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mistake we all make is think engagement must be signified by a ring.

u can get her something else.

whitelexi:
Needless to say, it is not about her needfully doing the needful that is the problem, but how the needful is needfully done!

did u just realise that being needy aint that bad!

jeeezzzzzzz, too many blogs this days!

there is nothing wrong with it.
she knows what she wants and is going for it.

just that in this parts she is seen as loose, most expecially when the relationship dont last long.

that lie above mine was yumi yummy

Raymonwell:
Hi Mokwue,lngtme no c,op u cn remember me?RAYMONWELL. Dat i said am looking 4 my right lady,nd u said if am serious we cn b best of frd.so pls dis my contact. 08028850963/07033494121.or raheem4luv@gmail.com tanks

mokwue:
we can[b] be friend[/b]. if you are serious

dint read where she sao best of friends.
u dey show signs of desperation.

DanWaziri:
We (guys) all have pictures of ex-es and still dream about that Bolanle in primary 6 that we could not grow the liver to toast back then, but then we grow up. You have a good marriage, is it worth losing over some fairly-used "toto" that you would soon discard when the next "childhood friend" calls?

P.S. To Bolanle - I am all grown up now and my email is hornydude@justkidding dot com

dude even though u said it in a funny way, u got the problem solved.

bros how many old flames u wan re-ignite? i can imagine if i have to tow ur line, i wud be outa my marriage longer than i wud be in it.

where did u hear that in marriage u wud be in love at all times? there are times u have trying periods, or when u fall out of love,
but bro the issue here is that as at the time u decided to settle down, she was the only woman worth giving ur life to.
that should count for something.

he already moved on girl, worse off its ur friend.
so i think you should know its a no longer than a probable.

i wonder how u summed that he stil loves you though, cos i know how emotions can be decietful when we come in contact with an ex.

union of snoops.

y me,
was just kidding , never nice to say a thing and not do it.
am almost in the same shoes, only this time its not money related but time.

promised to travel somewhere south with some1 in november and am not even sure can get that time of work.
but am working towards it though.

so maybe he needs to explain it to her, or just pay the price and forget it.

y me:
if he gat the cash to spend, i see no reason why ,
but if not let him explain to the chik
NOTE---promise and fail is a sin

actually its promise and bail, and its not a sin.

tell him to go ahead if his pocket will not be afflicted seriously, otherwise, promise and bail will do just fine.

yumi, i dont think who makes the move really matters.
like u said, u both made statements u shud not have.
so ur calling him up, and apologising for saying those things have not made u less a person.

we only regret the things we dont do, and not the things we do.

the devil always try to take out happiness away, even using ploys of making us feel we dont deserve happiness.
dont be misled, there is nothing wrong with being happy, or celebrating that little success u have achieved.
God wants us to be hence his making provison for happy situations.

Secretz:
Oh please. The fact that you have to even 'snoop' in the first instance whether it be a little, or a lot, means you yourself have personal issues you need to deal with and shouldn't even bother being in a relationship.

tell me u have never peeped into ur bf's wallet, phone, wardrobe, file, letters, something of that sort.
lets not be hasty @ stating otherwise, i know its assumed wrong to snoop, but hey sometimes it does happen and we all know this fact.
dont go playing all saintly or godly or something!

Whitey doesn't bode well for a guy when his girl snoops up on every little thing.
shows u have trust issues and should do some rethink.

there should be a level of snooping allowed, but haba her own is too much.
its not like trust is lacking when she checks his stuff, but like some1 told me, it shows concern from the other party.

but going tru garbage and all is downright silly.

your love for her will make you take decisions that are in her best interest.
even if it means letting her go so u dont continue to hurt her.

she told u indirectly she was digging the other guy, u just dint get the message.

god!

nothing says they dont make good bf's, just dont go with the intention of changing them later.

yes give her 20k, chicken bye bye, saviour welcome!

u mean u have 20K
am suprised.  

slowie:
NAija, naija, everything must be lobbied!!!!!!!!! abah

we sir are a lobbyist state.
we lobby for a living.

well guess i understand ur point though,
not like we all are not guilty of such act.
just expect that one has to be more cautious about who he dates and how serious he intends for it to be.

either ways love, he should let her go and make it easy on her.
and while @ it, he shud not make her know his true feelings for her did not contain love.
a little pretence would make a diff as to how fats her heart heals. .

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Exactly. [/color]

did she say it better than i did.
dude just did hit andrun either ways we see it.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]simply his breaking up of the relationship
Of what use is dragging the whole thing out for either of them? [/color]

when dude knew he was a 1 woman man, and he knew he needed to know if she was the right one,
he wud have refrained from sleeping with her until he was sure.
that way break-up wud be easy, and she wont feel like he just used her and dumped her.

look i just think its hardly out of place for her to ask.
my only problem wud be her asking you like its ur responsiblilty to cater for her upkeep.
even if your wife earns 50 000$ a month, i still se it as a thing of pride to provide for some of her basic needs.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Procrastination just makes it worse.
Tell her it's not working out.[/color]

what exactly is being procrastinated,
the sexual gratifications he got, or the fact that he intends dumping her after soo much promise.

its not suppossed to be seen as a responsibility, rather his ways to appreciate her effort of looking good for him.

yumi yumi,
pls dont say things you know you can't do.