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2sexy: That is the world of domaining for you... But you seem to base you system on brainstorming. lol

I am looking at hot things, hot fields, trendy things and catchy stuffs of course.
I coined stuffs like newinnewyork.com, hollywoodscandals.com (even nollywoodscandals.com has been taken too) and voila people already have that running in websites if not I will register and sell them. Trust me I can do this good.

2sexy: ^ ^ You may do well with parking but for me, I dont do that. I just want to buy, sell, and reinvest!

I read of somebody that made fortunes from parking and quit his job to get on with it.

The logic of what I asked is simply parking with easily available domains and doing greater things like flipping with purchased ones. I will look into that at sedo and domainparking.com and if they allow free domains, will get tons of that, park in their website and get on with serious domain flipping at godaddy and namecheap.

@2sexy
Boy I just checked a domain name I am thinking of registering/that would have sold hot only to realize that godaddy have it on an auction sale and telling me to bid for it for $500 upwards. This is a very good domain name I tell you. I will come up with greater ones sha.

2sexy: Let me also add that, with coupon code, you can get a domain name for as cheap as $3 at godaddy.

Thanks for that.

2sexy: Free domain wont take you any where in this industry if you hope sell them. Infact, nobody buys a free domain except someone who is complete ignorant of the internet. Beside, it is just $10 to get a domain name, what is stopping you from paying for a cheap commodity like this? Warning, never coin names that is a fatal approach. it is only in very rare cases that one can get a buyer for such names.

I wasn't talking about flipping free domains,of course nobody will buy it. I mean merely packing them and having links in them that can bring on clicks that can earn money. Just that.

I intend to buy and build up a good portfolio of domains with time. You will be amazed at domain names I have come up with--some of them have been taken already and some available for registering. I am good with words. I will let you know my progress and yes that your package is very needful for anybody that wants to do this too.

2sexy: Yes it is. Wow! Lady, you just wanna stir me up right?

How do you mean, hope you are not mad at me dear? I am grateful to you for your directions here. I ought to have known about this domaining thing but do not. Plenty times I have come close to stuffs that if I have researched further would have opened it up more to me. I am part of a site hubpages.com where one get most of these infos. I use to be active there and gets great info there but for sometime I haven't been active or I would have come across this. They have great affiliate marketers and online business people therein too.

2sexy: Ivynwa do you have any question?

I already asked in the same post you replied to above, check it out again. Thanks

I was looking for where one can get low bargains of domains. I registered with moniker, godaddy, namecheap and I like name cheap the most of the three. I just came across others and while comparing prices noticed that hostingdude.com is a notch less priced than the others. I guess there are other stuffs to put into consideration like buying from a site that has better services than others. It is indeed an interesting thing to study.

@2sexy
What do you think about this.
Is it possible to park such free domains like the freedomain.co.ngr and a host of other free domains site. Is that allowed in sedo and domaingparking.com? I have used 2 or 3 of such free domain sites to build sites(I start and stop midway though and get on with other things lol). I intend to purchase some domains I have already coined but I am wondering whether parking of free domains is allowed and one can get plenty of that and park in domain parking sites while only spending money only in buying domains for resell.

CM punk and his accomplice make me laugh too, he is always demanding for respect. He is a strong smart dude. CM Punk and big show are one of my WWE favorite stars too. Among the females I like Eve, AJ (when she is not making trouble) and Lyla.

I heard that Randy and Alberto later faced each other in a match but I missed that,wish I watched that.

I don't know whether any other person enjoys that WWE Raw wrestlings, the scandals, bachannals and "anything-can-happen" that goes on in those wrestling matches and shows. They make me laugh big time. Amazing things happen in that show, the big bullies like big show,Sheamus will give all the heavy beatings only to get outsmarted and be won over. I enjoy that show very much.

