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Morphinne:
You talk too much. People who have the urge to say more than they are being asked always end up telling lies and here’s what you do. Take every question and query as if you’re being interrogated by a police officer knowing fully well that you could get yourself into trouble if you say what you’re not asked to. Be objective, no ‘and’ no ‘but’ , no stuttering or stammering and in addition, do away with the burning desire to impress people. When you try too hard to impress others, you end up lying to sweeten your conversions with them. And lastly, don’t become or ever associate yourself with any obidense infected dog, they’re suffering from a very contagious disease they got from their imperial master and savior

I'm actually introverted,anxious and tongue tied during conversation, but on opening my mouth, flows the rivers of lies. I'm trying to find out the psychology behind it.

Meddymeddy:
Low self-esteem , anxiety that's what worrying you

You've just said something striking. Did you have this problem before?

dazzlingd:
You are smart

for been a liar?

blaquebelle:
Give yourself 5 seconds to think before you make your response. Don't be In a hurry to talk most times.

I wish it was that simple. I seem to wake up after telling a lie. Its a strong habit.

tamudabu:
I think he said he lies, lol.

I think i understand Joen now

Blunttruth:
You care too much about people's opinion about you that's why. Once you stop caring too much about what they think of you, and you putting an effort it'll stop.

I think you are right. I Have been working on been more emotionally stable.

Jeon:
maybe you ve forget. It was a long time ago.
Anyways Happy birthday in addy [ or sorry for the late wish ] if you have already celebrated.

stop playing with my head. Tell me who you are and how we met?

peepydelano:
It’s funny sha but try and quit such habits, there’s no habit that is permanent it’s an undo it yourself project.

Thats why i brought it here. I need help.
For a start i recently set a 5minutes reminder in my phone with a tag 'Don't Lie'.

Jeon:
Oh sorry. sometimes ago you told me that your birthday is among the month of bers.

So sorry.

Where and when did i say that?

peepydelano:
Maybe you inherited it from one of your parents

I don't rule out this possibility. Recently i have been doing some family background investigations. I think i have a suspect.

Cc: advanceDNA

Mrkumareze:
Check well or do DNA, you re likely related to lai Mohammed

On a serious note, you need to battle it well. I have a friend and a cousin sister who re experts in lies.. I notice they lie to keep their fake life or to make their stories sweet .

Atleast they have reasons for lying. Most times i tell stupid lies that are so dump and shocking

Golan007:
Obi, is that you?

No!! I'm Bola Tinubu

Jeon:
Hey Happy birthday.

but today is not my birthday na

Hello house. Is there any one that has this problem? It seems there is a part of my brain that is wired this way for years now.

While most people lie to escape punishment and blame etc, i tend to lie for no reason atall. Sometimes i need to lie further just to modify the initial lie.

Examples:
1. I went late to work because i had to take home some office files which i worked with all through the night. When asked, i lied to my boss that i had a compound dispute tha made me come late. Saying the truth would have earned me praises from my boss and saved me alot of stress.

2. I got injured at home. When my landlady asked how, i lied that i had a serious accident when going to work that morning.
I told her a long story about the accident scene and all. She was sympatizing with me and almost wept.

These are just few examples i can type now, there is more.

I can't help but lie most of the time i have conversation with people. Any advice?

Argentina needs to play with everything if they hope to win this game.

This lady is trying so hard to be relevant.
The South Korean government would do well to ignore her.

babzo:
Bishop Oyedepo's University? I find this hard to believe without names. And in this age of smart phone..chat ...text..audio or video (secret recordings) will convince doubters.

Are students allowed to use phones in the school?

Qatar players look unprepared.

Great stuff. Ekakamba, are you an Akwa Ibomite?

You have been trolling on this forum for more than 10yrs. I'm shocked that you're so consistent. Is trolling part of your mental build up?

Bc

Messi1:
It would be better if I cut ties..the man is really very unreasonable.

Don't act angry or aggresive towards him. Greet him and keep a cool countenance, but keep your distance. Learn from this situation and accept that you are at fault for visiting too often and constituting a 'see finish' situation.


I stayed with an uncle for 2 months when i was job hunting and broke. I had the most depressive moments staying with. He was aggresive, abusive, manipulative and likes to put me down in every way possible. This is someone that use to respect and speak to me politely.

I had to leave his house after a months so as to kill the 'see finish spirit'.


Its better to be seen once in a while than too often, otherwise you become cheap.

The overwhelming need to impress.

Maynman:
That’s what websites tell you, why don’t you go on personal testimony/reviews from people.
https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread

Stop wasting your precious time with that guy.

LordReed:
Ok.

Alot of men have ended up with erectile dysfunction because of people like you. You must be proud of yourself.

Lordreed the grand defender of masturbation.

It would be nice if nlfpmod push a thread like this to frontpage. Mostly antichristian thread are seen on sundays.

Brendaniel:
E = mc² , mc² = E

when we use energy or matter, it is converted from one form to another.

If they blow up the earth, they will only convert the earth to another form, which will be used for other purposes, in the end life continues in another form...

maybe Russia should tie explosives in your stomach and blow you up, so your life can continue in another form

Bla bla bla.... Its nine months they are yet to capture and keep one Ukrainian city.

All they know is is to conduct military parades and threaten the world with nuclear weapons as if they are the only nuclear state.

Light78:
I have a sister schooling in the East.

I send her 300k every month.

If she squanders it before the 7th of the new months, that's her business.


I won't take her calls till the ending of the month.

300k per month for naija? Your father na politician?

pretydiva:
Some girls no get taste at all sha. This my gender dey make me shame some times

see your small mouth. As if you would not Jump on portable if you see him in your street.

MP3GAGAdotCOM:
My brother! Do not let the devil accuse you any further,so long as you have regretted ur actions and asked God for forgiveness, believe me, you have been forgivn, don't let it be in your head because is the enemy that's just messing with you. All you have to do is to establish a strong personal relationship with JESUS CHRIST, He will reactivate the fellowship of the Holy Spirit within you..

Stay Blessed.

Thanks.The primary factor that connects us to God is faith. Faith gives us acess to salvation, forgiveness,healing and other blessings including helping us accept the Bible like a child.

Faith is a force from the spirit of God.

I Know i have lost faith, because i have cried and prayed on the mental and physical side, but in my heart, there is no connection with God again, its death.
Even when i had spiritual attacks, i cried to God out of fear, nothing happened until some church pple prayd for me.
I have lost the peace of GOD.