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Samantha124:
The same virgin that you'll still go ahead and cheat on with someone that's not a virgin?

Come on, wake up from your slumber.

I've read stories here of guys cheating on the same wives they met as virgins with women they met already sexually active.. some would even leave their wives for such women.

I personally nursed a woman who died of depression following diagnosis of HIV.

She kept telling me, “He’s the only man I’ve known all my life”. 😢
She couldn’t believe her very godly, churchly, super-deacon husband was sleeping around to the extent of bringing home the deadly virus.

He married her a virgin. She had 7 sons for him.
Yet, he was popular outside for womanizing, despite being deep into church activities.

She died within few months of diagnosis…

Rest in peace 😢

I thought only Nigerian girls dig gold! 🤔🤧

Dumb mofos… 🙄

Congrats

pipsplus2020:
Please stay away from the second lady. You do not deserve her, you will abuse her which will in turn might hunt you. Except you are willing to change your ways, allow her live the decent life she is accustomed with.

Thank you and stay blessed!

God bless you too sir.

Tomorrow, after marrying the 1st one, he will post “Nigerian women have nothing to offer other than overused kpekus”; whereas he’s the one comparing brain and career with breast and kpekus.

It is well… 😢

Merisbankie:
OP
Talking from experience marry the first one I know what am saying
Send me the second one number Abeg

🤣

She trusts her pussy power to get her dream man, and she will.

For those commenters above saying she’ll end up a baby mama, e go shock una.

Men will even be in her dm with proof of ability to provide, right now… 🤧

23jerryking:
This is nowhere close to the truth, I cook better than most girls in my neighbourhood and I'm also a very techy and geeky guy. All my brothers and I are good cooks too as we learnt from a very young age, mama had no female child so we do virtually everything. We're both the boys and girls of the house so I say it's a matter of choice. Even through our influence a lot of girls here became tech-inclined too. You limit yourself to cooking only and that's your business, the modern world requires more than this from you girls.

Mama’s situation of not having a female child made you guys great cooks!

Same way I have a friend who has 6 younger sisters.
The dad had to intentionally teach them everything technical there can be in the house.

They manage the big generators in the house, including changing of oil and plugs.
Change tires and all.
They basically are able to do every minor repair needed in the house.

And to the op, I’ve always asked on here; what kind of girls do y’all chase?
You chase your slay Queen and come on here to badmouth all ladies, when in fact you’ve only met what you deserve. 🥱

DMerciful:
You have to accept that she's an indigenous northerner so saying she should behave like the Romans when in Rome is uncalled for.

They have no right to kill her, there's no evidence that her comments wasn't exaggerated. As a citizen, she has the right to life and fair hearing.

We must not justify jungle justice under any condition. Common, she was stoned and burned to death. What are you talking about?

😢

Not taking sides with the notorious killers we live with.

But then, even an Igbo man who understands Hausa language will cringe at her statement on that WhatsApp group; knowing how the Muslims in sokoto behave.

I actually had chills listening to her VN… 😢

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His cell in prison is being completed! 😤

Travails of a first son! 😢

Op, you’ve done nothing wrong.

It is well… 🙏🤲

Good for him.

The quest to be the all plus all to a lady who can be pushed around, is what gets most men into such bullsh*t!

Worst part is Nigerian parents who allow their daughter move in with a man, before marriage.
E don deep pass red flag sef… 😢

pansophist:
You see why rich avoid the poor like plague. It's because of dirty, shameless attitudes like this.

Because no matter how you feel, your wallet is the fuel that keeps the relationship going, so be vigilant and don't fall in love unthinkingly. I mean, she is broke and can date a financial capable man like you, that's female privilege.

It’s no longer about them being poor, as being poor isn’t a sin.

It’s the shamelessness from a family, with the worst part being the father who should have some dignity to protect.

Even while reading, I was annoyed.

I think it’s just one of the “let my people go” graduates, who also happens to be a privileged kid; trying to make a good, hardworking individual feel less of himself.

Glad you handled him well…

leroi01:
Hehehe...back in the day...2017 precisely.
I'd aced all tests and interviews for a middle management position with a financial consulting firm (big one).

It was time to meet the MD for the last chat.

HR and his secretary already told me I had the best evaluation results the company ever saw (wasn't surprised ) and the man was looking forward to seeing me.

Myself, oh..well... Let's get it started.

Had a zoom meeting. MD was a young dude taking over from his pops..

Introduced myself etc etc and then, Bam! He asked me-. So... They told me you are smart. I saw your scores. If you are that smart how come you did not graduate with a first class?