The last one I watched, there was an AJ, John Cena scandal brewing with Vickie (who hates AJ) showing the world video of AJ sneaking into John Cena's room and John Cena and AJ denying it while "it is true" is written all over his and AJ's faces. The other day Alberto del Rio distracted his enemy Randy Orton from a match he was already winning good and his opponent used the opportunity to catch Randy unawares and win him. He was so mad that he went after his enemy Alberto and ran him down in the dining hall where they had food set ready in tables for people to eat after the show. There was a food fight with hot tomato sauces being poured all over Aberto's st-upid accomplice, even the commentator that neared them with his microphone to ask question had his face buried in a cake. Boy, was it funny and ridiculous, they sure make one laugh in WWE Raw. You need to watch these shows cause you will wonder whether all these are all happening in mere wrestling matches. Come on, let's chat up about these matches. If you enjoy watching it----come and chat up here. Thanks

berem: Lawd have murcy!! So its like Elton John moaning hard being fuccked by his husband thru the a..nus? What da HELL!!

Girl Roger that! It's equally disgusting to me. Disgusting things!

If that is the picture of the pastor then he sure needs good grooming more than he needs a private jet.
How does his wife find her way through all that beards and facial hairs as to be able to kiss him? I no fit laugh abeg.

Why didn't they think of opening a school, an orphanage or skill acquisition center in his name for the masses with the teeming unemployment problem Nigeria faces? He can always hire a private jet when he wants to travel, he can't live in that jet as to have it tied up in cash and sitting there in order for the pastor to get the esteem, high nod,applause of others as well as join the big league of people that have private jets. Our country has plenty problems and there some of us are forming big with private jettings-------mtscheeeeeeeeeeeeew, excuse me.

polokor60: papa dey dey oyoyo. :,somebody shout i ll ve the same anointing to buy my personal jet next weekend just like papa.oya drop sometin for the ministry to move forward to be a part of this blessing.i need 80 persons to drop the sum of N10 million naira,if you have 5 to 2 million you can also be a part of this blessing,oya join the cue before i lay my hands on dem.now speaking in tongues and shouting like terry g,for promoting my ministry from land to air you must own ur own private jet by dis same time next week and my people will say a big yamen.

[quote author=holly-pagan]Na all this things musolom dey see dey get angry even imam no dey get pin from members[/quote]
They get funny people in this thread sha.

myboo: I'm currently faced with this guys

What do you think about marrying a chic from a broken home (ie her father and mother are separated)?

Does it really have a significant effect on the children?

The chic in question is actually cool character-wise and she is a christian.

Your views would be appreciated cos i need to take a decision ASAP

Thx

@Poster
The urgency with which the views of others were sought and your saying that you need to take a decision ASAP is distasteful so if people tell you here that a girl from a broken home is no good----you will drop her like hot potato. We are not there in the relationship with you to know what type of person she is. It isn't her fault that her parents did not agree enough to stay together and we don't even know why the parents are broken as to begin to judge it down on her. The views of others isn't what your decision should depend on.

A greater percentage of people that I have come across who are from broken homes are very passionate about having an unbroken marriage yet that is not enough to make a decision upon because there are still another percentage out there that don't feel like that. It is all about the person. The fact that your own parents are still together doesn't make a saint out of you-----BTW there are marriages that have plenty abuse and violence and the couples in it are even better off apart but just sticking it out for what people will say or because one party does not have the courage to stand on his or her own. If somebody like you that is depending on the views of others come across an offspring of the latter marriages. Guess you will consider her fit for marriage because her violent/abuse parents are unbroken and still together (not that that defines such to me).

The stuff that goes on in the life of one's parents does not define a person.

Thanks for your advise, I just registered with them to see what they've got. I will find ways around this thing for sure and will be contacting your service in the future too. I know that this is something I will be good at for sure.

Another website hailed moniker as the big boy/big girl of all registrars.

I am digressing the site Moniker and liking them already because they have another website Snapnames that bring domainers and domain buyers together through auctions etc so I will start with them. Woyiiiiii I am excited about this guys. Thanks very much.

Whoops! 2sexy sweetheart I hope that the little info I shared about moniker isn't among the stuffs you are selling. I must be careful so that you can do your business good dear.

