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Career / Re: ICAN November 2023 Diet Exam - Let's Meet Here by Izen: 3:10pm On Aug 30, 2017
wendymykel:
Good day.am an ican student just registered though.pls I studied accounting education from ekiti state university and my school is accredited.how many courses will be exempted for me if am to write this nov diet exam?

Please when did you register? You should be exempted for foundation and skills I think. Just check the ICAN website.
Career / Re: ICAN November 2023 Diet Exam - Let's Meet Here by Izen: 3:00pm On Aug 30, 2017
Hello Guys.

Please I want to write ICAN November Diet foundation exams. Due to my very busy schedule and the fact that I don't know any chartered accountant close to my location, I decided to go through a popular education consulting agency close to me. Since July up-till now, I have paid a total of N35,000 to the agency. However, I am yet to see any proof that I am actually an ICAN student. I thought I was supposed to individually fill a form but because I told my agent that it was taking too long, he called me the next week to ask for my details over the phone. The only time I get to see him otherwise is on Saturdays when I don't go to work. I received this said call almost a month ago and till today, I am yet to see my registration number on the ICAN platform. I am about to lose my cool. I personally need at least 2 months to study because of my work schedule. I will still have to seek exemption before I get my study materials hence the N35,000. i find it hard to read on my laptop, I'm more of a book person. If by the first week of September I hear nothing, I plan to call off the whole thing and ask for a refund. There's no point writing an exam I'm not sure I'll pass. I just want to find out from you guys if any one registered around the 1st week of August but is still yet to get a registration number. Please this is urgent. Thank you.
Jobs/Vacancies / 2017 Nigerian Bottling Company (NBC) Graduate Management Trainee Program by Izen: 10:21am On Aug 14, 2017
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In line with our mission of enriching the lives of our local communities, we train and equip youths with employable skills in vocational areas, who will subsequently contribute to Nigeria's capacity development. Thus, applications are invited for the vacant position below:

Management Trainee
Job Type - Full Time
Qualification - BA/BSc/HND
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What's In It For You

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Reward and Recognition
Dynamic working environment
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Intelligent, mentally agile and ambitious
Always going the extra mile
Brave in innovating and making change happen
Open to learning and new experiences
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Requirements
What you must have:

Second Class Honors (Upper Division) in any of the following disciplines:
Engineering (Electrical/Electronics, Mechanical, Industrial Production);
Sciences (Biochemistry, Chemistry, Microbiology)
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Logistics and Supply Chain Management.
NYSC discharge certificate not earlier than 2016
Minimum of 5 credits (including Mathematics and English) in one sitting in the Senior Secondary Certificate Examination.

Method of Application
Interested and qualified? Go to https://cchellenic.csod.com/ats/careersite/jobdetails.aspx?site=1&c=cchellenic&id=2215
Crime / Re: Please I Need Quick Advise, I'm Aware Of A Kidnapping Attempt by Izen: 11:34pm On Aug 13, 2017
MadCow1:
Here are some cold hard truth for you..

No.1 - You said they have carries out other kidnappings before which you were in the know of. That already makes you an accessory to the crime and it is punishable under the law. So you my friend are already a criminal.

No.2 - You know and associate with known Kidnappers so that makes you an accomplice wether you participate or not.

No.3 - You know of a new plot to kidnap ye another person. You know they are assembling resources for the crime and even know the gang leader and a member of the syndicate. You Sir are already implicated in the crime.


Now here is my advice.. Go meet a Lawyer to explain to you what your level of involvement may be. Do not think just because you are in Nairaland you are untraceable. This post can be narrowed down to the I.P address from which it was sent and a dragnet set for you so consider yourself exposed. It will be in your best interest to make a move now to report the crime to the police in the company of a good lawyer who can arrange a plea deal for you to act as a Police witness.

If you don't support their actions then you should have no problems snitching.

Your head is there. He should just get a good lawyer and arrange a deal. He should also get his family to a secret place for protection cos our forces won't protect them.

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TV/Movies / Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by Izen: 2:19pm On Aug 01, 2017
Why do you all think Lady Olenna is dead tho? They never showed her dying.
Romance / Re: Why Most Women Don't Date Broke Men by Izen: 2:56pm On Jul 31, 2017
emperorchedda:
We really don't have a problem about whom they choose to date, after all, it's their standard. But the problem is WHAT CAN THEY OFFER?? SEX (which is enjoyed evenly)

You want a man that can afford luxuries yet you bring absolutely NOTHING to the table. You call a man broke because he can't afford something even you cant afford, dont you think you are also BROKE as hell??

