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@Jallow
You never cease to amaze me. Just where did you get that?
Girl I saw one of theese "jiggle it" song that is so hot that I can't post it here.
It was just a dancer but she was dancing too rude, I mean it should strictly be a bedroom thing and not fit to be shown in public.
How the musician featured that in the video, I don't even understand. I will forward it later to your mail box. I came across this Leftside featuring Sean Paul that looks nice. Here it is


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-CXguzR3y-M

She mad orrrrrr what?
Why go berserk over a man she is not even married to when she can walk away. The way she went about it is fearfully possesive enough to drive the man a million miles away from her. What prevents her from walking away from him if he wants to be bedding everybody-------she is madly fixated in the relationship and may even go mad if the man ends up marrying another woman tomorrow.

Kennyblues: Just wondering, ever since she came back from Germany trip, she neither said a word nor appeared to us on tv. Oh my dear mama.

Seriously?
So Igbanyere aka n'ukwu n'aju n' onwelu onye nuru onu Peshe?? (So you put hand for your waist tanda there dey ask weda anybody hear from Peshe) Bwahwahwahwah

Anyway sha the last time I heard from her she said that she wan go Mposhi (t*ilet/ladies/restroom). Are you happy now?
N'ekwanu m anya bikonu (una see me-o-o see this kind kweshon sef)

Whew! Are they dating? Didn't know that they are, they do look good together even though I joked in another thread that naija babes shouldn't let her steal Iyana.
These Ghana Babes too like Naija men-o-o. Lol

Poster

You and your wife are just like the different spikes of a jigsaw puzzle that needs to come together to fit.
You are different beings, it does seem like you didn't really learn each other well while courting but with tolerance and understanding you can still be in harmony.

*Her failure to do things your way-------you need to understand that she mustn't do everything your way.

*Preparing late time meals-----you need to understand the nature of her job and help out with domestic work where you can. There is nothing wrong with a man helping with cooking. A friend of mine had her birthday some days ago, her husband made breakfast and served her in bed. Baked cake for her and cooked all her meal for the whole day. Some days when she is at work and he is home before her, he begins the preparation of the meal. She comes home sometimes to meet him cooking and completes the cooking herself.

*The choice of church-----you both have to be mature about that and choose a place for the whole family to be attending. If she is stuck on the church she was raised in, you can meet in the middle and let her attend hers sometimes. In my culture, a woman follows her husband to his church. Nowadays liberal/refined men allow their wives to still attend the ones they are stuck on sometimes, some men even go out of their way to sometimes go with her to her church just for everybody to be happy. In a situation like that it is important that the kids be considered so that they don't get confused with distinct/very different religious view. They will need to understand that even though this church worships God this way and that church the other way that they are all worshipping God in other words you or your wife shouldn't teach them that your daddy's or your mummy's church worships in this way or that way and may go to hell so the more mature and peaceful you go about the church thing the better.

*Her complaint that you are an introvert and stays indoors----there is a need for both of you to meet somewhere on this aspect. You have to sometimes go out and socialize with her (like visit friends) so that she doesn't feel cocooned or locked up in your marriage.She needs to be able to enjoy your "stay at home" moments with you sometimes. You also said that she wears top class wears and you don't---sometimes you can find top class wears too and wear to give her the "Me and my husband are so classy" kind of feeling too, don't leave her feeling like you guys are mismatched or something.

*Her complaint of your s-ex drive-----I understand that hot bloodedness of young men, you still have to consider her and be sensitive to her needs as well as respect her wishes when she can't flow with you and it isn't only when you are h-orny that you get to be nice to her . If you ain't doing that she will not have said it, try to be loving at all times.

*Her complaint that you don't give enough care to her family------indeed you are right that that isn't your obligations. She seems not to understand that and until she does she will keep having that against you so find a way to enlighten her on that even if it means her hearing it from another source like a book or from nice links forwarded to her e-mail box or something or even websites like this forum where such topics have been discussed before.

*Her complaint that your mum has overstayed----there is a limit to a visit, if you or your wife is no more comfortable with having a relative in your home you/your wife have a right to your home.

