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Take only weed, eat, drink water and live long

The dilemma is this
You choose between Depression and Drugs
Most frustrated Youths chose the later to keep going in this Buhari era

You borrow money, you no fit pay back, you dey find way to close another person shop

If truly the ex wife used juju on him, don't you think she can go extra mile to harm you?
Forget about him and stay safe

Ochason:
I will just go straight to the point because I don’t know how to write long stories. I am 33 years old, I work in a multinational company. I was in a relationship with a coworker three years ago and we were truly both in love. I thought we were going to get married really.
However, after two years of dating, this guy dumped me because he messed up with another lady at work, someone higher than both of us, a manager. He felt he had better chances with the woman cos the woman was giving him money and her car to use most times.
I felt really betrayed and ashamed cos people at work knew about us and were feeling sorry for me. However, I tried to put all of that in the past. In less than a year, he and this lady got married. Not up to a year, they were having issues. They were always fighting and it became an issue of separation which they did. Now, this guy is separated and moved out of their home. He is now trying to get back to me. I do not know if his intentions are genuine or he is trying to make his soon to be ex wife jealous. He comes to tell me how he feels the woman used jazz on him cos he cannot see what he found in her now that they are married.
He complains that the s*x is bad, she has bad attitude and she is lazy. When this guy started coming back for me early this year, I of course pushed him away. I was not going to be his second choice. He then got transferred to our Abeokuta branch in March. It was around that time he filed for divorce. That was when I heard from someone that the marriage was doomed from day one cos the man was always comparing me to his wife. The wife feels the husband is still in love with me cos nothing she does can match what I was to the man. They are divorced now. The marriage did not last up to a year.
Few days ago, I got a very long message from the man. He was basically begging me to forget his crimes against me and that I should consider him once more . He said he will move on if I do not respond to him after this last time. I am torn and do not know what to do.
There is somewhere in my heart that still has feelings for him..do you think I should give him a chance? Will the ex wife not think I had something to do with her marriage breaking up. Will it also make me look desperate …like I am going back to my vomit? What should I do?

No be only you o, we plenty with mental

For which data

What yansh cannot do does not exist

See meat wey pipo dey shout watch out instead of to find tire and firewood

Was your phone rooted?

YourWriter:
That ain't what I want with her tho

I don't see how you gonna get any other thing bro

Don't talk to her, just keep making her comfortable around you, you might end up as FWB

The ethnic cleansing is real

Corroro:
If you're fan of android, easily opt for the phantom x, it's cheaper and can get you all you need.

Dem dey talk smartphone, you come carry torch light enter

Blessing

So these are the people I suppose reason together to build a better nation

Boko Haram kill and burn village for north, enter army come kill and burn village in south.
Their plan will not work

The only infrastructure you know na 40bn clinic and 80bn feeding program where money spent to feed big pass state budget for education yet no food

For 21bn

If she can moan, manage her

No need for any advice here, she is 36 and doesn't want to answer single mum anymore so the wedding must hold by fire by force

Mercychen:
I don think so.
If you marry someone you love and are sexually attracted to, I don't see you getting tired of them.
This is why it's important to marry someone you love and have feelings for. Otherwise, you'll even get tired being around them.

I guess you are not yet married
By the time the wedding euphoria is over, the bills start coming, then children, schools and other responsibilities, you won't even remember the love and feelings.
Enjoy while you can dear

Wrong, We have identify all the grazing route in Gombe state.

Give herders your land for peace to reign

I hope your ransom money is handy

O lawd, which day someone will declare interest in the South East and all governors unite and support him

B11la2b:
I ask for 1 million as damage .. but after 3 weeks the matter was dying gradually so I had to quickly collect #200k, atall atall na witch ..

Bros, do giveaway nah, we go pray for you, next time go be 16 years old

No wonder sponsors no dey, very boring show

When you see a faithful husband, respect am. For the rest of us, we are still considering a bill to make omugwo more than 3 months

Reminds me of these 17 experiences of an average Nigerian blogger
1. Start Posting
2. Change template
3. More postings
4. Start spamming Facebook and Nairaland
5. Bans
6. Learn SEO
7.
More experience

esthel:
It's a civil case, you obtained a loan not like you defrauded the company or something. Know they will use police to threaten you but its beyond their jurisdiction. Let them take you to court.

Sure

@OP
Two options
1. Borrow another money and offset the old one while repaying the new one in instalmental

2. Let them take you to court, plea guilty and agree to pay at any rate convenient to you

3. Declare bankrupt and live with it for the rest of your life

4. Throw away the phone and go back to village (remember, the phone and all sims that has entered the phone)