When a man meets a lady who is financially above him then he has no right whatsoever to call get angry when called broke, however, when girl who asks a man for money open her mouth to call him broke I think Amadioha is close to falling on her. Especially the ones that asks for what their fathers can't afford

From your entire comment the only thing a woman brings to the table is sex shey? I wonder why NL guys get angry when ladies say they can't cook, clean, wash, or birth & take care of kids, etc. I mean if those are not things being brought to the table, then why so serious?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Sales Assistant Needed In Ibadan ASAP!! by Izen: 12:19pm On Jul 30, 2017
Moderators please kindly move to the front page. It's really important. Thank you.

@lalasticala
Jobs/Vacancies / Sales Assistant Needed In Ibadan ASAP!! by Izen: 11:39am On Jul 30, 2017
A start-up book store at the Airport Junction in Ibadan is seeking for a sales assistant to resume immediately.

Job description:
1. Payment collection
2. Keeping records of items sold
3. Taking daily stock and reporting to the supervisor
4. Managing the business space
5. Marketing to potential customers
6. Relating with customers and keeping records of their complaints and suggestions.

Advantages of working with us:
1. Assess to a wide range of books (note that books cannot be taken out of the store and must be kept neat)
2. On-the-job training in stock-taking, book-keeping, and management.
3. Bonuses or increase in salary depending on performance.
4. You won't be forced to do anything beyond your job description.

Requirements:

1. Must be female
2. Minimum of JSSCE (preferably awaiting admission into higher institution)
3. Must be fluent in English language and have good communication skills.
4. Must be a computer literate
5. Must possess basic mathematical or accounting skills.
6. At least 17 years of age.
7. Must live in Alakia axis.
8. Must be responsible and accountable.
9. Must dress modestly and appropriately.

Please note;
Working hours: 9am - 6pm (Mondays to Fridays)
10am - 4pm (Saturdays)
Salary: N6000 - N8000
Applicants must be willing to resume as soon as tomorrow, July 31 and must be ready for a phone interview.

How to apply:
Send a short essay (not more than 300 words) introducing yourself, specifying your skills, and indicating why you're a perfect fit for the job to prinad_219@rocketmail.com
Include your address and mobile number. Attaching your CV and passport photograph is an added advantage.

Only qualified applicants will be contacted for a phone interview before the end of today.

Deadline: 5pm

Thank you.

(Please spread the word if you have a younger one that will rather get busy than stay home all day.)
Family / Re: Should I Send My Father This Message Our Family Is tearing apart by Izen: 3:13am On Jul 30, 2017
YOUNGSTUNNA:
God! I booked this space thinking it's a thread I can comment... Then I read through it and realized it is stronger than me. Now I have no choice but to sit back relax and let Nairaland Elders Comment.

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You know op... that's same sh*t my Dad used to do, used beat Mon up and cheat on her, I never did side him or mom. it's their marriage, they took the vows *for better or worse* I wasn't there, so I stayed out of their business. I don't wanna talk about all those sh*ts I've witnessed...but bro stay out of their business, they're both adults not kids...

Op... Do not listen to this advice. If you truly love someone, you won't stand aside to watch them get hurt be it father, mother, siblings, friends, kids, etc. You mentioned that she gets beat up shey? I'm sorry but that's the height for me.

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TV/Movies / Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by Izen: 12:46pm On Jul 27, 2017
BraniacX:


That theory has been explored

How?
TV/Movies / Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by Izen: 7:08am On Jul 26, 2017
There's a new theory I found on the net guys and it makes a whole lot of sense. If you thought little finger what the cause of the chaos, you made need to have a rethink. I'm beginning to believe that Bran Stark is the problem of their world. He's the 3 eyed-raven right? so he's been around for centuries. He has the ability to travel to the past, present, and future but cannot change any of the events. However he can influence them by making his presence known through whispers. Recall that his dad heard him call? Also recall that Hudor ran mad because of the "hold the door" whispers he heard from the future through Bran. What if all the Targaryen psychos ran mad because of Bran? What if he knew of the apocalyptic end the white walkers could bring from the beginning of time and now decided to warn the kings and red priestesses and yet no one was able to comprehend it? What if the mad kings popular phrase "burn them all" wasn't really sure to paranoia but was instead Bran's instructions for the fight against the dead, but was misinterpreted?

