₦airaland Forum

190:
Maybe i shud also send my ex dat same message!

Ben20001:
see how scanty the message is why did I even click

Biscoco:
I have been married for 2 years without an issue and my Husband is very nice and caring. At the early stages of the marriage, we were very close and spend most of our leisure time together. But recently, he started moving with some new friends who are also married but keep late nights, they leave hang out areas by 12midnight and go to clubs,initially my husband used to tell me what they do and i started praying seriously against their influence. Now my husband hardly comes home before 12am and these friends still call him in the middle of the night asking him'' WHERE ARE YOU''. I think they have brainwashed my husband because he makes statement like ( i don't want my friends to think that my wife is controlling me so i have to spend time with them). i have called him on several occasions to beg him not to allow his friends influence him negatively all to no avail. He was a very good christian who preaches to people who eventually serve God deligently.Now he is back to alcoholism and smoking.He has backslided. i don't know what to do again. My fear is that these so called new friends will influence him to put another woman in the family way. i am sick and tired of his attitude towards me because i feel lonely a lot at home. please, what should i do. i have been praying for him but he will not change and anytime he comes home early especially on weekend,( 9PM) HE WILL ASK ME TO THANK HIM. .This is weird to me, i am a doctor and i don't want to make trouble. pla advise me on how to win my husband back.
Bisi

olanajim:
strange! She must be hidding something

carvone:
Ive been dating this young man for the past five yrs who happened to be my first . We broke up for two yrs and came back together last yr nov.He is 36 and i will be 31 this year.Ive been fortunate to have a very good job,but he is not tht lucky in the labour marke[/b]t(pls note that we met while we were serving sme yrs back).This has been causing a lot of friction in between us.[b]All my friends believe i must be so stupid to be witha man that can hardly feed himself,but the truth is i love him deeply and i knw he feels the same as well.He has been runing from one pillar to post in search of a job but nothing positive has come out of this .My question is for how long will i continue to wait?I ve been asking him this same question all the while and he `s been saying i suld be patient and that he is convinced he will make it blabla.I asked him this same question last weekend and i was shocked when he told me that he is always feeling guilty whenver i ask him this question,that i always sound as if he is tying me down which doesnt go down well with him.He capped it all by saying if i meet anyone that i truly love that am free to go so far am happy he will be happy.My question is

1 Can somebody that truly loves you come up with this after so many yrs?

2,What do i do ?Am confused and to make matter worse,we are in 2 diff states,we rarely see
A part of me is saying am wasting my time,while another part of me is saying i suld still be patient but for how long nairalanders?

oyb:
am pretty sure tuface's baby mamas also understood the 'periodic table'

ThiefOfHearts:
lol who's gonna shag someone who they find isnt wearing underwear in the first place

Nezan:
I wonder why this post made it to the home page.