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Literature › Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by ivolt: 7:26pm On Oct 16, 2017

lenghtinny:
The reason they hide is because of the attitude of the general public towards these kind of incidents, in other words stigmatization...

The world is not perfect and anybody who wishes to make it right will have to pay
the price. There is, unfortunately, a price to pay for change(in this case stigmatization).
I have never come across a story where change was effected without sacrifice.

Imagine you going to the police station to report this offence, what do you think will be the reaction of the average policemen at the counter will be?

The average policeman will probably laugh you off as being unserious, but it
is your determination that can alter their perception.

I remember earlier this year, two girls raped a boy in South Africa and recorded it on video. People were mocking the poor boy while others wished they were in his shoes (even on Nairaland).
Anytime male rape cases happens in Zimbabwe, you see males asking how much is the ticket to Zimbabwe.

When you saw such heartless comments, did you make any attempt to correct the ignorant dolts making it?
What many people who averse to such reactions do is ignore the comments while others vow to
retaliate if such happens to a female in the future. Neither of such approaches work, the effective way to
combat such is outright condemnation.

This is due to the fact the society has painted sex as a big favor from the female folks to the male folks. So technically, A female cannot rape you according to them but when it comes to females, they start screaming consent.

Remember, there is nobody whose name is "society", whatever attitude that is prevalent
in a society must be benefiting most people in such environment, it is up to the few to
point out the absurdities of such acts

Rape is generally viewed as forceful sex by a male against a female victim. So it's kind of awkward seeing a female rapist against a male victim.
Trust me the kind of stigmatization a male victim suffers is way more than that of a female victim.[/color]

It doesn't matter what kind of stigmatization a victim will face, I bet the first female
rape reporter faced a substantial stigma(they still do). If it continues to be swept under
the carpet, nothing will change.
Even this guy who refuses to name the aggressor is part of the problem because
when she reads this story and realised she was the one, the message she will get
is that she can continue her harassment and no man will have the courage to name her.

Rights are not given freely, they are forcefully snatched.

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Literature › Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by ivolt: 6:20pm On Oct 16, 2017*

missyadorable:
How can a man complain about being offered sex?
something they always want
something they do every possible thing to have?

A man complaining of molestation with sex is a mad man.....

Period

I hope you are typing this from yaba left
because a mentally-balanced person can't type this rubbish.

Get well soon!

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Literature › Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by ivolt: 6:15pm On Oct 16, 2017*

Kobicove:
Truly women get away with a lot of things under the guise of being "the weaker sex"

No, females don't get away with a lot of things,
it is the coward male who refuse to report that gave them such
license.

If no woman ever reported a male rapist, the rapist will get away
with it. Same thing applies to a man who refuses to report a female rapist
but is quick to bring it up to gain sympathy or delegitimize campaign against
sexual violence.

Society can never progress when victims hide under their bed while throwing
occasional stones outside.

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Literature › Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by ivolt: 6:05pm On Oct 16, 2017

biacan:
He's not even happy that someone is taking him serious

Very stupid comment.

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Literature › Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by ivolt: 6:04pm On Oct 16, 2017

biacan:
He's not even happy that someone is taking him serious

sarutobie:
You see the hypocrisy of the female folk? That is why I take whatever they say with a pinch of salt..and even when they cry foul,every wise male should..

When does "biacan" = the female folks?

The view of a woman does not give you the right to disparage all women,
neither does he confer you with the license to encourage and support molestation.

SMH

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Literature › Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by ivolt: 6:03pm On Oct 16, 2017

I hate this kind of sissies.
You were sexually-harrassed, you kept mute and did nothing about
it so the stupid woman can be called out and sanctioned.

Even when you decided to share your story, you couldn't name the offender
but you kept harping on about double standards.

Are your audience supposed to be able to read your mind?

