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Christianity EtcRe: Don't Fall For Atheists And Their Deceit. by Jackanda1(op): 5:29pm On Jan 25, 2023
Kobojunkie:
1. No one sends you that errand, and no one really cares. undecided

2. Then you don't need to tell anyone about it at all, nor open a thread to announce it too. undecided
I shouldn't tell any one about God and the Bible?

What sort of christian are you? A wolf in sheep clothing?
Christianity EtcRe: Don't Fall For Atheists And Their Deceit. by Jackanda1(op): 5:20pm On Jan 25, 2023
At this point in my life i'm willing to believe anything the Bible says no matter how seemingly foolish or irational if i get another opportunity.

I tell you the Bible you have in your hands is more than just a book. It is power!

What my eyes have seen, my mouth cannot tell.

Avoid comments from atheists.
If faith comes by hearing, doubt also comes the same way. Don't say you're a strong christian and therefore wouldn't fall.

The Bible says:
Let he that stands take heed lest he falls.
Christianity EtcDon't Fall For Atheists And Their Deceit. by Jackanda1(op):
Dear believer, i'm writing this warning with a heavy heart. Read and extract wisdom.

DO NOT listen to any atheist in this forum, if possible stay away from this site.

These atheist usually come up with so called intelligent and well thought out auguments, convincing enough to get the attention of even a strong christian, but don't fall for their lies. Remember the just shall live by faith alone and Jesus said to thomas 'blessed is he that believed even without seeing'. God wants you to believe like a child.

Faith is the most precious gift God gives to every believer to connect us with his divine presence. This gift is what the devil seeks to steal by working through this atheists.

The devil stole mine 2014/2015 when i payed attention to this atheist. Since then, my life has taken a turn for the worst. I have been tormented and disgraced by demons, i live a life of confusion, emptiness and pains.

I have lost the conviction of the holy spirit and the desire for GOD. I have tried to repent but i can't.

BE WARNED! cry
RomanceRe: I Want To Start Smoking, Please Advice Me. by Jackanda1(op): 9:06pm On Jan 17, 2023
yomi007k:
Oga, hope you like the truth?


You suffer from Social Anxiety Disorder. I had the same problems around 2012 which lead to my depression and I saw psychiatrist who placed me on medications.

See a professional.
I intend to visit a teaching hospital when i get my Allawee at the end of the month.

How long do the medications last?
Any side effects?
RomanceRe: I Want To Start Smoking, Please Advice Me. by Jackanda1(op): 8:59pm On Jan 17, 2023
Uchenna10:
Take lil quantity of alcohol instead of marijuana
I work in a christian organization. I wouldn't want people to percieve Alcohol in my breath.
RomanceRe: I Want To Start Smoking, Please Advice Me. by Jackanda1(op): 4:52pm On Jan 17, 2023
Danlax:
My brr to start smoking ain't an option... That means you gotta be on it 24/7 anytime yo wanna associate with people cuz every smoke has a period of activeness...!
I understand you. But what choice do i have? Do i quit my job and stay back at home?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Am I Overreacting Or Is This Person Wrong In What She Did?? by Jackanda1(m): 4:48pm On Jan 17, 2023
EriMma1:
Hmmm... I'm trying not to see her as a backstabber but she keeps doing things that make me suspicious of her.

Now the clients are telling her the letter of increment came in late. These are the things I would have taught her about the job if she had stayed a few months with me but she said I was making too much and giving her little. This is someone who didn't pay for the training she was getting o still she was busy calculating how much was coming in and how much was getting to her. That was why she left out of annoyance and had been trying to compete with me in every way. Im shocked.
Is her place of business close to yours?

Why is she still around you? Since her aim of been around you is to compete and win against you, she is not your friend.

