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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 10:02am On Feb 17, 2017
Nicoleswizzi!
Nicoleswizzi!!
Nicoleswizzi!!!
How many times I call u?
Whose report will you believe?
Philippians 4:8
Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.
Worry is a natural phenomenon, but not necessary!
No be God put the baby 4 ur womb? do u think he has forgotten?
It's not everytime these their tape measurements are correct o, even scan, at least many mama's here can testify to inaccurate measurements and scan results sef. Haven't u seen or heard of women with extremely BIG tummies, u would even think they are carrying multiples, but in the end they born one chikini baby less than 2.5 , u will begin to wonder what was inside their belly.
So my sister, look for cold malt drink u hear!

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 9:01am On Feb 17, 2017
Congratulations hunniesuzie on d birth of ur not so little giant Lo. May God's grace continuously be upon him, Amen!

@ lululuv no be only u dey get strong puffy areola o, the same thing happens to my boobies, mine fluctuates asbin strong one time, soft the other time. I have read it's part of the package.

@ Nicoleswizzi sorry dear, am sure baby will change position soonest, u will feel better again soon, Kpele.

@ gurlnext2u, I think u shud tell hubby what happened, he is in a better position to handle d issue. though the woman may not have meant any harm, she may have thought she was trying to pacify ur baby, but since u were a few metres from her, she would have asked dat ur child be brought to u instead. Most of these old women do it and don't see it as a big deal. But it's very wrong as person no know Wetin dey inside or around d breast.

Mama's that are " carrying low " and team June mama's please did anyone notice their baby kicking really low, around 19-22 weeks that if feels as if d kicks are constantly "kicking/scratching" ur rectum and cervix ?

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 1:13pm On Feb 15, 2017
Chanbaby:
My mamas join us praise "onise iyanu". My bundle of joy just arrived like 1hr 3omins ago weighing 3.7kg after 27hrs labor. God is faithful. Thanks for all ur . Teamie februaryi hail oh. BS coming soon. . Make i sleep small no food no sleep for the past 32hrs.
Yeeeeah congrats mama!
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 11:45am On Feb 15, 2017
Mooretes I wouldnt remove anything from what u have said, but just to add a little!

BritneyStacy please take a deep breath, calm down!
No marriage is a bed of roses including that of most of us here.
I can't imagine what you're going through neither can I say I understand, but one thing I am certain of is that "There's nothing too hard for God"! Only if we surrender it all.
Psalm 46:10(a) says "BE STILL, and know that I am God "!
You are not a loser! You can't give up now, it seems really tough but what is ur resolve? What is it going to be? Is it by ur power ? Or you want to let go and let God step in?
It's a good thing you've spoken up, you'll feel a little bit relieved, but know that you have began winning as of now , nothing to be ashamed of my dear sister, God is going to win this battle for you! Amen!

Please try and watch the movies WAR ROOM
FIREPROOF

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 9:23pm On Feb 14, 2017
Chanbaby:
Let my Good news come soon. My case is different

This is d day d Lord has made, you will rejoice and be glad in it!
May d Lord give u a sense of calm & replace every overwhelming anxiety & pain with His peace dat passeth understanding, as u go through labor & a successful delivery; & may He also give skill and wisdom to the doctors & nurses dat will be taking care of u & ur baby.
In Jesus Name I Pray,
AMEN!

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 6:48pm On Feb 13, 2017
HMMMNN!!! This thread has been soooo busy today, but...
TODAY NA PRAYER MONDAY OOO!!!

Let us Pray!