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Politics › Re: Who Was Olaudah Equiano? Google Marks 272nd Birthday Of Abolitionist by ivolt: 2:58pm On Oct 16, 2017

cstr1000:
Shut the hell up. How many etsako slaves are in the new world?
What is the correlation between etsako and igbo also known as eboes in ancient West africa?
And who is the greatest etsako man in the past 100 years ,that the greatest slave from Africa would come from there?
We hear of the Igbo landing in Virgina where thousands of Igbo slaves resisted slave masters to the death. Give me an example of an etsako landing.?
I know you are a Yoruba trying to be mischievous. Go and resolve your historical servitude to bini kingdom before coming to tell us who is Igbo and who is not.

You are too dumb to my liking.
Mention me, when you are ready for an intelligent debate
based on verifiable evidence.

Politics › Re: Who Was Olaudah Equiano? Google Marks 272nd Birthday Of Abolitionist by ivolt: 2:55pm On Oct 16, 2017

Ngozi123:
Olaudah Equiano was always proud of his Igbo heritage and never claimed that he was a Benin man so what are you talking about here?

Sources, please?
Don't swallow everything you read on blogs.

Celebrities › Re: Photos Of Rita Dominic And Sola Sobowale by ivolt: 2:15pm On Oct 16, 2017

Realali:
When are you going to get marry ma'ma

I suggest you focus on your own life.

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Politics › Re: Who Was Olaudah Equiano? Google Marks 272nd Birthday Of Abolitionist by ivolt: 2:10pm On Oct 16, 2017*

BudeYahooCom:
[s]Great Igbo man from Iseke, a community in Ihiala local government of Biafra. [/s]

Stop twisting history.
Olaudah was a Benin man from etsako area.

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Politics › Re: Google Clebrates Olaudah Equiano's 272nd Birthday With Image by ivolt: 1:21pm On Oct 16, 2017*

TheKingIsHere:
Lol, I thought he said he was a bristish slave? You guys like to distort history.

Nigerians, being a very ignorant bunch never cross-check any news they
read, especially if it fits within their parochial worldview.

Olaudah and his sister were kidnapped from etsako area of Benin
in present-day Edo state and were sold to slave merchants.
Olaudah eventually got to the USA as a slave.

He left the USA after being freed and settled in Britain as a freedman, he
was not a British slave.

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Politics › Re: Google Clebrates Olaudah Equiano's 272nd Birthday With Image by ivolt: 12:01pm On Oct 16, 2017

Olaudah was a benin slave, it was clearly stated in his biography.

Politics › Re: Buhari’s Presidency: We’ve Nothing To Show For Being In Power –North by ivolt: 9:32am On Oct 16, 2017

Nonsense.
They are indirectly campaigning for 2019.
Let us make Buhari look incompetent so that others
will feel that we deserve the presidency come 2019.

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Politics › Re: Army Ends Operation Python Dance In South-East by ivolt: 9:25am On Oct 16, 2017

This is no license for trouble makers to resume their intimidation
and socially-restrictive rallies.

Politics › Re: Bisi Akande Embarrassed Us With His Comments On Buhari, 2019 - Southwest APC Gov by ivolt: 9:21am On Oct 16, 2017

How can a governor who wants to sets the record straight be hiding
his name.
He either doesn't exist or he is a coward giving his own personal opinion.

Celebrities › Re: Dangote Carried Baby Davido Home After His Christening - Aig-imoukhuede Reveals by ivolt: 9:52pm On Oct 15, 2017

DIKEnaWAR:
Whenever Nigerians want to write biographies, know that it is an opportunity to lie. They will keep painting themselves in good light as if they are without blemish.

I hope the biographer tells us how Dangote became the refuse dump of most looted monies in Nigeria. I hope they also tell us how he shortchanges the government in tax payment and all.

How is this peculiar to Nigerians?
No sane person will pay a writer to paint him/her in a bad light.

Christianity Etc › Re: Virgin Mary Appears In Edo State During Catholic Conference - CBCN (Photos) by ivolt: 7:37pm On Oct 15, 2017

KunkAcid:

VIRGIN MARY?

When she purportedly appeared did she introduce herself as a virgin or you guys got someone to examine her for proof of virginity?

So after giving birth to Jesus and other children whom Joseph the carpenter fathered, her hymen was never broken right

The level of madness and ignorance being portrayed by these Orthodox religious sycophants is quite unforgiving.

