₦airaland Forum

Once bitten twice shy.
Joint Account? No way!

tng:
Timi is good but Omawunmi is the total package.Timi just chose songs that fitted his vocal range. And i agree with Nana that he has a diction problem. When they were supposed to make one UNICEF appeal about AIDS, he part of the thing wasnt flowing at all.
Anyway, he has won but i know Omawunmi would be a star. Timi is going to be another Reuben Studdard.

Bolton goes for songs within his vocals, Alisha,J.Leg,even Mercy Gray. Its about striking the right notes which equivocally TIMI has done.
You do not need to sing through the 7 ambients of notes to win Idols.
Moreover an artist need'nt speak like the queen of england before becoming a star.
Timi was a better choice.

BillGatesFan:
What am I doing in a marriage without a fruit? My bible tells me that any tree that does not bear fruit shall be cut down, better be a celibate MONK than be in a marriage without a child.

In that way I can use my Precious SPERM in the service of GOD and for my spiritual evolution instead of allowing one yeye woman to conterminate me and yet can't give me a child to show for it.

Oops! that hurts

What the heck is all these crap 'bout age difference. 18/34 aint nothin.
The 18yr old gal could be looking 30 while the 34yr man looking younger.
Its all about the mind guys.

Desmond Tutu and Madela are well respected back in SA and indeed by the international community.

There speeches are recorded and cherished with relish.

Both are members of the esteemed  Noble Prize winners club.

In Naija, Wole soyinka is tagged "talking too much".  
Lets learn to Respect our own.

It is  a virture we need to cultivate.

minute:
feel butterfly in my stomach

never been kissed.

You really mean it.
I mean do you require some coaching lesson class?

tega78:
For the same reason, men are bioligically programmed to cheat and be unfaithful, because they want to spread their genes and ensure survival of the species.

Proffessor of Totophysics & Men Control!

WOW!! wat a bullet.

Guys, SHE haz spoken.

There are lot of indices to consider b4 taking a decision on go or no go.
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[li][/li]What course are you going for.
[li][/li]What prospects/ carreer development does your current job offer you.
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Generally, going by the trend in the job market,one stands a higher chance of getting that dream job with the Foreign Certificate.
However, there must be a balance.

Good luck.

opuro:
ol boy look before u leap o
example guys that married older women
       RMD AND--------------------- WETIN HAPPEN
      BOBBY BROW AND ----------------- WETIN HAPPEN
         LOOK WELL WELL B4 U LEAP

You forgot to mention
Alli Baba and ----------------
Chidi Mokeme --------------

Wa_do_moi:
whats wrong about it?

Nothin.

Ultrame:
A man lives comfortably with his family (wife and three kids of ages 12, 9 and 5) in a big city.

He travels home to the village one weekend to visit his aging parents (dad: 72, mum: 68)

(they've not yet turned into vegetables!)

The truth is: he knows his parents needs extra care from what they are currently getting. should he take them into his house and see if it would work?

Where have you been 5-12 yrs ago going by the age of your kids.Its apparent you were [b]incommunicado.[/b]What level of squalor were you refering to,since they are not yet vegetables(still relatively fit) - feeding,housing or mobility?
Based on the above, I will not subscribe to allowing them live with me as this will be tantamount to charging up the atmosphere at home with time(proven).
Rather,Identify the things you refered to as squalor and rectify.
Visit them more often,
Engage the services of a visiting-nurse for as deemed-fit.
Since you are the only son, it means you have sisters probably married(?),so call a familly meeting and impress on all your observations and way forward.

It is an honour to Age THEY SAY.

The programme itself is a laudable one with both Long term and short term benefits.
It is the execution and Modus operandi that fallshort of expection,hence these avalanche of compliants trailing her.
The moment square pegs are put in square holes,NYSC will aid to a greater degree, National integration,ethnic tolerance and inter-tribal sync among others.

[quote author=laudate
Am sure the Yoruba people on this board can give you an appropriate response, you tribalist!
[quote][/quote]T'seems you're fanning the embers of aparthy.That's loosen the whole essence of the Fora.
You're becoming more catholic than the pope.