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 3:44pm On Feb 13, 2017
PRAYER POINTS FOR PREGNANCY AND SAFE DELIVERY

1. We thank You Heavenly Father for conception and for the pregnancy so far, so glorious. (Psalm 128:3)

2. We thank God because God is able to keep whatever is committed into His hands, even all of us in this family, including our expected baby in Jesus Christ Name. (2 Timothy 1:12)

3. O God whose work is beyond human calculations and comprehension, take control of this pregnancy in all ramification in Jesus Christ Name. (Ecclesiastes 11:5)

4. O God, perfect every formation (bones, joints and all parts) of this foetus in Jesus Christ Name, Amen! (Ecclesiastes 11:5)


5. Father, we have confidence in You and we declare thou God of all powers will perfect all that concerns

our expected baby(ies) in the powerful Name of Jesus Christ! (Phil. 1:6)

6. The day of delivery of our baby(ies) shall come to pass perfectly, bringing forth joy and celebration in Jesus Christ Name. (Isaiah 66:5)

7. On the day of delivery, my birth canal (cervix and vaginaa) shall open easily in Jesus Christ Name. (Isaiah 66:7)

8. I am not an Egyptian woman, the lot of Egyptian women shall not be my lot in Jesus Christ Name. (Exodus 1:19)

9. I am a bonafide child of God, the blood of Jesus runs in my veins, I am living and lively, therefore, I shall deliver safely in Jesus Christ Name. (Exodus 1:19)

10. I overcome every evil associated with delivery by the blood of Jesus Christ. (Revelation 12:11)

11. I shall put to bed like the Hebrew women, to God’s glory in Christ Jesus, Amen!

12. The doctors, nurses and other health workers that shall attend to me shall be filled with the Spirit of God and shall be helpful, not antagonistic towards me, in Jesus Christ Name, I pray. (Exodus 1:21)

13. I pray that the blood of Jesus will purify the delivery room and every instrument that will be used for my delivery in Jesus Christ Name, I pray. (1 John 1:7)

14. Father Lord, I thank You for the assurance of answered prayers in Jesus Christ Name, Psalm 95:2

15. Father Lord, we desire that in this pregnancy, delivery and every other aspect of my family life, You will take control and take all the glory in Jesus Christ Name (Philippians 4:20)

AMEN!!!

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 10:03am On Feb 13, 2017
mofy1:
Good morning mama's is there any pregnant mama here that took lipton tea while/when pregnant. Becos that's the only tea that can pass through my throat 4 now. Though I do add a lot of milk to it with little sugar. Pls I need advice from mama's who has taken it b4. Edd june.
Hello teamie, it is very safe to take limited quantities of Lipton tea (black tea) it contains 45-55 mg of caffeine per serving.
On the other hand, decaffeinated black tea contains 2-5 mg of caffeine(choose this).
It is advised that pregnant women do not take over 200mg of caffeine during pregnancy, because the fetus and even breastfeeding babies can't eliminate excess caffeine from their system.
Adding a lot of milk to it is a plus. But don't take the tea the same time u take ur prenatal vitamins, as it reduces /blocks the absorption of iron.
It will interest you to know that coke ,Pepsi, chocolate, energy drinks and a few other food/drinks contain more caffeine.
DRINK RESPONSIBLY!!! wink

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 7:53am On Feb 13, 2017
ITS PRAYER MONDAY !!!




Psalms 139:17‭-‬18
How precious also are thy thoughts unto me, O God! how great is the sum of them! If I should count them, they are more in number than the sand: when I awake, I am still with thee.

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 7:18am On Feb 13, 2017
Baby nkkystel happy birthday to u, may u grow in grace and may d good Lord uphold u.
Beeblossoms congratulations on the arrival of ur baby, he's charming indeed, sumptuous looking oyinbo kiss
Welcome to all the newbies in the house,
safe delivery to all the waddling about to drop Feb mama's, the Lord is your strength and he shall make it easy for you. Amen!

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 5:29pm On Feb 10, 2017
Congrats omoloulah. May she continuosly Bring unlimited joy into ur home!
Health / Re: Male Infertility!!! Share Your Experience/success Story. by Iyomomoreloaded: 5:25pm On Feb 10, 2017
Good day all...Here is the message from Iyomomo..I really do not know how she will take it but i feel the solution/hope it will bring to the hopeless matters a lot.