*Hey! The "her refusal to be submissive part is not very clear"------I hope that you are not lording things over her too much and expecting her to bow down to your ways because a woman has got to be submissive. She is human too and have her own mind which is why both of you should be considering each other---some young men misunderstand their roles as men and think that being aggressive and bossy is what makes a man the man in his home but such attitude only cause disharmony in the home.

You seem like a goodly young man that wants his marriage to work and I will like to see your marriage work too. A jigsaw puzzle has many parts that when they come together fits and harmonizes and when you and your wife come together, I am sure that you will fit and be happy so try fitting in these parts of the puzzle together with her in love.

This sounds like a "sweeten-up-the-blog" kind of story made up by bloggers to get people talking on their blog.
There is still a probability that this kind of stuff can happen in our "deceive-them" all religious environment, if it really happened then the lady in question already has the solution when she said that she can't keep her life on hold for him considering the fact that he lied to her and set her up like that.

seunadegoke: @ Ujujoan

I don’t see how my post is confusing, I tried to explain as much as I could.

I am not so bent on having her there, but for once, I don’t want any trouble especially with MIL, and also I don’t want to be blamed for something I didn’t do. For example, few months back, my fiancé came to visit me because I wasn’t feeling too well, his mom called him, he put his mom on speaker and she heard my voice at the background, so immediately the woman ask him where he is, and “he said I came to visit my fiancée”, the next thing she said is quoted “must you always go and visit her, that Seun has put your head under her, always controlling you” so already she has that negative mindset against me that I am controlling her son. And this is why I am trying to avoid her trouble and I don’t think there is anything wrong in that. I’m only trying to let peace reign. Like I said I’m not bent on having her there, I only just asked for people’s advice that what should I do and not to be criticize.

This post of yours above reminded me of the movie "Monster-in law" cause some of you are already acting out the script. There is jealousy brewing here. A mother that is afraid of losing her son and a bride caught in between. You have to follow her with sense. You may need to make her your friend, be understanding when she feels insecure and jealous. Both of you need to meet at a place where she understands that you are not there to steal her son's affection and control their lives, only at a place like that can there be peace between you and her.

@Seunadegoke
You may need to clean off some stuffs in your post that may brew trouble for you, if somebody that knows you comes across your post and puts two and two together----your MIL is from Ilesha, you are from Ife, they are from Lagos thing thing thing and tells your MIL that you are sharing this online----more katakata fit burst o. Just saying.

She (MIL) is damn too controlling and should know that this isn't her wedding. People won't change their tradition because she attends MFM, she sure can close her eyes to the kolanut etc that she doesn't want to see and simply perform her motherly duties that day. Yeah, your man shouldn't forbid her from your wedding/trad marriage. You can have a mature person (definitely not your mother or she may cram up again and think that you guys are taking her and her son over. Lol) talk to her and make her understand that she is overstepping stuffs.

Girl! You've got a whole lot on your plate cause it looks like she may want to demand what gender of grand babies she wants . This kind of person is better put in her position now lest she wants to mash up everybody in the future. A solid "Hey mama, don't overstep" from her son may keep her in check enough to let you guys live your lives, at least next time she arises to roar and remember that she won't be allowed to walk all over anybody, she will chill for sure. You also need to cut out that "all pastor's confirmation" stuff. Jeez girl you sounded like you may be running to them pastors to seek the perfect positionings for you and your hubby when you start making babies . Seriously, don't crown these people kings over your life. They are not God, they are humans like you and you sure can use your brain and discernment to decide on things instead of running to pastors, some of whom will collect money to divine for you and tell you their whims which you assimilate like bible. Let up on that dearie.

Wey all my Nigerian gyals? Abeg make una no allow Yvonne come steal that our handsome Iyanya. We no go gree-o, we no go gree. Yvonne Nelson we no go gree! Hahaha

Wetin dey do that Yvonne girl sef, she's always feeling like "I am better than all dem gyals x 10. Make I catch her there sef. Yeye girl. She no get eye see all the Ebony black handsome Ghana fellas. Na our chocolatey Iyanya she wan come steal again-o-o. Hehehe! Abeg no mind me-o-o Ojare, Babe just dey feel naughty right now.