Bunch of Idol worshippers claiming churchie!

Nonsense!

what is the difference between people who worship 1 idol and those who worship many?
They are all delusional.

Crime › Re: I Bought 15 Cars, Built 4 Houses With My Human Parts Business – 67-Year-Old Man by ivolt: 6:25pm On Oct 15, 2017

Fake news.
Where are the cars and houses?
This man looks more like a mentally-unbalanced kwashiokor patient
than a successful businessman

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Celebrities › Re: Tagbo’s Death: Police Investigating Davido As His Response Is Suspicious - CP by ivolt: 6:08pm On Oct 15, 2017

I called for further investigations, pulled the CCTV cameras from the General Hospital, only to discover that it was Davido’s escort Hilux van

Dumb policemen everywhere.
Davido's car is not the same as Davido.
Charge him to court if you have any evidence.

Phones › Re: See The Countries That Use The Most Gigabyte by ivolt: 4:11pm On Oct 15, 2017

olayinkajnr:
Mr Man, I want to believe that you are the one with a warped mentality. I posted based on what the dude that quoted me said. Next time, try to read a preceding post before showing how ignorant you are. Ode!!

I am trying to help you since you apparently lacked comprehension skills.
The guy you quoted never claimed the youths of other countries are better(whatever that means),
he merely corrected your ill-informed opinion.

But as expected, you injected two unrelated issues which weren't part of
the original discussion, a behavior peculiar to simpletons.

Crime › Re: Woman Battered By Her Husband On Their Way To Church (Graphic Photos) by ivolt: 2:46pm On Oct 15, 2017

Bullhari007:
now you published it and thrown her out of her matrimonial home, OGA human right go and marry her... some women has pig brain.. TUFIAKWA

The most important thing is being alive and happy.
An abusive home is like hell, sane people run from it.

Crime › Re: Woman Battered By Her Husband On Their Way To Church (Graphic Photos) by ivolt: 2:44pm On Oct 15, 2017

Some "husbands" are nothing more than slave masters.

It is usually worse when the wife is financially dependent on
the man and can't survive alone.
Abusive men know this and use it as an object of blackmail.

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Politics › Re: 2019 Elections; Nigeria Will Collapse If North/buhari Continue Ruling - ACF by ivolt: 2:16pm On Oct 15, 2017

months:
THERE WILL BE NO NIGERIA EITHER WAY.

IF U THINK THE ARMY IN SE IS PREVENTING BIAFRA MAYBE U NEED A DEMONSTRATION COM NOV WEN THE ELECTORATE WILL OBSERVE A SIT AT HOME.

SW AND NORTH SHOULD BE NIGERIA TOGETHER AND ALONE.

SS/SE ARE ON THEIR WAY OUT.

Chestbeater, you will offer more excuses next year on why your phantom
agitation resulted in failure.
The people I pity are the illiterates who radio biafra has been swindling.

Enjoy your keyboard fame.

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Labour Rejects N30,000 Minimum Wage Offer By House Of Representatives by ivolt: 2:09pm On Oct 15, 2017

PissedOffWeed:
reject it abeg!!!!!

My friend in Australia gets paid 10$ per hour for just serving at an eatry!

That's #3500 per hour... He works 5 hours a day due to school

That's 17K a day minimum

This country is so so fuckingly gibberish!!!!!!

Did you ask your friend how much he spends per month(housing, food ect)?

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Celebrities › Re: Iyabo Ojo: "I Can’t Marry A Poor Man, No Love Without Money" by ivolt: 2:04pm On Oct 15, 2017

VivaLaFrans:
What kind of poverty do you mean... How rich should the guy be... See who wants to marry rich man... Local celebrity... I blame Nigerians for patronizing l[b]ocal village celebrities[/b]

Iyabo Ojo we know, who are you, international celebrity?

Celebrities › Re: Iyabo Ojo: "I Can’t Marry A Poor Man, No Love Without Money" by ivolt: 2:02pm On Oct 15, 2017

victorioushands:
And you think your words are from "power of positive thinking?'

Lol.