Pls pause.

spoilt:
are we still on this discussion? what exactly can a male child do that a female one can't? these days women seem to hustle more. and i wasnt joking about that.

y'right

lol

Ideally, for newly weds, its not the wisest of decisions to allow a relative stay with you, 'cos thats the period often refered to as "the nature nurture controversy" in marriages. Couples require absolute privacy for intimate sync.
However, in view of our peculiar social terrain,this is often compromised.
For couples who can, this is highly encouraged @ least for the first six months.

soulpatrol:
wow, this just made my day. thanks to the wisdom of all you fellow Nairaland users, i'll try to enjoy life more. not 30 yet, but getting there i tell you, the pressure from family and friends can drive you insane! it can ultimately drive one to make a wrong decision just to please the family. at one point, makes you question if something is wrong in your life even though its perfect and you're happy. we forget that not ever woman will marry at 24, 25, 26 or whatever. everyone has their time, and things don't always go the way you envision or plan. so i'm just going to life everyday to the fullest.

Thats the spirit gal. One day at a time.

breeolan:
@ ayefele,

y do u call chiiefOh a punk, from what i can read, you're d PUNK jerk!

and am sure none of d girls hosting this topic would put a bunch of flower to represent u in d contest, maybe u should show us what u look like, this one your mouth is runnin like u knw what

Is someone having a crush? lol.
@ayefele, the ball is in ur court

GLORY 2007:
i believe poverty is a state of the mind
i cannot marry anyone with a poverty mentality because we will not be able to walk together.
men are in sizes as life is in phases.
though your beginning is small your end shall be greatly increased.
that is what i believe.

this is not poetry. This thread is talking 'bout marrying a hungry man. Whats ur answer gal.
Forget this ur mental poverty abi na Poverty mental u call am.

zhia2000:
If you had a good professional job in the UK, that pays at least £27,000 p.a (£2300 per mnth) at entry level, and all other things are fine. Will you give that up for a job in Nigeria? Please state reasons for your choice.

Its obvious from the tone of your wordings,you are not ready to giveup your "good professional job" yet.
Perhaps that explains you did not give details of the Job in Nigeria. Is it Professional too? How much? What prospects are there.
Do not forget,home is home. So lets compare apple for apple and take a decision.
Good luck.

skillmyman:
I have worked for 12yrs in nigeria and i am still thinkin of goin to england using hsmp.

@ skillmyman,
HSMP does not gurantee permanent residence. Beware,all that glitters is not gold. Talking from experience Bro.

I-man:
Just correcting falsehoods.

Wake up.

dinner m:
please start a family ok.

By getting married,the young man has already started a familly.Making babies is another.This should not be mixed up.

@duduluq,
you do not sound confident enough.I think its time you quit being tied to your parents apron not rebellion

Familly life is a new phase where as you make your bed so you (not your parents) lie on it. Its your decision.

My advice? Let her get a job first NOW THAT THE CHANCES ARE HIGH. It a different ball game when the kids start coming.

wa_do_mi:
they only want your obo - wet wet obo - nothing more - don't be deceived.

na waahooooooh

lol

@ Iman
Whats your beef, the issue or the number. Single parenthood,trendy or Trashy? That is the question.

@Mellow,

lol.

babyosisi:
?

,
While single parenthood should not be glorified such that people think it's ok to have kids unmarried,at the same time a man who has fathered a baby ought to raise it.
That is why I love America and the garnishing of wages for delinquent fathers.

@babyosiss

"garnishing of wages for delinquent fathers"  Hahahaaaa,love the sound of it.
lol.

Seun:
Most? That's completely false!
As for African values, I think losing them is lovely. The sooner we drop the ideas weighing us down, the better!

@seun
1. its not false, the stats are there and still counting.
2.African values is not an idea neither should it be seen as weighing down. Its our heritage,our being.

Kindly delet this thread.Its a double post.
The actual thread on same topic is active with over 80 respondent.

efuah:
too harsh

@efuah

lol.

Congrats Chioma, U took the bull by the horn anyway.
All the best.

There are no reason(s) for wife battering.
But if the truth has to be said, Women are damn annoying.Gosh!
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honey," i never meant to strike out,am sorry" says the Hus.

scudamore:
i don't regret it though, we now have a better relationship

lol

@fynewaka,

Hey bro,wats all this for.Easy Hun. Why taking panadol for anothers headache.

Freedom of expression- thats wat this forum stands

&

Not for launching lethal weapons for Mass Destruction.

@dollyfil, Very happy for ya.

Congrats,and more power to your elbows as you take up this new challenge.