Hello,sorry to hear about your case but nothing is beyond God.
2yrs ago My hubby was given follistim and gonal -f. ie fsh and Hcg 4 abt 6wks .
D doctor is at Ponders end Clinic, Victory lane off New Lagos Road close to new benin market. Dr *****.He's very good but the good/bad with him is that he wants to help you save money, which sometimes is detrimental.Through internet research we found out He didn't complete the dose for my Dh hence it was low sperm count (though I got pregnant with it,but Miscarried. I read online that it can be continued for up to six months but he discourage us saying treatment would be too expensive in hundreds of thousands (6 weeks was close to 100k)and instead was placed on addyzoa and enhanz for 4/5mths but we discovered the low count didn't shift at all, though his hormones are balanced now. From SFA and hormonal profile 3mnths ago,we asked to start the fsh and hcg protocol again,but he refused and advised IVF.So we decided to self prescribe,bought the injections and I was even the one giving it to him because we didn't have prescription to go to any nurse.We bought 15 vials of fsh (follitropin 75iu) @4500 each … then 3 vials of hcg (IVF -C @.2500 each.
Fsh 3x a week
Hcg 1x in 2weeks.
I will advice you do your own proper research online.HCG is said to reverse testicular shrinkage.Even after my husband took the 1st doses 2yrs back, the size of his testicles increased .
I wish you all d best! Hope this helps and eventually put laughter in someone's family.
CC Glurssymum

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Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Iyomomoreloaded: 5:16pm On Feb 10, 2017
Goodday everyone , I just came across this on facebook and thot I should share.
Fertility Blessings!!!

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 10:41am On Feb 10, 2017
@ omoloulah, this one you're giving live reports, naim be say no BS again na cheesy grin
We are awaiting your announcement! May God's grace be upon u! Amen!

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 10:38am On Feb 10, 2017
Benignasweety:
My baby has engaged at 23weeks... have a new edd 5th June according to scan yesterday. plz why this much difference? from 27-16-5th of June?
Lol @ engaged.
A baby being head down doesn't mean he/she is engaged, it's probably just a comfortable position at that moment, baby still has a loooot of room to switch positions as he likes, till the place is to tight for changing positions, which is like 3+ months away.
Baby engages when he drops lower down in d cervix ,like d head is plugged in ur cervix.
EDD changes so much later on in pregnancy because fetal measurements may not be 100% accurate depending on the skill of the sonographer. However if u know ur lmp, then work with that.
A few days ago I had my anomaly scan done by a doctor who specializes in maternal and fetal medicine , I got the most accurate EDD (same as lmp) cos of his specialty I guess. He asked my lmp i told him and he said I wasn't correct maybe I forgot because my baby measured 1 week different , that was wen I now told him I had a 35 day cycle and not 28 days, so I ovulate a week later, he now said "u see? " Lol.

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 10:17am On Feb 10, 2017
RANTING TIME!
This post will be long, please bear with me!


Mama's, please whether we are 10,20,30 or 40 weeks pregnant, I use God beg us, let's be sensitive to all that is happening in our precious state.
Pregnancy is not a try and error or cut & nail matter.
If you feel your doctor isn't listening or the hospital isn't dealing with your case reasonably at any point in time, please I beg u in God's name, please get a second opinion, ask for reviews from as much people as you can, come ask mama's here on the thread if anyone has an opinion am sure they'll share, then google, google! I search a lot of google, type the question in different ways and search multiple times to get an answer, don't read the first page of answers alone, check in as many pages as possible, u might likely get an answer!
It is both sad and disheartening the way our healthcare system works in this our wonderful country , I am deeply hurt for how Roseey0's case was mismanaged, it was pure insensitive and careless abi wicked sef.
But as the Bible tells us; the kingdom suffereth violence and "violent taketh" by force!
We have to take our health into our hands, since our system suffereth negligence, I am not saying stay home and treat ur self o,your case might look like someone else's but may be different ,so don't conclude on ur own, all I am saying research about any concerns and discuss with your healthcare provider, ask them questions, ask and ask, if they are not responsive or proactive, please follow your instincts [most importantly pray to God for the spirit of discernment and for him to help ur choices. .

Then secondly we have been too lax about prayers in the thread, let us not underestimate the power of prayers!
Though some don't believe it, our challenges "if any" may not require medical intervention alone, it may also need spiritual also.

Ephesians 6:12 - For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.

John 10:10 - The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.