Cut her off!
RomanceRe: I Want To Start Smoking, Please Advice Me. by Jackanda1(op): 2:02pm On Jan 17, 2023
Iloveu778:
Do you masturbate ?
My social anxiety started from childhood long before i saw my first porn. Its hereditary
RomanceRe: I Want To Start Smoking, Please Advice Me. by Jackanda1(op): 8:56pm On Jan 15, 2023
Blaxie:
Pop 542 and watch your confidence level increase cool
what is 542 and how can i get it?
RomanceRe: I Want To Start Smoking, Please Advice Me. by Jackanda1(op): 8:52pm On Jan 15, 2023
Sheistoopretty:
I'm sorry really for my first comment grin grin grin grin grin

Okay, here u go;

1 - start engaging people from social media, Facebook, WhatsApp etc, I believe it will improve ur communication skills

2 - start going out to places like an event, party or even to the gym (yes you'll meet people there) it will also help you alot..

Bye
for the past 15years, i have consulted with professionals, read books, practiced all manner of advice and more, but its not helpful.

I'm So desperate right now. Alot of my coworkers have complained to management that i'm too quite and not a team worker nor interactive. I could be fired soon.

I can't continue to be isolated and anxious, i have to make a living, i need to be able to talk to people. I need practical help, medication, a miracle, anything
RomanceRe: I Want To Start Smoking, Please Advice Me. by Jackanda1(op): 8:43pm On Jan 15, 2023
Olasyke:
Also, smoking won't make you confident, it'll make you high though. Confidence is derived from within, if you no get am, you no get am.
So basically i'm doomed?
RomanceRe: I Want To Start Smoking, Please Advice Me. by Jackanda1(op): 8:31pm On Jan 15, 2023
Sheistoopretty:
U want to add smoking to ur lying habit? grin grin grin grin grin grin

What a combo that would be
I found out that my lying habit is actually caused by anxiety.

You would not really understand what mental illness is until you have it.
So stop mocking if you've got nothing to say.
RomanceI Want To Start Smoking, Please Advice Me. by Jackanda1(op): 8:24pm On Jan 15, 2023
I have a problem of social anxiety and have been a loner from childhood, i rarely keep friends. I believe i inherited this from my parents.

When i'm around even a small number of people, especially when i have to talk, my heart begins to beat fast, my head goes blank, my voice begins to shake and my body trembles.

I got a job few months ago and i'm required to interact with people, but it has been difficult. Due to the symptoms of anxiety, i have completely isolated my self from people, which has made them dislike and gang up against me.

What broke my heart, was that last week during a staff meeting(20 staff), a coworker got up said that i'm a very timid and fearful person. Though i was embarrased, i have to admit that she is right.

I have listened to all manner of advice but its not helpful.

Recntly, someone advice me to start smoking and i have been condering this option, i'm willing to take anything that would make me confident. I'm tired of been timid and isolated.

What do you think?
HealthRe: Are Energy Drinks Really That Bad? by Jackanda1(m): 3:32pm On Jan 15, 2023
kay29000:
Yes it does...at least for me. I don't know about other people. But please, don't start taking it because of this.
Thanks. I recently started a job in a place where social interaction is crucial. So I'm desperate
HealthRe: Are Energy Drinks Really That Bad? by Jackanda1(m): 3:05pm On Jan 15, 2023
kay29000:
Dude, I never said I wanted to be an extrovert. I'm cool with being introverted, but some times (once or twice a month), I find myself in gatherings where I need to do a little more talking and mingling than usual.
Does energy drink boost your social interaction? I'm asking as an introvert too
HealthRe: Are Energy Drinks Really That Bad? by Jackanda1(m): 3:01pm On Jan 15, 2023
Ayomipoe:
I think it depends on your metabolism and your potential for addiction.
I have taken a bottle of Fearless everyday for the past week. Sh*t fuc_ks with you, I always have heart palpitations after consuming it. Yet I still drink it.
Hoping this week, its black coffee that will give me my boost.
Do energy drinks make you more social? I have a problem with social interaction.
HealthDeal by Jackanda1(op):
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BusinessRe: Palm Credit Asking For Card Pin by Jackanda1(m): 1:34pm On Jan 10, 2023
dyera:
You do realize that palm credit and the others are not AI but real humans are the ones operating them. Basically, when you give your Pin to palm credit, you are giving it to one of their staff.
......who might misuse it or give to a criminal.
RomanceRe: 10 Problems Of Short men by Jackanda1(op): 10:09am On Jan 08, 2023
Vinnie2000:
Most Short Men I Know Have Sharp Mouths and Girls Fear dem alot.