Thanks to 2sexy, Johndoe and other Domainers, this is a good piece of knowledge info that you guys exposed me to here.
Gosh, where have I been? It's so sweet to learn about this different online stuff and I am already reading voraciously on it and enlightening myself more.
I intend to do this and I know that I will excel at it so I am getting started already. I have tried article writing and the method being used by constantcontent.com discouraged me and I never continued yet I know that these are stuffs I will excel in as I write well. I am gonna put on my browsing shoes and get serious with these things.

This is one of the best stuff I have ever come across in this forum, I must start spending time in the business and Science/Technology section of this forum. Good stuff, good stuff. Smart posters too! Hugs to the bighearted ones like 2sexy that share knowledge with others. Thanks.


I just understood online that one can register domains at such places like godaddy and moniker. Do you guys know of other better registrars?

Have fun girl!

@Plaetton

I haven't the time to tally here and dance around words with someone who is bent on using words to justify what is clearly wrong to some of his fellow men. I have actually realized what I wanted when I opened the thread which is to check out the views of others concerning the subject.

I'm still very very surprised that someone can harrass out the password of his partner from her/him and without qualms go checking on their mails and chat mesages. I am also happy that there are still men and women that respects themselves and their partners enough as to accord them some degree of privacy.

KINGwax: Hahahahaha...dumbshit!
I got two kids with different moms! Both sexes!
One mom is married, the other abt to!
And kingwax is plannin on marrying the 3rd next yr. I'm definately gonna be having a 3rd kid with a 3rd mama!
I love my fuckin life!!! Odd is my quality!
And i don't give a fucck! Not dt i'll carry anythin to heaven!
I jes hope my wife won't call me one day and say, 'hello honey! Pls come home now, your child is fightin wit our child'...hehehehehe..dumba!

Funny, that----

I agree that she overdid it, after seeing the picture online on her birthday----I frowned at that. I see women flaunt certain parts of the body but they don't have it all in your face like that, less is feminine. A little feminity here, a little sexiness there not an "all-the-b;oobs-in-our-face" flaunting like she shamelessly did---that wasn't nice.

gurusoft55: @ivy
Sometimes you have to let go of some things to gain others, sometimes you have to shift grounds. We don't have to be rigid when it comes to issues like this. This dignity or ego you are trying to protect will eventually be destroyed if everybody goes this way; if he doesn't trust you, your dignity to him, i bet you is not 100%. One thing that makes you hold the other person in high esteem is trust. Saying no and holding on to it suggests to the natural man that there are things you don't want him to know; this is the first thing that will come to the mind of the natural man, even you. In today's world, you don't just trust anybody anyhow. Adam trusted Eve, Samson trusted Delilah; you know what happened to both men. Don't just view it from one perspetive, try and view it from the other person's perspetive.

My friend you don't need to rummage through the brains and intestines of your partner for you to trust her. Go ahead, get an electronic snooping device and have a doctor help you strap it into her interior (inner body) so that you can trust her.

plaetton: Another thing you miss in my post is that I do not make a distinction whether its the man or the woman asking for the password. It goes both ways.
Sop get off your persecution and abuse complex and face the real issue here: The inviolability of trust between a couple in a committed relationship.

Friend if you ever get to a stage where you have to force out passwords from your spouse (not for anything reasonable or mutual) just to check her faithfulness to you then you shouldn't have been with the person in the first place.

plaetton: What treatment are you referring to?
I have seen this exact scenario break up a marriage, and indeed,in that very case, someone certainly had something to hide in their smartphone.

Maybe I am too old fashioned, but certainly not chauvanistic.

The problems with women like you is that you suffer from persecution complex. Every normal and reasonable demand from a man is seen as an abuse of some sort. When A man demands to be shown respect (something that he should not even have to ask for),people like you will say he is abusive and domineering.

[b][size=14pt]Keeping tabs on your spouse's social networking habits is now being labelled as "domineering" and "bad treatment".

[/size][/b]You must be living in a women's lib. la la land.
Wake up and smell the coffee.
In real life and in real real committed relationships, the word privacy is an oxymoron.
Like a poster said earlier, it's a funny contradiction to say to a spouse.
" Here is my body, explore all the nooks and crannies till you are tired, but don't touch my smartphone, I have the right to my privacy".