BUT...

Isaiah 41:10 - Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.

Isaiah 66:9(a)- Shall I bring to the birth, and not cause to bring forth? saith the Lord :

Exodus 23:25-27 - And ye shall serve the Lord your God, and he shall bless thy bread, and thy water; and I will take sickness away from the midst of thee.
There shall nothing cast their young, nor be barren, in thy land: the number of thy days I will fulfil.
I will send my fear before thee, and will destroy all the people to whom thou shalt come, and I will make all thine enemies turn their backs unto thee.

Psalms 127:3 - Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord : and the fruit of the womb is his reward.

My people let us cultivate a praying habit, it doesn't have to be long or have Bible quotes, it could just be 2 or 3 lines, it is a blessing.
Let us also pray for medical personnels, that shall attend to us from antenatal care to labour and delivery and even postnatal care.

Just as it is more blessed to give than to receive, it is more "Effective to pray, than to say Amen! "

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 9:17am On Feb 10, 2017
May the peace of the Lord be upon this house!

Congratulations to all the mama's that have born, those in the favour room and even those that are due and anxiously waiting!
May God almighty make it easy for us all in Jesus' name .Amen!!!

Special appreciation to @ Realdentist, @ Mosi01, @ Pwettimii , for dragging me out of my auto cruise mode. Lol.

Roseey0 so sorry for your loss, the God of restoration shall surely restore, and grant ur hearts desires soonest. By this time next year we shall celebrate with you and your family in Jesus name!

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 1:32pm On Feb 03, 2017
How to Breastfeed - Deep Latch Technique:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7FJuBn2bgNk

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 8:53am On Feb 03, 2017
tiwatopebam:
Mamas, hmmm, nobody answered for roll call, June 2017 mamas what is happening now? Let's be active it is well with us all.
Present o!
I don't know what's happening o, I have not been getting mentions [oga Seun why?] except I click on MT to see if I have any or come across my moniker.
I am most thankful to baba God o, the race is half way, especially because I have never gotten to this stage previously and everything is working smoothly! I think I have started feeling mild kicks grin , having an anomaly scan next week, praying to God my little angel cooperates and shows us d tin lol (praying for a boy, dh says it's a girl).

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 8:39am On Feb 03, 2017
Congrats to d new mama's in the house, may God's blessings and protection always be on your Lo's
CC Rukkington
Convenantbabies
Kittana (Thank God episiotomy no turn plural for you o grin Abi Na kpekus singularize am? Lol)

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 1:11pm On Feb 02, 2017
So sorry for your loss mummy chizeal, losing a child no matter at what age is something that never leaves a parent’s heart , but be assured ,with faith & hope, it's gonna get easier over time.
May the good Lord himself console you & ur family.

For there is hope of a tree, if it be cut down, that it will sprout again, and that the tender branch thereof will not cease.
Job 14:7 .

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 12:20pm On Jan 30, 2017
CC Nicoleswizzi
Isaiah 41:10-Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.

Psalm 118:5-7 - I called upon the Lord in distress: the Lord answered me, and set me in a large place.
The Lord is on my side; I will not fear: what can man do unto me?
The Lord taketh my part with them that help me: therefore shall I see my desire upon them that hate me.

Deuteronomy 31:6- Be strong and of a good courage, fear not, nor be afraid of them: for the Lord thy God, he it is that doth go with thee; he will not fail thee, nor forsake thee.

Psalm 102:13-Thou shalt arise, and have mercy upon Zion: for the time to favour her, yea, the set time, is come.

Jeremiah 32:27- Behold, I am the Lord , the God of all flesh: is there any thing too hard for me?

Psalm 139:17-How precious also are thy thoughts unto me, O God! how great is the sum of them!

Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord , thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.

Isaiah 40:31-But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.

Genesis 1:28-And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth.

Exodus 23:25-27 -And ye shall serve the LORD your God, and he shall bless thy bread, and thy water; and I will take sickness away from the midst of thee.
There shall nothing cast their young, nor be barren, in thy land: the number of thy days I will fulfil.
I will send my fear before thee, and will destroy all the people to whom thou shalt come, and I will make all thine enemies turn their backs unto thee.