OP, Why are you different? sad
Not all the points listed in the post relates to me personally. Though i have had the experience of been treated like a child expecially when i suffered social anxiety and depression some years ago.

I'm writting also from my observation of other short people i have interacted with.

Today, i'm a confident person who is able to navigate his social environment and assert himself.
RomanceRe: 10 Problems Of Short men by Jackanda1(op): 10:06pm On Jan 07, 2023
ThoughtOfYou:
In other words, God made a mistake creating short men and short people in general?
Nope. There are advantages of been short too.
But in this thread, we focus of the disadvantage.
EducationRe: University Of Calabar Suspends 4 Students Over “Water Ritual” by Jackanda1(m): 9:49pm On Jan 07, 2023
What is water ritual?
Romance10 Problems Of Short men by Jackanda1(op):
Hello everyone, i'm going to be writting about the difficulties and problems short men can relate to.

I happen to be a short guy,in my late twenties. I also happen to have come accross and discussed with some men who happen to be short in my environment. So this post is from close observation and experience. Let's go....

1. Been Mistaken For a Child: This should be the most painful problems short people go through. Since people tend to judge you by your looks, they might approach and even speak to you like they would speak to a child.
Its even worst if you have a baby face with no beards.

I have a short friend, age 26 who taught in a secondary school complain to me that sometimes a visiting parents ordered him on an errant thinking he was a student.

2. Difficulty Finding A Date: If you ask a woman to list the qualities of her dream man, the chance is she would say Tall, handsome, rich etc.

Women prefer to date tall men who can give them a sense of authority and security. In fact, women preference of tall men is a matter of biology, except as a short man, you have other features that could attract her. Even at that, your height still puts you at disadvantage.

3. Difficulty attaining leadership role:
It can be difficult to be appointed a leader no matter how outspoken or confident you are. This is because tall men have an auro of authority and control, a feature that short men lack.

4. You're a mostly disrespected: No one ever gets disrespected like a short man. You'd have people who are quick to dismiss, ignore and look down on you. Your height gives them the confidence they wouldn't have had if you were tall.
It can be worst if you're not rich or prominent.

5. You're mostly Bullied:
I can remember Osita iheme a nollywood actor popularly known as pawpaw talking about been bullied back in secondary school.
It can be devastating to become a meal to a poor self esteem, arrogant and narcissistic fellow who wants to feel powerful by putting you down.

6. Low self esteem: Most short people may develop a low self esteem and lost confidence due to the way people treat or respond to them overtime. If you keep getting dismissed and disrespected you might begin to feel inferior.

7. Difficulty Reaching heights. Like top shelf in the kitchen, grocery stores etc

8. Getting hidden in a crowd. Imagine been covered by the crowd in a crusade ground and not able to see the preacher or struggling to see the screen in a viewing center.

9. Not been able to find you cloth size on the boutique.

10. Add yours
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi: Hold Me Responsible If I Don’t Change Nigeria by Jackanda1(m):
Buhari made more promises during his campaign and this year he would be retiring 'in peace' to Daura after messing up the country.

How have we held him responsible?

Obi should better shut up and focus on winning the elections first undecided
CrimeRe: Kenyan Gayright Activist Chiloba Killed, Body Stuffed In Metallic Box (Graphic) by Jackanda1(m):
Two wrongs don't make a right.