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TV/Movies / Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by Izen: 1:04am On Jul 26, 2017
veekid:
If Ned was the only one who knew about Jon (now dead), who will unveil the truth?

Don't forget that bran and Holland Reed (who stabbed the knight in the back for Ned, and also father to the siblings who helped bran beyond the wall) are alive.
TV/Movies / Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by Izen: 11:21pm On Jul 25, 2017
simi4me:


Jon has more legitimate claim to the throne his father was supposed to take over from the Mad King as the heir, Jon is his heir. it can only go to dany if rhegar has no heir. rhegar was a crown prince.

Don't forget he's still a Bastard either way.
TV/Movies / Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by Izen: 11:20pm On Jul 25, 2017
nani667:
Just saw the first episode... Nice


Patiently waiting for Jon Snow and Daenerys' fateful meeting.... I anticipate an epic sex session in the near future....

And Sansa, I surmise that babe will eventually betray Joh Snow..... She's already deep in the dark side.

You know Daenerys is Jon's aunt right?
TV/Movies / Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by Izen: 10:49pm On Jul 25, 2017
Izen:


I think the whole point of game of thrones is the "song of fire and ice". At the end both Daernys and Jon are going to have to compromise to rule together and fight the night king. Jon is the ice and Daernys is the fire. Fire kills white walkers just like Davos noted to Jon. They're both Targaryens. Daernys is Jon's aunt. They can both legitimately lay claim to the throne.
TV/Movies / Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by Izen: 10:49pm On Jul 25, 2017
Gbola5:



Because he's the Prince that was Promised and his is the Song of Ice and Fire ?

I think the whole point of game of thrones is the "song of fire and ice". At the end both Daernys and Jon are going to have to compromise to rule together and fight the night king. Jon is the ice and Daernys is the fire. Fire kills white walkers just like Davos noted to Jon. They're both Targaryens. Daernys is Jon's aunt. They can both legitimately lay claim to the throne.
TV/Movies / Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by Izen: 10:06pm On Jul 25, 2017
newguy1:
Yes I have same facial reaction during d scene to as u do now grin

Remind me never to eat sheperd pie Biko...... Eww
Celebrities / Re: Funke Akindele Bello Is Pregnant With Twins? (Photos) by Izen: 9:19pm On Jun 25, 2017
chima4chima:
when will these celebs learn that it's not everything you post on social media..

What is the big deal about sharing pregnancy news? Nigerians and secrecy.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: KPMG Partner Interview For Management Consulting by Izen: 11:47pm On Jun 16, 2017
AyoDoll:
I applied in January, did Aptitude test in February, got a call in July for Assessment Center and now time for Partner Interview. Any tips!!

Hi. Please can your tell me a little about the MC partner's interview you went for?
Romance / Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Izen: 4:26pm On Jun 06, 2017
MrBrownJay1:


Nah, that is NOT what I am saying.... What I am trying to say is that there are better priorities in their lives, and a loving caring partner should "understand" that, instead of solely focussing on her life selfishly. This is the time when a man needs his woman the most (aka when he is down), and women who run at the 1st sign of struggle, DONT deserve this same man if/when he finally makes it.

Y'all act like women don't have their struggles too or something they're running after. Would you feel the same way if the situation was reversed? That's how one bobo was telling me not to be too ambitious because he felt I didn't have enough time for him. So Mr, while your comment is idealistic, would the same excuse be tenable if a woman gave it for not placing priority on you in her life. Because I've noticed it's the same men who comment like this that who insult ladies who say they cannot be cooking and cleaning and doing all shorts for their boyfriends. Same men who say they're not women's fathers are the same ones who want girlfriends who would care for them like their mothers. I'm not pro ask men for money, I'm just pointing out the hypocrisy here.