Psalm 121-- I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help.
My help cometh from the LORD, which made heaven and earth.
He will not suffer thy foot to be moved: he that keepeth thee will not slumber.
Behold, he that keepeth Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep.
The LORD is thy keeper: the LORD
is thy shade upon thy right hand.
The sun shall not smite thee by day, nor the moon by night.
The LORD shall preserve thee from all evil: he shall preserve thy soul.
The LORD shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in from this time forth, and even for evermore.


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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 11:46am On Jan 30, 2017
nicoleswizzi:


Lol..am fine oo by d grace of God...I go needs some of ur bible versions and prayer bad dream dey disturb me ... But I knw say my God pass dem...I use to think u were my teamie oo..lol...maybe bcs u no dey see my question pass by...anyhow.. Nothing spoil...are u Feb or April?

The Lord is your strength dear, do not entertain negative thoughts, the enemy can only try to scare us, but stand firm in your faith!
I'm team June o
Also team Benin Lol.

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 11:36am On Jan 30, 2017
PSALM 103

1. Bless the LORD, O my soul: and all that is within me, bless his holy name.
2. Bless the LORD, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits:
3. Who forgiveth all thine iniquities; who healeth all thy diseases;
4. Who redeemeth thy life from destruction; who crowneth thee with lovingkindness and tender mercies;
5. Who satisfieth thy mouth with good things; so that thy youth is renewed like the eagle's.
6. The LORD executeth righteousness and judgment for all that are oppressed.
7. He made known his ways unto Moses, his acts unto the children of Israel.
8. The LORD is merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and plenteous in mercy.
9. He will not always chide: neither will he keep his anger for ever.
10. He hath not dealt with us after our sins; nor rewarded us according to our iniquities.
11. For as the heaven is high above the earth, so great is his mercy toward them that fear him.
12. As far as the east is from the west, so far hath he removed our transgressions from us.
13. Like as a father pitieth his children, so the LORD pitieth them that fear him.
14. For he knoweth our frame; he remembereth that we are dust.
15. As for man, his days are as grass: as a flower of the field, so he flourisheth.
16. For the wind passeth over it, and it is gone; and the place thereof shall know it no more.
17. But the mercy of the LORD is from everlasting to everlasting upon them that fear him, and his righteousness unto children's children;
18. To such as keep his covenant, and to those that remember his commandments to do them.
19. The LORD hath prepared his throne in the heavens; and his kingdom ruleth over all.
20. Bless the LORD, ye his angels, that excel in strength, that do his commandments, hearkening unto the voice of his word.
21. Bless ye the LORD, all ye his hosts; ye ministers of his, that do his pleasure.
22. Bless the LORD, all his works in all places of his dominion: bless the LORD, O my soul.

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 10:43am On Jan 30, 2017
Mama's it's prayer Monday!!!
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 10:41am On Jan 30, 2017
@Opejulie10 thank God all is going well. Do take care
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 10:40am On Jan 30, 2017
talltosyne:
We were planning to begin 2nd missionary journey dis cycle, only to slip and break my leg. Devil is a layer, no more delay ijn. Remember in your prayers
Former teamie sorry o, it is well with u, please take ur supplements o, u ll be up and doing very soon by his grace
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 9:40am On Jan 30, 2017
Hello everyone happy new week!

Callola how are you holding up?
Opejulie10 hope you are taking things slow and easy?
The Lord is your strength!
Nicoleswizzi "teamie " how body nau ?
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 1:29pm On Jan 29, 2017
lioha:


Wow former teamie is reloaded ohhhhh to God be the glory. God never fails. You will carry to term IJN .

Baby is fine. Am not yet on a 2nd missionary journey.

Amen! Join me in thanking God, he is too faithful o!
Regards to d family.

