethical by your standard?


And while you're at it, kindly also check your dictionary for the meaning of a "hypocrite" or better still change your moniker to whatever the meaning is!!

You're Nigerian. Plus you sound like you were born during/after the '90s. You're expected to be thick in the skull.

AntiWailer:
I am not talking about Channels TV or AIT journalists oo.


Try and observe and quote them call Former President Clinton or roemr President Bush. I have not heard that before when they are addressing them.

Whats Channels TV? AIT I heard of because of the scam their proprietor was involved in with the last administration.

abbeycial:
Am not ashamed of my country,
am only ashamed of omo ales calling dem self Nigerians.

Am, am, am,everything Am.

AntiWailer:
Nigerian Journalist should learn from their American Colleagues.


HE is President Goodluck Jonathan.

No need for Ex.

I have seen journalists address Bush and Clinton.

They are simply addressed as President Bush and President Clinton

Actually, no! They are referred to as "Former President" or "Mr".

This hypocritical ineffectual buffoon still won't distance himself from people shrouded in the cloak of corruption. What an unethical man. He has no principles. Just daft to the core.

aresa:
Why not just build your own bridge with your own money, toll your own bridge and use the money to fund other projects in your communities.

Lagos state built and tolled the Lekki bridge and whatever they make off the bridge funds other projects, but as it stands, you are helping the FG pay for a bridge that's never going to be yours while other people in Nigeria enjoy FG roads and bridges free of charge.

I have always asked this question and all I got in reply were insults.

So according to Peter Obi, Governance is only about sharing National Cake?

sinkhole:
That's like legalising homosexuality I dont think it can work in Africa! I, for one, will prefer not to marry, I will be doing "hit and run" all over that will result in me turning many women to single mothers (I think they have lot of that in the West?), the kids will ask for their father latter in life

Theres also something called "Child Support" out here.

medpren:
If the hausas are bent on dipping the koran in the sea through the East coast then surely there will be an armed resistance. They can look south west if they want to achieve that peacuful.

I don't think you've looked at your map lately. You're landlocked. You don't have any sea that'll entice the Quran-Dipping Hausas you've created in your head. You are paranoid.

Goke7:
Are also aware of the amount of money that leaves our shores to the fellows out there? If not why are they do bothered, yeye de smell

Your money that comes over here is minuscule and is just a drop in our economy; that's why we never have any qualms returning it after your thieving Politicians send it over.

ODUBEZE:
d same goes to GEJ only that PMB did not make an effort to understand and support him irrespective of any party affiliations!
Nigeria should come first before any party or any individual.
Unfortunately he did not see it that way.
Now that it is too late, you are here making excuses for him. PMB himself is the force and agent AGAINST change!
It is too late to cry fowl!

GEJ meant well for your country?! How? By Stealing everything in sight?

You're sick.

Buhari is the best thing that has ever happened to Nigeria.

Goke7:
I don't expect most Nigerians in the diaspora to hail PMB cos of his economic policies which are mostly not in their favour.

The days all sorts of monies fly out of our economy to them out there to sustain themselves after concluding that Nigeria is a shit hole are gone.

We need our money more here than out there, let them task the UK Govt. to address their issues more.

After Oil, the only reason most of your population hasn't died of hunger is because of the remittances Nigerians from all over the world send home to their country.

repogirl:
being overweight doesn't necessarily mean one eats too much. Some times a slow body metabolism is to blame.

If you talk about lackadaisical, then I am one. I am the type that wolfs down anything in any amount and even after three kids,I'm barely 55kg at 5ft8. I just don't gain weight. Whereas there are people who can starve themselves and shed barely nothing.

I know many curvy ladies who are very disciplined in everything they do, from diet to extra hygeine because of their weight. Some live on fruits but can only manage to shed little. It's just the way they are. They envy my own physique which I don't do a single thing to maintain.

Its the OPs choice if she wants to do this, it should be for her and not for him. She should do this because she wants to and understands she needs to do this for herself and not because she is under pressure from someone who doesn't appreciate her the way she is.

If she does this just to keep her relationship, it might end up being too much and she might end up even resenting him.