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Romance / Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Izen: 2:25pm On Jun 06, 2017
MrBrownJay1:


The lady is broke and so is the dude, I could find many priorities in these guys lives that would be more important than a damn mobile phone ... Like getting a roof over your head, getting a JOB, getting 3 square meals a day, getting your life on track etc
Dating a guy and expecting to become a priority in his life that A) isn't yet in order and B) a life where you are still a guest (aka not even his wife) is the joke of the day.
We already know the deal, as soon as she would get the phone, then she will now start begging for a computer, and the begging will never stop. The only way to solve the issue is to help this lady get a JOB so she can buy herself what she desires, and finally stop begging.



sadly the issue is not really about money, it's the state of mind and lack of respect from a "supposedly" loving gf, the insult, the cheap nature and, most importantly the deluded dude who treat this babe like merchandise (by trying to buy her), not understanding that what you get with honey, you will equally lose with honey.... Aka the same way some richer dude will entice this cheap babe with bigger/better gifts (unless you are Dangote).

Sadly, I know your type of mentality, the type of dude who has absolutely nothing to offer a woman (in terms of character) thus need to entice them with the only thing that they are interested in.... Money. Poor is a man that only has money to offer.



Of course it can never end well, as the rich dude will simply throw cash in her face and she will do whatever he desires... You want the phone, come to my house, the phone is kept in the bedroom etc, then same shiit with a computer, and whatever else can impress her silly self.... Then when that dude has enough, he sets his mind on another prostitute babe and drop that foolish one like a bad rash. That's when she will run back to 1st dude and blame the demon for her actions.

Sadly, in a country where most are struggling financially, many prefer selling themselves to the highest bidding donkey than living up to their means.

BTW if a man buys a woman, then she should also Make sure she STFU (like the property that she is) or else she will become a punching bag.

Dude, you just repeated what I said. That's your mindset and it's fine. Joke of the century or not, it is not fair to the other person to date them if they're not priority in your life. Let them be on their own. It is deceitful. And I am not talking about a phone, I'm talking about the lady in the context of your comment. Anybody who feels he isn't ready to date should stay on his own.
Romance / Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Izen: 11:04am On Jun 06, 2017
MrBrownJay1:


FAIL #1
If she indeed "really" loved her bf, she wouldn't have noticed that foolish stranger, hoping to crawl with her (aka a gal already dating someone).... Sadly, a gal "really" in love with her bf would have shut this fool down out of RESPECT for her man/relationship.



FAIL #2
Why would a woman expect from her broke BF what her broke parents can't offer her?!



FAIL #3
Here she is, now looking for "excuses" to crawl and sell herself to generous foolish stranger.... Valentine bla bla bla. Her man is broke and has bigger priorities than her in his life... Is that too difficult for that "supposed" in love babe to understand?!



FAIL #4
Why didn't she also reminded her parents that she was in need?! Or did she now decided that her financial problems are "solely" bf issues?



FAIL #5
A gal that is "supposedly" in love would never disrespect her union/bf by accepting gifts from someone who wants to fukc her. Is that what she plans to do when her husband may get in financial trouble in the future?! Her actions shows the "type" of woman she is.



FAIL #6
Should this question even be asked?! Not only it is an insult to her struggling broke bf, it is also a sad act making her look cheap... No man want such woman by their side.



FAIL #7
So she isn't that stupid, and knows that getting a phone from a stranger is wrong then?! Why would she lie if she thought her actions were RIGHT?!
Here Is a clue:there will always be a richer dude out there offering "better bigger" gifts.



FINAL FAIL
Not understanding that this sole act would be the beginning of the end for their r/ship


Your number 4. If she isn't a priority in his life, then he should let her be. Its not by force to have a girlfriend. I cannot date you and you won't be a priority in my life. What are we now doing?
Politics / Re: Dr. Ismaila Farouk Blasts Osinbajo; Says He’s No Saint by Izen: 7:30pm On Jun 03, 2017
LordAdam16:


Depends on what parts you are referring to.

Of course Osinbajo would be better in economy. Really, he doesn't have to do much, the economy can run itself.

But in everything else, he'll be worse than Buhari.

Buhari was increasing our reserves steadily over 4 months by as much as $4.9b. Osinbajo started the intervention in February that has cost Nigeria north of $5b. I'm not going to say it was completely unnecessary. But after the first $2b was spent to push the rate below N400, every extra dollar has been a reckless spend. Buhari kept things steady and managed to increase the reserves while still maintaining relevant intervention.