He he he. Privacy my foot.

It's a pity that there are still people with this notion of keeping tabs, this violation of another person's dignity.

[quote author=mike.okiro]@ platton . -----hahaha, ah dey laugh, she even call me mgbeke chai !, because i talk wetin dey for book and wetin all my fellow dey hail me for, igbo Ndi nwe'm unu anu bekwe ![/quote]Yes youR view of that is so Mgbekeic and like the actor Mike Ori ihe dimma use to call his wife in the movies "Mgbii-o-o-o-o-o-o-o-o". Hahaha!

shizzle11: Thanks Ivynwa!


Some men just like to be too domineering. Funniest thing is such men wouldn't like their partners have access to their own account/password. I don't share in their subjectivity.

A girl will cheat if she wants to with or without social media. Some have it like an inbuilt talent, fine, social networking will increase †ђξ chances, but a cheat will always be a cheat.

Scooping on her won't help. There are smart girl out there, what if she has multiple accounts?.[size=14pt]prolly a surveillance camera will be placed on her to video her wherever she goes.[/size]

Hear what your fellow man is telling you, some good hearted men don't have your domineering notions. You can still respect your woman and still gets treated in high esteem like her man. You don't have to get aggressive and domineering to take your position as a man.

Yeah Shizzle, I told one of them in another thread that it's like putting a snooping device on a woman while she walks about. They can as well get into her stomach and look through her intestines to be monitoring and dominating over her.

plaetton: Sometimes when I read stuff like this, It makes me wonder whether people like you are living in a real world or in a hollywood fantasy romance movie.
Men usually ask for passwords before they demand it.

Depending on the the type and strength of a relationship, the thoughts of unfaithfulness may never cross the minds of either partner.

However,we have to agree that internet and mobile communications has, today, encouraged and made it very very easy, convenient and safe to flirt, explore and keep two or multiple partners.

Irrespective of how much trust exists in the relationship, it makes simple sense that both partners are current as to what the other is doing on social networking sites by keeping tabs.

Asking a spouse or partner for a password, in my mind should never lead the other partner to invoke the " everyone should have their privacy" clause. lol
Once that privacy clause is invoked in a relationship, I can guarantee, that aside from showing that he or she is hiding something, that relationship will enter a new phase. A new phase of suspicion and mutual distrust.

Besides, once you deny your partner access to your password,do you honestly think he will relent or back off? No way. You would have just handed him a project which he would not abandon until his curiosity is fully satisfied.

If you have something to hide, then keep hiding it, but if you have nothing hide,do not stir the hornet's nest by refusing access to your password.

I only pity women that gets treated like you and Okiro think. I still can't believe that some women are subjected to these level of treatment.

brokoto: so in your own twisted logic, a real man is one who has all his spouse's passwords
so because a woman is dating you then she should lose her identity as a person. i dont get the sense in all this, seriously. must you turn you GF or wife to your slave? must you snoop on her? why not allow her a little privacy? if you need her any of her passwords for something reasonable and genuine i see no problem with it but why the heck would you require such to test her loyalty or faithfulness? what if i may ask have you, the man done to prove your own faithfulness to her?

I salute you Brokoto.
It is men like you that I just referred to in this thread https://www.nairaland.com/1095373/should-man-ask-womans-password/1

Men that carry the dignity of their woman in the heart not underneath their feet. Thanks Bro---With men like you our world can't help but be beautiful.

ileobatojo: Personally, I can't stand the idea of giving out my password to hubby just so he can go snooping around. When we were dating, my husband asked us to exchange passwords and I immediately shut that idea down. I used to leave my Facebook open but the day I found out he had been snooping through it was the day I changed the password and stopped staying logged on. Funny enough, I am long back to staying logged on to Facebook and my email even when I'm not home but if I find out he has been snooping, I will start logging off again. Call me a trouble maker but it truly irritates me.