The Tiwa lady is such a graceful lady. When she holds her shoulder the way she does it can't help but be a delightful sight.
I just like the way she carries herself. Excellent carriage!
Now only a graceful lady knows a graceful lady when she sees one . Hahaha!

Wait o-o-o I just observed something. If that is the surgeon in the picture above then his eyes might be what caused the mispointed bobbinas. Look at his eyes, the positioning of his iris & pupils look abnormal like he can't see well or something. Little wonder he said that that abnormal bobbinas looked okay to him. Jay ho vah! The model was used for some sight experiment or something.

Vikin: WTF! Perdon my ignorance, and here am I thinking of giving birth the natural way. I guess I go back to reconsider C-section. I no want anything to happen to my vigivigi .

Vigivigi!
You funny-o-o woman but the picture of that woman below ain't funny at all.
How in this world did that surgeon play with the poor woman's n*pples and have them that randomly positioned. Was he drunk or high on something when he surged her up? The bad side of having others "man-handle" ones body. Jeez!

jchime: If you had met this man in the hospital, you will be drenched with tears. He has been in park lane hopistal for over six months. I was on call yesternight in the hospital, i spoke with him that same yesternight and in the wee hours of the morning today, the consultant asked me to go and put back his artificial oxygen but he refused, saying he is no longer comfortable with the oxygen and that he is tired of this life. I had to leave, few minutes later, the wife rushed into the doctors lodge crying,i had to rush down to the ward only to see the man struggling for breath. I did everything i could to resuscitate him but all was to no avail.
During the course of his sickness, he developed retinopathy,he was diabetic initially which led to the amputation of his leg. The man really suffered. The funny part is that his hospital bills is running in million.

Just like I thought----that he might have been too saddened. Poor dear.
High time hospitals started a special section that will be devoted to encouraging demoralized and saddened patients. Nowadays I am hearing too many stories about people who get too sick and ravaged by illness that some even opt to kill themselves. We need to be sensitive to the unhappiness of such persons and the people around like the hospital staffs and relatives should ensure that such depressed patients are cheered up. Jeez, this is saddening but he is dead and resting so I will cheer up and wish that God consoles the hearts of his loved ones and family.

jamp: Wrestling is pure acting but I enjoy it

Yeah some stuffs therein do look choreographed but I think that WWE is simply Raw as the name indicates. "Anything can happen" and it's so natural.

I was saddened by the news of his amputation and was hoping that he recovers and come to adapt good only to hear that he died.
Did he get too unhappy over his lost leg or did his illness worsen? Gosh! May he rest in peace, poor dear.

He was a good actor that brought across the Igbo experience/culture to us all. Rest dearie.

How many hours ago did he just die that they have to bury hot blood, Chei!
Dem for leave am make i m blood cool down and all life drain out of it before burying. This will be shocking to his family, dead and buried within hours. Moslems sha, guess they have to do what they have to do (their culture of course). Life sef! shakes my head

Redcliffe's NDA (Defence Academy) design is very lovely. I like it.

2sexy: btw, you have my email dont you? Na wa 4 u ooo.

You angry with me orrrr?
Now don't be mad at me sweet boy. Muah Muah!

Yorme and Redcliff have sophisticated looking designs I must say. I am happy for the winners and all participants too. Great skills there!

This Seun man smart sha, get beta business sense join. Make your money Sir.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=adhWGnUYYkU

Jallow you will like these dancers

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=neocSpHUmIY

Gal yu fi sidung sidung pon buddy.
Love when you balance like an acrobat Drop it like a earthquate
Jiggle like the after shock
Action we say, we don't talk alot
nuh bag a chat, serious like a heart attack

Leave it to him to decide. He can always be blessed with a grandson and he doesn't seem to be worrying about that.It doesn't really matter what gender one gets even when we sometimes prefer this and that.