The midget, just burned through 500m of reserves like it was chump change and over $1b of revenue. And for what? 15 naira difference. In February, that same amount shaved over 50 naira and oil price was around $55 pd. Now, prices are around $50 and we're spending scarce dollars to get a fraction of the effect. For heaven's sake, the value in the investor's window is higher than black market rate, and bank cards are actually higher than black market rate. It's no more about convergence, it's plain old political window dressing.

And he knows he'll get away with it, because when awful things happen, it's Buhari's fault. When nice things happen, it's Osinbajo's brilliance. He's been given a blank check like Buhari was given in 2015, and we have a long history of what leaders do with blank checks in Nigeria, Osinbajo would be is no different.

And lets just move from economy for a tad bit. Would Buhari really pressure the Kano state government to stop the Sanusi probe? Even if he were to do so, would he do it directly or via a proxy. I mean this is the corrupt Buhari who keeps 500m-bribed Kyari as his henchman. Yet Osinbajo actually and stupidly did it, something we both know the failure Buhari wouldn't do. And he gets a free pass, because we are all too comfortable to find a new messiah who like the last one is another demon.

-Lord

The fact that you keep calling him a midget is why I won't take the rest of your comments seriously. It is derogatory to short people like myself. And it hurts the same way a white man calling a black man nigga hurts. No one chooses to be short. Smh.
Romance / Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Izen: 9:30am On May 25, 2017
26andsearching:


I rarely speak of myself or status when wooing

U ladies are just too complicated

Its not complicated. The truth is a lot of guys are also guilty of materialism without knowing, only that they are mostly on the giving end. They believe the only way to a woman's heart is money and so they don't build up their character in other areas. If you meet someone like me and you keep saying things like "all every woman wants is money, they bring nothing to the table", I won't even argue with you. I won't ask o but I also won't refuse when you shower me with money. All you've told me is that I don't have to prove myself in other areas since you've made up your mind that all I want from you is your money. I'll date you but can never marry you. You may be giving off that attitude to women around you without knowing. Remember, we're very intuitive.
Car Talk / Re: Women Driving; How Cool Are You With It? by Izen: 1:44pm On May 21, 2017
PaperLace:
You just wan find talk ba? Anyway, women could be better drivers than some men and vice versa.

Driving is a skill, it's not an intrinsic quality of any gender. You develop it...

I liked your comment and I wish people will agree that cooking is a skill too.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 2017 KPMG Graduate Trainee Recruitment Thread by Izen: 11:47pm On May 20, 2017
So everyone has been going for AC apparently but no one is talking. Are we hoarding info now?
Romance / Re: If Your Girlfriend Slaps You, Will You Slap Back? by Izen: 11:28pm On May 20, 2017
TheBatman:

i really don't know how to use the quote button very well, but the following are your words.
.................
When a woman hits you, she is most likely upset and not necessarily angry. She is not necessarily trying to hurt you and there is usually no power play involved. She is just trying to let go of steam.

" There is not much harm a slap from a woman can do to you".
...................
A woman's slap would not cause much harm according to you, infact from the way you wrote it, it seemed a woman's slap would cause little or no (physical) harm to a guy.
Now if a lady's slap won't cause any harm, then one can say it's okay for a lady to slap a guy. Hey it won't cause any harm (or it would cause very little harm) anyways. Now that was why I said your statement INDIRECTLY meant it's okay for a lady to slap a guy.

If you're still lost, then let's just agree to disagree. I no too get power to dey argue and i'm sure you don't have that luxury of strength and time too.

Alright fine fine. I was done replying you too but let's just say I get your point. My comment was in line with the mindset that men should go all out just because a woman slaps them. Read the previous comments from guys. Statements like this are very common when arguments like this arise, "If a woman slaps me ehn, I will so deal with her that her mother will see her and cry". In law, this is no longer self defense, it is now premeditated. It's like men really want to just put a woman in "her place" but since they know that'll be frowned upon, they look for the tiniest justification. In my initial analogy, I made mention of how you won't punch a 2 year old in the stomach for slapping your face. And why is that? Because the punishment wouldn't fit the crime. What would fit the crime is either to use two of your fingers to spank the back of his palm or for you to restrict both his hands by holding them firmly together. If you go all out on that child, you take the blame eventually. So a woman slaps you first, restrain her hands or slap your own back and let it end there. What the guys up there are saying is that they would beat her to a comma and feel justified doing it. And that's where my argument is stemming from. Just watch this link and ask yourself if this would still be justified even if the woman hit him first:
https://video-amt2-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t42.1790-2/18541062_256239664782466_4830522345984622592_n.mp4?efg=eyJybHIiOjMwMCwicmxhIjo1MTIsInZlbmNvZGVfdGFnIjoic3ZlX3NkIn0%3D&oh=a950ae2450aa0873040a6d13235d28ef&oe=5920EC12
That's all I have to say. And for the umpteenth time, I am not an advocate of violence from any gender. I don't condone it.
Politics / Re: How Lagos May Be Underdeveloping The Rest Of Nigeria - Ynaija by Izen: 10:40pm On May 20, 2017
GrandGarcon:
mr man stop talking nonsense. In the US you have, New York, California, Texas, Los Angeles. In China you have Shanghai, Guangzhou, Shenzhen, Beijing in the main land, outside mainland you have Hon Kong, Macao, Japan has, Yokohama, Kyoto, Osaka, even Chiba and Shizuoka, Canada has Ontario, Toronto Calgary etc.