@Ileobatojo
This is the first time I am realizing that you are female, I use to see this poster as a male figure may be it's because I never took out time to watch your posts to check that. I know I always come across nice posts of yours.
If I use computer with somebody else then I know better than deleting my histories, not staying logged on and not storing the passord automatically unless it is somebody I have no problem letting in on my business. Only Couples sharing stuffs online comfortably too can comfortably be staying logged on like that while using same laptop.

JallowBah: [b]We can`t agree on eveything [/b]And yes, he can. But at the same time, it would be a feeling of safety for me.

Definitely Babes, we sure can't agree on everything even when we both like music of them gyals dipping an' a drop it. Lol,
I gotta get offline now. Talk to you later Babes.

[quote author=mike.okiro]this is a mans world, whether you accept it or leave it, the woman wants to leave the guy because she found out that the guy now knows her little secrets and they are about to be exposed,[size=14pt] your dignity as a woman is under a man,[/size] take it or u leave it, this is naija.[/quote]It is the world where good men knows the worth of their women and respects that, not the world of men that matches upon the self worth and dignity of their woman. I know what submission is all about and submits when it is right and proper, I know what it means to respect a man and not to be disrespected by a man.

No Baby! the dignity of a woman is not under a man. It is in the heart of a good man who knows the worth of his woman and protects, respects, loves her right and crowns her with her beautiful dignity. The dignity of a woman is not underneath the feet of a man like you that thinks that a woman should be psychologically chained, subdued and denigrated.


[quote author=mike.okiro][size=14pt]You hide your passwords and expects his doubts to be cleared so as to propose to you? Na Naija u dey, so wake up. Like I said supra, there should be an element of checks and balances, this person you're refusing your password may have intentions of getting married to you.[/size] If you aver that there are no skeletons in your closet, why don't you open it?

you see [/quote]WTFr*ak! Have a nice day Mister. I can't relate with you with that your mgbeke/unrefined/Caveman level of mentality.

PapaBrowne: Invasion of privacy?? Hehe... inside a relationship where private parts have been thoroughly invaded? I don't understand. Help me explain.

My opinion:
The truth is if two people trust themselves well enough, passwords would not be a problem. From experience, I leave my phone in the public domain only when I have nothing to hide. When I have something hideous, it stays in my pocket and I sleep with it like that.
When it is really really hideous I change the password temporarily. Recently changed the password on my Galaxy and forgot what I used. Till today, that phone is off waiting till the day I'll remember the password.

Interestingly, none of my actions were related with unfaithfulness. There are many reasons besides unfaithfulness that make people protect their passwords from each other. For me, it is the fact that the other party might not have the capacity at the time to handle the information contained.

For the sake of maintaining trust,passwords should be shared voluntarily. If you cant share you password with someone you love, its because you've got something to hide or you are just a hideous character.

It's good you understand the topic of discussion very well.
We are not talking about loving couples doing their thing together exchanging password, sending message for each other like JallowBah mentioned in her post below etc. There is nothing wrong with that, I agree that such exchanges should be mutual and not forced out from a spouse.

We are talking about a man ordering a woman to produce password so he can keep checks on her

JallowBah: My husband does the same with me. He asks me to check his facebook for him (...he is in there maybe 1time every month, I am there on a daily basis ), and tells me to see who wrote him, and what they are saying, if he get a text and is not right next to the phone.
For us, that works good.

shizzle11: I strongly disagree with Ɣ☺ΰ. Why would a man request for †ђξ password? It is very wrong, if she gives him her password, it is her prerogative and should be done willingly or at best mutually but certainly not forcefully. I'm a man but won't request for her password for whatever reason.

Notwithstanding that we're couples, I still believe both parties should enjoy some privacy. Afterall †ђξ suspicion could just be as baseless and unfounded. I will not subscribe to such childish demands.

@Shizzle

Ivynwa fans herself
It's refreshing to hear from men like you that still remembers that their woman has her self worth/dignity and respects that.