I know this middle aged lady that had only 2 daughters and is happy without a boy. She just got a grandson the other day too and is still happy with what she has. Let's not kill ourselves over the gender of babies, whether we have or don't even have at all. Just be happy and enjoy your life.

@2Sexy
Nnaa wetin be the name of that other big boys Domain Forum you mentioned to me. I want to be part of it.

I told you so Lady Ell. I told you that this can be real huge. I am happy for you dear.
I hope this works good for you. Fly girl!

Woyiiiiii! I told you so Lady Ell. I told you in your other thread that this can be real huge. I am happy for you dear.
I hope this works good for you. You go, you go!

[quote author=Okija_juju]When once we are done with having kids, she's going to the gym to shed weight, then get a boob job... We have already agree to this.. I will also get a six packs.[/quote]You will go get packaged six packs and firm pointed boobs off the grocery. Good for you dude.

shymexx: Bosom is overrated!

It looks good in the bra, however, it's worthless when the action kicks off.... Bosoms always end up getting saggy and sour, anyway..

Big batty on the hand is a different story entirely esp. when you hit it from that back...

Hush Shymexx, you talk too much.
You are damn too nasty!

A man should be mature and man enough to accept his aging partner along with her aging body. Detesting the boobs because they have gone saggy is just like rejecting the partner because they are old. There's no doubt that a woman who gets her boobs or weight or even looks disapproved of by her mate may experience unhappiness over that. A man should be able to look at his wife and even if her bosoms are saggy be able to see through that to remember the sacrifice a woman made with her body in order to bear him kids.

It is still a matter of choice for people when it comes to implants----some women that did it are happy with their new look while I've read of some with stories of woes and regrets over going under the knife. If I were a man, a breast with implants will piss me off and disgust me but that is me, other people will find that s-exy and attractive.
Couples should love each other through the years and through the young and old weather. A woman shouldn't run after younger men because her husband is getting old or nag him to go under the knife to look younger etc neither should a man desert his woman or find her disgusting because she is getting old and saggy and persuade or nag her into getting implants, tummy tucks and stuff.

JallowBah: Bulls.
Some men are actually quite capable and smart enough to see that the sagging breas*ts their wife have, is because she was pregnant, gave birth, and fed their CHILD for a long, long time. And he then sees the beauty in THAT.

JallowBah: Me too.. what was the first thing I noticed about my husband, his personality or his looks? Exactly.
But what made me stay..?

He does not look the same as he did back then, even though it is only 4years ago. He has some pretty bad scars on his face, but I don`t think he should undergo surgery to fix it, it is part of his history, and that makes it part of his beauty.

Word!
Mature word from a mature mind. It takes a deep rooted person to know that.

lastpage: I wont allow me wife to do any b.o.o.bs job...... not to satisfy me anyway!

See, l admire well-rounded, forward-pointing bo.obs but we all should love and appreciate everything about our wife (as a person), much more than "how her bo.obs" is shaped or saluting!

That her breast sagged after childbirth is not her "mistake" .... l see it as a price she has to pay, on behalf of both of us, to have healthy children.

I will simply tell her: "Darling, even if your bo.obs dey fall reach ground, l will devise various ways to still enjoy it" ....even if l have to choke myself with it!

As a man, we will also reach an "age" when we wont be 'studs' (like we were in those days! ) due to aging and hard work cu.m stress of taking good care of the family;
Would you want your wife to like you less, then?
How would you feel if she insisted that you must take "Viagra" just to remain a stud that you were at 30yrs ..... for her to be satisfied of you? Mind you, the thing go give you heart attack one day!

IMO, "infatuation" gets replaced by "real love", as couples spend more years together .....and real love does not really care how you are shaped, once you are clean, tidy and healthy looking!

Okay, make l no lie, l still get "google-eyed" by well-rounded, pointy Oranges but l just brush it off my mind and tell myself, "you've had your fair share in the past", appreciate what you have now!

Lastpage!

And this is the kind of men Miss Jallow was referring to----

ileobatojo: Very, very well spoken!!