This is the way she was created, she was created curvy, she can manage it and be healthy which will be good for her but she will have to work really hard and even then, she won't be a size 8 or 10. Hope he will appreciate all the work she puts herself through instead of continuously nagging her on how she is barely shedding any weight.

She should know her real reasons for shedding the weight but it should be for her and not for someone else because no matter how hard you try,you can never satisfy human beings anyway.

I basically said everything you just regurgitated here in previous posts.

What happened to :

1. Police being called to the scene of the accident.

2. Police checking the computer databases to ensure that both drivers' particulars, licenses and vehicle registrations check out and none of them have any outstanding court warrants

3. Police writing a report and giving same to both drivers so that they can forward to their Insurance companies to handle disputes?

Oh, thats true you don't have a Database, the police are mostly illiterate, the Drivers are not much better and are very unruly, Politicians are stealing the money meant to improve the Police Force while ignorant youths praise them depending on their religion or tribe.

Nigeria is a Jungle.

ettaetta:
Didn't he see that you are fat before coming to toast you? You can visit the gym to reduce your weight but if you are naturally a fat person, you l'l stll add weight and grow fatter after giving birth.

What if she piled on the pounds as the relationship grew? This is obviously the most likely scenario from what the OP has stated because it is obvious the man doesn't like fat women. So,i would assume he met her at a lighter weigh and as she got more comfortable she packed on the pounds.

And what do you mean "Naturally Fat", nobody on earth is Naturally Fat.

TruthHurts1:
This is what a 70kg woman's body looks like:

If your fiance really loves you, he'll want you to lose weight for the right reasons (health and well-being).

He has just given you a reality check. I suggest you wake up.

Yes, if she's 5'7. But if she's like 5'1, she'll look rounder and more frumpier than that.

corisande:
i weight 5kg more than the op
but this woman in the picture is fatter than me
I'm taller than the op though and big boned.

Except you can show us a picture of a fat skeleton, then there's is nothing like "big boned". You are not "big boned".

repogirl:
Something tells me he might be looking for an excuse to break up with you.

Sas91

If after 5 years of dating, he's ready to break up the relationship because of your physique and not because you have some character flaws, that's not a good sign.

Being overweight can actually be seen as a character flaw. It can be portrayed (maybe wrongfully) that one is weak, and can't control their actions so much so that they can't control what they put in their mouth. It also shows a lackadaisical attitude in the person carrying the weight; basically someone that can't be trusted with responsibility.

Five years is a long time, yes, but in that time what has she done to make sure she's a healthy weight or appealing in the eyes of her man or is this the first time he has ever expressed his displeasure at her increasing body mass?

sas91:
Pls I need your honest opinion on this matter , i'm a lady with an average height and weighing 70kg, my fiance always complain about my weight and I know I'm trying my best working on it. But this time around he compared me with my friend and said my friend has a better body structure than I, that i'm not more beautiful as I used to be and that if I want to be his wife then I must Slim down. And so many things I can't even mention. He finally asked if I am ready to do all he wants.
my fear is did he truly love me? what if I Slim down now and even get fatter after giving birth to a baby, wld he then hate me so much? i'm confused and scared of going on with the relationship, Pls I need advice from experienced people.

Are you fat? When you look in the mirror can you look at your feet without a big bulge in the middle obscuring your view? Finally, are you happy with yourself,because if you are then that's all that matters.

Being overweight or obese is unhealthy, and in most Western Societies considered unattractive. Obesity creates a lot of health problems; arthritis, joint pains, Diabetes etc
Barring abnormal health issues, if you eat more than you expend in energy you will become fat. To keep it short: if you don't have health concerns like Hyper Thyroidism and you are fat, you are simply eating too much.

You will need to overhaul your whole eating style and also incorporate exercise into your life to get to a healthy body weight.

However, if these are changes that you don't think you can, or are not willing to, make then it's best to quit the relationship and look for someone that likes his women your body size because you will only get bigger as you get older and childbirth gets in the picture. If he's complaining now, guess what he'll be doing then?

You are what you eat.

A private citizen that defrauds the Lagos State Govt CANNOT be charged with corruption. This is so because he had no responsibility to the Public, nor was public trust placed in him.

However,if that same crime was committed by a Government Official that is corruption because he abused Public Trust.

Stealing can be an "ordinary" crime or corruption depending on who committed it.