All you spoke here about yourself poverty and poverty. It smells like you were born into it and it has refused to leave you, hence the vehement rejection as if it will make it leave you.

Hahahaha

Why are you angry that he doesn't want to associate with poverty?

Celebrities › Re: Iyabo Ojo: "I Can’t Marry A Poor Man, No Love Without Money" by ivolt: 2:01pm On Oct 15, 2017

Nigeriadondie:
So those who are poor are poor by choice abi?
Is her father a rich man?

Nigeriadondie:
So those who are poor are poor by choice abi?

Yes, being poor and remaining poor is a product of long-term choices.

Celebrities › Re: Iyabo Ojo: "I Can’t Marry A Poor Man, No Love Without Money" by ivolt: 1:58pm On Oct 15, 2017

Blade50002:
What makes this dummy think that a confident man with money would want her? She's a clown.

Fortunately, confident men don't hold a meeting to decide who to marry.
Every man for himself.

Celebrities › Re: Iyabo Ojo: "I Can’t Marry A Poor Man, No Love Without Money" by ivolt: 1:56pm On Oct 15, 2017

hopyroll:
And we know your background ooooo
If not for Mukaray, where would you be today?
Omo ale, olosho jatijati
You can ask Tonto dike, tiwa savage wetin happened to their rich marriage.

Even tokunbo women no dey do yanka
Na second hand naija used like u come dey form paparazzi.
Abeg gerrarahere.

There is no such thing as "tokunbo woman".
You either measure up to her standard and like her or you don't.

Neither Tonto nor Tiwa married rich husband and that contributed
to their marital problems.

She is not forcing anyone to accept her.

Celebrities › Re: Emeka Ike: My Ex-Wife Loved Watching Women Who Killed Their Husbands & Children by ivolt: 9:07pm On Oct 14, 2017

monex:
pray educate me on why it is not slanderous if false? Are perjury and slander mutually exclusive?

sueing for slander doesnt change public opinion. You will know how it feeld when somebody falsely rubishes your image.

honestly, I kinda beleive he must have beaten her for her to be ready to walk out but if she lied then it is ok for him to try and clear his name.

Saying his wife is a potential killer even [b]if[/b]true is not an attempt
to clear his name but a means to drag her name into the mud. Counter-accusation
is not a proof of innocence.

Thinking about this interview, his intent is clear, which is "if I make
her look evil, people will think I am the victim".

From what I read somewhere, the wife actually moved to a lower
class residence compared to Emeka's abode, what sane woman will
do this to her "loving" husband?

Emeka was in the court when she testified to his abusive behaviours,
he had a chance to prove otherwise but the court believed the wife
because he had nothing sensible to say other than disparaging her character
in return.

If sueing for slander doesn't change public opinion will granting interviews
that makes him look like a bitter fool change it?

Phones › Re: See The Countries That Use The Most Gigabyte by ivolt: 8:55pm On Oct 14, 2017*

olayinkajnr:
Why should I keep mum when this is a public forum and everyone is entitled to his/her opinion. Can't you voice out your opinion without vomiting insults from your mouth? Can't you voice out your opinion without being harsh?

People like you are the reason why others with one or two opinions don't voice out.

Back to your quote, we also have youths in Nigeria or Africa that download movies and games in size over 15gb in a day too.

Stop acting as though youths over there are better than you and don't tell someone to keep mum next time. That sounds bullyish.

Africans with their backward mentality.

You have a very warped mentality and are commenting based on ignorance.
The quoted figures are the average for each country, not individual usage and
the topic says : See The Countries That Use The Most Gigabyte not
countries with better youths as you are insinuating.

Learn to comment based on the topic and content!

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Celebrities › Re: Emeka Ike: My Ex-Wife Loved Watching Women Who Killed Their Husbands & Children by ivolt: 8:20pm On Oct 14, 2017

monex:
She said he used to beat her. maybe he never laid hands on her.

he's bitching though

She told the court why she wanted divorce which is because
"he used to beat her".
That is in no way slanderous and if it is, he could sue her but
he didn't.

Nobody walks away from a happy marriage.

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