The Mike Okiro man here keeps showing what stuff he is made of here. His words keeps describing who he is and he doesn't even realize what he is painting himself out as

[quote author=mike.okiro]@ ivynwa, my sister, married or not, if you are in any serious relationship your partner ought to have access to ur accounts, asking it politely or forcefully all depends but take it or u leave it once you say no even if u give it later on , next day or next hour it is still suspicious and the damage must have been done because the man can never trust you again, are you telling me if u are a man you would go ahead and marry a girl you asked her password and she declined or later gave it to you after deleting or possibly opening new one to fool you with ? we are not fools[/quote]Sorry Sir, as you can see we are on two different tangents of mentality.
There's no big deal if a man decides not to marry a woman because she refused to present her password on order. As you can see in this thread https://www.nairaland.com/1094289/separated-facebook-password it is the woman that even wants to leave the man. We women have got our dignity and you don't have to keep getting on about "A man not marrying a woman because she refused to dance to his tunes and orders" as if women are puppets without brain, there are times we women refuse to marry men if our whole heart do not accept such. We have ability to make choices and choose too, not all women are desperate so there's really no need for anybody to have that your "man and mighty" and "she-must-do-all-that-i-say-even-if-wrong" mentality. Thank you Sir.

JallowBah: No, it is not a guarantee, but for some, it would help to know that "ok, she has told me everything there was to tell." I can only speak for my self..if my hubby cheated, I would like to read the messages he get/got, and go through his facebook, absolutely. But thats ME.

He can take his amorous conversations elsewhere while leaving his facebook for you to be rummaging on as you like. I am surprised that you will want to demand for password from your man, guess we defer on that. I still believe that that is not appropriate. Have a nice day Jallow.

[quote author=mike.okiro]@ ivynwa ,-------------------if you believe that 1 + 1 = 1 in marriage, then you should know that ur password is as well his and he should have full access to all u had including the password of all ur accounts, email and telephone. because i see no reason why a man should not hv the password of his wife or girl friend, unless the man is not serious with the girl or he is MAKE I COLLECT MY OWN SHARE type of man and wouldnt mind if the girl date 1000 men at the same time as long as she is giving whenever needed till he is tired of her, [size=14pt]It is only fools that could trust a woman 100 % , we all know what these daughters of eve are.[/size]

@ jallow and ivynwa - Isn't that an invasion of privacy and space of another? their is nothing like privacy in marriage, put it in ur forehead, you and ur man are one, so no need to hide anything from him, he should know everything about u, if you feel you cant give, then the door is open for you to disappear.[/quote]Did you really say all o' that. Your post actually showcased what manner of a man you are. You spoke for yourself sir.

JallowBah: Alright, right over 3 weeks now..
I am happy. And staying strong. I hope he is doing the same, he keep much of his thoughts to himself, I guess it makes it easier for him down there.

I am training our daughter in greeting in fulani. And every single time, she looks at me and goes "baba." As in "mama, this aint your language, don`t be foolish. I know."
Lol.

I just discovered that there is one, ONE gambian person living in my hometown. And, tamtataaaam; he speaks fulani! Imagine my joy og being able to practice it again, oh laaawd. He is from about 10min with a car from where we live down there. I love it, it gives me a piece of Gambia. Plus, I am used to having gambians and fulani-talk around me, now I just want him to meet our daughter, so she get small input as well. It`s good for her, and me.

And, on friday, I will be going out on the town for the first time in 2,5months. I have helped arrange a reggae/dancehall-night here, I just hope people will show up. Its a small town, not many africans who live here either, so..we will see. I will be standing in a corner, doing my thaaang, like I always do anyway, so.

And, I have packed one full suitcase of give-aways. Clothes for babies, kids, men and women. Which means I barely have room for my own clothes to go. But you know women..I will be shopping down there, I dont need to bring much clothes. It is going to be so damn good to see my hubby. To go to the village and see his family again. The brothers, their wifes, all the kids.."Yaye toubaaaaab" they call me. Lol.
And my husbands "dad". His second dad. He has been like an extra father-figure his whole life, and he is such a caring and wonderful, old man. I have a special gift for him.

Not long, not long..

Jallow you have such a big heart of love, hugs to you.
Somebody should nudge on the days to move faster for Jallow girl------Not long, not long. Lol