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Family / DOMESTIC ABUSE!!! Is Donald Trump Abusive Towards His Wife Melania??? by Iyomomoreloaded: 9:50am On Jan 29, 2017
If you spent time on Twitter or Instagram this week, you might have caught the #FreeMelania jokes swirling around on social media, which suggest that Melania Trump was so miserable at the inauguration, and possibly in her marriage, that we need to save her from the clutches of her husband. As of today, the hashtag brings up about 7000 posts on Instagram and a constantly growing number on Twitter.
Of course, photos of public figures, particularly those involved in politics, are free for interpretation. But insinuating that someone is in an abusive relationship based on how they appear (or how often they speak), and then mocking them, shows how poorly Americans understand the gravity of domestic abuse and violence. An average of 20 people are physically abused by intimate partners every minute in the United States, which adds up to more than 10 million abuse victims and survivors annually, according to The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence.

The people of the internet, don't know whether or not Melania is being abused — and it's particularly tricky territory, given her husband's complicated track record around assault and high-power status — but frankly, that's not the point. At the end of the day, it's never okay to joke about abuse, and it's certainly not okay to publicly assume that someone is being abused for the purpose of making light of it.

"Melania hasn't said anything publicly about abuse or asked for assistance, but if she ever says something, that will be the time to talk about it, not now," says Ruth Glenn, executive director of The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence. "You never want to assign abuse."

Domestic abuse looks different in every single relationship, because — imagine this! — every single relationship is different. We honestly have no idea what's going on in Melania and Donald's marriage, and we shouldn't pick and choose tropes to thrust on them.

"The image of Melania painted in the shadows of her husband, that's not how abuse looks for everyone," says Bryan Pacheco, a spokesperson for the domestic abuse hotline and shelter, Safe Horizon.
“WHEN THE INTERNET REVELS IN #FREEMELANIA JOKES, THAT CREATES AN ENVIRONMENT IN WHICH PEOPLE IN ABUSIVE SITUATIONS MAY NOT FEEL SAFE COMING OUT AND GETTING HELP".
This is not to say that you should remain silent if you truly think someone you know is being abused. But there are right and wrong ways to handle that kind of situation, and assuming that it's easy for someone to leave an abusive partner if they aren't physically held captive (like many #FreeMelania posters seem to be assuming) is often the first thing people get wrong.

"When you think about the possibility of a loved one being in a domestic abuse situation, it's natural to think, 'Just leave him!'" Pacheco says. Telling your loved one to simply leave may feel like the quickest way to help, but giving point-blank instructions to a domestic abuse survivor can be disempowering.

"A survivor gets to determine and assess when it's safe for them to take action with an abuser, and when we tell them when to leave, we don't understand the checklist they have to go through," Glenn says. "If leaving was that simple, it'd be a healthier world."

In domestic abuse scenarios, people can be afraid to leave the relationship because of deep internal struggles, logistical complications with children, religious obligations, and financial incentives. Love is another big reason, and some people believe if they wait it out, their partner will change, Glenn says.

The best thing you can do for someone who you believe is stuck in an abusive relationship is offer support. Let the person know that you're there to talk, remind them that nothing they say will make you stop supporting them, and also give them a domestic abuse hotline number. "Many survivors respond to that," Glenn says. "It may take a month, week, or year, but they're more likely to react when they know someone is there for them."

Domestic abuse survivors may feel stigmatized or pressured to be silent, because they're afraid people won't understand or believe them. And when the internet revels in #FreeMelania jokes, that creates an environment in which people in abusive situations may not feel safe coming out and getting help. Not to mention, if you truly believe that Melania is being abused, joking about her situation and thinking, "Well, she got herself into this marriage," only perpetuates victim-blaming.

"If you think she chose [to be in an abusive situation], you're showing a lack of empathy and understanding of domestic violence," Glenn says (though again, we simply can't know if she is or isn't in an abusive relationship, and it's reckless to claim she is without evidence).

As for the memes? Just don't. "Whether it's Melania or someone else, when we make domestic abuse a laughing matter or minimize what someone might be going through, it doesn't help victims and survivors, it makes them marginalized," Glenn says.

Take it from a wise former First Lady: "When they go low, we go high."

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 7:38pm On Jan 28, 2017
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@remy thanks maam
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Was asked to take it thrice daily
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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 7:34pm On Jan 28, 2017
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