I thought Los Angeles was in California? See why I can't take the rest of your comment seriously? You can't educate us with this kind of ignorance undecided

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 2017 KPMG Graduate Trainee Recruitment Thread by Izen: 12:07pm On May 20, 2017
unamdi:

What's MC?

Management consulting
Romance / Re: If Your Girlfriend Slaps You, Will You Slap Back? by Izen: 12:06pm On May 20, 2017
TheBatman:

DrObum's point are very valid.
@Izen, first of all you are basing your views on the fact that All women are weak and that a slap from a women won't cause physical pain to a man. This a very lie and WRONG. unless the slap is a light tap on the cheek, it would cause physical pain to both male and female, regardless of who is dishing out the slap.
You are also saying that MEN don't slap because they feel emotionally hurt, that we only slap because of ego.
And indirectly you're saying it's okay for a woman to slap a man if she feels emotionally hurt. If you agree with this, then I can say it is okay for a man to slap a lady if he feels emotionally hurt (like heart break and all). There are alot of "not quite right" things in your statement above.

In all what I am trying to say is
1) that it is not right to slap anybody (unless it's in self defence).
2) All slaps are painful, there is no painless slap (unless its a light tap on the cheek or that of a baby, and please don't compare the slap of a babe to that of a full grown woman).



You lost me there.
Romance / Re: If Your Girlfriend Slaps You, Will You Slap Back? by Izen: 6:03am On May 19, 2017
DrObum:

Madam, calm down.
I'm not an apostle of violence but don't come here and tell us that a slap from a woman isn't meant to harm but only a way to let out steam and that from a man was meant to maim!

Slap na slap, no matter how you see am! Whether from man or woman,both are meant to let out steam.

Don't downplay the crime of violence because you want to side females.

You need to calm down if you know nothing about psychology. I do not side any gender when it comes to violence. I always look to see the reason for any human action and until I get an otherwise statistic, I maintain my claim. I am a woman and though I have never and will never, I am certain that if at all I'm going to raise my hand to my significant other (not some random idiot), it'll be out of pain and hurt for what he did to me (and that thing won't be something shallow) and not because I feel insulted/disrespected and want to put him in his place. I'll probably be crying and saying why did you do this? E.g. I find out he infected me with an std (worst case scenario). Get it? For women, its not a power play and you better understand that. There's something called crime of passion so trust me, it's difficult to press charges because of a "slap" from a woman. And that's because the law is not stupid, they know it, you know it, I know it. If a two year old hits you, you know he can't harm you yet you hit him back harder to show him that you're not his mate, how dare he? It's the same with most men in this situation. Your woman hits you and instead of restricting her so she can't a anymore (that's what i do to kids), you'd rather beat her to a pulp to show her who's boss. We all know when someone means real harm. Stop deceiving yourself. The truth is you know when someone is really trying to harm you.
That aside, all I'm saying is from a psychology point of view. Go to the first part of my initial comment, I will be the first to frown at a woman guilty of this. I don't condone violence so don't try to change my narrative. Thanks.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 2017 KPMG Graduate Trainee Recruitment Thread by Izen: 5:44am On May 19, 2017
unamdi:
Just got a mail from kpmg for forensic graduate trainee next Tuesday.... Anyone like that?

A friend got a call for next Monday and I got a call for upper week. We both applied for MC. No mail yet tho.

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