Me - excuse me?

He goes ahead - you graduated with 4.4... (looks at transcript) ...how come..you didn't make a first class?

Touchy subject for me cos it was blood sweat and tears. But I smiled and answered , well, if circumstances were different .. I might have, but that right there is what I have.

Him "hmm". Your cv says you've held this position at this place. I know the chairman. Are you sure or I should call him.

I shrug. and smile- As you please sir.

He grunts , then- " you look like trouble. You seem arrogant. You are not humble. The impression I get is almost like you are doing is a favour by attending this interview.

I'm shocked and now pissed. So.. I say...well, sir. I am humble but also confident in myself and my abilities. You have a wrong impression of me (but in my head I'm thinking ... Bros.. if you have nothing reasonable to ask me, Ogbeni... Don't waste my time)

Next - Are you married? No.

Why- Personal reasons

Him-This is an interview. Answer the question.

I smile - Personal reasons.


He looks at me - I don't think we need a secretive person for this role.

I smile- I thought confidentiality was one of the top requirements for the role.

He's pissed but nods.

He asks me- what do you know about this company, I tell him.

He sneers and talks down at me saying I didn't do my homework bla bla.

Last last, he asks if I have any questions , "just 1" I respond.

So I ask. From your perspective as the MD , what can you tell me about your company and its value proposition?

Dude is gobsmacked, he tells me that's a stupid question.

I smile (and decide to be an A.hole) - Is it? I respond? It's your company, is there...a probl. Well never mind. I thought it will be best to hear it from the visionary himself.

Somewhat flustered... He struggles and stammers through 3 minutes of talking rubbish.

Manages to end the interview with some platitudes.. but I already knew it wasn't gonna happen....plus Nah! I don't want to work here.

Looking back that was the most annoying.

😭

Your mind is being messed up badly by the contents you’re feeding it.

Watch what you’re reading, listening to and believing…

theophorus:
Abeg leave people wen dey mock Employees to continue doing so.

Ordinary shoe cobbler go dey claim entrepreneur.
Persin dey sell "Gala and Lacasera" dey claim entrepreneur.
Persin dey sell Okrika dey claim entrepreneur.

If not be all these underpaying Jobs wen dey pay #20k per month, bases for comparison for no dey.

You don ever hear Japa crew claim entrepreneur things for UK?

Even Toilet washer self dey happy.

🤣

Cute babies loading 😍

God bless the union… 🤲

N3TRAL:
I'm sad 😭

My life has no meaning 😭

There’s a virgin out there, loaded with virtues to make your life meaningful.

Looks lost and sadder… 🥱

Such insanity! 😟

slam7000:
If it’s El Rufai and wife.....is it mama Bashir that gave birth?

Obviously a younger wife naa.

See as she be like Bashir age mate…

Madness!

I earnestly pray God gives him the grace to meet the expectations of his people. 🙏🤲

E no easy. Hope choke… 😢

Speedy recovery… 🤲

Armaggedon:
Anything to trend
Mods pls amend the title of the thread

They make it sound like he has a beef with them, whereas “he pleaded” to be excused as his attention was needed inside.

Smartguyboy:
Such only happens when a 9-5 guy want to date a hookup girl or yahoo boy left over girl 👧.

You get the drift! 👏

His fellow 9 to 5 ladies are probably boring to him too, and here he is complaining.

LeoDeKing:
If that is the dp of the guy deserted by the lady, I support her.

He actually looks quite effeminate. 🤧

One man’s food, another’s poison.

What some are looking for, others are letting go of… 😢

Congrats to them.

1x2x3:
It may be needed somewhere around the world on May 29

🤣

thesicilian:
Lol.
Funny but accurate af.
What many men don't know is there are many ladies out there who are average looking, well mannered and ready to be with you for better or for worse. Some may even be naturally more beautiful than 'Precious.' But the lure of packaging will always confuse superficial guys like Ken.

They want a baddie, the hottest girl in town; who knows how to live lavish, with the right angles of camera for every moment.

Then they come to shout Nigerian girls offer nothing. 🤧

Jennyclay:
All I have to tell your friend is that, he should stay away from a relationship because I’m sure the salary isn’t up to 80k.

So if he spends half of his salary on just transport, how would he take good care of his girlfriend .

He shouldn’t come and put someone’s daughter in abject poverty Biko!!

Jenny, zukwanike… 🤣

MrDoGood:
You for talk say na your sone you dey promote. I beg, watin I just listen to?

😂