Jesus can change anyone, but killing him denies him an opportunity to repent.
PoliticsRe: More Pictures As Bola Tinubu Shut Down Edo State by Jackanda1(m): 10:58pm On Jan 05, 2023
LilMissRobbie:
Olodo, it's "sane", not "sain". No wonder you support a bed wetter. Pea brain.
Watch your mouth.
Quit been disrespectful.
InvestmentRe: From The Very First Day I Started Betting,i Stopped Having Peace Of Mind by Jackanda1(m): 5:28pm On Jan 04, 2023
valentineuwakwe:
U are too greedy...them say bet responsibly..
The word 'betting' and 'responsibly' should not be in the same sentence.
Anything harmful or addictive cannot be done responsibly.
Music/RadioRe: Mention Your Top 5 Songs Of Year 2022 by Jackanda1(op): 11:06pm On Dec 31, 2022
Let me go first:
1. Bandana-fireboy ft Asake
2. Last Last- Burna boy
3. Electricity-pheelz ft Davido
4. Extra cool- Young john
5. Kiss Daniel-Buga
Music/RadioMention Your Top 5 Songs Of Year 2022 by Jackanda1(op):
Most of us could have broken down or slipped into deppression if not for the entertaining, motivating and comforting power of music.

This year, Nigerian music stars and producers have blessed our ears with magical flows, brain bursting lyrics and catchy beats.
It is rare to check the gadgets of a Nigerian and not find a popular song from music stars like Asake, Burnaboy, Wizkid, Kiss Daniel and a host of others.

I would love you to mention the top five songs and artist that made your 2022. smiley

nlfpmod Seun
ProgrammingRe: How Much Do You Charge As A Web Developer? by Jackanda1(m): 8:45pm On Dec 28, 2022
manlawal:
you need to start with html and CSS then JavaScript , am also learning at my own pace I use newboston on YouTube and freecodecamp
ProgrammingRe: Check Out My New Forum App I Created And Give Me Honest Opinions by Jackanda1(m): 8:26pm On Dec 28, 2022
The color is too bright, can't see clearly.
Some information are not bold enough like this one below:

soccerpairs is a soccer forum where soccer lovers can make predictions, share strategies and get more information about various soccer matches. On soccerpairs you can view the conversation about any soccer match by simply matching up any two teams in the search area.
Foreign AffairsRe: Russia Wants Ukraine War To End, The Sooner The Better - Putin by Jackanda1(m): 7:32pm On Dec 23, 2022
What sort of negotiation is Putin blabbing about?
He invaded Ukraine and started the war.

If he wants to end the war, all he needs to do is withdraw from Ukraine.
SportsRe: Opinion: FIFA Helped Messi Win World Cup by Jackanda1(op): 11:02am On Dec 22, 2022
Humblegains:
Not everybody will surely be happy with your achievement in life.
A nairaland explained this in details.

Gangster1ms:
You mean the staged tournament?

Never before had a team been awarded so many penalties at a WC. Always at key moments. Always controversial. No red cards despite being a volatile, combative team. Officials rarely penalised clinical fouls. Often the opponent destabilised after having such decisions against.

Going into the tournament there was a wave of support and a bandwagon for Messi to win the WC. It even played in the minds of opposition players who had been fed the narrative LM has to be a Champion or it upsets everyone. The propaganda was unavoidable as it was everywhere.

There's a rule which states Messi cannot be booked, let alone sent off. Yet any contact in winning a ball against Messi is a foul. A firm challenge will be cautioned. Etc. The most protected player ever. Because of this figure referees were reluctant to make calls against Argentina.

During the tournament Messi shamelessly dived, feigned injury; belittled and disrespected players and coaches right infront of them. LVG is an old man who had radiation therapy for cancer. He chanted radical songs in dressing room. Moaned at referees.

Yet never any criticism.

Maradona won his World Cup with solo runs against Belgium and England not getting a penalty per game without doing anything.

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