This is exactly the point. No one doubts that most men will find sagging boobs less stimulating than perky ones but there has to come a point when acceptance, maturity and contentment in what you have comes into play! Especially something that is largely unpreventable and is irreversible without major surgery with all it's risks.

Great minds we ve' got here.

[quote author=FRANK.ODEY]@2sexy
@ivynwa

I still have some problems.

One is: a reliable payment to use or way to pay for this domian names


Two is: also a reliable payment processor to cash my money


PLEASE HELP

FRANK ODEY[/quote]2sexy has answered you already. It depends on your location too and what the site accepts so check what payment method the domain registrar accepts before you organize to pay okay.

@2sexy

I am seeing good offers online with yahoo selling domains at $1.99 http://smallbusiness.yahoo.com/domains/?p=YDMCALL&AID=10670391&PID=3507094 but then better to be with such popular ones like godaddy where one can buy and sell. Godaddy has some great discounts that I will look into when I want to make purchases. I am seeing a site domparison.com that helps you get good bargains. Somebody mentioned fabulous.com and I checked it out, the person transferred his portfolio from godaddy to fabulous and praised them for their modest pricing. If somebody can leave godaddy and feel comfortable in fabulous that means they have something to offer, I will check them out more. I wish I can buy from low priced registrars and transfer to godaddy and co but then the transfer prices are high too and again what matters most to me is where I can sell my domains ASAP and speed of light fast. The only good thing about the low priced ones is that it will help people like me that want to buy plenty. $10 dollar is small but when you begin to build your portfolio that will be running into thousands of domains-----that is when you will realize that $10 isn't small after all.

I have also joined the DNForum, boy there's no limit to these things. I am enjoying reading about it.

2sexy: now... that is one area that you can tap on. It called strike while the iron is hot. But surprisingly, you will be shooting yourself in the foot if you hold on to such domain names. It is better to sell those kind of domain names instead of holding on to them because once the news fades( which usually is the case) your domain name become worthless.

Trendy isnt the way to go. Think long term!

In my guide I discussed the most smartest way to tap into trendy domain names with long term benefits.
From what I found out, there have been four phases in this area. I got in late in the last one and could only register one that seem very good. For those that got in early, they were making serious crazy cash. One of the guy I know who tapped into this trend early made $7000 last 2 weeks for a name which he registered just $10 about a year or two ago.

I talked about this guy in my guide.

As I type this now, there is a new phase of going on again in this same niche and come this week, I am grabbing this domains like hot eba.

For me, I target areas where money exchange hands in the niche and not gossip domain names and the likes that would make the headline today and by two weeks later, it is the bin.

I target entrepreneurs and that is the reason behind PropertyForSaleInMichigan.com

I am heading for where the money is too Lol. We will see how it goes, I know that something good will come out of this.

authecosta911: Okies @2sexy I've seen the shot, kip up the gud jab God is on ya syd, can u pls mail me uR fone numba shuld in case am ready to start dis biz, I wanna competite wit ivynwa in dis domain industry.

2sexy: IVYNWA OOO. come see. Now that is the spirit.

I love ladies who take the front wheel. Not the others waiting for a guy to do all the money. I respect this ladies who have the "can do" sttitude. Maybe it's because my late mum was an epitome of that... i guess.

Just yesterday, I went to see a fellow nairalander and before he came out to where I was, I stood at the junction waiting.

Guess what I saw. To my greatest amazement, I saw a lady possibly in her mid 30s or say so driving this Osho BABA luxurious bus... I felt like giving her a hug, taking a photo of her and even getting an autograph... lol. my number is in my signature.

Authecosta is very funny, compete ke? It's an open field for everybody Ojare. I like your sense of humour though.

@2sexy
Women of nowadays are amazing sha, doing great things on their own. Gone are the days when a woman folds her hands waiting for a man to bring food on the table. In some countries women are more enterprising than some men.

2sexy: Do you mind showing me the kind of names that you have registered and I will know if you are doing great. shoot me an email through my sig.

What's you email again? I will check it in your original mail and send you a mail later. Thanks